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How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by Failure44: 9:06pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
This is going to be long one. I'm hopelessly in love with this girl I met back on sec school. She talked to me at first and we immediately clicked it's as if we knew each other for ages. Fast forward 2 months later I ask her to be my girlfriend after I had noticed she felt the same for me, she'd try to kiss me but me being a shy person and suffering from extreme social anxiety back then secondary school even with my good looks I was still very very shy. Anyways she turned me down, I asked her why and she had no reason, I respected myself and didnt ask anymore. The next day she started ignoring me, I swear it torn my heart to see the way this girl would snub me, 2 days later she came back begging and I forgave her we went back to being extremely close she'd tell me everything even her personal family matters which I found very weird. Fast forward half a year later, we're so close most think we're dating and even herself would tell me she talks to me and often forgets I'm not her boyfriend. I try again and ask her out, She rejects me again telling me she fears when we break up, we would stop talking even tho she still talks and relates well with her EX whom bad mouthed her publicly and she'd like us to get married instead of dating (This honestly pissed me off and I found it extremely difficult to communicate with her) Presently now (almost a year )we don't talk, I deleted her number so as to get over her. Truth be told i can't stop thinking about her and it's driving me mad, i recently came across a video and some photos of her online and it just originated those feelings for her. I'm hopelessly in love with this girl and I'm sick of it. All I ask is for advice, how do I move on? I'm a person of that values self respect ALOT and i can't bring myself to talk to her after she turned me down TWICE. P.S She even told me she had a crush on me, so it honestly left me confused when she turned me down the second time. 2 Likes |
Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by Nobody: 9:10pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
You love her but don't want to marry her?? I am not understanding |
Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by Failure44: 9:12pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
BornSnner9:No. She said she would prefer we got married instead of dating because she fears we would stop talking even tho I pointed out she still relates with her ex. |
Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by xband: 9:12pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
Who want to move with a guy that bear that moniker? 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by Enudapan: 9:12pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
Nna eh! No qualms This is so unsophisticated Don't be a simp, bang other kpekus And most importantly, always take mushin weed (it helps) |
Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by Failure44: 9:14pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
Enudapan:If you read what I wrote then you know I'm nothing like a simp. When she turned me down, I didn't ask her out again and she came back begging for my forgiveness. It's just that I have fallen so hard for this girl. |
Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by akaahs(m): 9:15pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
Just use her bad attitude/character to suppress the feelings each time d though crossess her mind from u ll write her off from our mind. |
Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by Nobody: 9:16pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
I'll advise you to take sniper Maybe the orange or apple flavor 2 Likes |
Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by dingbang(m): 9:17pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
be there crushing when she is getting laid elsewhere 2 Likes |
Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by Failure44: 9:18pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
akaahs:That's the problem. She's almost perfect in terms of character, her only problem back then was she had this habit of snubbing but apart from that her character was perfect. She even said I was her exact type of guy, so when she turned me down it created a temporary kind of hatred towards her within me. Now after seeing her pictures and video, i can't stop thinking about her |
Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by Nobody: 9:18pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
Failure44:oh ok.. Truth is some relationship are best at friends level.. 1 Like |
Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by Decimus: 9:19pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
Failure44:Don't ask her out again, let her ask you out. 1 Like |
Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by Failure44: 9:19pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
dingbang:I honestly don't care. That's her business. I just wanna get over her. |
Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by Failure44: 9:20pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
BornSnner9:Bro If you have ever fallen in love, you would know it's impossible to remain friends with that person. 1 Like |
Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by Failure44: 9:20pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
Decimus:Well we don't talk again since I deleted her number and temporarily blocked her almost a year ago. |
Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by Decimus: 9:21pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
Failure44:When she said you are her exact type of guy, what she meant was that you are not her type. Leave her alone and move with other babes. |
Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by Failure44: 9:23pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
Decimus:I have tried moving towards other babes but non of them have gotten my interest the way this girl has. She's intelligent (something that's hard to find in our ladies these days) Beautiful Naughty and everything else |
Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by goodmorning40: 9:25pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
If you are old enough and ready for marriage you could try again, some ladies love persistence and the love chase from the guy and will not give in until you pressure enough, but you must apply caution to know when you are being foolish and therefore withdraw . study her to know if she is doing shakara or she seriously don't want you But if you are not ready for marriage face your front please |
Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by Nobody: 9:27pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
Failure44:lol.. You may not understand, see love fades over time.. by the time you break up and perhaps you guys stop talking to each other.. you'd realise it's a stupid feeling "love" |
Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by dingbang(m): 9:27pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
Failure44:from the way I see it, you can't .. |
Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by Decimus: 9:27pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
Failure44:If you are still interested in her, unblock her number. But don't give her any attention. |
Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by Failure44: 9:27pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
goodmorning40:That's something about me I already stated. I value self respect highly, I find it extremely difficult to chase a woman some girls have actually told me straight up about this but I just can't. I honestly wanted to try to communicate with her again but my pride wouldn't let me do so. I'm just sick about how I feel about this girl. |
Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by Failure44: 9:29pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
Decimus:Yes, I unblocked her number and wanted to try to talk to her but couldn't. My value for self respect wouldn't allow me. Sometimes I wonder It's been a year, would this girl still have those feelings for me? |
Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by Failure44: 9:30pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
xband:LOL I made this NL account a year ago because I failed jamb after studying so hard and I was extremely depressed. Thankfully I'm now a medical student. I just use this account from time to time. |
Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by 1beat(m): 9:32pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
small boy small girl paroo bi this now .... ur age mate here will advise you ... 1 Like |
Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by Failure44: 9:33pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
BornSnner9:Tried this but the feelings won't die. I have only crushed on 3 girls in this life and after like 3 months the feelings went away for 2/3 of those girls but this 3rd one, I just don't know why I can't get over her. 1 Like |
Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by goodmorning40: 9:34pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
Failure44: Well social media has solved some part of that problem, you can reconnect with her and start by charting as friends level, leave relationship and romance out first until you have established a connection with her 1 Like |
Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by Kalatium(m): 9:35pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
It will end in tears |
Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by Failure44: 9:37pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
goodmorning40:Honestly I'm thinking about this. Trying to talk to her again maybe it'll help me get over this madness called love that I feel for her because the distancing isn't helping. |
Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by Failure44: 9:39pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
1beat:I'm waiting for them. |
Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by akaahs(m): 9:39pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
Failure44:Then deal with it in ur mind, since u can't help or control d situation. Try as much as possible to distract ur mind when her though crosses ur mind. |
Re: How do I stop thinking about her? I'm hopelessly in love with her by Failure44: 9:40pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
akaahs:True, I just hope school resumes too so my mind will be occupied again. 1 Like |
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