Good day guys.
I'm 22 years old, i'm tall and good looking. I have a strong Christian background and it has hindered my rapport with the opposite sex. Ladies have asked me out a few times in the past, but I declined, stating I was not ready to be in a relationship.

There is this girl in my office where I work that was all over me, she's 18 years old and yet to be admitted into the university. To be honest, I liked her, but I suppressed my feelings for her. I occasionally tell her that she's more like a younger sister to me. We got close and I became fond of her, she confided in me with all her secrets and tell me about guys toasting her. I started entertaining thoughts of asking her out, until one day, she was going through my phone and saw a picture my friend who is short, dark and handsome, she asked for his number and requested I sent him her pictures, they exchanged numbers and started chatting. He comes to visit her in the office at times and me being a nice guy usually give them some space to interact. I started losing interest in her as a result, but she kept assuring me that she takes him just as a friend. She later asked me out on WhatsApp, but I declined, owing to the fact that she still retains close friendship with my friend. After that, She started getting more closer to my friend, changed her phone's password cos she told me the previous one. She started making flirty calls and calling other guys and my guy honey, baby, I love you in my presence. She started ignoring my chats and calls. Each time my friend comes visiting, she laughs as loud as possible when they are discussing. Our vibes died off, but I'm the one suffering it as I frequently get jealous and heartbroken each time I see her making calls and communicating with guys on longer hours, especially with my friend.
I have tried to patch things up with her, but she keeps getting me jealous and hurt. This said girl is very beautiful, a virgin who has been in only one relationship and a devoted Christian. I have tried to forget her and move on, but I just can't. I keep feeling depressed and hurt whenever I see her and my friend online simultaneously. Please how can I move on? Do I still stand a chance with her? was I wrong to turn her down? Please I need your advice.

Na confusion go kill you there

She gave you chance and you threw it away.


She even asked your slow ass out! Damn nigga..


You slow!

dingbang:
She gave you chance and you threw it away.


She even asked your slow ass out! Damn nigga..


You slow!

my decision was influenced by her initial action of collecting my friend's number who she hadn't seen before in real life, i was pained. But i'm now left with feeling of regret...

Oga go and sleep...

Cus what you're looking for, won't happen again...
LISTEN GIRL'S HATE NICE GUY'S...

Re you a Jehovah witness member

MajesticKris:
Oga go and sleep...

Cus what you're looking for, won't happen again...
LISTEN GIRL'S HATE NICE GUY'S...

so love is now beyond nice guys??

fuckingAyaya:
Re you a Jehovah witness member

nope, why do you ask?

You are highly confused and need to answer this simple question: DO YOU WANT THE BABE?!?!

The lady is already hot with your buddy anyway, so let go of her.

Why are u stressing Urself??
She gave u a chance and u said no, I get why u said no sha, u were trying to be a nice, courteous guy.
Now 1st things first, nothing u ever do with that girl will work cos she's still a kid (upstairs sha), work romance is bad, she never get admission and u re naive in girls matters. Just Dey repeat these things to Urself, and move on.


Orrrrr...
U can play the game, she's playing. Find another cute hot girl, preferably outside ur work place and chyke her, just Dey chat with am, follow her talk and if she can, let her visit u at ur work place. You'd be surprised as to how much you'll turn the table.

Buh Las Las, all ds games are for kids. Guy, leave dt girl and find another one.also,wts all ds virgin talk?? Have u tried to go down there and it was sealed?? If not, keep shut bout bout d virgin talk. Them no Dey trust girls abeg

MrBrownJay1:
You are highly confused and need to answer this simple question: DO YOU WANT THE BABE?!?!

I do, but I have the feeling that I've lost my chance...

You didn't play smart when given the chance..you don't know girl's...

anonymous7433:

so love is now beyond nice guys??

anonymous7433:

nope, why do you ask?

you act and sound like one

anonymous7433:
I do, but I have the feeling that I've lost my chance...

Of course you lost your chance and need to step back and let your buddy sample her 1st.... It's obvious this babe is just playing games, looking for the attention you guys throw at her.....and wants everyone as her "friend" and nothing serious.

fayded:
Why are u stressing Urself??
She gave u a chance and u said no, I get why u said no sha, u were trying to be a nice, courteous guy.
Now 1st things first, nothing u ever do with that girl will work cos she's still a kid (upstairs sha), work romance is bad, she never get admission and u re naive in girls matters. Just Dey repeat these things to Urself, and move on.


Orrrrr...
U can play the game, she's playing. Find another cute hot girl, preferably outside ur work place and chyke her, just Dey chat with am, follow her talk and if she can, let her visit u at ur work place. You'd be surprised as to how much you'll turn the table.

Buh Las Las, all ds games are for kids. Guy, leave dt girl and find another one.also,wts all ds virgin talk?? Have u tried to go down there and it was sealed?? If not, keep shut bout bout d virgin talk. Them no Dey trust girls abeg

I guess I will have to play a matured guy, look for another girl and move on with my life. thanks for your advice.

MrBrownJay1:


Of course you lost your chance and need to step back and let your buddy sample her 1st.... It's obvious this babe is just playing games, looking for the attention you guys throw at her.....and wants everyone as her "friend" and nothing serious.

you have a point sir, Thanks for the advice.

MajesticKris:
You didn't play smart when given the chance..you don't know girl's...

I guess so, I really do appreciate your input..

There are other ladies outside...don't kill yourself over a lady

:so hate is now beyond fun fellas??

Kobicove:
There are other ladies outside...don't kill yourself over a lady

noted sir, thanks...

anonymous7433:
Good day guys.
I'm 22 years old, i'm tall and good looking. I have a strong Christian background and it has hindered my rapport with the opposite sex. Ladies have asked me out a few times in the past, but I declined, stating I was not ready to be in a relationship.

There is this girl in my office where I work that was all over me, she's 18 years old and yet to be admitted into the university. To be honest, I liked her, but I suppressed my feelings for her. I occasionally tell her that she's more like a younger sister to me. We got close and I became fond of her, she confided in me with all her secrets and tell me about guys toasting her. I started entertaining thoughts of asking her out, until one day, she was going through my phone and saw a picture my friend who is short, dark and handsome, she asked for his number and requested I sent him her pictures, they exchanged numbers and started chatting. He comes to visit her in the office at times and me being a nice guy usually give them some space to interact. I started losing interest in her as a result, but she kept assuring me that she takes him just as a friend. She later asked me out on WhatsApp, but I declined, owing to the fact that she still retains close friendship with my friend. After that, She started getting more closer to my friend, changed her phone's password cos she told me the previous one. She started making flirty calls and calling other guys and my guy honey, baby, I love you in my presence. She started ignoring my chats and calls. Each time my friend comes visiting, she laughs as loud as possible when they are discussing. Our vibes died off, but I'm the one suffering it as I frequently get jealous and heartbroken each time I see her making calls and communicating with guys on longer hours, especially with my friend.
I have tried to patch things up with her, but she keeps getting me jealous and hurt. This said girl is very beautiful, a virgin who has been in only one relationship and a devoted Christian. I have tried to forget her and move on, but I just can't. I keep feeling depressed and hurt whenever I see her and my friend online simultaneously. Please how can I move on? Do I still stand a chance with her? was I wrong to turn her down? Please I need your advice.

I get pissed off when i read this kinda thing.
Bro what is actually the problem.
Girl likes you but you are rejecting her then you are still complaining. Bro stop this your childish behavior and man up or i bet you that you will be age 30 and will open a thread here complaining that you have not yet dated any girl in your life.

anonymous7433:
Good day guys.
I'm 22 years old, i'm tall and good looking. I have a strong Christian background and it has hindered my rapport with the opposite sex. Ladies have asked me out a few times in the past, but I declined, stating I was not ready to be in a relationship.

There is this girl in my office where I work that was all over me, she's 18 years old and yet to be admitted into the university. To be honest, I liked her, but I suppressed my feelings for her. I occasionally tell her that she's more like a younger sister to me. We got close and I became fond of her, she confided in me with all her secrets and tell me about guys toasting her. I started entertaining thoughts of asking her out, until one day, she was going through my phone and saw a picture my friend who is short, dark and handsome, she asked for his number and requested I sent him her pictures, they exchanged numbers and started chatting. He comes to visit her in the office at times and me being a nice guy usually give them some space to interact. I started losing interest in her as a result, but she kept assuring me that she takes him just as a friend. She later asked me out on WhatsApp, but I declined, owing to the fact that she still retains close friendship with my friend. After that, She started getting more closer to my friend, changed her phone's password cos she told me the previous one. She started making flirty calls and calling other guys and my guy honey, baby, I love you in my presence. She started ignoring my chats and calls. Each time my friend comes visiting, she laughs as loud as possible when they are discussing. Our vibes died off, but I'm the one suffering it as I frequently get jealous and heartbroken each time I see her making calls and communicating with guys on longer hours, especially with my friend.
I have tried to patch things up with her, but she keeps getting me jealous and hurt. This said girl is very beautiful, a virgin who has been in only one relationship and a devoted Christian. I have tried to forget her and move on, but I just can't. I keep feeling depressed and hurt whenever I see her and my friend online simultaneously. Please how can I move on? Do I still stand a chance with her? was I wrong to turn her down? Please I need your advice.

Awwww. You are such a nice guy.

That's why you'll always finish last

Dpsychologist:

I get pissed off when i read this kinda thing.
Bro what is actually the problem.
Girl likes you but you are rejecting her then you are still complaining. Bro stop this your childish behavior and man up or i bet you that you will be age 30 and will open a thread here complaining that you have not yet dated any girl in your life.

it's not like that sir, I was ready to give in but didn't because I also had my friend's interest at heart. If she truly loved me, why did she choose to hook up with my friend in the first place

hahn:


Awwww. You are such a nice guy.

That's why you'll always finish last

Baba na how God take create me oh!! i'm really trying to become less of a nice guy..

"YOU COULD NOT LIVE WITH YOUR OWN FAILURE, AND WHERE DID THAT BRING YOU? BACK TO HER."

anonymous7433:

Baba na how God take create me oh!! i'm really trying to become less of a nice guy..

You just have a wrong idea towards women.

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hahn:


You just have a wrong idea towards women.

Visit this thread https://www.nairaland.com/6096237/redpill-constitution-bitter-truths/

thanks for your contribution sir..

anonymous7433:

thanks for your contribution sir..

You are welcome

anonymous7433:

it's not like that sir, I was ready to give in but didn't because I also had my friend's interest at heart. If she truly loved me, why did she choose to hook up with my friend in the first place

Were You not thesame person that says a quite number of ladies ask you out but you Refused?

It is a woman who choose you not the other way round. If a woman sees something she likes about you, she will try to make move on you. Next time when you sense a woman is genuinely interested, you are allowed to do small shakara but stop wasting the opportunity, grab it.

Why are you crying over spilt milk. You had the chance yet you blew it away. Though quite understandable. You better move on. Your continued sadness will not change anything

Dpsychologist:

Were You not thesame person that says a quite number of ladies ask you out but you Refused?

It is a woman who choose you not the other way round. If a woman sees something she likes about you, she will try to make move on you. Next time when you sense a woman is genuinely interested, you are allowed to do small shakara but stop wasting the opportunity, grab it.

Ok sir, I guess I've learnt my lesson, though in a hard, but at least I have gained some insights. Thanks for your input.