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Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by themaestro08(m): 2:31pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
KidDarkness: Some of this nasty ladies think the world revolves around their stinking self . They deserve more than just bashing, its disgusting. Yeah, we all know op is stereotyping, which ain't fair to the brilliant ones out there. But it still doesn't negate the fact some of them are painfully thick and dumb , and the irony - they look down on guys who are by a continent mile better than them , ugly looking moderfuckers |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by etrange: 2:40pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
kingel: Dude, to justify means to prove something right. Sexism being a justification to racism does not mean it led to racism. That misogyny was there before racism is a fact. But still tolerating misogyny defeats all the arguments we have against racism today and therefore justifies (proves right) the discrimination of people based on their nature. You can't preach against racial prejudice when you condone the same thing against women. So misogyny being older or younger doesn't matter, what matters is that it is self contradictory to support it and still kick against racism. That bit is pretty much clear in my message. Every form of decriminalisation within a people being discriminated against lends justification to the injustice perpetuated against them. It is sad that we only see something as bad when it affects us. 2 Likes |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by WoundedLamb: 2:47pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
kingel: You are totally missing the point, sir. He is saying that when you support the concept of some humans being superior to other based on biological factors then you are saying the whites are right to think they are superior to blacks even when blacks aren't necessarily less intelligent. So the history you are bringing up doesn't count because it doesn't matter which one cames first. You support this, you imply that. Simple. It applies to almost every form of discrimination based on natural traits. On your free time, read: https://www.nairaland.com/5937870/hipocricy-black-activism-sorrows-voiceless Thanks. 1 Like |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Sixfeetbelle: 2:51pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
Bloooody: The post was based on intelligence as a whole and I gave you what intelligence represents. Do you watch IQ based quiz shows? I do. Let me shock you. Just recently a question was asked the participants concerning TV show winners. They listed names and asked them to list out shows those names became winners in. One of those names was a winner in Big Brother albeit UK version. Point is, don't look down on any speck of knowledge as insignificant. For you to be an all-rounder, you need to have a clue of just about any thing out there. |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by ladyGKilaBCrueD(f): 2:52pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
the crack you sold to me na 0KNM: |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Xmuslim: 3:02pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
Bloooody:you are right at the bolded. While I agree that men are more smarter even outside Nigeria, Nigerian women are way duller. I mean very dull. However, I think it is not in their gene per se. It may be due to the way they where brought up. They were made to believe they're inferior and they lack confidence. I think the new generation should give Nigerian women the freedom and the confidence from birth. I would rather pity them than mental shame them 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Sixfeetbelle: 3:04pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
cristy149: And I'm telling you that IQ (a measure of intelligence) isn't based on just those topics that you listed. I watch IQ based shows and they ask just about anything that exists on planet earth, whether gender-based or not. (None of my examples is considered "gender-based" for an IQ question) Go watch shows like Pointless, The Chaser etc and see how varied and diverse their questions are. |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by IMAliyu(m): 3:53pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
Bloooody: I've heard that some studies show that women actually represent the average intelligence of a society and men are more spectrumy, either you're slightly above average, or you're a dumbàss. And then there is the subject of interest, men tend to be into abstract things and objects, while women are more interested in people. An example of this is the large number of women in healthcare and education, and men in engineering, tech, and physical labour. But then you can not rule out the societal pressure and conditioning, especially in Nigeria were some women are made to believe that their job is to be baby making machines and don't need to worry about fending for themselves. 2 Likes |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by KidDarkness(m): 3:53pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
themaestro08:Bro, I really do understand your point. But imagine I'm a young growing lad who doesn't know anything about women and I come across O.Ps thread, a lot of negativity and deep detest for women would be sown in my head. Threads like this should have clarity with a nota bene like "most women", " not all women", "few women" etc. That doesn't mean we shouldn't love Nigerian women and treat all of 'em like trash. Even if we should love, do it with both eyes open so that nothing surprises you anymore. Men unconsciously kiss with both eyes open for a reason. I don't see why I would still stay with a girl who can't hold a convo. There are a lot of fishes in the sea, so cast your net and you would definitely be lucky. |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Nobody: 4:49pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
Frenzy01:Yawns |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Nobody: 4:50pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
themaestro08:You done? |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Nobody: 5:01pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
Ekemeze:You will receive an unexpected slap before the end of today |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by TheCork(m): 5:06pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
Ekemeze: |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by TheCork(m): 5:07pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
Ekemeze: Bro was the deal between u & Zzor? Are u fokin her or u juss friend? |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by TheCork(m): 6:37pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
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Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by TheCork(m): 6:50pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by kingel(m): 6:54pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
etrange:Jesus H. Christ. Oh my God. On one hand someone claiming men are better than women is sexist, but stating women led nations are more stable is a testament to their hidden talent diminished by the big bad African patriarch. Bro, the reason those countries are where they are today, I'm assuming you mean Scandinavian nations and N.Zealand, isn't because of women, men built western civilization with the foundation on Greek, Roman philosophers on land taken by men. Hell the rights to vote was given by men. The sexual revolution led by the birth pill, that gave women more options also made by men. See saying men have contributed more, cause they are smarter(read up on the IQ bell curve) isn't sexist, it's just stating simple facts, that doesn't mean they should be denied fundamental rights. The geographical location and condition of n,Zealand is what helped them, not the wisdom of the female PM. Power shouldn't be "balanced out" it should only be merited. You say the Bible is sexist, so what? What should we do with that info, drop it for your buzz word, that'll help/harm nobody in Africa. Prehistoric period= men, medieval age= men,renaissance period=men industrial age=men, technological age=men. But we shouldn't say men lead the world cause it'll upset some people. Let's always speak the truth 2 Likes |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by kingel(m): 6:55pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
etrange:They don't bear the burden alone until it's time for alimony or child support. Lol |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by kingel(m): 6:57pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
etrange:Do you think if men hated women(misogyny), women would have the rights and privileges they enjoy? They'll probably be kept as sex slaves somewhere 1 Like |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by etrange: 7:08pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
kingel: Misogyny doesn't only apply when there is hate. It also applies when there's is prejudice (which is clearly the case in Africa). Hate is a strong word and I never ever use that. 1 Like |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by etrange: 7:17pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
kingel: What men contribute as child support according to the Law is the financial worth of raising the child. It is thier own contribution to raising their child and does not always cover the entire cost on paper. The women are still the one that take up the responsibility of child care. Alimony is only paid if one party can prove that they made sacrifices for the overall wealth of the family. Any gender can pay alimony. Every case is peculiar. 1 Like |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by etrange: 7:43pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
kingel: If you want to argue smartly, you have to pay attention to details to avoid fallacies. I never stated that countries led by women are more stable than those led by men. I said "the few countries led by women are amongst the most stable countries... ". The key word is in bold. This was in response to the claim that women lack leadership traits. If a country led by a woman is stable, that claim is baseless. That's the logic, and not that countries led by women are more stable than countries led by men. Your POV is funny to say the least. If it is not the men, it's geographical location. All in a bid to undermine the women even when their outputs are clear. How much of New Zealand's strategies against Covid-19 do you know? Does location change the R0 value of the pandemic or is she the only country in the Australasia. The leader of Germany has stayed in power for 14 years, that is more than long though to make a mess of the country if she didn't know her job. Attempting to take the credit away from her will be so low of you. Women will say women are smarter. Men will say men are smater. All those are childish arguments that do not really concern me. But when it escalates to prejudice against any gender, then it becomes a clog in the wheel of success. There's no justification for saying someone cannot lead because it's a man or because it's a woman or because it's a black person, etc. This is because even if there are more intelligent men than women, there are still many women who are more intelligent than many men. And for this singular reason, each person must be given a chance to prove thier content. A black man leading America was unheard of until Obama got a chance. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by HomerTimpson: 7:59pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
DrFunmisticGlow:IK this thread is pointless. BOUGHT BOOK WE NUT KEY YOU |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Eagba(m): 8:06pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
cristy149:swthrt you are correct, that's why i don't subscribe to women bashing. but if you were topping your class in primary school, did u also try to blend the need for looking beautiful and book smartness together in your later life? |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by cristy149: 8:09pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
SegFault:so you want me to list every man that has been affected by this BS policy?? you re a clown |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by cristy149: 8:15pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
etrange:everything you've said here including the others you qoute me in are WHAT COULD BE , BUT ISN'T women could earn as much as men if only over 50% of them would do what men would do...go to university and check tangible rare courses like cyber security, marine courses, the ratio to men are like 1:5..while most of them will major in popular non risky job like accounting and the rest....fact is they know the way but they want the easy one...so why won't they be underpaid since female are less productive to men 1 Like |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by etrange: 9:09pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
cristy149: I agree with you that equality (both in opportunities and output) is what could/should be but isn't. And this is because the society is already biased, the foundation is faulty and we cannot correct it by insulting women and further relegating them. Women don't choose to go to the university or not, their parents do. A girl child is trained to strive to behave well and get a good husband. Such indoctrinations do not encourage being ambitious. Regardless of how successful a woman is, people still mock or even call her names if she's single. Society believes she must have a man for her voice to be respected. This makes our females more concerned about having a man that being independently successful. You and I are the parents of today and tomorrow, if we don't change our perspective of women, the issue will linger. We can change the narrative by giving those of them who are ambitious the opportunity to attain thier dreams so that the younger ones can have role models and so that the society will see what they've been missing, let's address each person by thier content and not by thier gender. We must stop this attitude of coming online to insult our sisters, mothers and daughters. If we are really better, then we must push the ones around us. Even the women themselves have a lot of work to do. There's no hiding the fact that they need empowerment. Removing the prejudice is a collective effort. Sexism has never helped any nation progress. Others are coming out of it, let's not move in the opposite direction. 1 Like |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Biglittlelois(f): 9:14pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
@etrange, are you male or female? 1 Like |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by incogni2o: 9:22pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
Bloooody: This shows you are as dumb as you arr trying to potray women. For you not to reason that it depends on interest. 1 Like |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by pretydiva(f): 9:25pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
Ikillbrokehoes: Never knew your entire female relatives are all dullards. That's one hell of a dullard lineage you got. Do accept my sympathy 1 Like |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by pretydiva(f): 9:30pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
pretydiva: This was my post. Who ever that changed it is a dimwit |
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Dabyes(f): 9:52pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
Las Las, it's one of those same dumb girls that will finish your life. I don't even have strength to argue about nonsense |
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