I created this account today for this. I am not new to nairaland but because I dont want people who know me that is in nairaland to know it is me.

There is this girl I have dated for 3 years. All these year I have loved and took care of her the much I can because I am still a struggling guy and I will always assist her in anything she is doing to the best that I can.

When we started she was a jambite looking forward to getting admission in one of the universities in nigeria but she wasn't lucky enough to get it at that time. she later got medical lab in a nursing school in another city.

I assisted her the much I could in her first year. She called most of the time. and I gradually fell in love with her. I wanted to have s3x with her but she claimed she was a virgin and want to keep it till marriage so I left her alone.

I have always wanted to be intimate with her because I loved her so much and wanted to be her first. I have tried all the best I can but she kept refusing and I did not want to force her.

So she came last week sunday and I tried to touch her she resisted so I asked her whether she was still a virgin and she said it is a long story. I told her I am not going anywhere she should start talking. she said she was raped. I asked her how? she said someone she taught was her cousin not knowing the guy asked and found out she is not her cousin , she was helping him out in the process the guy raped her.

I was so heart broken. My heart has been telling me she is lying.

She is saying that she just want to us to just be friends now. she does not want to have intimacy with me if I dont want it like that I should leave her alone.

I am just wondering why would she do that to me. I have been so good to her which she confirms all the time.

It is just too painful to watch somebody you care about take you for granted because you are too good. My mind is just messed up right now.

Sorry man! Shit happens. For the average Nigerian girl, it's wiser not to show them you care too much, if not , she go over use you.

Pele. E dey happen na part of life and learning. Life still stretches before u

Pick the broken pieces and give them to another girl to mend..mr loverboy.

Hehehe

Format

ewu... you're a simp

Been there done that, still rolling. what doesn't kill you makes you stronger.

oga no be format. I have just been down since she left on sunday.

dingbang:
Format

Ladikwa:
Been there done that, still rolling. what doesn't kill you makes you stronger.

This thing is just killing but life will go on sha. How did you overcome yours? Thanks

#ILMOVON
#Attitude
#Bliv

Pls continue being her friend and continue paying her Bills..
Dont walk away..Pray and fast, work hard to make it work..
Be grateful that she was raped and she wasn't pregnant..
Congrats on dating a virgin that never allowed you taste the cherry pie first.
You are a role model and a Man of the year ..
Congrats Kid..
You are doing well.

Any girl u started raising from tertiary institution.. just get ready to lose her. If u want to get married look for someone who is thru with her studies. Just take heart my brother uve been played big time. Just learn from this

Funkyswagzz:
Any girl u started raising from tertiary institution.. just get ready to lose her. If u want to get married look for someone who is thru from the university. Just take heart my brother uve been played big time. Just learn from this

Thanks. I appreciate.

You are just a full blown SIMP. Continue.

nnamx4u:
I created this account today for this. I am not new to nairaland but because I dont want people who know me that is in nairaland to know it is me.

There is this girl I have dated for 3 years. All these year I have loved and took care of her the much I can because I am still a struggling guy and I will always assist her in anything she is doing to the best that I can.

When we started she was a jambite looking forward to getting admission in one of the universities in nigeria but she wasn't lucky enough to get it at that time. she later got medical lab in a nursing school in another city.

I assisted her the much I could in her first year. She called most of the time. and I gradually fell in love with her. I wanted to have s3x with her but she claimed she was a virgin and want to keep it till marriage so I left her alone.

I have always wanted to be intimate with her because I loved her so much and wanted to be her first. I have tried all the best I can but she kept refusing and I did not want to force her.

So she came last week sunday and I tried to touch her she resisted so I asked her whether she was still a virgin and she said it is a long story. I told her I am not going anywhere she should start talking. she said she was raped. I asked her how? she said someone she taught was her cousin not knowing the guy asked and found out she is not her cousin , she was helping him out in the process the guy raped her.

I was so heart broken. My heart has been telling me she is lying.

She is saying that she just want to us to just be friends now. she does not want to have intimacy with me if I dont want it like that I should leave her alone.

I am just wondering why would she do that to me. I have been so good to her which she confirms all the time.

It is just too painful to watch somebody you care about take you for granted because you are too good. My mind is just messed up right now.

My brother no reason am at all. Girls are what they re. If I tell you my own you will know you didn’t do anything . But I know you tried in your own capacity. Don’t love girls 100% just give them 1% of the love and use your 99% to chase money. My ex girlfriend who haven’t spent on me not even on my birthday

I even open a tailoring shop for her and she said am mannerless and I can’t do anything to her. Nwanne pick up and gather yourself together and leave her

pman096:
Sorry man! Shit happens. For the average Nigerian girl, it's wiser not to show them you care too much, if not , she go over use you.

Thanks dear.

I'm tired of shouting simp on nairaland

Rule 1...


Never date school girl for marriage

See my signature

JustEdward:



My brother no reason am at all. Girls are what they re. If I tell you my own you will know you didn’t do anything . But I know you tried in your own capacity. Don’t love girls 100% just give them 1% of the love and use your 99% to chase money. My ex girlfriend who haven’t spent on me not even on my birthday

I even open a tailoring shop for her and she said am mannerless and I can’t do anything to her. Nwanne pick up and gather yourself together and leave her

Thanks bro I really appreciate.

benzene00:
I'm tired of shouting simp on nairaland

You will not understand.

Another tales by moonlight,una no dey tire?

One bad uncaring guy (bad guy )just took her virginity chop and clean mouth girls take u for fool when you are too nice (experience ) especially naija girls act opposite and don't give a care about their feelings and they will respect and give u what u want. Stop being Mr nice guy

When u see signal respond immediately and stop been played this girls ain't loyal

At ur prime age and you are struggling to get on ur feet .....u don't need relationship u need self investment not a girlfriend they distract ,rather look for friends with benefits and u will have a sane mind no heartbeat no heart break

JustEdward:



My brother no reason am at all. Girls are what they re. If I tell you my own you will know you didn’t do anything . But I know you tried in your own capacity. Don’t love girls 100% just give them 1% of the love and use your 99% to chase money. My ex girlfriend who haven’t spent on me not even on my birthday

I even open a tailoring shop for her and she said am mannerless and I can’t do anything to her. Nwanne pick up and gather yourself together and leave her

You opened a shop for a woman that's yet to be your wife? In this age?

You eff bro big time

Well, that's a humanitarian service you did to help someone.

Women are just who they are. You don't love woman. The guy who give them the heart will bear the pain.

nnamx4u:


Thanks. I appreciate.

Bro girls are pretenders.. all of them are pretenders. Never ever u trust a lady. Just work with ur head and work with what's best for u first. By the time u see shes seriously in love with u then u can let ur guards down. Don't let these women use u bro d no get joy at all.

benzene00:
I'm tired of shouting simp on nairaland

I'm tired of reading about SIMP

nnamx4u:
oga no be format. I have just been down since she left on sunday.

you dont get, na format she play on you.

JustEdward:



My brother no reason am at all. Girls are what they re. If I tell you my own you will know you didn’t do anything . But I know you tried in your own capacity. Don’t love girls 100% just give them 1% of the love and use your 99% to chase money. My ex girlfriend who haven’t spent on me not even on my birthday

I even open a tailoring shop for her and she said am mannerless and I can’t do anything to her. Nwanne pick up and gather yourself together and leave her

whaaaaaaat opened a shop? If your mother hears this she will curse you o

dingbang:
you dont get, na format she play on you.

no be small format bro. I just weak when she tell me about the supposed rape. But life go move on

nnamx4u:


no be small format bro. I just weak when she tell me about the supposed rape. But life go move on

yeah bro.. Never force a girl for sex ok. Some girls you will meet, they will even be the ones to offer sex, so chill.

Funkyswagzz:


Bro girls are pretenders.. all of them are pretenders. Never ever u trust a lady. Just work with ur head and work with what's best for u first. By the time u see shes seriously in love with u then u can let ur guards down. Don't let these women use u bro d no get joy at all.

Most of them no just get joy. I thought this one will be different because she looks very innocent and very religious. She just deceived my with her looks and pretence.

I feel 4 u bro, Experience is just the best teacher. Try not to love too much and stop being Mr. Nice guy. Even if you love a girl, don't show it. Because a typical Nigerian girl would take u 4 a fool when you display too much affection and care towards her