My brother u can never stop masturbation completely in as much as u still visit de internet, ur dickson stands n u don't have a wife or gal friend.
Do u knw dat 90% of gals masturbate, buh de hardly feel guilty unlike guys. Do u know y? De believe are safe with any form of pregnancy n de use it as avoid sex with Dem all de tym

First i need you to undastand that there is a spirit behind masturbating. And for sure, dat spirit is dat of d devil. Do u know that masturbing does not just end at u sinning against GOD, but dat each time u engage in dat act, u release ur sperm to enrich d gate of hell in the spirit realm there by enslaving urself in the physical realm. Do u knw that u are God's temple. 1cor 3v16-17. If any man defiles his temple, he himself shall GOD destroy. Rom12v1-2" present ur bodies as sacrifice, holy and aceptable unto GOD. Verse 2 says "be not conformed to dis world, but be ye transform by d renewing of ur minds. My broda, u have 2 renew ur mind. Masturbation is a chain frm d pit of hell 2 keep u in eternal bondage. U can overcome it. First u have to be truely n sincerely sorry for all the times u have brought shame 2 d kingdom of God by indulging in dis act, and ask GOD 4 mercy, he wil not only 4give u but he will make u a new creation..rom8v1-8. Make it a point of duty 2 alwys study ur bible jos1v8. And pray at...

Get yourself busy. To be addicted to masturbation (twice daily) implies that you have nothing doing with your time. I say this because if you're really busy, you won't have the time to masturbate.

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But white people,young and old,male and female, masturbate, and it does not affect them in anyway.

Most white girls from 16 years old are already on pregnancy prevention pills and fucckkk like dogs and yet still go on to live productive and fulfilled lives.

Why is it only in africa that things like these have consequences?

The way some of you Nigerians reason, Is very alarming.

Even the whites you are "worshipping" do you know they have the consequences of masturbation worse off than Africans?

Have you even heard of suicidal masturbation among Africans?

Someone said he is depressed, you are posting nonsense questions.

This simple method will help you stop masturbation. I said "simple" because it is easy and if you follow it religiously. You are gonna be 100% free.

That was how God set me free, your experience is still mild compare to mine.

Accept Jesus as your Lord and personal saviour

Cover your penis with blood of Jesus by pronouncing it out Everytime.

Study your Bible every day and attend Godly gathering always

Pray always against it.

This masturbation made a friend of mine loose 3 academic years, he did it for like 10 years, one thing about masturbation is that, is released dopamine, serotonin, melatonin etc, after the released of this, one will feel happy, that's after discharging the sperm. Then, after it's been released, you will feel like doing it again because those hormone are happiness hormones, so,you feel happy and wanting to do more. As you are discharging your sperm, and it's depleting, it will get to a stage where you won't feel happy anymore because happiness is gone. At the stage, anything you learn will stick to your brain instantly like a magnet, in fact if you learn a formulae twice, the next day will be like you've learnt the formulae for long if you recite it the next day. Then a severe stage where you will loose coordination to the extent that even if they send you to buy ordinary #50 paracetamol, within the next 1 min, you would have forgotten what you were sent. this stage you will feel headache always, hallucinations, like loneliness, eating too much or too little. At this stage you will want to stop it but your mind will be acquainted to it to the extent that you can stop an exam and lied that you want to urinate, then you carry it out again. This stage, you will like to cut the genital if you can because you will be desperate of stopping it but won't be able. Well for solution message me on greatfullness494@gmail.com
But, try to do the following to stop it,
Human being are different, there are some people that cannot withstand anything nude, if you are the type stop watching anything nude. I mean to the extent of not watching Nigeria film that show cleavages, body shape,( am not talking about porn o).I mean Nigeria film that has stuff that can make you picture what you've seen in a film while you are alone. This is common to people that has pictorial memory. Even if you watch a movie in the morning, whenever you want to sleep at night, it will still play in your vision and you will want to have sex. So, do away with anything nude, even don't go or pass near brothels, should in case you see a wrongly dressed person on the street, what you need is to ignore by taking away your head. Also do away with sex talks, in fact, limit how you access social media,for my social media accounts I had off pictures. I can't just see pictures anyhow unless I want to willingly check it. Message me for others

It’s mainly idleness and not being constructively engaged that gives you time to think of porn and wanking! This is part of the results of the downward slide in the economy!

I bet you don’t have a job too. If so, try and find a activity that can take you out of the house every weekday! When you get back home after a long day, wanking will be the last thing on your mind!

Blackurglyboi:
Please don't laugh at my English and I'm not a good writer.

Now I have come to realization that truely masturbation is the greatest addiction ever. I wouldn't like to disclose my name cause of some reasons, I would like to keep my identity safe.

It all started far back In 2011 when I was in my jss3, I have been a pretty good boy who loves making friends, I was jovial. I interact with everyone around me and everybody loves my company.

I have lot of girls as my friends ..
One faithful Saturday morning I was having a stroll and I came across a pornography film pack and it has nudes content. It was lying by the road side, I'd picked it up and had a lot at it ..

My fellow nairalanders, that was how my journey started.

I started having the urge for sex. I felt so good giving myself self pleasure, I started masturbating once or twice a week, soon I started getting addicted, anytime I feel alone, the urge comes up and I must attend to it no matter where I am.

I started downloading phonography pictures on my phone. Fast forward to the time I finished my secondary school. It come to my observation I started pulling away from my female friends and I started keeping all to myself. I got some worst to the extent I can't talk to a woman. I started losing my friends. I only had mouth on social media .

Fast forward till today, masturbation have ruined my life totally now I have been so addicted that I get it done twice a day, sometimes I feel hurt and guilty, sometimes I asked myself i I would ever get married or if I can ever love a woman. I feel so embarrassed and ashamed of myself. I do promise my self that I'm gonna leave it but the highest I could go was a week. I don't even have that urge of hitting a woman, in my area as low as 500 you can have sex with a LovePeddler, but even though it is cheap to that extent i Would rather satisfy my self.

Till this day I have been masturbating for 9 years and it's really tearing my life apart.
Now I keep all to myself .. The only two things you could find on my phone browser is narialand and different ponographic sites ...

It hurts me so much, sometimes my friends ask when would I have a girlfriend but I would reply (oboy leave that thing make we make money first woman go come ) but deep down I feel sorry for myself ...

For those who say masturbation isn't a sin, dear friends masturbation I'd a deep sin and when you're addicted to it is very difficult to overcome it .

Please I need your advice, a problem shared is a problem solved.

You still have conscience and not completely desensitized. Good that you recognize it as a problem, that's the first step to problem-solving.

Secondly, you have to understand the triggers of the lust and get hold of your cycle of lust.

Below videos, I believe would help regardless of your religious denomination.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LjJmPFS1rqU&t=27s


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ha38D3d-qB8

I might be able to help you quit. Send me a message.

Blackurglyboi:
I can't even talk to a girl anymore I feel I'm not man enough , its a big problem . I do pray I get out of it soon before I took late

Blackurglyboi:
I don't even listen to such. No one can come up and tell me mastubation is not a problem .its demonic and its evil

thats the problem right there

you read my mind. he's just very good in his composition, i love it. i guess he apologized at first cuz of our social media wole soyinka dem lol

Ghost8889:
First of all, your English isn't bad, and you are a good writer

Blackurglyboi:
I can't even talk to a girl anymore I feel I'm not man enough , its a big problem . I do pray I get out of it soon before I took late

good that you praying about it but you have to be determined. God is not going to do that for you because the grace is already in you so determine �

It will not be easy to stop trust me, and at the same time it can be easy too.

First and foremost, do all you can to delete every porn in your phone and don't allow yourself watch movies with sex scenes.

Stop staying indoors alone if you are not busy, especially lying down in bed.

Stop all thoughts about having sex. Fill your mind with tasks and activities.

Always have it at the back of your mind warnings about the risks involved in masturbating.

Start dating. Make friends with females too. If you can go on dates that involves sex, then do it (use protection)

Pray always. Be sincere about it and God will help you as you help yourself

Best comment ever

i wonder why people keep saying its very bad or some sin shitt, tell me what is not a sin in this current world we live in now
Feeling guilty is a bitch

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr

Masturbating is good....it is not a bad thing....

First of all....you need to stop thinking it is a bad thing....so you won't be feeling guilty after masturbating.....

You know the funny thing son.....
When you stop feeling guilty about masturbations and stop seeing it as a bad thing that is the time you start to limit it without you knowing....

I think it's ok that people open up about these things and solutions are given. It's a brave thing to open up about an addiction so this is a good thread. please share How did you defeated the urge and how your got back your sex life

properties4sale:
Mine is for the past 20 years, itself really a very big problem. It destroys your sex life.. like it kills it; poor erection. You cannot have normal sex with girls. It's bad.

Dis one na learner. Something wey dey help me kill konji and save money wen babe no dey. The truth is, u gotta get something to keep ya mind busy and get a babe too. That way, you'll minimize your wanking pace.

madampresident:
The only reason you're struggling with masturbation is because you see it as a very big deal. You masturbate and the devil sells you guilt.

This is not God now. Take away the guilt. Enjoy your masturbation and watch yourself lose memory to masturbation.

I am sure you yourself you don't masturbate, so, why sells a bad product to someone else. masturbation is bad.

Blackurglyboi:
Please don't laugh at my English and I'm not a good writer.

Now I have come to realization that truely masturbation is the greatest addiction ever. I wouldn't like to disclose my name cause of some reasons, I would like to keep my identity safe.

It all started far back In 2011 when I was in my jss3, I have been a pretty good boy who loves making friends, I was jovial. I interact with everyone around me and everybody loves my company.

I have lot of girls as my friends ..
One faithful Saturday morning I was having a stroll and I came across a pornography film pack and it has nudes content. It was lying by the road side, I'd picked it up and had a lot at it ..

My fellow nairalanders, that was how my journey started.

I started having the urge for sex. I felt so good giving myself self pleasure, I started masturbating once or twice a week, soon I started getting addicted, anytime I feel alone, the urge comes up and I must attend to it no matter where I am.

I started downloading phonography pictures on my phone. Fast forward to the time I finished my secondary school. It come to my observation I started pulling away from my female friends and I started keeping all to myself. I got some worst to the extent I can't talk to a woman. I started losing my friends. I only had mouth on social media .

Fast forward till today, masturbation have ruined my life totally now I have been so addicted that I get it done twice a day, sometimes I feel hurt and guilty, sometimes I asked myself i I would ever get married or if I can ever love a woman. I feel so embarrassed and ashamed of myself. I do promise my self that I'm gonna leave it but the highest I could go was a week. I don't even have that urge of hitting a woman, in my area as low as 500 you can have sex with a LovePeddler, but even though it is cheap to that extent i Would rather satisfy my self.

Till this day I have been masturbating for 9 years and it's really tearing my life apart.
Now I keep all to myself .. The only two things you could find on my phone browser is narialand and different ponographic sites ...

It hurts me so much, sometimes my friends ask when would I have a girlfriend but I would reply (oboy leave that thing make we make money first woman go come ) but deep down I feel sorry for myself ...

For those who say masturbation isn't a sin, dear friends masturbation I'd a deep sin and when you're addicted to it is very difficult to overcome it .

Please I need your advice, a problem shared is a problem solved.

Shit ain't easy. You need a strong resolve and willpower to overcome ur addiction. To start with you can develop a habit, like learning how to code or graphic design. Or even learn about Affiliate Marketing with ClickBank.
Just try to stay busy, and get a lady friend if need be.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vb87XSmmW1E

derbykol:
Don't play with the name Jesus.

Even Jesus sef dey masturbate kwa so forget that thing.

there's a no fap thread on nairaland. i recommend you try joining it. also, if you need an accountability partner, you can please contact me.

Davoneskay:


I wanted to read all comments for fun but decided to reply cos I was touched by ur comments. I masturbated for 15 years. It was quite awful. I prayed for deliverance (I'm a freethinker and could just pray to an higher entity like my oversoul or to Jesus or I'll just say, "I command that to be...". It was one day, I heard a voice in my heart not to masturbate for sometime cos the Creator wants to deliver me. The pressure to masturbate became intense and I fell. The subtle voice came on several occasions but I failed. One day, I decided to heed. I did not masturbate for just four days (cos I do this shiit almost every two days). That night, I dreamt of talking to an unseen force. It told me to look at a mirror. There in, several demons and arch-demons (u needed to c how beautiful n seductive dis entities look like with wings and other adornments) were shown to me. It told me that over hundred thousands were cast out n banished from me. It also told me that two hundred thousand were cast out n banished from a lady (can't figure out whom dat lady was). When I awoke from sleep. The urge left totally. And my spiritual life and relationships with the opposite sex has improved tremendously.
What I'm trying to say is masturbation and most addictions are facilitated by walk-ins (entity possessions) only real deliverance combined with strong determination can help you.

I fall for ur story oga ,haha
Bros opoor ,this ur lies ehn

Blackurglyboi:

I'm desperate to get out of this soon ....I believe I would have to open up to my parents and let them know what I have been going through . cause this is getting me so depressed a lot , I'm still in my teenage age , I'm just 23 and I'm still young to face a this , is better I out a stop to it since I have come to realization.

you are one in a million my dear. since you have realized your mistake, then your healing is on the way and since you relate very well with your parents, I believe it's the way to go

Blackurglyboi:
Please don't laugh at my English and I'm not a good writer.

Now I have come to realization that truely masturbation is the greatest addiction ever. I wouldn't like to disclose my name cause of some reasons, I would like to keep my identity safe.

It all started far back In 2011 when I was in my jss3, I have been a pretty good boy who loves making friends, I was jovial. I interact with everyone around me and everybody loves my company.

I have lot of girls as my friends ..
One faithful Saturday morning I was having a stroll and I came across a pornography film pack and it has nudes content. It was lying by the road side, I'd picked it up and had a lot at it ..

My fellow nairalanders, that was how my journey started.

I started having the urge for sex. I felt so good giving myself self pleasure, I started masturbating once or twice a week, soon I started getting addicted, anytime I feel alone, the urge comes up and I must attend to it no matter where I am.

I started downloading phonography pictures on my phone. Fast forward to the time I finished my secondary school. It come to my observation I started pulling away from my female friends and I started keeping all to myself. I got some worst to the extent I can't talk to a woman. I started losing my friends. I only had mouth on social media .

Fast forward till today, masturbation have ruined my life totally now I have been so addicted that I get it done twice a day, sometimes I feel hurt and guilty, sometimes I asked myself i I would ever get married or if I can ever love a woman. I feel so embarrassed and ashamed of myself. I do promise my self that I'm gonna leave it but the highest I could go was a week. I don't even have that urge of hitting a woman, in my area as low as 500 you can have sex with a LovePeddler, but even though it is cheap to that extent i Would rather satisfy my self.

Till this day I have been masturbating for 9 years and it's really tearing my life apart.
Now I keep all to myself .. The only two things you could find on my phone browser is narialand and different ponographic sites ...

It hurts me so much, sometimes my friends ask when would I have a girlfriend but I would reply (oboy leave that thing make we make money first woman go come ) but deep down I feel sorry for myself ...

For those who say masturbation isn't a sin, dear friends masturbation I'd a deep sin and when you're addicted to it is very difficult to overcome it .

Please I need your advice, a problem shared is a problem solved.

just know that too much masturbation makes you weak every time, then, you are writing letter to early discharge, means you won't be able to last on real sex, so you will be like 5 secs man, then, finally, you will be getting old, your face will look more old than your age.. so continue if you love these results. you can just stop it, by cursing yourself to that if you do it something should happen to you.

just know that, you are also writing letters to WET DREAMS too

Blackurglyboi:
Please don't laugh at my English and I'm not a good writer.

Now I have come to realization that truely masturbation is the greatest addiction ever. I wouldn't like to disclose my name cause of some reasons, I would like to keep my identity safe.

It all started far back In 2011 when I was in my jss3, I have been a pretty good boy who loves making friends, I was jovial. I interact with everyone around me and everybody loves my company.

I have lot of girls as my friends ..
One faithful Saturday morning I was having a stroll and I came across a pornography film pack and it has nudes content. It was lying by the road side, I'd picked it up and had a lot at it ..

My fellow nairalanders, that was how my journey started.

I started having the urge for sex. I felt so good giving myself self pleasure, I started masturbating once or twice a week, soon I started getting addicted, anytime I feel alone, the urge comes up and I must attend to it no matter where I am.

I started downloading phonography pictures on my phone. Fast forward to the time I finished my secondary school. It come to my observation I started pulling away from my female friends and I started keeping all to myself. I got some worst to the extent I can't talk to a woman. I started losing my friends. I only had mouth on social media .

Fast forward till today, masturbation have ruined my life totally now I have been so addicted that I get it done twice a day, sometimes I feel hurt and guilty, sometimes I asked myself i I would ever get married or if I can ever love a woman. I feel so embarrassed and ashamed of myself. I do promise my self that I'm gonna leave it but the highest I could go was a week. I don't even have that urge of hitting a woman, in my area as low as 500 you can have sex with a LovePeddler, but even though it is cheap to that extent i Would rather satisfy my self.

Till this day I have been masturbating for 9 years and it's really tearing my life apart.
Now I keep all to myself .. The only two things you could find on my phone browser is narialand and different ponographic sites ...

It hurts me so much, sometimes my friends ask when would I have a girlfriend but I would reply (oboy leave that thing make we make money first woman go come ) but deep down I feel sorry for myself ...

For those who say masturbation isn't a sin, dear friends masturbation I'd a deep sin and when you're addicted to it is very difficult to overcome it .

Please I need your advice, a problem shared is a problem solved.

Give your life to the Lord Jesus Christ. He is the one who died on the cross for you to take this very problem away from you. Only Jesus can do it and nobody else. Turn to Him today. God bless you.

Blackurglyboi:

I'm desperate to get out of this soon ....I believe I would have to open up to my parents and let them know what I have been going through . cause this is getting me so depressed a lot , I'm still in my teenage age , I'm just 23 and I'm still young to face a this , is better I out a stop to it since I have come to realization.

I have a couple of things to say but before I say anything, do you work, and if yes what do you do.

I'll recommend that you get any of these men's messages (Apostle Arome Osayi, Mike Uropkor, or Joshua Selman) you won't regret it, watch their videos too

lightangel65i:
How desperate are you for a cure, you have like 200k?
If you have go and use it to buy antitestereone pills from a good pharmacist, they cost much, take it for like six months and don't miss a single dose, that would kill your urges completely you will be innocent as a 5yrs old boy. Stop after six months

Its the same drug used to treat sex offenders in the US.

So this drug kills every sex drive even the one u have a a woman’s punna

If so then it’s good Oooooo..... so that man can focus and hustle wella with no punna distractions

prince985:
They keep talking about ruin life ruin life how did it ruin or destry anybodys life?

I wonder oh

CAPSLOCKED:
WHY ARE YOU TRYING TO RETIRE WHEN YOU'VE NOT COMPLETED 35 YEARS IN SERVICE?

point or correction. 35 years of self service

Bro u jst have to take it upon ur self to stop that sh!!t or it ruins u. Just make up ur mind and go by it, I was in ur shoes years ago but I was able to overcome it. My realest advise for u is :
1 avoid porn at all cost or anything that can arouse ur sexual ur urge like dirty talks, pictures, etc. Bro If going data less for months will solve ur problem then do it.
2 always get busy, just find something doing as that may help.
3 avoid been lonely, always mingle it might not be a comfortable at first but give it a trial.
4 always pray abt it as that too may help.
NB: never feel discouraged, u may try and fail but never give up until its over!