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Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by Chino4NAUTH: 9:17pm On Sep 23, 2020 |
I have been hearing about women who married their husbands and the man happens to be staying in overseas or moves to overseas thereafter for economic reasons to Carter for the welfare of his family.. Why it is good and fine economically it has left a deficient emotional vacuum for the wife and children esp if it's a young family. I have a woman in our building whose husband stays abroad but she's always looking forward to talking with me and even trying to make me her confidant but I know the risk associated and had to find my away not to get more closer to her.she has only 2 kids fresh and cute.. Mind you she's still very much pretty and young.. I never knew she was married till I saw her fine kids Share your experience with us 149 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by Sisijetue(f): 9:31pm On Sep 23, 2020 |
*Deficient emotional vacuum* no dey feed mouth 217 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:42pm On Sep 23, 2020 |
Chino4NAUTH: If you don't mount her, someone in the area eventually will. Body no be firewood. Only a foolish man would go at the other side of the world for years and expect his wife to patiently wait. What kind of evil man would even expect that of a wife? 361 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by Chino4NAUTH: 9:48pm On Sep 23, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1:I won't mount her bro.. Let another man do... Seriously I wonder as well why men do such, living this fine young woman without any touch of a man for years. 848 Likes 44 Shares |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by Chino4NAUTH: 9:49pm On Sep 23, 2020 |
Sisijetue:Well we can't have everything in life.. Whatever rock their boats,.. Feed the mouth and leave the vaginaa hungry 163 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:57pm On Sep 23, 2020 |
Chino4NAUTH: Because they value MONEY above everything... So they have no problem abandoning their family to go chase some whatever, far away from their family. I fully understand why such desperate woman fall prey to men. 78 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by Nobody: 10:10pm On Sep 23, 2020 |
Chino4NAUTH:probably the man might have married over there as well.Wen u see a guy overseas who is married and he"s not concerned about bringing his wife over then know for sure he has a woman there ![]() 277 Likes 16 Shares |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by Samakus(m): 10:19pm On Sep 23, 2020 |
I have one that is my neighbour currently. Moved into my apartment in January this year and my next flat neighbour is a pretty young woman with very young female twins. They were about 9 months old when I moved in. God knows I love pretty children. These kids have not seen their father before. There's no amount of temptation I have not faced from this woman. But i have always had a principle of not touching another man's wife. Her twin kids thinks I'm their father cos I buy them things almost on a daily basis while returning from work. Sometimes I pity the young pretty woman. It's not easy for her but I can't help. Anytime she sees a lady visit me, if you see her face eh lolz. But, it is what it is 832 Likes 57 Shares |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:22pm On Sep 23, 2020 |
lefulefu: Exactly...many are in such situation because they CANT bring wifey over til they have they permanent residency and divorce their oyingbo. Wifey. 60 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by eejo(m): 10:32pm On Sep 23, 2020 |
I left my Wife in Nigeria early this year for overseas after getting the job of my dream. My Organization is ready to move my family anytime am ready. People are leaving Nigeria because of the Economic situation and the way APC is managing the country. Don't blame the Men but the country. 585 Likes 42 Shares |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by Nobody: 10:55pm On Sep 23, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1:most times if u having ambition to migrate its better not to get married when u want to married.Marriage can be like a burden when u travelling out.No peace of mind and u will be worrying weda ur wife is cheating on u.If the main reason for travelling is to study u wont be able to concentrate when in class ![]() 210 Likes 14 Shares |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by virginprincess(f): 10:55pm On Sep 23, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1:I have been noticing how you give bad advice on this forum,why you advice him to sleep with someone else wife, very bad. For those of you quoting me that i misunderstood what mrbrownjay1 said, i don't blame you guys, you all are birds of the same feathers, my point is that he shouldn't have giving the op such delivish advice in the first place. 654 Likes 42 Shares |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by Nobody: 11:02pm On Sep 23, 2020 |
eejo: Please which country? 3 Likes |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:05pm On Sep 23, 2020 |
virginprincess: That's because you failed to understand what I wrote... If wifey is already h0rny and willing to offer the toto, then we have to be honest about the situation, instead of pretending that she won't give up the toto to the 1st available Mandingo warrior. If you believe that this is a bad advice, then so be it. lefulefu: How can a man start a family then abandon the poor wife back home? I understand why many are losing their minds. 77 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by virginprincess(f): 11:28pm On Sep 23, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1:Well i have nothing to say to you, because the op has giving you the best reply himself, nigeria men & their stupid mentality. 171 Likes 16 Shares |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by ednut1(m): 11:31pm On Sep 23, 2020 |
Chino4NAUTH:my uncle went to the uk in 1987. His wife joined him in 1999 after he divorced his arrangee wife. He came home every 3 years and hit the jackpot 3 times. Today all the kids are doing well abroad. He is enjoying his retirement there too. Money is very important in this life. No point staying in 9ja suffering with ur wife. She may still cheat on you. 470 Likes 39 Shares |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:34pm On Sep 23, 2020 |
virginprincess: As much as the OP won't do, he was honest to say that some other man will, because as the saying goes: "body no be firewood" 46 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by Nobody: 11:34pm On Sep 23, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1: It is very easy to judge other people's actions and come up with your own conclusions. Advising your fellow man to go and fcvk another man's wife is not good. 335 Likes 21 Shares |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:40pm On Sep 23, 2020 |
PUNAengineOIL: I wouldn't expect any less from a man... Thus I would certainly understand if this woman does the same. All you hypocrites would see nothing wrong with her husband going abroad to marry and/or fukc some woman for green card but then would look down on the wife doing the same thing. Who are we kidding here? Now, remember, I am not saying that cheating on your spouse is right, I am just saying that I understand why such lady would lose her damn mind after being "sexually miserable" for so long. 152 Likes 14 Shares |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by virginprincess(f): 11:43pm On Sep 23, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1:Yes some other men like you will, because am sure if you are given the chance you will. 29 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:48pm On Sep 23, 2020 |
virginprincess: Again, her being married or not is irrelevant to the point at hand... If this woman wants to fukc, and made up her mind she wants some young Mandingo bull to fukc her, then SHE WILL BE FUKCED!! especially in Nigeria. 67 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by virginprincess(f): 11:56pm On Sep 23, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1:We are saying the samething, men like you are always avaliabe to do it. 203 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by adg98(f): 11:57pm On Sep 23, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1: You are so on point I wonder why a man will live is wife home while working abroad. Long distance marriage is a NO for me Men in long distance marriage can cheat just for sex but for women it goes beyond that. Women loves affections and once they start getting emotionally attach to a man, they won't only give the kpekus they are likely to give their heart too 103 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by cooooooks(m): 11:57pm On Sep 23, 2020 |
While body no be firewood, some couples find ways of going through such a predicament. Omo video call gang. Some even allow themselves 'freebies'. I have also heard of people appropriating friends for their spouses 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:08am On Sep 24, 2020 |
virginprincess: Lol, if I meet the babe for road and she invites me for some "fun time", would it be written on her forehead that she is married? Or better yet, as the dude is about to mount her, do you think he will ask:" are you married, because if you are I no wan do again?!" adg98: That's the African men misplaced ego's double standard hypocrisy... A man can fukc around all he wants (even while living with wifey) but if wifey dares to look at another man (let alone fukc him), that's an abomination. Lol! 75 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by austine4real(m): 12:09am On Sep 24, 2020 |
They will surely cheats but it will be coded 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by Nobody: 12:10am On Sep 24, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1:see as you rush conclude and generalize. 5 Likes |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:11am On Sep 24, 2020 |
BKsoul: Why would a man move abroad and abandon his wife back home, if not for money?! Pls oga, do enlighten us on the issue... 31 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by Nobody: 12:16am On Sep 24, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1:abeg am a female ooooh. See ehn in this life, whatever you do not the story please dont conclude or generalize, if the man stays back here without any tangible thing to do while he has an opportunity of travelling to make the money, na human being go still insult am say because of yansh, he no wan make am.. 196 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by Liposure: 12:19am On Sep 24, 2020 |
I respect women in this kind of situation. Cos its not easy to stay alone without a husband to kiss and cuddle you. An undisciplined wife will cheat when she's tired 36 Likes 6 Shares |
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