PTSD

Sad to hear

How he come buy a used phone

Anyway his fellow soldiers blackmailed him

Must every news climb social media This is arrant nonsense, this guy took his life because people uploaded a false accusations on him that he finds it very difficult to defend himself to his family and his so called Boss.

Nigerians learn how to mind your business sometimes pls.

Not everything climbs social media page

mtcheww... so na why you go con kill yourself, this is Nigeria, people will eventually forget or he could ask for redeployment or something but then again I understand how that affected his psych... RIP soldier

Oh no, I wish he realized what ever he was going through would surely pass, too soft to b a soldier.
Too bad

Roon9:
Since when do words of mouth starts causing more damage than guns and bombs

What a softie.

some words hurts more than being stabbed with a knife especially false accusations. mostly when it's coming from people close to you....

ThetrueWord:
Hum! God have mercy.

How do you know souls are being tormented in hell?

Have you been there before?

A soldier committed suicide because of false accusation. I guess the story in incomplete.

Oppression and suppression..... Not everyone can cope with it.

I hope the senior officer is very happy now.

Some tori here chai

Fvck mehnnnnnnnn

Soldiers are humans too

But a clear conscience fears no accusation mehnnnnnnnn

NELLY1990:
Must every news climb social media This is arrant nonsense, this guy took his life because people uploaded a false accusations on him that he finds it very difficult to defend himself to his family and his so called Boss.

Nigerians learn how to mind your business sometimes pls.

Not everything climbs social media page

everything is now on SM, who ever recorded it and posted it on SM is evil, as if it's not enough to be disgraced publicly within them there

CelestineNelson:
Depression... Hmmm I lost a friend last week ...a 400L Computer Science Student, University of Ilorin. She committed suicide because of this same depression.Very painful still recovering from the shock.

SAY NO TO DEPRESSION
THERE IS A WAY OUT OF THAT CONDITION, IF ONLY YOU CAN TALK TO SOMEONE

RIP OWOLOWO MARIAM MOTUNRAYO
COMPUTER SCIENCE, 400L UNIVERSITY OF ILORIN.

Please if you are currently experiencing any of these. Symptoms
Let me, or a doctor or someone else know...before it leads to suicide

��Feelings of sadness, emptiness or unhappiness

��Angry outbursts, irritability or frustration, even over small matters

��Loss of interest or pleasure in normal activities, such as sex
��Sleep disturbances, including insomnia or sleeping too much

��Tiredness and lack of energy, so that even small tasks take extra effort

��Changes in appetite — often reduced appetite and weight loss, but increased cravings for food and weight gain in some people

��Anxiety, agitation or restlessness — for example, excessive worrying, pacing, hand-wringing or an inability to sit still

��Slowed thinking, speaking or body movements

��Feelings of worthlessness or guilt, fixating on failures or blaming yourself for things that are not your responsibility

��Trouble thinking, concentrating, making decisions and remembering things

��Frequent thoughts of death, suicidal thoughts, suicide attempts or suicide

��Unexplained physical problems, such as back pain or headaches

WE DON'T WANT TO LOSE ANOTHER MARIAM
REST ON OWOLOWO MARIAM MOTUNRAYO ���

Please try to talk to someone that can be of help Suicide is not an option.

We must not lose you.
Share with others

Good

he should have known better.
warning to buyers of used phone.
RIP to him.

Too bad

Rest in peace brave soldier.

Mayneeeee shitttt happens!!!
The Nigerian army been sinking its own like quick sand lately. First was the soldier that rebuked Buratai and his bandwagon and now this like its crazy cause av seen it with my own eyes I lived in the barracks I played with soldiers and I was friends to some Good Generals(Brig Gen Adenuga)Brig Gen Soyela and Brig Gen Qadar But now....there was really a country''.shit happens

92.8% of second hand phones are stolen, don't buy them

CelestineNelson:
Depression... Hmmm I lost a friend last week ...a 400L Computer Science Student, University of Ilorin. She committed suicide because of this same depression.Very painful still recovering from the shock.

SAY NO TO DEPRESSION
THERE IS A WAY OUT OF THAT CONDITION, IF ONLY YOU CAN TALK TO SOMEONE

RIP OWOLOWO MARIAM MOTUNRAYO
COMPUTER SCIENCE, 400L UNIVERSITY OF ILORIN.

Please if you are currently experiencing any of these. Symptoms
Let me, or a doctor or someone else know...before it leads to suicide

��Feelings of sadness, emptiness or unhappiness

��Angry outbursts, irritability or frustration, even over small matters

��Loss of interest or pleasure in normal activities, such as sex
��Sleep disturbances, including insomnia or sleeping too much

��Tiredness and lack of energy, so that even small tasks take extra effort

��Changes in appetite — often reduced appetite and weight loss, but increased cravings for food and weight gain in some people

��Anxiety, agitation or restlessness — for example, excessive worrying, pacing, hand-wringing or an inability to sit still

��Slowed thinking, speaking or body movements

��Feelings of worthlessness or guilt, fixating on failures or blaming yourself for things that are not your responsibility

��Trouble thinking, concentrating, making decisions and remembering things

��Frequent thoughts of death, suicidal thoughts, suicide attempts or suicide

��Unexplained physical problems, such as back pain or headaches

WE DON'T WANT TO LOSE ANOTHER MARIAM
REST ON OWOLOWO MARIAM MOTUNRAYO ���

Please try to talk to someone that can be of help Suicide is not an option.

We must not lose you.
Share with others

What a computer final year student commit suicide? Man that’s BS, I know no excuse is tenable but somehow i still understand philosophy, agric, education student, sociology etc that have no future in naija only if they go into entrepreneurship but a computer guru?. No She fvckup big time

Don't ever buy a second hand phone
E get why

These Nigerian fighters in the war fronts really need more attention than they get. I dont know if it will make any sense to many, but these people deal with deaths every day. Ordinary coro talk, all of una wey naija soldiers dey call "bloody civilians" lock una door front, from una neighbours and even family, yet these soldiers were still doing their jobs, regardlessof coro or anything. You can lock your doors from family members for coro, yet many of these soldiers were hoping for time to see their own families.

Though the uniform give some of them unnecessary prowess, many events these soldiers have seen, dont make many of them see much difference from a walking human than a dead one. Just like some surgeons will look at a posing dead model, with all the Brazilian hair, Italian nails, Russian tattoos, scanty outfits, social media follower counts etc and simply compare them to lifeless cadavers they cut apart in their labs to study their organs. LIke butchers do to animals meant for retail. Cadaver is just an ordinary dead body and it applies to all of us. Your armored car and escorts won't stop you from being a cadaver when its time for autopsy, so why too stress or show off like what applies to everyone already forgot about you?

Sane countries have programs in place for these soldiers that have been through these terrible experiences. Many of them return to the society with diagnosis like PTSD, which many rich nations struggle to treat for their war heroes.. Yet we have soldiers in Nigeria complaining about their welfare, unpaid salaries, over-controlling superior officers and outdated firearms and ammunition to fight more sophisticated bandits with. Common na, Lets sometimes put ourselves in other people's situations.

Im not a soldier, but i can put myself in their shoes like everyone reading this can. Its not easy for a soldier that has seen his friends killed in warfronts to easily fit in the society, let alone deal with random accusations that they need to first bounce back to the civilian mode to even comprehend.

E get one mumu wey dey always patrol this yonder dey correct every human being english. Make him touch my own make thunder fire all 10 both of him finger. Na person wey get finger fit type, ba? Whether I borrow dictionary or finger from him hand. I don spoke.

Let us investigate because the rate of suicide in the army in recent times is becoming frequent.



And our soldiers no be that kind......


It might require improving their conditions too

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Kemimarch16:
Suicide is not the solution

hello I have a message for you

CelestineNelson:
Depression... Hmmm I lost a friend last week ...a 400L Computer Science Student, University of Ilorin. She committed suicide because of this same depression.Very painful still recovering from the shock.

SAY NO TO DEPRESSION
THERE IS A WAY OUT OF THAT CONDITION, IF ONLY YOU CAN TALK TO SOMEONE

RIP OWOLOWO MARIAM MOTUNRAYO
COMPUTER SCIENCE, 400L UNIVERSITY OF ILORIN.

Please if you are currently experiencing any of these. Symptoms
Let me, or a doctor or someone else know...before it leads to suicide

��Feelings of sadness, emptiness or unhappiness

��Angry outbursts, irritability or frustration, even over small matters

��Loss of interest or pleasure in normal activities, such as sex
��Sleep disturbances, including insomnia or sleeping too much

��Tiredness and lack of energy, so that even small tasks take extra effort

��Changes in appetite — often reduced appetite and weight loss, but increased cravings for food and weight gain in some people

��Anxiety, agitation or restlessness — for example, excessive worrying, pacing, hand-wringing or an inability to sit still

��Slowed thinking, speaking or body movements

��Feelings of worthlessness or guilt, fixating on failures or blaming yourself for things that are not your responsibility

��Trouble thinking, concentrating, making decisions and remembering things

��Frequent thoughts of death, suicidal thoughts, suicide attempts or suicide

��Unexplained physical problems, such as back pain or headaches

WE DON'T WANT TO LOSE ANOTHER MARIAM
REST ON OWOLOWO MARIAM MOTUNRAYO ���

Please try to talk to someone that can be of help Suicide is not an option.

We must not lose you.
Share with others

We don't do depression here in Africa. People just overthink things like your friend.

Doesn't add up

longetivity:
dem don kill another southerner

Ah swear was it not last week we heard one solider case it's not even up to a week here's is another one again
Am really fed up of this country honestly
Have been following a country's update for the past 8 months and you'll find it very difficult to believe me that I haven't heard any bad news from them before ..

The superior officer should have taken him to kangaroo court to be tried instead, he went too far in taking his own life.

Most people have committed outrageous acts and still lived on.


Civilians have been punished by the military on so many accounts.


I think he was emotionally weak, he couldn't handle it.

Tajbol4splend:
Soldier bought a used phone, thought these guys were paid

₦50000

They should have investigated the matter first before punishing him.. instead of investigating after death.. what a loss.

CelestineNelson:
Depression... Hmmm I lost a friend last week ...a 400L Computer Science Student, University of Ilorin. She committed suicide because of this same depression.Very painful still recovering from the shock.

SAY NO TO DEPRESSION
THERE IS A WAY OUT OF THAT CONDITION, IF ONLY YOU CAN TALK TO SOMEONE

RIP OWOLOWO MARIAM MOTUNRAYO
COMPUTER SCIENCE, 400L UNIVERSITY OF ILORIN.

Please if you are currently experiencing any of these. Symptoms
Let me, or a doctor or someone else know...before it leads to suicide

��Feelings of sadness, emptiness or unhappiness

��Angry outbursts, irritability or frustration, even over small matters


��Loss of interest or pleasure in normal activities, such as sex
��Sleep disturbances, including insomnia or sleeping too much

��Tiredness and lack of energy, so that even small tasks take extra effort

��Changes in appetite — often reduced appetite and weight loss, but increased cravings for food and weight gain in some people

��Anxiety, agitation or restlessness — for example, excessive worrying, pacing, hand-wringing or an inability to sit still

��Slowed thinking, speaking or body movements

��Feelings of worthlessness or guilt, fixating on failures or blaming yourself for things that are not your responsibility

��Trouble thinking, concentrating, making decisions and remembering things

��Frequent thoughts of death, suicidal thoughts, suicide attempts or suicide

��Unexplained physical problems, such as back pain or headaches

WE DON'T WANT TO LOSE ANOTHER MARIAM
REST ON OWOLOWO MARIAM MOTUNRAYO ���

Please try to talk to someone that can be of help Suicide is not an option.

We must not lose you.
Share with others

It's really not easy at all... RIP to your friend


Talking to someone hardly solves the problem, because no one cares...

They just want to hear the ordeal... depressed people hardly gets solution when they open up, because only few good ones care..or are willing to help

I pray God help us