anonymous7433:
Good day guys.
I'm 22 years old, i'm tall and good looking. I have a strong Christian background and it has hindered my rapport with the opposite sex. Ladies have asked me out a few times in the past, but I declined, stating I was not ready to be in a relationship.

There is this girl in my office where I work that was all over me, she's 18 years old and yet to be admitted into the university. To be honest, I liked her, but I suppressed my feelings for her. I occasionally tell her that she's more like a younger sister to me. We got close and I became fond of her, she confided in me with all her secrets and tell me about guys toasting her. I started entertaining thoughts of asking her out, until one day, she was going through my phone and saw a picture my friend who is short, dark and handsome, she asked for his number and requested I sent him her pictures, they exchanged numbers and started chatting. He comes to visit her in the office at times and me being a nice guy usually give them some space to interact. I started losing interest in her as a result, but she kept assuring me that she takes him just as a friend. She later asked me out on WhatsApp, but I declined, owing to the fact that she still retains close friendship with my friend. After that, She started getting more closer to my friend, changed her phone's password cos she told me the previous one. She started making flirty calls and calling other guys and my guy honey, baby, I love you in my presence. She started ignoring my chats and calls. Each time my friend comes visiting, she laughs as loud as possible when they are discussing. Our vibes died off, but I'm the one suffering it as I frequently get jealous and heartbroken each time I see her making calls and communicating with guys on longer hours, especially with my friend.
I have tried to patch things up with her, but she keeps getting me jealous and hurt. This said girl is very beautiful, a virgin who has been in only one relationship and a devoted Christian. I have tried to forget her and move on, but I just can't. I keep feeling depressed and hurt whenever I see her and my friend online simultaneously. Please how can I move on? Do I still stand a chance with her? was I wrong to turn her down? Please I need your advice.

Lol

My guy, see, there are more important things in life than a piece of ass. You're just 22, you want to add woman palaver to your life?

She is intentionally doing somethings to make you jealous, just ignore the girl and face being a better man. She's 18, which sense dey her head?

Work towards being a better man and forget the trivialities of an immature girl.

CosmicPhoenix:

you better count your losses and move on,you rejected her then you messed up when you tried to patch things up.delete her number from your phone,stop every form of communication with her and for your sanity please stay away from her because she will do everything to pepper you,girls dont give a fvck about your feelings.

thanks for your input sir.

Liposure:
Why are you crying over spilt milk. You had the chance yet you blew it away. Though quite understandable. You better move on. Your continued sadness will not change anything

thanks for your advice sir

horpeyemmi66:

Lol

My guy, see, there are more important things in life than a piece of ass. You're just 22, you want to add woman palaver to your life?

She is intentionally doing somethings to make you jealous, just ignore the girl and face being a better man. She's 18, which sense dey her head?

Work towards being a better man and forget the trivialities of an immature girl.

strongs words.... i really do appreciate your input sir.

Go to her parents n pay her dowry stop disturbing us when u had loose ur chance bill

First of all, you, an office guy at 22, you need to focus on more productive things.
Secondly, at your age, your worst experience in relationship matter's will be dating an inexperienced 18 year old girl (in the same office), especially after an unpleasant break up. Keep your head up, you will have ladies beg for your attention when you are made (maybe at 25/28yrs).
Believe me, i'm a good relationship counselor/motivational speaker.

Apostle Paul Eshiet
08142304453

Moreover, being heart broken, is just a state of mind. Face your career, there's a season and time for everything under the sun.
Apostle Paul Eshiet 08142304453

apstpaulg:
Moreover, being heart broken, is just a state of mind.
Face your career, there's a season and time for everything under the sun.

Apostle Paul Eshiet
08142304453

Thanks a bunch sir, I will definitely reach out to you via your contact.