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I'm In Dilemma: Mom's Business Or Fiance Family? by WaterPurifier: 12:14pm On Sep 21, 2020 |
I need advise cos I'm just so confuse right now My fiancee want me to come and see her family cos of pressure. She's been on my neck since last 2 months. That's not even the problem. The problem is the funds I intend to use to go see my bae parents(travels expense , gift buying and Co.) is from my budgeted salary this month end. I've started setting a new biz for mum since last month, and intend to complete the business with my salary this month. Bae has been giving me attitude unlike before untill I come. To her it's as if I'm only playing her heart. But deep down in me I love her. I'm very confuse right now... Should I choose to set up my mom business or postpone? Pls advice ![]() ![]() |
Re: I'm In Dilemma: Mom's Business Or Fiance Family? by dawnomike(m): 12:21pm On Sep 21, 2020 |
See Bae's family next month... |
Re: I'm In Dilemma: Mom's Business Or Fiance Family? by Nobody: 12:21pm On Sep 21, 2020 |
mom first.. fiance family no go run.. you can always visit them.. Just explain to bae 3 Likes |
Re: I'm In Dilemma: Mom's Business Or Fiance Family? by Nobody: 12:21pm On Sep 21, 2020 |
mom first.. fiance family no go run.. you can always visit them.. Just explain to bae 1 Like |
Re: I'm In Dilemma: Mom's Business Or Fiance Family? by WaterPurifier: 12:23pm On Sep 21, 2020 |
BornSnner9: My brother thank you. At times one's head will be full. To be a man no be beans 1 Like |
Re: I'm In Dilemma: Mom's Business Or Fiance Family? by Nobody: 12:24pm On Sep 21, 2020 |
Attend to your mom first,then your fiancee later,why is she so desperate?are you very rich? 2 Likes |
Re: I'm In Dilemma: Mom's Business Or Fiance Family? by Oche211(m): 12:24pm On Sep 21, 2020 |
Settle your mom's business first |
Re: I'm In Dilemma: Mom's Business Or Fiance Family? by Nobody: 12:27pm On Sep 21, 2020 |
Are you very rich?? someone is asking (Na them) run oh 2 Likes |
Re: I'm In Dilemma: Mom's Business Or Fiance Family? by WaterPurifier: 12:27pm On Sep 21, 2020 |
Zzor: Thsnks, I'm just a normal average guy |
Re: I'm In Dilemma: Mom's Business Or Fiance Family? by Nobody: 12:31pm On Sep 21, 2020 |
WaterPurifier:ok just make sure you hustle more so that you will be very rich. 1 Like |
Re: I'm In Dilemma: Mom's Business Or Fiance Family? by Liposure: 12:40pm On Sep 21, 2020 |
Settle mom. Marriage can wait. First come, first served 1 Like |
Re: I'm In Dilemma: Mom's Business Or Fiance Family? by MJluv(f): 12:42pm On Sep 21, 2020 |
This thing called love is a balancing act between commitment with your spouse and devotion to your family. I dare to say that one of the hallmarks of a matured man is his knowing how to juggle the ball skillfully. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I'm In Dilemma: Mom's Business Or Fiance Family? by Nobody: 12:55pm On Sep 21, 2020 |
Are you going to marry your mum at the end. Since you are setting a business for your mum nothing stops you from visiting, it is not like your mum wont need your finances again even after visiting. There is something i dont understand about African parents, your job is to progress in life not to be sponsoring them with finances, they need to be able to also set up themselves also, which one is depending on a son to setup things, that is how families get broke 2 Likes |
Re: I'm In Dilemma: Mom's Business Or Fiance Family? by soundlala: 12:59pm On Sep 21, 2020 |
WaterPurifier:ur mum |
Re: I'm In Dilemma: Mom's Business Or Fiance Family? by soundlala: 1:01pm On Sep 21, 2020 |
thebosstrevor1:shey after visiting gf she wont need money again shey |
Re: I'm In Dilemma: Mom's Business Or Fiance Family? by soundlala: 1:04pm On Sep 21, 2020 |
thebosstrevor1:thats what parents are about, they train the children so the kids will take care of them. dont know where u getting ur logic from |
Re: I'm In Dilemma: Mom's Business Or Fiance Family? by soundlala: 1:08pm On Sep 21, 2020 |
thebosstrevor1:okay |
Re: I'm In Dilemma: Mom's Business Or Fiance Family? by Stephandesward: 1:16pm On Sep 21, 2020 |
WaterPurifier: The truth is that for your girlfriend, to be too desperate, it's most likely she's seeing someone else or strong considering someone else, and feels if you see her family she would be mentally stronger to resist the other guy( mind you this mindset wouldn't work), I will advise you sort your mom first, especially if she has the potential to manage a business, after that, select a definitive date with your fiancee to go see her family. I will advise you to observe your fiancee, there's more to the picture, how is someone your fiancee and you haven't met her family, I don't know why you took that risk. |
Re: I'm In Dilemma: Mom's Business Or Fiance Family? by soundlala: 1:33pm On Sep 21, 2020 |
thebosstrevor1:k |
Re: I'm In Dilemma: Mom's Business Or Fiance Family? by Nobody: 1:40pm On Sep 21, 2020 |
Ia |
Re: I'm In Dilemma: Mom's Business Or Fiance Family? by akaahs(m): 1:46pm On Sep 21, 2020 |
WaterPurifier:To me ooo, secure what needs to be secured. It doesn't mean u re putting her ahead of mum. My two cents. |
Re: I'm In Dilemma: Mom's Business Or Fiance Family? by WaterPurifier: 1:48pm On Sep 21, 2020 |
rexcharlie: Yes, I have side hustles sustaining me aside salary, just that salary comes in bulk you know one can plan with it 1 Like |
Re: I'm In Dilemma: Mom's Business Or Fiance Family? by akaahs(m): 1:50pm On Sep 21, 2020 |
thebosstrevor1:U re very wise and 21 first century dude, tomorrow Na the same mama go dey mount pressure she want see her grandchildren before she dies. |
Re: I'm In Dilemma: Mom's Business Or Fiance Family? by WaterPurifier: 1:50pm On Sep 21, 2020 |
akaahs:Exactly my bae really love me but me sef don too play her head. I love her and she does too. Her type is rare to find these days. Mum isn't going no where, I need to plan n start my own family. |
Re: I'm In Dilemma: Mom's Business Or Fiance Family? by WaterPurifier: 1:52pm On Sep 21, 2020 |
akaahs: Thanks for this |
Re: I'm In Dilemma: Mom's Business Or Fiance Family? by WaterPurifier: 1:52pm On Sep 21, 2020 |
akaahs:I tire for Naija parents. I'm feeling the pressure already 1 Like |
Re: I'm In Dilemma: Mom's Business Or Fiance Family? by WaterPurifier: 1:53pm On Sep 21, 2020 |
rexcharlie: Na real close eyes oo, else you'll keep spending for families. It never ends |
Re: I'm In Dilemma: Mom's Business Or Fiance Family? by realtalk19: 1:55pm On Sep 21, 2020 |
WaterPurifier: Pls settle mumsie first before bae. God bless u |
Re: I'm In Dilemma: Mom's Business Or Fiance Family? by WaterPurifier: 1:57pm On Sep 21, 2020 |
Stephandesward: She's not desperate, she's very patient. Na me dey control things as I like. But he don too much ![]() |
Re: I'm In Dilemma: Mom's Business Or Fiance Family? by akaahs(m): 2:00pm On Sep 21, 2020 |
WaterPurifier:Nice one, u have my blessings. |
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