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Re: Man Ordered To Pay His Ex Girlfriend $50,000 Per Month In Canada by pocohantas(f): 3:57pm On Sep 12, 2020
Hathor5:


I never hear white men complain about these laws as much as they and their internet sources do. All I see is white men getting married left, right and centre without prenups. Marriage rates are even on the rise again. The only time I hear of these complaints are when they post the contributions of red pillars, a movement which is not even widely known here. grin

I will ask my white friends and colleagues next week if they have heard of the red pillars next week. cheesy I have only heard about it on NL. LMAO

They rely on those YouTube accounts they subscribe to for information. Somehow they think they know the laws more than the people living there. Not forgetting their convenient examples.

After wailing online, they should find one redpill lawyer that will go to Canada and appeal the case... grin grin

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Re: Man Ordered To Pay His Ex Girlfriend $50,000 Per Month In Canada by Hathor5(f): 3:58pm On Sep 12, 2020
Ishilove:

Take the redpillers serious to your own detriment. Na only online dem sabi make mouth. Last last it is still the same Nigerian women they will end up marrying cheesy

I don't take redpillers serious at all. If they were comfortable around women, they wouldn't need books upon books and threads upon threads telling them how to behave around women. It's a commercial scam selling a lie that every man can be an alpha and I would even argue that most women find their attempts at it ridiculous. It's akin to me saying that every woman can be a New York fashion week model. grin Be yourself above all!

Oh they will marry them and in the meantime spend their free time on threads about them. cheesy

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Re: Man Ordered To Pay His Ex Girlfriend $50,000 Per Month In Canada by Hathor5(f): 3:59pm On Sep 12, 2020
Ikillbrokehoes:
He go shock you pass George Floyd cheesy

Despite life expectancy is still higher than in Nigeria. wink

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Re: Man Ordered To Pay His Ex Girlfriend $50,000 Per Month In Canada by Nobody: 4:01pm On Sep 12, 2020
crackhaus:

The list in bold is not confirmation of a common-law partnership/marriage anywhere in the world where it is recognized, not even under Canadian law itself.

Those are simply characteristics of a man who was very generous, unless you're now implying that the only thing you need to do as man to avoid paying spousal support after breaking up with your girlfriend, is to never shower her with gifts, never help her with her mortgage, and don't give her any specific amount of money monthly.

I don't need to go bringing up the actual criteria showing what must be satisfied before a couple can be said to be common-law partners.
I'm sure you can do this on your own, and I know without a doubt you will find none of that nonsense in bold as part of the criteria.

MORE GREASE TO YOUR BRAIN. grin.

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Re: Man Ordered To Pay His Ex Girlfriend $50,000 Per Month In Canada by Hathor5(f): 4:04pm On Sep 12, 2020
pocohantas:


They rely on those YouTube accounts they subscribe to for information. Somehow they think they know the laws more than the people living there. Not forgetting their convenient examples.

After wailing online, they should find one redpill lawyer that will go to Canada and appeal the case... grin grin

The problem with the internet is that people live in their bubbles and paint a reality that makes you wonder if they are actually really talking about the place where you live or if you missed too many geography lessons in school. grin

The worst thing is that this ubunja lunatic is calling for people to be murdered if they are not behaving like an 'alpha'. He is officially certified.

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Re: Man Ordered To Pay His Ex Girlfriend $50,000 Per Month In Canada by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 4:04pm On Sep 12, 2020
Hathor5:


Despite life expectancy is still higher than in Nigeria. wink
Don't become an hashtag sha cheesycheesycheesy
Re: Man Ordered To Pay His Ex Girlfriend $50,000 Per Month In Canada by Hathor5(f): 4:05pm On Sep 12, 2020
Ikillbrokehoes:
Don't become an hashtag sha cheesycheesycheesy

It's more likely you will be burnt alive in the open market. grin

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Re: Man Ordered To Pay His Ex Girlfriend $50,000 Per Month In Canada by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 4:07pm On Sep 12, 2020
Hathor5:


It's more likely you will be burnt alive in the open market. grin
I pray u don't end like George Floyd. cheesycheesy


las las I will still pray 4 you. cheesy
Re: Man Ordered To Pay His Ex Girlfriend $50,000 Per Month In Canada by Hathor5(f): 4:07pm On Sep 12, 2020
Martinez39s:
Laws governing relationships are not EXACTLY the same everywhere. In fact, in some countries and states, common law marriages (Defacto union as it is sometimes called) do not legally hold. In fact most states in the United States do recognize common law marriages. In some states in the United States, you pay child support till your child turns 18, others make you pay till the child is 21. Generally, the laws are basically the same in how they fleece married men.

As to your question, that law applies generally. If you need an example, I will give you California. Just go to the L.A. County Superior Court and ask, that's if you stay there. Even Dr Dre's wife is requesting $2M per month PLUS $5M in legal fees for lawyers and other professionals working on her case. It is very common. Stop being disingenuous.

Anyway, we can agree to disagree. I rest my case.

Usher's wife lost the custody of her kids because she could not afford to pay her lawyers what Usher paid his and as a consequence had worse legal representation but you people never mention these stories. Doesn't suit your narrative, right?

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Re: Man Ordered To Pay His Ex Girlfriend $50,000 Per Month In Canada by Hathor5(f): 4:08pm On Sep 12, 2020
Ikillbrokehoes:
I pray u don't end like George Floyd. cheesycheesy

Pray for yourself. Trust me, you need it more. wink

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Re: Man Ordered To Pay His Ex Girlfriend $50,000 Per Month In Canada by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 4:09pm On Sep 12, 2020
Hathor5:


Pray for yourself. Trust me, you need it more. wink
Baby las las I will pray 4 u, so that u don't become an hashtag cheesy

my prayers is with u
Re: Man Ordered To Pay His Ex Girlfriend $50,000 Per Month In Canada by Ademoore07(m): 4:10pm On Sep 12, 2020
Sarang:


In Canada, common law is a thing
If that be the case, the best thing to do is to marry a black or foreigner. If i were the guy, i will just relocate to another country.
Re: Man Ordered To Pay His Ex Girlfriend $50,000 Per Month In Canada by ekerintee: 4:11pm On Sep 12, 2020
angelfallz:






Mostly in western world ,men don't marry again.They have kids with women and just pay for child upkeep,and some even sign contract with ladies before having anything to do with her so that they won't end up losing all their life savings in lawsuit that favors women


When ubunja and Martinez9s complain about simps, it would seem as if they don't know what they're talking about.

Many western men aren't getting married anymore, hence the need for the law.
If men start circumventing that law they'll reduce the time limit to 2 years or 1 year.

Those outrageous laws were made by simp/beta men, to appease their goddess women.

This should open your eyes to how dangerous such men are. $50k a month you can imagine.
And some men are asking for such laws to be implemented in Nigeria.
Re: Man Ordered To Pay His Ex Girlfriend $50,000 Per Month In Canada by t00dugged(f): 4:12pm On Sep 12, 2020
Iceyjayzz:
Why won't you rather be a baby mama to a old white man, when most of the Nigerian guys that dated you, used and dumped you. cheesy
it's only a white old man that will manage you, nah expired product you be. cheesycheesy
I usually don't do this , but if you want to talk about people who marry old people , Nigerian guys take the lead in the entire west africa.Nigerian guys can even marry white ancestors who have one leg in the grave and marry their ghosts join sef.If you dig up white ancestors from the grave, Nigerian guys will be willing to marry their mummified bodies sef grin grin grin grin.


I believe the pictures below does justice to the point I am trying to pass across to you,so guy stop yarning dust.

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Re: Man Ordered To Pay His Ex Girlfriend $50,000 Per Month In Canada by Nobody: 4:14pm On Sep 12, 2020
Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha
Re: Man Ordered To Pay His Ex Girlfriend $50,000 Per Month In Canada by greypencils: 4:16pm On Sep 12, 2020
Lexusgs430:



His account would be frozen, with a simple court order..... cheesy
Whose court order? Definitely not a Nigerian court.
Re: Man Ordered To Pay His Ex Girlfriend $50,000 Per Month In Canada by BigBashiru: 4:18pm On Sep 12, 2020
Hathor5:


The problem with the internet is that people live in their bubbles and paint a reality that makes you wonder if they are actually really talking about the place where you live or if you missed too many geography lessons in school. grin

The worst thing is that this ubunja lunatic is calling for people to be murdered if they are not behaving like an 'alpha'. He is officially certified.

That alpha thing has caused so much problems in guys..... guys doing all sorts to be seen as being "alphas"

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Re: Man Ordered To Pay His Ex Girlfriend $50,000 Per Month In Canada by Lexusgs430: 4:19pm On Sep 12, 2020
greypencils:
Whose court order? Definitely not a Nigerian court.


How does EFCC freeze accounts?....... tongue
Re: Man Ordered To Pay His Ex Girlfriend $50,000 Per Month In Canada by Kalatium(m): 4:19pm On Sep 12, 2020
Xisnin:

grin grin
It has everything to do with it.

Only those who can think objectively can contribute to scientific and human advancement.
An "alpha" trolling random women on the internet can hardly be said to be smart.

BTW, dumb men are overwhelmingly alphas, having nothing else to be proud of, they seek to dominate their women to show they are superior.
Give me a random white man and I only need to know its education and IQ to tell you whether he is more likely to claim "alpha" or not.
Give me a group and I will look like a seer.

If you check any shady sites with "white alphas" and anti-women rhetorics, you will find those men as being essentially dumb and unenlightened.
They are usually in the bottom of the ladder and angry at women or other men who are better.
They see themselves as superior because they supposedly have exposed women's secret and are ready to teach them a lesson.

Not all of the "alphas" are dumb though, those sitting at the top exploiting "alpha" rage are smart business people conning money out of angry dumb men.

Of course, these alphas are good at sharing memes or name-calling but nothing else.
They can't type a paragraph without labeling their opponents.

They often talk about "men" as if a man living in trailer parks or his mom basement is the same as a functional and reasonable one in the society.


I will say it again. Technological advancement as nothing to do with pussified men. Alot of pussified men are those who moved their country forward but there are pussified men who are very dumb and don't have any contributions and vice versa for the Alpha.


Yes.
The dumb ones, the group which self-described "alphas" belong, often feel proud for belonging to a working state and I don't begrudge them.

After all, if most people have always voted and supported the dumbest as leaders, the society would have remained stagnant. But the ones who contribute the least are usually at the forefront of claiming superiority and attempting to destroy what they don't understand.

Who do you think make laws in the west?
The dumb guys who can't reason to save their own life?

It is actually the "pussified" men who can analyze complex issues and make decisions based on what is best for the society in the long run.


I asked you are question.
Are you telling me that all the people in the west are responsible for their advancement?

Your answer is laughable. So you mean every single westerner was responsible for their countries development.
How comes you still say that the so-called Alpha males don't contribute to the society only the so-called pussified men.

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Re: Man Ordered To Pay His Ex Girlfriend $50,000 Per Month In Canada by JB4life: 4:24pm On Sep 12, 2020
The Western world should keep some of their useless laws to themselves.

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Re: Man Ordered To Pay His Ex Girlfriend $50,000 Per Month In Canada by greypencils: 4:27pm On Sep 12, 2020
Lexusgs430:



How does EFCC freeze accounts?....... tongue
We are talking about an international case here. A Nigerian court cant honor that agreement. A Nigerian court will never grant that a made Nigerian lose his assets to an outsider. Where have you seen a Nigerian court grant that a man pay such cut-throat amount as alimony? Its not even alimony because they are not married.
Re: Man Ordered To Pay His Ex Girlfriend $50,000 Per Month In Canada by faithfull18(f): 4:28pm On Sep 12, 2020
It should extend to Nigeria grin

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Re: Man Ordered To Pay His Ex Girlfriend $50,000 Per Month In Canada by Ayt27(m): 4:28pm On Sep 12, 2020
igbowoman:
She deserved it after 14 years of good companionship.


This is one of the things I don't get, she gave him 14 years of her life, that's really in all sincerity great.

She gave him companionship, that's another really selfless act on her part.

The 14years of her life she gave the man, who do you think the man give his own 14 years too?
Who did the man give his own companionship too? The possible sex she had with the man, with whom do you think the man have sex with?

And while you ponder on these questions, make sure you note that the man paid her mortgage, tantamount to buying a house for her, took her on vacation trips and gave her a monthly allowance.

If they were married this wouldn't be an issue, but the law royally bleeped the man.

It's all part of the not so subtle gender war thing.

I STRONGLY BELIEVE one fundamental flaw in the world is that any form of sex had, is usually seen as a favor to the male and that's why

1. Male molestation or rape will be laughed or scoffed at
2. Male pornstars will always earn less
3. Gigolos will never earn as much as escorts

and that's okay because men, I guess, have accepted it so.

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Re: Man Ordered To Pay His Ex Girlfriend $50,000 Per Month In Canada by Openbusiness: 4:34pm On Sep 12, 2020
Hathor5:


The world was a better place when white men were colonizing the world? For you and your ancestors? For the black slaves brought to America? For Native Americans? You do know that it was this time when most European folks lived in poverty? You do know that two world wars followed with millions of casualties and the total destruction of several countries? Or now that alpha Donald is running the US and failing miserably in tackling the issue of COVID? Are you aware of the poverty rates in China and the working conditions?

Please, stop! I am beginning to think that you shouting alpha the loudest are the most sentimental and insecure bunch walking this earth.
See, am a black man oh, 100%, father is black, mother is black, grandmothers and grandfathers, and their fathers and grandfathers before them etc, all of them were Blacks. So, I know my identity as a person very well. There's no confusion at all. However, I'm very fortunate to have learned a bit of history and never had to be brainwashed with the typical SLAVERY dogma they keep brainwashing modern Africans with in a bid to hide or cover up the entire truth about the ugly past of black African societies. They always show us one side of the coin, but never show us the other side. Always loud about SLAVERY, but always quiet about the other aspect. Open the history books for Africa and learn for yourself. It was not just "Slavery". That's half truth. The real complete truth is that it was a SLAVERY TRADE. Or Slave Trade. They always hide that part of our history. Before the White man even dreamed of coming to our shores, our people, the Black man, were already enslaving themselves on this Continent Africa. They were raids, they were battles, they were plundering, they was wickedness, there was SLAVERY and they was Slave Trade. There's nothing the White people did in Africa that Blacks had not done to themselves, even some slaves were captured by their fellow blacks and sold to the white slave merchants in exchange for commodities. The only evil concept the Whites added to it, was Slavery by race, slavery by skin color, and the evil exploitation that followed. I'm not supporting that. It is evil, it is wrong. But we still have to say the truth, that our ancestors were guilty not such practices too and that humanity at all points in history really has some very dark times of pure unadulterated wickedness and evil. Poverty is not absence of money alone or bad economy, it is also absence of knowledge. At any point in history where human knowledge fell short of present day reality, poverty sprang up. When the world faced this new Coronavirus, do you know how many societies and countries in the world are experiencing increasing poverty because of the deficit of knowledge. Two world wars brought order to the World, 2 world wars was the price paid for freedom in the modern era. There have been countless wars throughout our history. In different civilizations, in different empires, in different phases of creating order in a chaotic world. It's inevitable. I really feel bad for the Apache Indians, but look at it well, losing their land was inevitable. If Columbus didn't find it for the Spanish, the Brits would have, the French would have or the Soviets. So it was always destined to be a contested territory. And it was indeed contested for by different countries and armies, and the British won most of it, and America was birth from the British colonies. Point is, the New World could not have been hidden from the rest of the world forever. Let's not go into Trump COVID mata abeg, so many variables involved and at the end we'll just go back and forth various arguments and theories. And China, yes still has lots of challenges but they have made extraordinary progress as a nation despite of this. They have built a solid foundation for themselves and it can only get better.

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Re: Man Ordered To Pay His Ex Girlfriend $50,000 Per Month In Canada by Lexusgs430: 4:37pm On Sep 12, 2020
greypencils:
We are talking about an international case here. A Nigerian court cant honor that agreement. A Nigerian court will never grant that a made Nigerian lose his assets to an outsider. Where have you seen a Nigerian court grant that a man pay such cut-throat amount as alimony? Its not even alimony because they are not married.


Fear International court orders o....... If an international court order comes through, from a country we have bilateral agreements with..........

Wahala dey b dat ó.........
Re: Man Ordered To Pay His Ex Girlfriend $50,000 Per Month In Canada by linearity: 4:37pm On Sep 12, 2020
ENG0701:


I agree with your points. I think the reason we dont often read about women paying spousal benefits is because men often don't marry women richer than they are. For instance, Adele's ex is suing for almost half of her fortune. But this is rare, so it feels like men are affected more.

....plus, most men would chose to walk away, just to avoid the stigma that a woman is the one buttering their bread.

It is not a thing of bride for professional men to be seen as been feed by their ex or to be known that, they are collecting child or spousal support from their ex...imagine now if one Nairaland babe is your ex, and her pay was eg 100k above yours and you pursue spousal support and got it, the way she go use her mouth yeye you for for town and among you guys common friends will weak you.

....it dents their image and kills the Alpha male mojo, so many just let it go!

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Re: Man Ordered To Pay His Ex Girlfriend $50,000 Per Month In Canada by Jullima(f): 4:40pm On Sep 12, 2020
Elxandre:

So she deserves 50k monthly because they were together, even though the man tried marrying her but she refused?

Not even 10k, but 50k monthly, from a man that pampered her and her kids!

It's the m oronic man I blame anyways. If she was his baby mama, at least it would have made more sense, now he's going to train people's children for 10 years. Haha cheesy
I am sure the judge must have calculated his networth and future earnings. She gets a payout of ~$6.4milion dollars. For a man that’s worth hundreds of millions of dollars and a family net-worth of over a billion dollars, to him that payout is equivalent to 64 dollars. That’s also probably a tax write off for him. He will be fine, he’s still worth hundreds of millions, in 10 years before her payout is complete he would have made 3x that in income. Meanwhile here, the price of bread has increased cry

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Re: Man Ordered To Pay His Ex Girlfriend $50,000 Per Month In Canada by Parisian: 4:41pm On Sep 12, 2020
Laughs in green card
mmsen:


He promised heaven and earth IF she signed the marriage contract, which she refused to do.

What is the point of contracts if people can opt out of all terms (by refusing to sign) and then claim the benefits of said contract?

And men typically don't date women just because they have money. That's a female trait.

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Re: Man Ordered To Pay His Ex Girlfriend $50,000 Per Month In Canada by noblealuu: 4:43pm On Sep 12, 2020
MrBrownJay1:


Yep it equally happens to rich women who marry "poorer" men...go ask Halle Berry who pays $16K in child support monthly to her ex French husband; go ask Mary j Blige paying her ex husband $30K monthly; ask Madonna who had to pay up to $70M to Guy Ritchie; ask J- lo who gave her ex $14m spousal settlement; ask Mel B who had to give her ex $8M spousal settlement; ask Britney Spears who pays her baby daddy $20K in child support, and the dude now wants more, lol!


Are you a lawyer?
Re: Man Ordered To Pay His Ex Girlfriend $50,000 Per Month In Canada by mmsen: 4:43pm On Sep 12, 2020
Parisian:
Laughs in green card

Great, you found one of the minority of exceptions.

Typically, people who marry for money are women.
Re: Man Ordered To Pay His Ex Girlfriend $50,000 Per Month In Canada by Hathor5(f): 4:45pm On Sep 12, 2020
Openbusiness:
See, am a black man oh, 100%, father is black, mother is black, grandmothers and grandfathers, and their fathers and grandfathers before them etc, all of them were Blacks. So, I know my identity as a person very well. There's no confusion at all. However, I'm very fortunate to have learned a bit of history and never had to be brainwashed with the typical SLAVERY dogma they keep brainwashing modern Africans with in a bid to hide or cover up the entire truth about the ugly past of black African societies. They always show us one side of the coin, but never show us the other side. Always loud about SLAVERY, but always quiet about the other aspect. Open the history books for Africa and learn for yourself. It was not just "Slavery". That's half truth. The real complete truth is that it was a SLAVERY TRADE. Or Slave Trade. They always hide that part of our history. Before the White man even dreamed of coming to our shores, our people, the Black man, were already enslaving themselves on this Continent Africa. They were raids, they were battles, they were plundering, they was wickedness, there was SLAVERY and they was Slave Trade. There's nothing the White people did in Africa that Blacks had not done to themselves, even some slaves were captured by their fellow blacks and sold to the white slave merchants in exchange for commodities. The only evil concept the Whites added to it, was Slavery by race, slavery by skin color, and the evil exploitation that followed. I'm not supporting that. It is evil, it is wrong. But we still have to say the truth, that our ancestors were guilty not such practices too and that humanity at all points in history really has some very dark times of pure unadulterated wickedness and evil. Poverty is not absence of money alone or bad economy, it is also absence of knowledge. At any point in history where human knowledge fell short of present day reality, poverty sprang up. When the world faced this new Coronavirus, do you know how many societies and countries in the world are experiencing increasing poverty because of the deficit of knowledge. Two world wars brought order to the World, 2 world wars was the price paid for freedom in the modern era. There have been countless wars throughout our history. In different civilizations, in different empires, in different phases of creating order in a chaotic world. It's inevitable. I really feel bad for the Apache Indians, but look at it well, losing their land was inevitable. If Columbus didn't find it for the Spanish, the Brits would have, the French would have or the Soviets. So it was always destined to be a contested territory. And it was indeed contested for by different countries and armies, and the British won most of it, and America was birth from the British colonies. Point is, the New World could not have been hidden from the rest of the world forever. Let's not go into Trump COVID mata abeg, so many variables involved and at the end we'll just go back and forth various arguments and theories. And China, yes still has lots of challenges but they have made extraordinary progress as a nation despite of this. They have built a solid foundation for themselves and it can only get better.

Now it's not one variable involved when it comes to Trump and his handling of the pandemic but various. A few posts back you were attributing every progress the western world made to one variable the alpha man-ism. Which one is it now? Since you seem to be capable of critical thinking it should be possible for you to consider the downside of the concept of the alpha male as well as its limits.

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Re: Man Ordered To Pay His Ex Girlfriend $50,000 Per Month In Canada by VULCAN(m): 4:51pm On Sep 12, 2020
The Judge is a woman.

Nuff Said

ENG0701:


I hope the guy takes it to the highest court, and hopefully it is reversed. This is like opening a pandora box. It means once you date a lady for 3 years she can sue for spousal benefits. That is ridiculous.

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