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Challenges Of Getting Married To A Strict Christian by tobechi74: 5:40am On Sep 27, 2020 |
They can be boring. No room for fun Always serious face. Hardly play with family They do not know how to handle women . Most strict pastors spent their youthful days avoiding dating and friendships with ladies in general so as not to commit adultery. They are fault finders . They go about looking for offence. Every thing is a sin. They are not romantic They grew up avoiding ladies. They are not used to giving hugs and kisses. They only know one position. Anal sex is a sin. Only accepts style is missionary. The mouth is for praising God name and not oral. They can be routinal .. They have a structured life style. Easily predictable. Wife feel bored. Lack of emotional intimacy. Wife is emotionally starved. His priorities are in the things of the lord. Time for heart to heart discussion and he is quoting 101 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: Challenges Of Getting Married To A Strict Christian by SweetBrownBuns: 6:02am On Sep 27, 2020 |
All lies. You have it in the reverse. Pastors are the reverse of everything you mentioned here 100%. 225 Likes 18 Shares |
Re: Challenges Of Getting Married To A Strict Christian by Mood11: 6:10am On Sep 27, 2020 |
"Pastorship" has become a mere tittle so I don't doubt what you just posted The ones who are the anointed know the right things and do it and that includes loving their woman amd family right... No be Pastor Wilson video leak that time dey lick pvvvssyyy 66 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Challenges Of Getting Married To A Strict Christian by Joshmodest(m): 6:28am On Sep 27, 2020 |
I would have said you were lying if not that we had one like that in my former compound .... This man has literally become a burden to his wife and 3 sons... He doesn't work as a full time minister , his wife does all the work and if she complains a little he'll tell her she's not the only one ...she pays the kids school fees one of them is in the higher institution , she takes care of their clothing , every expenses , even food the day Mr pastor go drop 500 the whole compound would know .... His kids must not sing any genre music except "Gospel" , if they do na curse , they must not have girlfriends a child of 19, they can't even watch film in peace , they barb stylish cut problem, even football watching na yawa , keeping friends is an issue except na deacon son or Sunday school teacher son , he even said they must marry from that his church or he'll reject the wife ...so bad that the senior son once told him that hope he remembers it was him God called ?..he doesn't gist with the kids and blames the mother for doing so instead of reading bible ....one time dey once he sees then laughing , he'll bring bible and hold prayer.... Ladies stay away from strict pastors ,.they'll ruin your life and your kids life with their sententious mindset !!! 145 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Challenges Of Getting Married To A Strict Christian by jeyselassie(m): 6:34am On Sep 27, 2020 |
SweetBrownBuns:I swear I was just about to say this 26 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Challenges Of Getting Married To A Strict Christian by jeyselassie(m): 6:35am On Sep 27, 2020 |
tobechi74:I don't think you know what you're saying. Do you know how many women pastors ard giving it to on the low? Pastors and doctors are thd most vulnerable professions to women. 20 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Challenges Of Getting Married To A Strict Christian by donbachi(m): 6:50am On Sep 27, 2020 |
See dis one...e go shock u.pastors are the most romantic.some of dem na tiger ontop bed. 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Challenges Of Getting Married To A Strict Christian by thesicilian: 6:55am On Sep 27, 2020 |
Every pastor is supposed to be a ''strict pastor'' and every christian a ''strict christian''. 35 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Challenges Of Getting Married To A Strict Christian by Nobody: 7:10am On Sep 27, 2020 |
The only person who should complain most is the marital partner. Some pastors or pastresses are very strict, sanctimonious and pious in the public space due to conduct policies but might be more jovial, romantic and fondler in the closet, which we don't have much access to it.. So, the score sheet and mic is with their partners. 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Challenges Of Getting Married To A Strict Christian by jmoore(m): 7:22am On Sep 27, 2020 |
Anal sex is a gateway to homosexuality. Stop using your wife to fulfill your homosexual fantasies. 153 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: Challenges Of Getting Married To A Strict Christian by Gabe427: 7:27am On Sep 27, 2020 |
Mehn to me pastors are not that strict neither do they not slack na Pastor pikin they chop life pass I can't say much for the marital aspect but most pastors I know have more than 3 children that says a lot ... Even if it all pretence and suffering they are doing a better job than those who do anal and oral since those are your basis finally pastors aren't that strict you want to know strict meet a deacon mehn those sets are just ...... 4 Likes |
Re: Challenges Of Getting Married To A Strict Christian by ifejobi84754: 7:34am On Sep 27, 2020 |
"Pastorship" has become a Ordinary tattle so I don't doubt what you just posted The those who are the anointed know the everything stuff and do it and that includes loving their person amd relatives everything... 1 Like |
Re: Challenges Of Getting Married To A Strict Christian by Nobody: 7:37am On Sep 27, 2020 |
Dont generalize 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Challenges Of Getting Married To A Strict Christian by AntiChristian: 7:52am On Sep 27, 2020 |
Pastors are human. Humans are not the same everywhere. 4 Likes |
Re: Challenges Of Getting Married To A Strict Christian by tobechi74: 9:33am On Sep 27, 2020 |
SweetBrownBuns:. STRICT Christians ONLY. Those ones in churches that do not permit hugging of any kind. I no one call the church name. For more posts by OP, you may visit https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/19/challenges-of-marrying-a-strict-born-again-christian/ 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Challenges Of Getting Married To A Strict Christian by tobechi74: 9:35am On Sep 27, 2020 |
donbachi: Try deeper life pastor not Christ embassy 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Challenges Of Getting Married To A Strict Christian by Missyajoke(f): 9:54am On Sep 27, 2020 |
All these the OP said is nonsense and not true. A true man of God will take of his family and satisfies the wife. Remember before he was called he his a man. 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Challenges Of Getting Married To A Strict Christian by apstpaulg(m): 9:59am On Sep 27, 2020 |
I don't think all these attributes listed in your post's attributes to a pentecostal pastor. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Challenges Of Getting Married To A Strict Christian by tobechi74: 1:40pm On Sep 27, 2020 |
Sodiquinone:thanks.some pastor then 1 Like |
Re: Challenges Of Getting Married To A Strict Christian by Kobojunkie: 10:13pm On Oct 02, 2020 |
tobechi74:Strict Pastors? tobechi74:Strict Pastors? tobechi74:As far as husbands who fall under this bracket is concerned, does it really matter whether they are pastors or not? As far as Jesus Christ is concerned, there is no such thing as a "Strict" pastor. So your claim that these men are somehow to be seen in a different light for their choices as regards the belief is ludicrous. These are simple men who have sought to live a controlled existence in many of several ways, even after marriage 9 Likes |
Re: Challenges Of Getting Married To A Strict Christian by Kobojunkie: 10:17pm On Oct 02, 2020 |
Joshmodest:Wetin be "strict pastor" about even this one? Joshmodest:What you describe is a lazy man with control issues. 7 Likes |
Re: Challenges Of Getting Married To A Strict Christian by tobechi74: 4:31am On Oct 04, 2020 |
thesicilian:Jesus was not always strict. He had sence of humor 1 Like |
Re: Challenges Of Getting Married To A Strict Christian by dingbang(m): 5:33am On Oct 04, 2020 |
tobechi74:what about getting married to a strict female christian 5 Likes |
Re: Challenges Of Getting Married To A Strict Christian by tobechi74: 6:12am On Oct 04, 2020 |
dingbang:similar. But Bible instructs total obedience of man from woman she is most likely to change if man tell him |
Re: Challenges Of Getting Married To A Strict Christian by Nobody: 6:13am On Oct 04, 2020 |
tobechi74: Are you a guy or a lady? Anyways, your assertions are wrong cos this things you pointed out are dependent on individual. Not all christians are so uptight. There are also non pastors that have such behaviour, so?? Majority of the pst. I know are very romantic especially in my denomination and they do advise us the youth to be romantic as well at youth and singles meetings. So, don't know where this is coming from. Now, let me ask you a question. Is it because of anal sex you came up with all these?? Then you need to have a rethink because I know 70% of non pastors who don't subscribe to such style of sex and for all you know there may be some pst who do. You and I can't say for sure cos we've not been with any of them. So, stop judging from afar. And quit that idea of anal sex because apart from "religious standard" medically is it not healthy and it's not right! Lastly, no body says you must marry a man of God if you feel they are not cool or you can't do without sinning so they don't point out your sins. There are people like you out there. So by all means go for them and leave pastors alone. 29 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Challenges Of Getting Married To A Strict Christian by hemartins(m): 9:51am On Oct 04, 2020 |
Dating a strict Christian sister too. It becomes boring with regimented lifestyle Everything is predictable What I just need is flexibility 4 Likes |
Re: Challenges Of Getting Married To A Strict Christian by Richy4(m): 9:52am On Oct 04, 2020 |
Re: Challenges Of Getting Married To A Strict Christian by Thattallgirl(f): 9:52am On Oct 04, 2020 |
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Re: Challenges Of Getting Married To A Strict Christian by MrNipplesLover(m): 9:53am On Oct 04, 2020 |
bless me with a precious relationship, my Lord. thank you, Jesus. ❤ 1 Like |
Re: Challenges Of Getting Married To A Strict Christian by DonBabaFx: 9:53am On Oct 04, 2020 |
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Re: Challenges Of Getting Married To A Strict Christian by Truefaith: 9:54am On Oct 04, 2020 |
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