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Re: Men, Stop Bringing Nigerian Women Abroad! Another Sad Experience by Nobody: 2:14am On Sep 13, 2020 |
The truth is any woman in the west will do this, naija woman from village or naija woman based abroad or western woman. Any woman would do it. The only women I can think of who wouldn't do this are Indian or pakistani women brought from india and pakistan. Those ones are more subdued because of their religion. What I don't understand about this video is the way the woman is just vindictive. Regardless what the man may have done, haba why is she throwing water on him? What kind of nonsense is that? It's clear she's taking full advantage of the fact that the guy cannot raise his hands and hit her under any circumstance. He's probably under the watch of the law and that would put him in serious trouble. So the woman is going the extra length and trying to provoke him all she can. That's just stupid. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men, Stop Bringing Nigerian Women Abroad! Another Sad Experience by jedisco(m): 2:59am On Sep 13, 2020 |
Much has been said about the attitude of Nigerian women abroad. What many people forget are certain things I'd outline for clarity. 1. Being married in the west is different from marriage in Nigeria. That is what many don't get. Just as with kids, no matter how 'African' and disciplined you claim to be, don't go about using whips on your kids or you'd get into serious issues. Same applies with marriage. People want to get married in the west but want to lord it all as in Nigeria 2. To add to the point above. Most naija guys would go out and treat younger European kids with respect and dignity but they come home and want their wives to kneel and serve them. Most ladies would see how u treat their fellows outside and take a cue. 3. There are multiple privileges that come with being a man in Nigeria that no one would give in the West. There is nothing that the Nigerian lady did that an average white lady wouldn't do and exceed. If in doubt, ask the white married dudes what they pass through. It's in Nigeria that a married man would have lots of girlfriends and the wife would know and do nothing. 4. Another phrase getting common on nairaland is that 'most Nigerian ladies are entitled'. I'd hazard to say that if you think they're entitled, then you've not come across a white lady living in the west. You can ask the average white lady what they think about the roles we've come to expect from ladies in Nigeria 5. There are lots of success stories with Nigerian marriages. Most successful marriages are based on compatibility. Fact is for most Nigerians who grew up in Nigeria, they'd be most compatible with a fellow Nigerian and hence having likelihood of long lasting relationships with them. 6. They're are lots of things that are taken for granted with a Nigerian brought up lady that would be major issues if it was a white counterpart e.g maintaining a relationship with relatives, model of training ones kids, maintaining ones heritage in their offspring, food, domestic chores e.t.c. Except if you're marrying for survival (papers) but if you're standing on both feet, it'd be difficult to gel with the average white lady for a long-term relationship. Good luck finding a British lady that would rather spend her summer touring your 'boring' relatives in Nigeria than vacationing somewhere else I'm not even talking about Asians, cos they too have a very strong cultural background. 7. In the US, it seems there's a pattern with Nigerian nurses. But it seems some guys idea of bringing a lady over is for her to work as (or train her to be) a nurse, make much more that him while he expects her to bring it back for them to spend, and he'd still Lord ot over her like they were back in Nigeria. In the west, the society would not expect a lady to remain in such a relationship for the sake of being married. 8. Finally, the fact is that a good number (didn't say all or majority) of Nigerian dudes abroad are in the lower economic classes and take up humble jobs. But these same dudes want to get married to a lady and not be humble at home. They want to be Hitler at home but outside they become doves... I agree that some ladies are the devil's incarnate and would bring anyone down. But that trait is not shared by Nigerian ladies alone or by one sex for that matter. 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men, Stop Bringing Nigerian Women Abroad! Another Sad Experience by Nobody: 3:20am On Sep 13, 2020 |
Not again ![]() 6 Likes |
Re: Men, Stop Bringing Nigerian Women Abroad! Another Sad Experience by Kobicove(m): 6:21am On Sep 13, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1: Tell them o! Most ignorant Nigerians think once you go to an European country you'll be getting everything for free and in plentiful supply ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Men, Stop Bringing Nigerian Women Abroad! Another Sad Experience by Kobicove(m): 6:24am On Sep 13, 2020 |
Kekereekun123: They have not really settled, your uncle is just deceiving the woman. Once he gets an opportunity he will murder his wife, trust me on this! 14 Likes |
Re: Men, Stop Bringing Nigerian Women Abroad! Another Sad Experience by Openbusiness: 6:41am On Sep 13, 2020 |
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Re: Men, Stop Bringing Nigerian Women Abroad! Another Sad Experience by DAramis: 7:22am On Sep 13, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1:Hello, If you would not mind, could you be able to post a water tight sample of pre-nup contract agreement (for marriage) for perusal purposes. I have made some researches online and seen some sample, but you comment about tight pre-nup is what piqued my interest. |
Re: Men, Stop Bringing Nigerian Women Abroad! Another Sad Experience by zagorakis(m): 7:54am On Sep 13, 2020 |
nah prenup sure pass for men |
Re: Men, Stop Bringing Nigerian Women Abroad! Another Sad Experience by Dreyton36: 8:07am On Sep 13, 2020 |
Fvck mehnnnn This is shit mehnnnn , deep shit Don't even wife a Nigerian woman at all just fvck Dem mehnnn 4 Likes |
Re: Men, Stop Bringing Nigerian Women Abroad! Another Sad Experience by Martinez39s(m): 8:38am On Sep 13, 2020 |
binghamm:Don't kid yourself. Female nature is universal. Give them power over you and they will use it. 9 Likes |
Re: Men, Stop Bringing Nigerian Women Abroad! Another Sad Experience by seanwilliam(m): 8:59am On Sep 13, 2020 |
ZINIBANKS:bro that video sent chill down my spine.. can the lady treat the man like dat in lagos?? Oboy I shock ooo.. I bless the day I know nairaland.. I will never forget what I see today.. my wife is not coming abroad with me!.. hahah.. imagine sharing 50% of what I have worked for with a useless bastard... imagine my wife denying access to my kiddo... I just wish I could lay my bare hands on that woman neck! Oboy this video has increased my hatred to naija women I swear.. be like na PAYG pay pass now.. 9 Likes |
Re: Men, Stop Bringing Nigerian Women Abroad! Another Sad Experience by Nobody: 9:08am On Sep 13, 2020 |
Martinez39s:Tell me that after you have lived among these kind of women. 1 Like |
Re: Men, Stop Bringing Nigerian Women Abroad! Another Sad Experience by jedisco(m): 10:01am On Sep 13, 2020 |
seanwilliam: Lol.... When you go abroad and see the European/American ladies, you'd likely go and give thanksgiving for your Nigerian wife and beg her to come over |
Re: Men, Stop Bringing Nigerian Women Abroad! Another Sad Experience by ikennamadu1(m): 10:17am On Sep 13, 2020 |
see as women avoid this thread like plague 5 Likes |
Re: Men, Stop Bringing Nigerian Women Abroad! Another Sad Experience by francdec4(m): 11:02am On Sep 13, 2020 |
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Re: Men, Stop Bringing Nigerian Women Abroad! Another Sad Experience by Nobody: 11:55am On Sep 13, 2020 |
Kobicove:hmmm after 10 years. I doubt |
Re: Men, Stop Bringing Nigerian Women Abroad! Another Sad Experience by garugaru: 12:15pm On Sep 13, 2020 |
lefulefu:go and read about the issue i posted thé link somewhere above. The ex bore no children for the man they were just mainly dating for 3 years yet he has to pay 50k dollars monthly for the next ten years as alimony 2 Likes |
Re: Men, Stop Bringing Nigerian Women Abroad! Another Sad Experience by Damian457: 1:39pm On Sep 13, 2020 |
Which country? Kekereekun123: |
Re: Men, Stop Bringing Nigerian Women Abroad! Another Sad Experience by Thazard(m): 1:40pm On Sep 13, 2020 |
Oracleforce: |
Re: Men, Stop Bringing Nigerian Women Abroad! Another Sad Experience by Flairoqy(m): 4:09pm On Sep 13, 2020 |
This is a short drama, the camera movement says the camera man is not eavesdropping but capturing a scene, and the actors are aware. 2 Likes |
Re: Men, Stop Bringing Nigerian Women Abroad! Another Sad Experience by emkz: 4:16pm On Sep 13, 2020 |
francdec4: Not sure I can claim to be good, but thanks for your kind words and a big amen to your prayer. 2 Likes |
Re: Men, Stop Bringing Nigerian Women Abroad! Another Sad Experience by Nobody: 4:19pm On Sep 13, 2020 |
garugaru:hmm if such hustle can be pure then i wonder why women in the US are doing baby mama for different men ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Men, Stop Bringing Nigerian Women Abroad! Another Sad Experience by davien(m): 4:27pm On Sep 13, 2020 |
Women don't face consequences for their actions over there Broes, even if she had a kid for you and the courts told you to pay child support, the money is paid to her account and nobody makes sure she spends it on the kid. Imagine sending £2300 monthly on child support when the highest the child is spending is £400 a year. Women are cashing out big time from divorcing men or reporting men for abuse. Amber heard that acted Mera on Aquaman sued her ex husband and alleged he was abusing her physically.. turns out she was the one abusing him and cheating on him throughout their marriage. Even the prenuptial agreement some of you are saying is necessary before you marry over there lawyers are skilled in dismantling it's weight in court. She just stays on the stand with tears in her eyes as she says she "was young and didn't know what the document meant", how do you rebut her plea? You can't! You lose all your stuff if you're unluckily, half if you're lucky and have to keep paying her alimony till you die. 2 Likes |
Re: Men, Stop Bringing Nigerian Women Abroad! Another Sad Experience by MMXX: 4:30pm On Sep 13, 2020 |
If this was to happen in naija ehn,the kind beating that woman will get that day,she'll wish ground open up and swallow her.. If she reports to police,naija police will beat her again ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Men, Stop Bringing Nigerian Women Abroad! Another Sad Experience by MMXX: 4:37pm On Sep 13, 2020 |
Flairoqy:Could serve as evidence incase she reports to the police for physical abuse |
Re: Men, Stop Bringing Nigerian Women Abroad! Another Sad Experience by mich2012: 4:46pm On Sep 13, 2020 |
Oh wow! She even went to the extent of pouring the man water, right in front of their child ![]() Wait oh, no single lady on this thread to defend yourselves? Are y'all guilty as charged? May God help us all. 3 Likes |
Re: Men, Stop Bringing Nigerian Women Abroad! Another Sad Experience by Ikennamurphy: 5:00pm On Sep 13, 2020 |
Kobicove:Lol ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Men, Stop Bringing Nigerian Women Abroad! Another Sad Experience by Ikennamurphy: 5:04pm On Sep 13, 2020 |
davien:And if you refuse to pay? |
Re: Men, Stop Bringing Nigerian Women Abroad! Another Sad Experience by TOMSY(f): 5:15pm On Sep 13, 2020 |
Oracleforce: |
Re: Men, Stop Bringing Nigerian Women Abroad! Another Sad Experience by TOMSY(f): 5:20pm On Sep 13, 2020 |
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Re: Men, Stop Bringing Nigerian Women Abroad! Another Sad Experience by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:33pm On Sep 13, 2020 |
Kobicove: That's the sad mindset of people who have never set foot in the west AND the unfortunate image many Africans abroad want to project to the ones at home. You rarely see people abroad tell others at home that life is tough OR that they are broke and hungry OR that they can't make ends meet OR that the car/home they "supposedly" bought is a loan/mortgage and they have to repay that loan for years (sometimes even couple of decades)... Even when broke, they will be posting BS picture on social media as if all is rosy. No wonder thereafter people back home will now believe that in the west you can plant a €100 note, water it, then come the next day and pick €200. Lol 3 Likes |
Re: Men, Stop Bringing Nigerian Women Abroad! Another Sad Experience by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:41pm On Sep 13, 2020 |
DAramis: There is no such thing as a watertight prenuptial agreement, as they can always be challenged in court, when the union falls apart. The poorer spouse can just say that he/she was coerced into signing it OR that they signed it under duress, et voila!!! 3 Likes 1 Share |
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