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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Jesusboy2020: 12:49pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
I've always gone through nairaland as a guest as I don't like commenting. Just registered because of you. I was a chronic masturbator, started at about 9years till I stopped in my thirties after a few years of marriage, relapsed after I had stopped for many years and then finally conquered the beast after many ups and downs. At a time even as a married man I masturbated at least five times a day, was addicted to porn and could stay months without touching my wife (who is quite a beauty). There could be many ways to overcome masturbation, but some methods might not be sure as we're all different, the only sure method is to first stop feeding your mind with all the triggers, like gazing on semi nude or nude women, feed your mind everyday with the Word of God, this is how I walked out permanently. I also noticed during my struggles that there are things like video games (I was addicted to football manager) that kept me for long hours and removed my attention from God's Word, these are also triggers. There's little I can say but never believe the lie that having a sexual partner will solve this problem, human relationships feel too complicated when satisfaction with pornography is readily available, don't bring another person into a complex situation in the name of marriage. God's grace is made available to you now to do the right thing. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Moutine(m): 12:49pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by henryligit: 12:50pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Robin your hand in yr manihood for just twice a week is not matriculation/unless 3/2times daily/that is matipulation/ you are killing urself dud |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Jeffyblaq(m): 12:50pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Ghost8889:It doesn't make you a lesser person.. You are very normal. Most of us adults did it or still doing (seldomly). In my marriage class 2018, I got married..even the priest ponder on that.. It doesn't make u abnormal. But truly itz not a good thing as it destroys one's sex life. But again, try n engage yuh self with meaningful things and ask the Holy spirit to help you on this cos you truly cannot overcome it on your own. As u have made up yuh mind to Condemn it in totality, gradually it would be subdued. Lastly, if you of age, get a girlfriend /boyfriend /companion. Cheers! 1 Like |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by AngelicBeing: 12:50pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
RTSC:Hahaha, Hian, wetin person no go read for Nairaland.com |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by ENGBOS(m): 12:51pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Well 99% of guy have masturbated and it not a thing of shame,to my own experience masturbation is enjoyable than sex,but I still stick to sex even I dont enjoy because its the normal way,I feel like a man once I satisfy a woman 1 Like |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Jerkbaba: 12:51pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
How in the world does masturbating cause weak erection? R u nuts? If that be the case then you must be suffering from performance anxiety. Masturbation as nothing to do with weak erection! Also, how in the world does masturbation prevent you from being able to talk to women? You must be naturally very timid in nature b that! 5 Likes |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Nobody: 12:53pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
properties4sale:Hahha O strong O You role with bad people during that time Try to fuçk steadily it will have limit Lastly be prayerful |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by LedRock: 12:53pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Account created today. Most of these accounts are created by this silly mods. 2 Likes |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by cayley(m): 12:55pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Can you pls chat me up on WhatsApp...I got help for you.... You will be free Just hit me up 08143530645 |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Naijaarchive(m): 12:55pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Just get your mind busy... Its due to idle mind... Once you get this right... You won't even notice you get dick self |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Nobody: 12:57pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Ghost8889:Ode he is asking for your advice not giving kudos to his english 1 Like |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Ayubaossy(m): 12:59pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
2years now
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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Nobody: 12:59pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Blackurglyboi:pls don't take any pill without a qualified doctor prescription I know of a man who is now permanently sterile as a result of wrong dosage of similar drug get a job even if it doesn't pay well just make sure you're always with people chating arguing you know men's stuff just stop been alone and idle get closer to ladies not necessarily girlfriends, aunties, neighbours,cousins etc practice a form of exercise dancing, gyming etc develop reading habit |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by shiki(m): 1:00pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Blackurglyboi:Everything is in ur hands u need 3 steps to stop this 1. Delete those porn videos frm ur phone. 2. Avoid been lonely and touching ur dick, u can find nice game and be playing when ever u are alone, football game/candy crush. 3. Get a girlfrnd/start having sex. Thank me later |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Jfunds123: 1:01pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Mmmm masturbation is a very bad thing you just need to find all the possible means to stop it because it’s not going to end well broda 1 Like |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by 2cribz: 1:02pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Last time i blow na march. Since then i never blow. Got like 3 on my list,but i dey fear dem wan relationship. And i dont want that. |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Crenzywilliams(m): 1:03pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Blackurglyboi:see em, retreating won't do you any good bru, it's not easy to stop it that's the truth, you can't right this alone, you seriously need the help of the Holy Spirit. Once you get a break from it hold on to that break, leave it for a day, it gets worse on the 3rd day but on the fourth to 6dau you might not even RMB you haven't done it for some time, them after abi 3weeks the urges comes again, this time with a strong force, but live each day at a time, got involved in something that's time and energy consuming, and before you know it you're gradually getting your self back. For now don't give in to dispare, hold your head high and fight this fight, so many testimonies of persons who have overcome, you too can. |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Jesustheway: 1:04pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Blackurglyboi: Please add 07030176940 me on your WhatsApp brother if you don't mind. Really want to help you out sir. |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by am4truth(m): 1:04pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Blackurglyboi: There is a power or spirit behind that evil habit. You need a greater power from the Holy Spirit to set you free.. Have you given your life to Jesus..? The journey to your deliverance starts from having Jesus as your Lord and Savior. The choice is yours. |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Snowx: 1:04pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
as you have confessed and you felt really bad about it may you be delivered by it in Jesus name...I was once a victim but not addicted...but I prayed and made up my mind that I won't do it again. by the grace of am a free man...God will do it for you bro... 1 Like |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by onenaija001(m): 1:06pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Masturbation is bad and a sin, but I don't understand people tying it to demons. It is something that has to do with one's psychological emotions and a low self esteem. If it's demonic the sins like fornication, stealing, e.t.c are also demonic since lots of people find them difficult to stop. I think this mindset of demonizing everything is caused by our religious beliefs. I candidly advice ypu work on psychology, become more productive, and of course if you are a religious person ask for God's guidance. Nigerians and demons sha. SMH!!!!! 1 Like |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by derbykol(f): 1:06pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
bluefilm:Don't play with the name Jesus. |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Femilekan233: 1:06pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Blackurglyboi:bro u just have to leave it, no other way. |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by HBB1(m): 1:06pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by chingle5(m): 1:07pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
CAPSLOCKED: burst my head |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Ecpet83(m): 1:07pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Blackurglyboi: Sincerely any person that comes here to tell you they have not done it before, is lying. The Psychologist will tell you it is a stage in the life of every human being when the human sexuality develops, and curiously wants to find fulfilment using self. Friend telling your father is not bad, but I promise you, that won't change anything. You don't need to tell your father, except you want him to go and marry for you from the village which of course is an altanative, or you just want to begin in your series of confessions, because you will still be telling him almost every day. This thing is bigger than your father, this thing is stronger than the advice any body can give you. This thing is satanic and demonic. If you go on drugs, it will only reduce your self esteem and affect you at the long run. I was like that before, I only overcame it when I genuinely became BORN AGAIN. I was a complete sinner before and masturbation is just one of my sins, I have girl friends too and I was criminally minded, does all kinds of wickedness and violence causing trouble in my environment etc. But God saved me and the urge for all these sins died. The vacuum was replaced with genuine fellowship with God, constant personal prayers, fasting, personal Bible reading and meditation and evangelism. Friend only Jesus can save you and deliver you from this mess. Just sincerely go to him in genuine prayer and He will visit you like he visited ten years ago. 2 Likes |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Daviestunech(m): 1:07pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Slawormir: Guy apart say u dey bomb, u get brain too 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by cayley(m): 1:08pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
You can be helped...I used to be bound too... You need to get out of it. And ts very possible... Chat me up;;; Am Caleb 08143530645 |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Alexander71(m): 1:08pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Bro first of all build your self esteem you seem to be fond of selling yourself short |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Lorenzo09: 1:10pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Blackurglyboi: first and foremost, u need delete all porn in your phone and block every easy access to them. Secondly, your mind needs to be regenerated with the help of God's Spirit and His word (the holy book) . Thirdly, abstain from loneliness keep ursef busy with useful activities and thoughts. God will help u. |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Bleeze2: 1:10pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
lightangel65i:OP don't try this o, it is detrimental to your sexual life and health. I think you have to stop anything both visual or audio that can bring the feeling of masturbating. You have to avoid movies with sexual scenes and seducing pictures. 'I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service. And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.' Romans 12:1,2. You can only renew your mind by the word of God. What you do is a manifestation of what is inside, what is inside you is from what you see, hear and learn(maybe from pornography). Get closer to God, His word is life and able to deliver. 'He sent his word, and healed them, and delivered them from their destructions' psalms 107:20. I am sure if you do these things, happy are ye. You must also be determined. Above all, you must be burn again because without faith it is impossible to please God 'But without faith it is impossible to please him: for he that cometh to God must believe that he is, and that he is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him.' Hebrews 11:6 SHALLOM!!! 1 Like |
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