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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by vickydevoka(m): 1:12pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
My brother u can never stop masturbation completely in as much as u still visit de internet, ur dickson stands n u don't have a wife or gal friend. Do u knw dat 90% of gals masturbate, buh de hardly feel guilty unlike guys. Do u know y? De believe are safe with any form of pregnancy n de use it as avoid sex with Dem all de tym 1 Like |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Emjayyyy: 1:13pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
First i need you to undastand that there is a spirit behind masturbating. And for sure, dat spirit is dat of d devil. Do u know that masturbing does not just end at u sinning against GOD, but dat each time u engage in dat act, u release ur sperm to enrich d gate of hell in the spirit realm there by enslaving urself in the physical realm. Do u knw that u are God's temple. 1cor 3v16-17. If any man defiles his temple, he himself shall GOD destroy. Rom12v1-2" present ur bodies as sacrifice, holy and aceptable unto GOD. Verse 2 says "be not conformed to dis world, but be ye transform by d renewing of ur minds. My broda, u have 2 renew ur mind. Masturbation is a chain frm d pit of hell 2 keep u in eternal bondage. U can overcome it. First u have to be truely n sincerely sorry for all the times u have brought shame 2 d kingdom of God by indulging in dis act, and ask GOD 4 mercy, he wil not only 4give u but he will make u a new creation..rom8v1-8. Make it a point of duty 2 alwys study ur bible jos1v8. And pray at... 1 Like |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Gerrard59(m): 1:14pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Get yourself busy. To be addicted to masturbation (twice daily) implies that you have nothing doing with your time. I say this because if you're really busy, you won't have the time to masturbate. 3 Likes |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Jeromejnr(m): 1:14pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
RTSC: The way some of you Nigerians reason, Is very alarming. Even the whites you are "worshipping" do you know they have the consequences of masturbation worse off than Africans? Have you even heard of suicidal masturbation among Africans? Someone said he is depressed, you are posting nonsense questions. |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Sammy011(m): 1:14pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
This simple method will help you stop masturbation. I said "simple" because it is easy and if you follow it religiously. You are gonna be 100% free. That was how God set me free, your experience is still mild compare to mine. Accept Jesus as your Lord and personal saviour Cover your penis with blood of Jesus by pronouncing it out Everytime. Study your Bible every day and attend Godly gathering always Pray always against it. |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Tohsynetita1: 1:16pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
This masturbation made a friend of mine loose 3 academic years, he did it for like 10 years, one thing about masturbation is that, is released dopamine, serotonin, melatonin etc, after the released of this, one will feel happy, that's after discharging the sperm. Then, after it's been released, you will feel like doing it again because those hormone are happiness hormones, so,you feel happy and wanting to do more. As you are discharging your sperm, and it's depleting, it will get to a stage where you won't feel happy anymore because happiness is gone. At the stage, anything you learn will stick to your brain instantly like a magnet, in fact if you learn a formulae twice, the next day will be like you've learnt the formulae for long if you recite it the next day. Then a severe stage where you will loose coordination to the extent that even if they send you to buy ordinary #50 paracetamol, within the next 1 min, you would have forgotten what you were sent. this stage you will feel headache always, hallucinations, like loneliness, eating too much or too little. At this stage you will want to stop it but your mind will be acquainted to it to the extent that you can stop an exam and lied that you want to urinate, then you carry it out again. This stage, you will like to cut the genital if you can because you will be desperate of stopping it but won't be able. Well for solution message me on greatfullness494@gmail.com But, try to do the following to stop it, Human being are different, there are some people that cannot withstand anything nude, if you are the type stop watching anything nude. I mean to the extent of not watching Nigeria film that show cleavages, body shape,( am not talking about porn o).I mean Nigeria film that has stuff that can make you picture what you've seen in a film while you are alone. This is common to people that has pictorial memory. Even if you watch a movie in the morning, whenever you want to sleep at night, it will still play in your vision and you will want to have sex. So, do away with anything nude, even don't go or pass near brothels, should in case you see a wrongly dressed person on the street, what you need is to ignore by taking away your head. Also do away with sex talks, in fact, limit how you access social media,for my social media accounts I had off pictures. I can't just see pictures anyhow unless I want to willingly check it. Message me for others 3 Likes |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by PROUDIGBO(m): 1:19pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
It’s mainly idleness and not being constructively engaged that gives you time to think of porn and wanking! This is part of the results of the downward slide in the economy! I bet you don’t have a job too. If so, try and find a activity that can take you out of the house every weekday! When you get back home after a long day, wanking will be the last thing on your mind! 1 Like |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by abdullahi45: 1:20pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Blackurglyboi: You still have conscience and not completely desensitized. Good that you recognize it as a problem, that's the first step to problem-solving. Secondly, you have to understand the triggers of the lust and get hold of your cycle of lust. Below videos, I believe would help regardless of your religious denomination. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LjJmPFS1rqU&t=27s https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ha38D3d-qB8 |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Geekamon(m): 1:20pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
I might be able to help you quit. Send me a message. Blackurglyboi: |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by ashawopikin(m): 1:20pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Blackurglyboi:thats the problem right there |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by cray91(m): 1:23pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
you read my mind. he's just very good in his composition, i love it. i guess he apologized at first cuz of our social media wole soyinka dem lol Ghost8889: 1 Like |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by harmony75: 1:23pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Blackurglyboi:good that you praying about it but you have to be determined. God is not going to do that for you because the grace is already in you so determine � |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Eberex(m): 1:23pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
It will not be easy to stop trust me, and at the same time it can be easy too. First and foremost, do all you can to delete every porn in your phone and don't allow yourself watch movies with sex scenes. Stop staying indoors alone if you are not busy, especially lying down in bed. Stop all thoughts about having sex. Fill your mind with tasks and activities. Always have it at the back of your mind warnings about the risks involved in masturbating. Start dating. Make friends with females too. If you can go on dates that involves sex, then do it (use protection) Pray always. Be sincere about it and God will help you as you help yourself |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by cray91(m): 1:24pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Best comment ever i wonder why people keep saying its very bad or some sin shitt, tell me what is not a sin in this current world we live in now Feeling guilty is a bitch Slawormir: |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by pretyval: 1:25pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
I think it's ok that people open up about these things and solutions are given. It's a brave thing to open up about an addiction so this is a good thread. please share How did you defeated the urge and how your got back your sex life properties4sale: |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by StandardJohn(m): 1:26pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Dis one na learner. Something wey dey help me kill konji and save money wen babe no dey. The truth is, u gotta get something to keep ya mind busy and get a babe too. That way, you'll minimize your wanking pace. 1 Like |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by ericangel01(m): 1:27pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
madampresident:I am sure you yourself you don't masturbate, so, why sells a bad product to someone else. masturbation is bad. |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by macho44(m): 1:28pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Blackurglyboi:Shit ain't easy. You need a strong resolve and willpower to overcome ur addiction. To start with you can develop a habit, like learning how to code or graphic design. Or even learn about Affiliate Marketing with ClickBank. Just try to stay busy, and get a lady friend if need be. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vb87XSmmW1E |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by bluefilm: 1:28pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
derbykol: Even Jesus sef dey masturbate kwa so forget that thing. 1 Like |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by CowbellY: 1:31pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
there's a no fap thread on nairaland. i recommend you try joining it. also, if you need an accountability partner, you can please contact me. |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Akhirastriver(m): 1:31pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Davoneskay:I fall for ur story oga ,haha Bros opoor ,this ur lies ehn ![]() |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by jacoik(m): 1:32pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Blackurglyboi:you are one in a million my dear. since you have realized your mistake, then your healing is on the way and since you relate very well with your parents, I believe it's the way to go |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by omoadeleye(m): 1:32pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Blackurglyboi: just know that too much masturbation makes you weak every time, then, you are writing letter to early discharge, means you won't be able to last on real sex, so you will be like 5 secs man, then, finally, you will be getting old, your face will look more old than your age.. so continue if you love these results. you can just stop it, by cursing yourself to that if you do it something should happen to you. just know that, you are also writing letters to WET DREAMS too 1 Like |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by babadee1(m): 1:32pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Blackurglyboi: Give your life to the Lord Jesus Christ. He is the one who died on the cross for you to take this very problem away from you. Only Jesus can do it and nobody else. Turn to Him today. God bless you. |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Nobody: 1:37pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Blackurglyboi:I have a couple of things to say but before I say anything, do you work, and if yes what do you do. |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Benevee: 1:37pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by northvietnam(m): 1:39pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
lightangel65i: So this drug kills every sex drive even the one u have a a woman’s punna ![]() ![]() If so then it’s good Oooooo..... so that man can focus and hustle wella with no punna distractions |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by YoungDaNaval(m): 1:39pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
prince985:I wonder oh |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by kirchofff(m): 1:41pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
CAPSLOCKED:point or correction. 35 years of self service |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Gifty406(m): 1:42pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Bro u jst have to take it upon ur self to stop that sh!!t or it ruins u. Just make up ur mind and go by it, I was in ur shoes years ago but I was able to overcome it. My realest advise for u is : 1 avoid porn at all cost or anything that can arouse ur sexual ur urge like dirty talks, pictures, etc. Bro If going data less for months will solve ur problem then do it. 2 always get busy, just find something doing as that may help. 3 avoid been lonely, always mingle it might not be a comfortable at first but give it a trial. 4 always pray abt it as that too may help. NB: never feel discouraged, u may try and fail but never give up until its over! |
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