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Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Nobody: 12:11am On Sep 17, 2020 |
solasoulmusic:Sis, this post is a front. Op is a chauvinist. That's just it. Regardless of where you stand, you will be blamed. Don't bother trying to explain anything to them. 1 Like |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by etrange: 12:11am On Sep 17, 2020 |
kingel: Is this what you understand when I say "lend justification to racism"? So much for the intelligent gender. I will explain. We're here kicking against racism cause there's no basis for a particular group of humans to claim superiority based on skin colour (a biological factor that no one gets to choose). We posit that even if some countries are more advanced than others, each person should be treated based on thier content cause some blacks are still smarter than some whites and they also are as American as the whites. But then ya'll in Africa rejecting equality and unapologetically advocating for male superiority only end justifying the racist's line of thought. You keep telling the world it's OK to claim "superior human being" based on biological factors. The adverse effects of discrimination, regardless with the form, do no spare any gender. It reduces the overall output of a people. Women might perceive things differently but not necessarily in an inferior way. In fact, this difference in perception is needed to balance things out. But when they are relegated to the back, we lose out on thier style/approach. In Africa, women have bent to society. A lot of them are have yielded to the claim that they are only there as ornaments. This is not because their brains are inferior, rather it's because of the indoctrination they get from home. Argue all you want, a child could be trained to be in anyway regardless of the gender and provided there are no congenital factors involved. But then parents in Africa structure thier homes to give the impression that girls are just care givers. Girls are explicitly trained to wash, cook, serve and please the boys while boys are allowed to be advebturous and are hardly ever held culpable for thier actions; after all, boys will always be boys. In this process, the male kid in Africa begins to feel superior because of his organs while the girl child is consumed by the desire to be acceptable, getting a good husband. This sense of superiority is further accentuated by the fact that parents invest more in the male child. What's the point in sending the girl abroad to study when another man will come and take her? She can study English Language in school and run a boutique afterwards. Let's spend the money on the man, he will always be here. These are the lines of thoughts that the African parents entertain, and the girl child is further relegated. Sadly, there are some indoctrinations she cannot change as an adult. What we end up having is a biased society. Our male children end up not having equally capable female counterparts and because they don't appreciate the origin of the problem, they run around insulting women on Nairaland. And because the male child has been trained to get away with anything, it doesn't matter if they sleep around, cheat, etc., Nobody insults the male gender when men engage in online theft, rape, etc. but when a girl does something bad, the entire female gender is insulted. We already believe women can't be successful so anyone women that has some money must be a prostitute. They shouldn't even bother eying some leadership positions where voting is involved. At the end,w're all deprived of what they might be able to offer cause we don't give them the chance. To correct this, women need to be encouraged, empowered and supported. Gender equality needs to be pushed to a practical level and we must stay open minded and stop seeing people who seek gender equality (feminists) as man haters (misandrists). 12 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Sixfeetbelle: 12:19am On Sep 17, 2020 |
Bloooody: You're mentally retarded if you classify things so basic even in this era of modern diversity. Pray tell under what division of yours will you classify "Political science"? |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Nobody: 12:25am On Sep 17, 2020 |
LadyGKilaBCrueD of nairaland is an exemption. She takes a lot of crack. It helps her brain function |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by WoundedLamb: 12:30am On Sep 17, 2020 |
etrange: Ladies and gentlemen, this post answers it all!!! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Sixfeetbelle: 12:33am On Sep 17, 2020 |
Bloooody: You make it sound like knowledge of evolution or types of government or even theology are bands of intelligence marker when we both know that intelligence as a "measure of brilliance" encompasses a whole lot more. Bring yourself to a girl's fort and watch her thrash you with her own bank of knowledge. How much do you know about the evolution of feminine fashion, the major strides in cloth and hair making or something as "insignificant" as bollywood movie stars, makeup and dance techniques, shades and hues of colours or the types of contour and brow brushes? Or do you think an IQ quiz completion is streamlined towards a particular section? But I know your type. Once she doesn't know Messi is the greatest football player ever, you declare her dull. |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by cristy149: 3:09am On Sep 17, 2020 |
etrange:You want to empower women, ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() without Men in power this society will crumble |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by cristy149: 3:12am On Sep 17, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:those are gender based topics... and only few of them cares about it.. I'm sure 85% of Nigerian girls wearing artificial hairs don't know how it's made or what's it's made from we are talking of general topics like science, politics, animal wildlife,,, they don't know shit 2 Likes |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by etrange: 3:30am On Sep 17, 2020 |
cristy149: Fear. Africans fear whatever they don't know or have not experienced. Africans don't give new things a chance and that is why the continent is stagnant. Where I live, gender is the last thing that comes to mind when someone's capabilities are being tabled. This way, the society gets the best out its people instead of limiting its talent source to less than half of the population out of the fear that women will 'out-do' them when given the chance. The funny thing is that we've never had a great leader in Nigeria (at least, none comparable to the leaders of Germany and New Zealand) and yet no one sees it as incompetence on the side of men but once a lady becomes the president of Nigeria, every single misstep will lead to an attack on the female gender. While this is terrible, women have been known to do more just to counter the perception that they can't perform and a lot of them end up performing better (in their little positions) when given the chance. If men are really superior by nature, they shouldn't be afraid helping to empower the women. If you entertain such fear, then maybe you aren't really superior but just taking advantage of the biased society. 8 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Jazzafizzy(f): 3:31am On Sep 17, 2020 |
Chii59:Be happy is mom if he has any is among stop exchanging comments with a slowpoke 1 Like |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Nobody: 4:10am On Sep 17, 2020 |
Bloooody: I'm sure it's not just women. Male or female everyone's intellect measures differently. And thats in any part of the world. |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Nobody: 4:21am On Sep 17, 2020 |
Bloooody: But U need women in your life. How would you be loved? How would you have children? Who would Satisfy your konji? Who will you marry and have cooked your meals, washed your clothes? Who's breasts would you stare at? Who's bum would you admire? Or do man have best ass too lol? Who says the smartest human is a man? There's very intelligent women and men in the world... honestly the average man isn't that intelligent either lol. IQ isn't measured by gender. |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Boldone55: 4:28am On Sep 17, 2020 |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 4:54am On Sep 17, 2020 |
Chii59:Miss ug lee |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 4:57am On Sep 17, 2020 |
Chii59:Miss ug lee |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Nobody: 4:57am On Sep 17, 2020 |
Bloooody: How U know this girl isn't smart in other ways. N I don't see why you'd pity her future husband n kids. She may be the sweetest perfect wife n mother. Her future husband n her may find alot of interesting things to converse about. Not everyone has the brain of a professor lol. She could be knowledgeable in other subjects n even if she wasn't that doesn't mean she may be dull. Ppl can be funny, entertaining, endearing to others n not have to be Einstein |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 4:57am On Sep 17, 2020 |
Chii59:Hey miss ug lee |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 4:58am On Sep 17, 2020 |
Chii59:Hey miss ug lee |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 5:00am On Sep 17, 2020 |
Chii59:Hey miss ug lee ![]() |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 5:01am On Sep 17, 2020 |
Descorts:That Zzor is super dumb |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 5:04am On Sep 17, 2020 |
Zzor:You are too dull, with nothing to offer a man. |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 5:13am On Sep 17, 2020 |
Ekemeze:I'm definitely gonna put her in her place, miss ug lee. ![]() |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 5:16am On Sep 17, 2020 |
Chii59:That's miss ug lee |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 5:18am On Sep 17, 2020 |
Boldone55:Miss ug lee don't know anything, don't waste Ur time. ![]() |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Boldone55: 5:21am On Sep 17, 2020 |
Ikillbrokehoes: But she’s pretty and articulate |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 5:23am On Sep 17, 2020 |
Boldone55:Do you know what is pretty and articulate? don't be a disgrace to men. 1 Like |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by perkcare(m): 5:33am On Sep 17, 2020 |
Change your female friends. There are intelligent women in Nigeria. Even more intelligent than most men� Bloooody: |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Ekemeze: 5:42am On Sep 17, 2020 |
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Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by zexy2030(m): 5:45am On Sep 17, 2020 |
Bloooody:You are so dumb to have concluded, You have been meeting your likes...discuss with cyndylove64, she is very intelligent, she is young but have good knowledge almost on any topic, she is an ardent reader. Now someone like you would chat her up asking for boobs n pussy pics or sex n relationship So many ladies are sapiosexual but so many guys are like Eric or like kidwaya all they know is sex. So guy u r attracting what u look like. You are dumb that's why dumb girls flock around you. Birds of same feather flock together. |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Eagba(m): 6:05am On Sep 17, 2020 |
Walexdubia:I guess Igbo girls are Iike Greek gods |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Eagba(m): 6:39am On Sep 17, 2020 |
guys check out this trend, in primary schools, the girl child are always topping most class and giving the guys a run for their efforts. That's to say,in most classes, you find a girl child or two among the top four or five most brilliant kids in the class. but on getting to the university, the number diminish greatly to one in 20 top student in the department. I think evolution and environment played a big part in choosing their survival pattern from the ways a guy will choose to survive. men will understand that for them to be relevant, they have to top their class or hustle more to be richer, while a girl will understand that to be relevant, she have to be more beautiful, thereby concentrating more on their hair, make up , fashion, implant etc. only a few girls try to or actually bends the curve or blend the trajetories well enough and they are forever worshipped. |
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