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Re: Nigerian Men Talk About Vasectomies by Pfola: 6:15am On Sep 23, 2020
mariahAngel:


As a Christian, do you agree with the procedure?

Please, don't give me your favourite "where is it written in the bible?" line... God cannot be mocked or fooled.
Jesus even said bfr u put a building down put a plan towards it, and parents too are forever indebted to their children. So if a family decides to control child birth in obedience to Govt authority which the Bible supports are dey doing wrong as against abortion which the Bible condemns. Well Christian's are supposed to be civil and not mediocre.

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Re: Nigerian Men Talk About Vasectomies by Nobody: 6:18am On Sep 23, 2020
dingbang:
your problem...

You can say that again.
Re: Nigerian Men Talk About Vasectomies by Facidio: 6:20am On Sep 23, 2020
What happened to condom abi not pouring inside.?abi them talk say married people no dey use co dom?
Re: Nigerian Men Talk About Vasectomies by mmyfarmsltd(m): 6:20am On Sep 23, 2020
BigCabal:
A vasectomy is a permanent contraceptive method where a male’s vas deferens is cut and tied or sealed to prevent sperm from getting to the urethra, to stop the man from ejaculating and fertilizing the female’s egg. Whew, that’s a lot of grammar. In simpler English, the tube that carries sperm from the testicles is tied up or sealed in order to prevent the sperm from reaching the penis. This procedure is mostly permanent although it may be reversed in some cases.

Men are increasingly considering vasectomies as a contraceptive method. For the most part, they do it to take the burden off their female partners who have historically been expected to use birth control methods that give them nasty side effects and some times, permanent damage. Vasectomies are generally safe and not as painful as most people think it is. I talked to 5 Nigerian men about vasectomies. They had some pretty interesting answers.

Paul, 38
I decided to get a vasectomy because we were done havings kids and no longer wanted to worry about falling pregnant. It’s less invasive for a guy to get a vasectomy than for a woman to undergo tubal ligation (tying up the fallopian tubes). It’s also way cheaper and requires much shorter recovery time. It’s not even comparable.

I had it done three years ago at my doctor’s office. It was a keyhole surgery (a minimally invasive surgery that’s carried out through a small incision in the skin) with local anaesthesia. I was chatting with the doctor the whole time while he had my balls in his hands. The procedure took all of 30 minutes. I had it done on a Friday and only took Monday off work (because its a desk job). I was cleared to return to the gym after a week.

I don’t regret it at all because it was an informed decision. Also, my wife put her body through the trials of pregnancy and childbirth. Getting a vasectomy done is such a small hit to take for the team. It’s even a bonus because you can have sexy time without condoms or fear of getting pregnant.

When people hear that I underwent the procedure, they’re generally chill about it. Except Nigerian men. They act like they’ve seen a ghost or I called their mother a witch. I can see them fighting the urge to grab their balls to ensure it’s still there. There’s no regret for me. I have two kids. I don lock shop. My team has retired my jersey. Full MVP status.

Hamza, 31
I’ve setup a vasectomy appointment for November. I don’t have any children and I’m perfectly fine with the prospect of never having one. My girlfriend is completely fine with it although I dare not tell my mother.

Ejiro, 47
I got a vasectomy six years ago. The birth of my third child was a shock to my wife and me, so we immediately decided that I would undergo a vasectomy. It wasn’t a big deal; I’m a doctor and I knew exactly what to expect. I was told it would be potentially painful but it really wasn’t. I was prescribed painkillers and I stopped taking them about ten days after the procedure.

I had it done here in the UK so it was pretty straightforward and, more importantly, free. Asides my wife, not even my close friends and family know that I underwent the procedure. Even if they did, they wouldn’t be surprised I had it done.

Now that I’ve had it done, I’ve got complete sexual freedom. I’m not bothered about whether my wife remembers to take her pills. I’m happy knowing that I’ve completed my family size. It is something I should have taken responsibility for and done a long time ago.

Sam, 32
I’m yet to get a vasectomy but my wife and I are in agreement on this, and I’ve spoken with a urologist. I’ve decided to get this done in November (that’s when our baby will be born) because my wife and I got married knowing that we’re both AS. You might think it’s a big risk but we both knew what we were getting into. Before we got married, we both wanted a child.

When she got pregnant, we took a test to confirm the genotype of the baby, and if she turned out to be SS, we would have aborted immediately. Luckily, she’s AS.

I’m a health worker, so I have experienced firsthand what women go through with birth control and family planning. I’ve seen how it messes them up in different ways like weight gain and constant bleeding. I’ve decided to take that pain off my wife and get a vasectomy done.

Ayo, 34
I’ve decided to get one. I’m married and I have 2 boys that mean the world to me. People ask if I don’t want to try again for a girl and I wonder if they will help me cater for that extra mouth in this Nigerian economy.

Source: https://www.zikoko.com/man/5-nigerian-men-talk-about-vasectomies/

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These guys aren't Nigerians.
Re: Nigerian Men Talk About Vasectomies by HotPoundedYam(m): 6:23am On Sep 23, 2020
YourCoffin:
Good luck to those who want to mutilate their Gbola. I cherish mine the way it is. Besides, a new study has also revealed that vasectomy increases the risk of prostate cancer in men.

Since black men are more prone to prostate cancer than other races, I don't think any black man should be considering vasectomy. The white men that always find ways to kill themselves can have it.
I find it hard to believe anyone would trust those nonsense website
Re: Nigerian Men Talk About Vasectomies by armyofone(m): 6:24am On Sep 23, 2020
Just a little clipping o shocked carry baby for nine months and let it pass the tiny hole then come talk undecided grin

crackhaus:
Mehn fück this shit, no scalpel or surgical knife is going anywhere near my balls.

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Re: Nigerian Men Talk About Vasectomies by Farki: 6:29am On Sep 23, 2020
WaterTheMonk:
Denying yourself further procreation because you want to please another gender. 21st century joke

What a silly thing to say, the men themselves do not want children anymore, if they had more who would take care of them?

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Re: Nigerian Men Talk About Vasectomies by ImpregnaTor(m): 6:30am On Sep 23, 2020
so the person will not cum during sex?
Alpha males in the house, is it right for a man to do this?
Re: Nigerian Men Talk About Vasectomies by Farki: 6:32am On Sep 23, 2020
mariahAngel:


God's plan for man is procreation.
Whatever is contrary to God's plan is rebellion against God and vasectomy is against procreation. Therefore, it is a sin before God.

By that logic people who refuse to get married and have children are in rebellion. All those priests and nuns are in rebellion, even Jesus himself was rebelling. Seems more likely that this silly idea was propagated by churches who want to increase their membership.

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Re: Nigerian Men Talk About Vasectomies by Vilgax: 6:35am On Sep 23, 2020
ImpregnaTor:
so the person will not cum during sex?
Alpha males in the house, is it right for a man to do this?
ejaculation is still possible after a vasectomy.
you'll just be firing blanks. smiley

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Re: Nigerian Men Talk About Vasectomies by Vilgax: 6:37am On Sep 23, 2020
dingbang:
Hamza, 31
I’ve setup a vasectomy appointment for November. I don’t have any children and I’m perfectly fine with the prospect of never having one. My girlfriend is completely fine with it although I dare not tell my mother.





This hamza is an idiotttttt

lol, believe or not; some individuals have no interest whatsoever in having offsprings.

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Re: Nigerian Men Talk About Vasectomies by BalogunIdowu(m): 6:42am On Sep 23, 2020
The interview is unidirectional,
You interviewed those that have either done or about to do it. It wasn't a random thing, making them all give some viewed perspective
Re: Nigerian Men Talk About Vasectomies by ImpregnaTor(m): 6:43am On Sep 23, 2020
Vilgax:


ejaculation is still possible after a vasectomy.

you'll just be firing blanks. smiley
with my little research I have understood more about the vasectomy but I will still not do it because of the unpredictability of the future.
Re: Nigerian Men Talk About Vasectomies by Mayflowa(m): 6:47am On Sep 23, 2020
Biglittlelois:
This men cannot be in Nigeria naaa, suggesting it to a man here is like putting a gun to their head for a kill shot.

But the last guy, Ayo, lives in Nigeria

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Re: Nigerian Men Talk About Vasectomies by Btruth: 6:52am On Sep 23, 2020
This is what KSA & Wasiu Ayinde Marshal (K1) should have done long time ago.

Re: Nigerian Men Talk About Vasectomies by angelfallz(m): 6:53am On Sep 23, 2020
YourCoffin:
Good luck to those who want to mutilate their Gbola. I cherish mine the way it is. Besides, a new study has also revealed that vasectomy increases the risk of prostate cancer in men.

Since black men are more prone to prostate cancer than other races, I don't think any black man should be considering vasectomy. The white men that always find ways to kill themselves can have it.

The white men that always find ways to kill themselves can have it.
ROFL. grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Nigerian Men Talk About Vasectomies by BigBizzy(m): 6:53am On Sep 23, 2020
I ain't doing this shit...

Nah people, not me
Re: Nigerian Men Talk About Vasectomies by DaddyGngeess(m): 6:56am On Sep 23, 2020
Local man no understand oo so mean these guys can't cum?
Re: Nigerian Men Talk About Vasectomies by Fejimummy: 7:02am On Sep 23, 2020
Kaydeexotic:



I understand you jare...but I feel the closest instance she should have used to buttress her point was when God killed Onan for spilling his seed on the floor.. at the same time I will believe he was killed cos he was specifically instructed to put his sister-in-law in the family way but he refused by spilling his seed.....
he was selfish because any child that comes out from that sexual intercourse would have all the inheritance of the brother and that was what he wanted to avoid because he was the next in line after his brother .

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Re: Nigerian Men Talk About Vasectomies by durasome(m): 7:02am On Sep 23, 2020
BigCabal:
A vasectomy is a permanent contraceptive method where a male’s vas deferens is cut and tied or sealed to prevent sperm from getting to the urethra, to stop the man from ejaculating and fertilizing the female’s egg. Whew, that’s a lot of grammar. In simpler English, the tube that carries sperm from the testicles is tied up or sealed in order to prevent the sperm from reaching the penis. This procedure is mostly permanent although it may be reversed in some cases.

Men are increasingly considering vasectomies as a contraceptive method. For the most part, they do it to take the burden off their female partners who have historically been expected to use birth control methods that give them nasty side effects and some times, permanent damage. Vasectomies are generally safe and not as painful as most people think it is. I talked to 5 Nigerian men about vasectomies. They had some pretty interesting answers.

Paul, 38
I decided to get a vasectomy because we were done havings kids and no longer wanted to worry about falling pregnant. It’s less invasive for a guy to get a vasectomy than for a woman to undergo tubal ligation (tying up the fallopian tubes). It’s also way cheaper and requires much shorter recovery time. It’s not even comparable.

I had it done three years ago at my doctor’s office. It was a keyhole surgery (a minimally invasive surgery that’s carried out through a small incision in the skin) with local anaesthesia. I was chatting with the doctor the whole time while he had my balls in his hands. The procedure took all of 30 minutes. I had it done on a Friday and only took Monday off work (because its a desk job). I was cleared to return to the gym after a week.

I don’t regret it at all because it was an informed decision. Also, my wife put her body through the trials of pregnancy and childbirth. Getting a vasectomy done is such a small hit to take for the team. It’s even a bonus because you can have sexy time without condoms or fear of getting pregnant.

When people hear that I underwent the procedure, they’re generally chill about it. Except Nigerian men. They act like they’ve seen a ghost or I called their mother a witch. I can see them fighting the urge to grab their balls to ensure it’s still there. There’s no regret for me. I have two kids. I don lock shop. My team has retired my jersey. Full MVP status.

Hamza, 31
I’ve setup a vasectomy appointment for November. I don’t have any children and I’m perfectly fine with the prospect of never having one. My girlfriend is completely fine with it although I dare not tell my mother.

Ejiro, 47
I got a vasectomy six years ago. The birth of my third child was a shock to my wife and me, so we immediately decided that I would undergo a vasectomy. It wasn’t a big deal; I’m a doctor and I knew exactly what to expect. I was told it would be potentially painful but it really wasn’t. I was prescribed painkillers and I stopped taking them about ten days after the procedure.

I had it done here in the UK so it was pretty straightforward and, more importantly, free. Asides my wife, not even my close friends and family know that I underwent the procedure. Even if they did, they wouldn’t be surprised I had it done.

Now that I’ve had it done, I’ve got complete sexual freedom. I’m not bothered about whether my wife remembers to take her pills. I’m happy knowing that I’ve completed my family size. It is something I should have taken responsibility for and done a long time ago.

Sam, 32
I’m yet to get a vasectomy but my wife and I are in agreement on this, and I’ve spoken with a urologist. I’ve decided to get this done in November (that’s when our baby will be born) because my wife and I got married knowing that we’re both AS. You might think it’s a big risk but we both knew what we were getting into. Before we got married, we both wanted a child.

When she got pregnant, we took a test to confirm the genotype of the baby, and if she turned out to be SS, we would have aborted immediately. Luckily, she’s AS.

I’m a health worker, so I have experienced firsthand what women go through with birth control and family planning. I’ve seen how it messes them up in different ways like weight gain and constant bleeding. I’ve decided to take that pain off my wife and get a vasectomy done.

Ayo, 34
I’ve decided to get one. I’m married and I have 2 boys that mean the world to me. People ask if I don’t want to try again for a girl and I wonder if they will help me cater for that extra mouth in this Nigerian economy.

Source: https://www.zikoko.com/man/5-nigerian-men-talk-about-vasectomies/
.please how is the formed sperm expel from the body because to me,excess accumulation of it in the body makes me asexually unrest.
Re: Nigerian Men Talk About Vasectomies by Vilgax: 7:05am On Sep 23, 2020
ImpregnaTor:
I can't do this, is not natural and against nature...

what's the point of having sex without seein those cum gushing out of your penis . nonsense and vesectomy

i'm not entirely sure you understand how a vasectomy works grin

a vasectomy allows for the release of semen (the gooey white stuff sperm cells are carried in) without releasing sperm cells.

you should really familiarize yourself with the whole concept of vasectomies and you'll see they aren't so bad.

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Re: Nigerian Men Talk About Vasectomies by mattmogan88: 7:05am On Sep 23, 2020
SHAKING MY HEAD
Re: Nigerian Men Talk About Vasectomies by Ernestforyou: 7:07am On Sep 23, 2020
They are all posses and dont know the implication of the rubbish they have done to themselves.Abeg carry this yeye topic comot for here
Re: Nigerian Men Talk About Vasectomies by Vilgax: 7:08am On Sep 23, 2020
durasome:
.please how is the formed sperm expel from the body because to me,excess accumulation of it in the body makes me asexually unrest.

sperm and seminal fluid are two different things.

after a vasectomy, seminal fluid can still be released naturally during sexual activities.

after a vasectomy, sperm (the cells responsible for fertilising the eggs) cannot mix with the seminal fluid. they are absorbed by the body after a while and therefore cannot accumulate.

hope this helps.
smiley

*modified*

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Re: Nigerian Men Talk About Vasectomies by Ovo04(m): 7:12am On Sep 23, 2020
mariahAngel:


As a Christian, do you agree with the procedure?

Please, don't give me your favourite "where is it written in the bible?" line... God cannot be mocked or fooled.

Religion is the biggest problem in Nigeria.
Maybe na Nigeria them born Jesus Christ sef.

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Re: Nigerian Men Talk About Vasectomies by ABANGWABOI(m): 7:13am On Sep 23, 2020
#ILMOVON cry cry
#Attitude
#Bliv

I would never be stupid to do so..
Even Sanusi Lamido Sanusi, El Rufai or BuBu never do am..
Nonsense..
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Re: Nigerian Men Talk About Vasectomies by bukatyne(f): 7:15am On Sep 23, 2020
okeyben10:
angry
Imagine having a vasectomy after 4 kids.

Ten years later you discover non of d kids are yours cheesy

Lol.
When it comes to birth control, i hate anything permanent. I hate vasectomy same way i hate hysterectomy.

Leave d balls and the womb where God put am

@mariangeles, you must b a strong catholic. Those your views are really strong.

It was also God's plan for man to have dominion over animals and fish of the sea. But if a lion were to run loose in d city, na we go still run. The intended natural order of things has already been altered

What about doing DNA on the kid's before VC?

Like you, I am not a fan of anything permanent.

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Re: Nigerian Men Talk About Vasectomies by bukatyne(f): 7:19am On Sep 23, 2020
dingbang:
Hamza, 31
I’ve setup a vasectomy appointment for November. I don’t have any children and I’m perfectly fine with the prospect of never having one. My girlfriend is completely fine with it although I dare not tell my mother.





This hamza is an idiotttttt

With a capital I.

He is a waste to his family!
Re: Nigerian Men Talk About Vasectomies by durasome(m): 7:19am On Sep 23, 2020
Vilgax:


sperm and semen are two different things.

after a vasectomy, semen can still be released naturally during sexual activities.

after a vasectomy, sperm (the cells responsible for fertilising the eggs) cannot mix with the semen. they are absorbed by the body after a while and therefore cannot accumulate.

hope this helps.
smiley
.but before this time I was meant to understand that the semen is a combination of the sperm and the other fluids lubricant,is pre ejeculate, and all are being form in the testicle and the vas deference is just a passage way.
Re: Nigerian Men Talk About Vasectomies by Nobody: 7:20am On Sep 23, 2020
Even after old age and death, my manhood will continue to live on. I ain't doing shit to it, not after having kids not ever.

Family planning kee una dia. angry

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