Witnesstony28:
Guy, you FU big time!

Everything you listed here indicates you na a big time SIMP!

U spent on a girl you've not married! She just played you!

You said you guys were friends before you guys started dating and you were the one that initiated the dating! You were helping her while you guys were friends and you think she will refuse your request. Imagine if you were not helping her. Would she had agreed? Certainly not!

I just feel like knocking you! Maybe you will always remember the knock any other time you see a woman and you decided to play a father role to her.

She refused giving you sex and now has given it to one other guy and is coming up with stupid story!

I don't know if I should say sorry or to slap you!

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henryligit:
You are not new in nairaland
you behav like dis/
A legitimate son of nairaland
can never behav in this way/

I m a virgin
Only my husband can have me
Only when i m marry/an you swallow dis kind of manipulation/
You are new in nairaland/

donbachi:
Pick the broken pieces and give them to another girl to mend..mr loverboy.

DaddyRochie1642:






I saw what you did there

nnamx4u:
I created this account today for this. I am not new to nairaland but because I dont want people who know me that is in nairaland to know it is me.

There is this girl I have dated for 3 years. All these year I have loved and took care of her the much I can because I am still a struggling guy and I will always assist her in anything she is doing to the best that I can.

When we started she was a jambite looking forward to getting admission in one of the universities in nigeria but she wasn't lucky enough to get it at that time. she later got medical lab in a nursing school in another city.

I assisted her the much I could in her first year. She called most of the time. and I gradually fell in love with her. I wanted to have s3x with her but she claimed she was a virgin and want to keep it till marriage so I left her alone.

I have always wanted to be intimate with her because I loved her so much and wanted to be her first. I have tried all the best I can but she kept refusing and I did not want to force her.

So she came last week sunday and I tried to touch her she resisted so I asked her whether she was still a virgin and she said it is a long story. I told her I am not going anywhere she should start talking. she said she was raped. I asked her how? she said someone she taught was her cousin not knowing the guy asked and found out she is not her cousin , she was helping him out in the process the guy raped her.

I was so heart broken. My heart has been telling me she is lying.

She is saying that she just want to us to just be friends now. she does not want to have intimacy with me if I dont want it like that I should leave her alone.

I am just wondering why would she do that to me. I have been so good to her which she confirms all the time.

It is just too painful to watch somebody you care about take you for granted because you are too good. My mind is just messed up right now.

nnamx4u:


Most of them no just get joy. I thought this one will be different because she looks very innocent and very religious. She just deceived my with her looks and pretence.

nnamx4u:
oga no be format. I have just been down since she left on sunday.

nnamx4u:


That is why I did not force her. I dont want to see myself as a rapist. Even though she came to my house a few times. so heart breaking

nnamx4u:
I created this account today for this. I am not new to nairaland but because I dont want people who know me that is in nairaland to know it is me.

There is this girl I have dated for 3 years. All these year I have loved and took care of her the much I can because I am still a struggling guy and I will always assist her in anything she is doing to the best that I can.

When we started she was a jambite looking forward to getting admission in one of the universities in nigeria but she wasn't lucky enough to get it at that time. she later got medical lab in a nursing school in another city.

I assisted her the much I could in her first year. She called most of the time. and I gradually fell in love with her. I wanted to have s3x with her but she claimed she was a virgin and want to keep it till marriage so I left her alone.

I have always wanted to be intimate with her because I loved her so much and wanted to be her first. I have tried all the best I can but she kept refusing and I did not want to force her.

So she came last week sunday and I tried to touch her she resisted so I asked her whether she was still a virgin and she said it is a long story. I told her I am not going anywhere she should start talking. she said she was raped. I asked her how? she said someone she taught was her cousin not knowing the guy asked and found out she is not her cousin , she was helping him out in the process the guy raped her.

I was so heart broken. My heart has been telling me she is lying.

She is saying that she just want to us to just be friends now. she does not want to have intimacy with me if I dont want it like that I should leave her alone.

I am just wondering why would she do that to me. I have been so good to her which she confirms all the time.

It is just too painful to watch somebody you care about take you for granted because you are too good. My mind is just messed up right now.

JustEdward:



My brother no reason am at all. Girls are what they re. If I tell you my own you will know you didn’t do anything . But I know you tried in your own capacity. Don’t love girls 100% just give them 1% of the love and use your 99% to chase money. My ex girlfriend who haven’t spent on me not even on my birthday

I even open a tailoring shop for her and she said am mannerless and I can’t do anything to her. Nwanne pick up and gather yourself together and leave her

czarr:
darius m is cool but he needs ams now to insult him back to reality.

Raptor2cool:
Remember man,
Dont let all these harsh comments fool you.
Yeah most of them are right but don't become something you are not because one wicked girl entered you life.
Don't go and ruin the next innocent girl you will be with.
Remember to play your game smart.
We have all been there at a point and it all got better.
Channel your act of patient to your career, investment and you purpose.

Harrykn:
Guys like you drives me crazy, just keep doing what you are doing and after that, look at the mirror and ask urself "who i'm i?"

Charx122:
One day you would thank her for breaking your ❤️ ....is very clear she lied about the rape...wipe your tears my brother don't cry over spilled milk reach for the Stars, and every other thing will come to you with just a flick of your fingers. Your are a much better person than she is, never give up on your hustle..

Jack005:
Some guys still dey mumu like this? You mean you'vbeen on nairaland all these while and you v not learnt from others experiences? I'm sure you will still go back to her if she comes begging. No need advising this simp.

Mystiquefia:
Fvcking ozo

Acumen01:
One bad uncaring guy (bad guy )just took her virginity chop and clean mouth girls take u for fool when you are too nice (experience ) especially naija girls act opposite and don't give a care about their feelings and they will respect and give u what u want. Stop being Mr nice guy

When u see signal respond immediately and stop been played this girls ain't loyal

At ur prime age and you are struggling to get on ur feet .....u don't need relationship u need self investment not a girlfriend they distract ,rather look for friends with benefits and u will have a sane mind no heartbeat no heart break