ademidedavid:

They are both mature atlease above 30, but she just like flamboyant life style

Nothing is wrong with flamboyant lifestyle.

DrFunmisticGlow:
Nothing is wrong with flamboyant lifestyle.

Accepted nothing is wrong with it but not at the detriment of the husband.....he sabi the guy well a before marrying him so why the sudden rush?

stanliwise:

You have the right to speak but that one doesn’t mean you speak carelessly.
What sought of misyarn is that?
No show of respect for her husband and moreso added salt to injury by digging out an old hatchet.

If the man knows what’s up let him start getting ready to make some hard decisions.

Nonsense and ingredient

Exactly, remimg her husband of who disflowered her......I know men hate to remember such but she told him effortlessly......he shock me oooo

DrFunmisticGlow:
Then it is most likely bedroom you'll be surprised how easy it is to fake an orgasm these days just to make sure it ends quicker.

It seems like the money covered up for inadequacy in the bedroom when things were rosy and now that that padding is gone, she is beginning to question the point of the whole arrangement.

Getting back on his feet is not enough. Is he going to be better than before?

Fake organism to end bedroom pleasure? This one shock me
Even if he builds heaven for her, she might request for God or angels soon.......any man who runs a race to satisfy a woman's want will still loose her at the end.

ademidedavid:

Exactly, remimg her husband of who disflowered her......I know men hate to remember such but she told him effortlessly......he shock me oooo

People could show disrespect based on many factor. Maybe she knows something about the man that no one knows.
Or the man don’t understand how value system works so he tolerates shit

ademidedavid:

Accepted nothing is wrong with it but not at the detriment of the husband.....he sabi the guy well a before marrying him so why the sudden rush?

it is most likely frustration on her part. Two of them need to sit and communicate.



If this continues to fester, she'll lose whatever os left of the respect she has for him

DrFunmisticGlow:
it is most likely frustration on her part. Two of them need to sit and communicate.



If this continues to fester, she'll lose whatever os left of the respect she has for him

Thanks so much, I will advice him to do this.....gratitude

stanliwise:
People could show disrespect based on many factor. Maybe she knows something about the man that no one knows.
Or the man don’t understand how value system works so he tolerates shit

Probably, because I know he might not want to disclose everything to me

Na wa o. I advise men to be like me. Every weekend I have a new babe in my crib, marshing her potato anyhow while she cooks for me .Monday I don discharge....I don't care if I even die doing this cos I know I will die knowing I lived a better life than all my married neighbours. Shior

Come to think of it
If God didn't create women this world will be very sweet to live in

ademidedavid:

Probably, because I know he might not want to disclose everything to me

If I am in this man shoe currently, I would become more vigilant to understand what the whole context of her ex and past is all about and what does it mean now, this way you know how to act. Because if this is surprising to him then it means he hasn’t understand his wife well enough, he hasn’t dig deep into the mind and perception of his wife. Is she just communicating a background message? Is something cooking somewhere he don’t know? Is the wife trying to test him of what he can do by throwing the bait for him to bite?

I actually don’t understand how people are partners and they can’t smell and perceive slight signals even after living for so many year. Infact It is one skill everyone should learn.

she wants to go join her ex nau
is it so hard for u to figure this out?

stanliwise:
If I am in this man shoe currently, I would become more vigilant to understand what the whole context of her ex and past is all about and what does it mean now, this way you know how to act. Because if this is surprising to him then it means he hasn’t understand his wife well enough, he hasn’t dig deep into the mind and perception of his wife. Is she just communicating a background message? Is something cooking somewhere he don’t know? Is the wife trying to test him of what he can do by throwing the bait for him to bite?

I actually don’t understand how people are partners and they can’t smell and perceive slight signals even after living for so many year. Infact It is one skill everyone should learn.

the ex is overseas according to op
nigeria"s economy is currently biting so the obvious intent is to dump her husband and go join her ex
its not a new thing
even married women with kids her dumped their husbands and kids in the past for an ex
the more compansionate ones would send for their kids when they have settled well with the ex if the ex is understanding but if not they will just dump the kids with the husband.Its like she never liked her husband and just married him maybe cos there was no one to marry.when a woman marries or date u just because u the only one avalaible for her then she treats such a man like crap.

BornSnner9:
E done be

She's a gold digger.. seeing that the ex is abroad she's now of the notion that all is Rosy for him and she wants to get back to him and use that opportunity to travel out..

I said it before and I will say it again.. "I smell a lot of failed marriages in the future because of this Ex epics"

and the ex will be a very big fool if he accepts her back.women like dat when they start sending u messages and texts u just block them sharply.She wants to use the ex to step up

DrFunmisticGlow:
Why do I get the feeling that the husband is not measuring up financially or sexually or both and the wife is beginning to think she made the wrong choice?

No woman will compare her husband to her ex if her husband is better than her ex.

Just saying

even if the husband is wealthy as tinubu but the ex is as wealthy as bill gates or a saudi oil tycoon and based overseas..as long as her eye dey tear she go still dump d man .anyway the man is at fault cos he didnt take his time to study the type of woman he wants to marry.When a person is too obessed with materialism and money that should be a red flag cos no matter what do he or she wont be satisfied.The ex wey she wan plan meet dat one wen he comes for Xmas he will just spill some yarn about carrying her with him overseas in order to get in between her legs and wen im don chop im share na to dump and go back after the new year.na so such stories dey mostly end.if she is smart she ough to try and build together with her husband instead of eyeing ex wey dey yankee or jardon

lefulefu:
even if the husband is wealthy as tinubu but the ex is as wealthy as bill gates or a saudi oil tycoon and based overseas..as long as her eye dey tear she go still dump d man .anyway the man is at fault cos he didnt take his time to study the type of woman he wants to marry.When a person is too obessed with materialism and money that should be a red flag cos no matter what do he or she wont be satisfied.The ex wey she wan plan meet dat one wen he comes for Xmas he will just spill some yarn about carrying her with him overseas in order to get in between her legs and wen im don chop im share na to dump and go back after the new year.na so such stories dey mostly end.if she is smart she ough to try and build together with her husband instead of eyeing ex wey dey yankee or jardon

This sounds so bitter and defeated.

It is well

lefulefu:
the ex is overseas according to op
nigeria"s economy is currently biting so the obvious intent is to dump her husband and go join her ex
its not a new thing
even married women with kids her dumped their husbands and kids in the past for an ex
the more compansionate ones would send for their kids when they have settled well with the ex if the ex is understanding but if not they will just dump the kids with the husband.Its like she never liked her husband and just married him maybe cos there was no one to marry.when a woman marries or date u just because u the only one avalaible for her then she treats such a man like crap.

Yeah you have a point.
But some people can sha want to be treated like crap, I can’t fathom how I sit and watch a lady spill those rubbish.
I will either just stand up and leave. Or I will add more pepper in the discussion to make her angry so that she will vomit all she has inside her stomach. Atleast this one na my speciality.
Some people get mind sha

stanliwise:

Yeah you have a point.
But some people can sha want to be treated like crap, I can’t fathom how I sit and watch a lady spill those rubbish.
I will either just stand up and leave. Or I will add more pepper in the discussion to make her angry so that she will vomit all she has inside her stomach. Atleast this one na my speciality.
Some people get mind sha

the man probably saw the sign when he was dating her.u know some men are weaklings and cos of their desperation they dont mind when treated with contempt by their partner.A partner flaunting his or her ex at ur face does not respect u .Anyway its for men who cant crap and swallow it with pride.Maybe he was the one that begged her to marry him and she did it out of pity or out of frustration cos the ones she fancied didnt take an interest in her.

lefulefu:
the man probably saw the sign when he was dating her.u know some men are weaklings and cos of their desperation they dont mind when treated with contempt by their partner.A partner flaunting his or her ex at ur face does not respect u .Anyway its for men who cant crap and swallow it with pride.Maybe he was the one that begged her to marry him and she did it out of pity or out of frustration cos the ones she fancied didnt take an interest in her.

ozo comes to mind

stanliwise:
ozo comes to mind

who is this ozo u guys are talking about
saw a thread about ozo just now

lefulefu:
who is this ozo u guys are talking about
saw a thread about ozo just now

he is one of the BBN housemate. He lost his respect to everyone as he let his ego trampled on the floor by someone who actually is not in anyway close to him when it comes to physical attractiveness and charm.
He has good quality except that he don’t understand what boundary and self respect mean especially for someone he thinks he loves.
It was a disaster. He looked like what we did while in junior secondary school. So childish and irritating. Yuck
A grown man who lack social awareness and value.

stanliwise:
he is one of the BBN housemate. He lost his respect to everyone as he let his ego trampled on the floor by someone who actually is not in anyway close to him when it comes to physical attractiveness and charm.
He has good quality expect that he don’t understand what boundary and self respect mean especially for someone he thinks he loves.
It was a disaster. He looked like what we did while in junior secondary school. So childish and irritating. Yuck
A grown man who lack social awareness and value.

oooh he"s one of the BBN contestant...i see
what u clear described is a man who is a wimp

lefulefu:
oooh he"s one of the BBN contestant...i see
what u clear described is a man who is a wimp

Although most guys are laughing at him. I see it as just a way to catch cruise. Some said he is a Beta male.
But he is lacking in on aspect of his life which is social awareness. While he is doing good in other aspect.
Many laughing at him at not anywhere close to him in other area.
Especially the useless cult called Redpill.

They are ready to laugh at someone who is a loser to women than to laugh at someone who has poor career choice.

ademidedavid:

She might delete after each conversation but once he sees traces, I know he will definitely do so

I want to ask you —

[quote author=Ikea81 post=94133717]Na wa o. I advise men to be like me. Every weekend I have a new babe in my crib, marshing her potato anyhow while she cooks for me .Monday I don discharge....
Better life while causing pain to your fellow men?
O wrong now guy

OPAA6:
Come to think of it
If God didn't create women this world will be very sweet to live in

You reason am too abi? But on the aecon thought, it might also be hell boring

lefulefu:
she wants to go join her ex nau
is it so hard for u to figure this out?

Ooohhh that's true ooooo, thank you for the insight

lefulefu:
even if the husband is wealthy as tinubu but the ex is as wealthy as bill gates or a saudi oil tycoon and based overseas..as long as her eye dey tear she go still dump d man .anyway the man is at fault cos he didnt take his time to study the type of woman he wants to marry.When a person is too obessed with materialism and money that should be a red flag cos no matter what do he or she wont be satisfied.The ex wey she wan plan meet dat one wen he comes for Xmas he will just spill some yarn about carrying her with him overseas in order to get in between her legs and wen im don chop im share na to dump and go back after the new year.na so such stories dey mostly end.if she is smart she ough to try and build together with her husband instead of eyeing ex wey dey yankee or jardon

Exactly, thanks

ademidedavid:

You reason am too abi? But on the aecon thought, it might also be hell boring

Might be stressful
But boring NO
The first man didn't find it boring
And there was no record in the Bible that he complained to God about it
So probably maybe God created Eve cause he feel like to create a woman
And she didn't do anything Adam gave all the animals their name and some other work in the garden
All Eve could do is wander off to collect some shitty apple from one shitty snake to eat despite the whole lot of apple in the garden .
If God didn't create them they won't be suffering, pain ,agony,poverty and so on
Maybe only animals will living in this earth
Who knows

lefulefu:
and the ex will be a very big fool if he accepts her back.women like dat when they start sending u messages and texts u just block them sharply.She wants to use the ex to step up

Exactly..

BornSnner9:
Exactly..