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Why Is It That Some Guys/chics Dont Want To Go Into Relationship by javarizer: 3:38am On Mar 16, 2007 |
Sometimes i wonder why some guys and babes(beautiful or ugly) dont just want have girl/boy lovers. They dont just buy the idea of going into a relationship. Surprisingly, I fall into this category and av been asking myself :- sometimes i come up with flimsy exuses. I have also asked others, but their reason holds no water. Am throwing this to the you guy/chics. One way or the other, you must hv met pple like dat. What do you think is the reason, Reply immediately |
Re: Why Is It That Some Guys/chics Dont Want To Go Into Relationship by adagirl(f): 4:07am On Mar 16, 2007 |
the reason is because we or they are scared. |
Re: Why Is It That Some Guys/chics Dont Want To Go Into Relationship by javarizer: 4:30am On Mar 16, 2007 |
scared of what, what could be so scaring in relationship. Its an exciting experience- so they said. Need to know more reason |
Re: Why Is It That Some Guys/chics Dont Want To Go Into Relationship by Free(f): 5:11am On Mar 16, 2007 |
Its an exciting experience- so they said are U not in a relationship urself scared of heartbreak or committment U know sum ppl hv phobia of that expecially whn dey hv been wronged, hurt so many times |
Re: Why Is It That Some Guys/chics Dont Want To Go Into Relationship by ima1(f): 7:16am On Mar 16, 2007 |
@ poster wat is your reason |
Re: Why Is It That Some Guys/chics Dont Want To Go Into Relationship by eniola1310(f): 9:40am On Mar 16, 2007 |
i've been wondering for the past 4yrs now why i'm unwilling to get into one myself. I've not been able to psych myself into a relationship. i guess people like me are cowards and we get to die many times. i'm not afraid of a heartbreak unlike some people but i hate the responsibilities that comes with being committed |
Re: Why Is It That Some Guys/chics Dont Want To Go Into Relationship by iice(f): 1:34pm On Mar 16, 2007 |
Yeah, commitment. . . .walls. . . closing in. . .erh yeah sometimes we just need a break from drama, stress and irritation. |
Re: Why Is It That Some Guys/chics Dont Want To Go Into Relationship by Gheorghe(m): 1:50pm On Mar 16, 2007 |
I'VE BEEN OUT FOR ABOUT 2YRS NOW,ALTHOUGH I HAV A SLEEPING PARTNER,BUT NOTHING MORE I FEEL FOR GUYS IT'S JUST MORE THAN LOVE,FINANCES POSES THE BIGGEST CHALLENGE,WANTIN TO BE ABLE TO MEET UP WITH DEMANDS AND THE SO-CALLED COMMITMENT. ATIMES GUYS/CHICKS SPEND ALL THEIR LIFE WAITING FOR MR/MRS RIGHT WHEN THEY DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT THEY WANT FROM LIVE/RELATIONSHIP. I THINK THE OTHERS ARE EITHER WAITIN FOR GOD TO REVEAL ONE TO THEM OR FOR THEIR PARENTS/FRIENDS TO LINK THEM UP TO THEIR LIFE PARTNERS , LIKE MY UNCLE ONCE TOLD ME "FORGET ABOUT WOMEN AND GO AFTER WHAT THEY NEED (DOUGH) AND WHEN YOU FIND/GET IT, THEY WILL COME AFTER YOU" |
Re: Why Is It That Some Guys/chics Dont Want To Go Into Relationship by VCKY99(m): 1:54pm On Mar 16, 2007 |
My own problem is that right now I can't seem to get myself committed to a gal. Once in a while I get involved in a relationship that's not headed anywhere. For me most times, just for the sex, for the babe I wouldn't know her reason, but the good thing is we both know what's up before we hit it. However, I've to say this, I'm fed-up with such arrangements. Yes, it gives me time to do other things without necessarily considering the babe, which was alright before I got a job. Right now, I've got plans to walk the aile by December next. The problem? I can't seem to purge my mind of all those experiences I've had. More like I don't believe in love anymore, though I pray that shouldn't be the case. So, my friend, I think we all have our reasons for staying clear of a relatinship[serious]. |
Re: Why Is It That Some Guys/chics Dont Want To Go Into Relationship by alabiyemmy(m): 1:57pm On Mar 16, 2007 |
speak for yourself. |
Re: Why Is It That Some Guys/chics Dont Want To Go Into Relationship by VCKY99(m): 5:12pm On Mar 16, 2007 |
Alabiyemmy, I wonder who you're talking to. I suppose any reasonable person should know that's my view of the topic and not yours as you're claiming. This forum allows every individual a chance to air their view on issues, what's yours? |
Re: Why Is It That Some Guys/chics Dont Want To Go Into Relationship by Akinagirl(f): 6:27pm On Mar 16, 2007 |
well simple, they dont want heartbreaks |
Re: Why Is It That Some Guys/chics Dont Want To Go Into Relationship by Ferlie(m): 6:32pm On Mar 16, 2007 |
shio |
Re: Why Is It That Some Guys/chics Dont Want To Go Into Relationship by javarizer: 3:52am On Mar 17, 2007 |
ima1: I think my reason is just the fear of commitment. But kindly advice me, how do i overcome this 'cos relationships are good, they prepare you for a successful marriage. |
Re: Why Is It That Some Guys/chics Dont Want To Go Into Relationship by Nobody: 11:35am On Oct 28, 2011 |
javarizer:Story! Don't deceive urself!! Most of our parents neva dated n yet dier marriages have lasted more dan dese so called modern relationships!!! It is not by force to be in a relationship,who wants an unwanted pregnancy(abortion) or AIDS/STDs?! [/b] |
Re: Why Is It That Some Guys/chics Dont Want To Go Into Relationship by Nobody: 11:43am On Oct 28, 2011 |
It doesn't make any sense!!! I have broken over 35 babes heart 1 broke mine into pieces mid dis year into 49 pieces and it still hurts till now, The broken pieces fell into various independent entities, I mean each, Meaning that each of them can still break anoda 35 babes heart. How many babes would still experience a heart break? Do the maths yourself |
Re: Why Is It That Some Guys/chics Dont Want To Go Into Relationship by BloodShed1: 12:01pm On Oct 28, 2011 |
Well, lemme see: - I love my freedom, space & peace of mind. - I want to save and spend my hard-earned money on myself. - I trust NOBODY. - I don't want to create new problems or potential problems in my life, I already have enough on my plate. - As a man there's nothing I can get in a relationship that I can't get outside of one. I'm in my 20s and NEVER been in a relationship. It all sounds good in theory, but in practice it's a reality of double-standards, unrealistic/idealistic expectations and lies. I guess someone's gonna say "How can you talk badly about something you haven't experienced?" Well, people like me, who understand and appreciate just how dangerous it is to get into a car with a drunk driver, understand why it's best to stay out of a potentially bad situation. |
Re: Why Is It That Some Guys/chics Dont Want To Go Into Relationship by Nobody: 12:36pm On Oct 28, 2011 |
Blood_Shed: I agree with u * sometimes I wanna be free like a bird, getting into a relationship is expensive emotionally and financially so I better be the middle man * have not really found that person I could say YEAH I truely love that will bring those kind of teenage memories back like u can't eat and sleep etc |
Re: Why Is It That Some Guys/chics Dont Want To Go Into Relationship by BloodShed1: 12:43pm On Oct 28, 2011 |
faakay: Who is "that person" though? In a society that flatly rejects the idea that women should cater to mens' needs or wants, the whole idea of living "happily-ever-after" is hogwash. Because society and the law allows the woman to get one over on you. And if someone has an advantage over you, 9/10 times they will use it. That's life. Bottom line is, we're all gonna die alone whether you like it or not. So get used to it. |
Re: Why Is It That Some Guys/chics Dont Want To Go Into Relationship by yme1(f): 1:32pm On Oct 28, 2011 |
Trying to take a step at a time I think |
Re: Why Is It That Some Guys/chics Dont Want To Go Into Relationship by Syphonn(m): 10:48am On Nov 21, 2017 |
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Re: Why Is It That Some Guys/chics Dont Want To Go Into Relationship by Nobody: 1:56pm On Nov 21, 2017 |
Relationship this days is like having headache |
Re: Why Is It That Some Guys/chics Dont Want To Go Into Relationship by Nobody: 2:02pm On Nov 21, 2017 |
2007 |
Re: Why Is It That Some Guys/chics Dont Want To Go Into Relationship by AryEmber(f): 3:15pm On Nov 21, 2017 |
BloodShed1:Who relationship epp please? |
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