IamSoProlific:
Hello beloveths, please I will be very brief and straight to the point on this one.

There's this girl I started dating around August 30th last year, it was a distance relationship, we got along so well on phone, she appeared different, smart, brilliant, industrious and what have you when it comes to what a virtuous woman and one that knows what she wants at that. I totally thought she was the one for me, little did I know she's just the regular average girl hovering around pretentiously looking for whom to leech on.

Fast forward July this year, she relocated to my place with the hope of staying with me, I did it on purpose so I can watch her closely and we can plan on settling down because I planned on concluding the marital necessities with her by December.


When she came to stay with me, I noticed she was just the opposite of all she claimed to be while we spoke on phone, she played me, she gets Violently angered at every provocation and ready to fight, she just sleeps, eat, watch Tv and spend all her life on social media (Instagram,Facebook and WhatsApp), she has absolutely nothing to offer- not in any way to my life. I've already called the marriage quit in my head. She has anger issues, always feel attacked and ready for a fight....I have tried to change her, even took her to a therapist, but all to no avail, settling down with her would definitely end in doom.

Long story short, inasmuch as not to waste each other' s time, please house, how do I make her leave my house, I'm currently staying in Lagos, she came from Asaba to come live with me and this is her first time in Lagos, and she's not ready to leave, to her she's already my wife and not ready to go anywhere, I've tried to talk about her leaving, but she literally refused saying she can't just go back and that she gave up a lot to come stay with me( I really wonder what she gave up) I've stopped touching her long ago.

Moreso, the girl in question is dangerous, revengeful and very tricky (claiming to be smart), she once told me she's trying to figure out how to hurt her ex because he double dated, which made her to leave.

The case now made me understand sense needs to be applied so well while dealing with her. She always say she can never allow me to leave her, not while she's alive...

House please help me in the best strategy to make her leave my house without any violence or bad energy before the end of next month, I just can't contain her any more....

Bola146:
You need to invite the police, since she is desperate. Inform your parents too

JIMMY1393:
How can you mess up like this, why would you invite someone you barely know info your home? What if she's a thief or one of these so called ritualist? It doesn't matter how long you knew her on phone you can never fully know people by knowing them only through long distance exhibit being seeing how she has already revealed her true nature to you. My advise is you tell her with a Stern and serious face you want her to get the fvck out and if she doesn't you are ready to involve the police in the matter simple as that

IamSoProlific:

I wouldn't want to go that route please. I want a peaceful separation.

Adesamogun:
You will pay for this advise ooo... Meet a Soldier or Police Officer. Plan for them to come and arrest you. Let them get you both to the barracks or Station. Let them detain you. You can from there go and stay with you friend. Let them lie that you are a thief or arm robber and if she doesn't go back to her place kind of they will shoot her with you... you give the police/Soldier some money to give her but let it look like na them give her for her to disappear so they don't kill her. Let them ensure she goes home to pack her belonging and let them lock the door. Stay away for like 1 week and let them help you monitor am so that she get to asaba or her location. Then you can come back to your house. Sort yourself out with your simply and others if you don't want her call you.. well if this work... You can change your apartment as well

lefulefu:
this is why i dont so much like this long distance social media dating dating
And by the way this girl dat u said has now made ur house her parmanent abode
she no get family for asaba?
isnt her family worried that since August they havent seen their dauther?
doesnt she have a job?
is she not going to school?
hmm op i just hope its not one underage girl that ran away from her family home that u now housing as ur lover
Her parents or her ppl back in asaba would be concerned if its since August that she has left there
Anyway just tell her bluntly that u need ur space and want her to leave
u wont die if u tell her how u feel about her being parmantly in ur place

southernbelle:
Inviting her to come leave with you was a major mistake. You have to carefully eject her.

lomprico:
you don enter one chance!

you have to man up and sternly tell her to leave.
as long as she is with you, she will device a way to hook you probably with pregnancy. yeah u said u stopped touching her but your jt has a mind of it's own when it's time for show.

I have had a similar experience like this before.

Adesamogun:
You will pay for this advise ooo... Meet a Soldier or Police Officer. Plan for them to come and arrest you. Let them get you both to the barracks or Station. Let them detain you. You can from there go and stay with you friend. Let them lie that you are a thief or arm robber and if she doesn't go back to her place kind of they will shoot her with you... you give the police/Soldier some money to give her but let it look like na them give her for her to disappear so they don't kill her. Let them ensure she goes home to pack her belonging and let them lock the door. Stay away for like 1 week and let them help you monitor am so that she get to asaba or her location. Then you can come back to your house. Sort yourself out with your simply and others if you don't want her call you.. well if this work... You can change your apartment as well

IamSoProlific:


She's not an underage girl, unless a 26yo has become an underage in this part of the world.
Her parents doesn't care bout her absence, maybe because they feel she up to age to be responsible and accountable for her decisions.

She's is into catering services and decorations back in Asaba.

I've tried telling her but she's a very revengeful fellow and can go any extent to harm someone or cause doom for just hurting her.