I've known this girl since my school days but we've never really had anything but we hooked up a couple of times. Fast forward to this year, after we had lost touch with other i saw her post on Facebook and then i sent her a message hoping we could reconnect. We exchanged nos and picked up from where we left off, seeing wasn't difficult but i was serving in ibadan at the time and was supposed to roundup in march so i promised her I'd be in Lagos after my p.o.p

Immediately after my service, i made my way home. We met, one thing led to the other and u know�... She wanted a relationship but i wasn't ready, so we decided to be friends with benefit. Now the last time she came around, we lodged at a hotel so the sex this time around was craaaaazy! I literally ran outta breath but madam haven't had enough, had to tell her i was exhausted and i needed a break. Went a couple more rounds and called it a day.

Fastfoward to today, we were talking on phone today and she was complaining abt how stressful her day was, but i jokingly asked if it was as stressful as the last time we met, she chuckles and asked if i meant the sex, i said yeah... The next words i heard didn't really bother me but it's been on my mind ever since, she smiles n said jokingly "Ur dick is not that big joor� and the last time she had something that big was her ex�". I was shocked

Now the thing is most people would say I'm skinny but I'd like to see myself as an average build, she on the other hand is quiet big, busty� with a big ass, you'd think she was older than me. we are not in a serious relationship and she's saying all these, I'm worried if i decide to take her serious she might cheat on me. Pls i need ur advice, insults are allowed but be subtle.

Hell no!!!

Never be worried about what another human being (male or female) will do when your in a relationship with them, they have their own minds and they will do whatever pleases them.

Unless, you just want to work yourself up, then, go ahead, knock yourself out.

oga na ur turn no be ur own...so enjoy it while it last!

Hello


You doing friends with benefits and you bothered if she will *cheat* on you


Muumuu

You have fallen in love abi

God help you in this your journey

She Belongs to the Streets

olorire24:
oga na ur turn no be ur own...so enjoy it while it last!

Sabi boy!!

DaddyRochie1642:
She Belongs to the Streets

Loud it

She has said it. Your small too yoyo can't drill her borehole. Let her be.

So you want your friend with Benefit to be loyal
its like a girl saying she want a Born again Sugar daddy

It is never Happening Bro
Stop catching feelings

Never ever, I repeat NEVER, elevate a FWB (friend with benefits) to the status of a serious girlfriend.

This is not even about what she said, it's simply about sense.

I hope you don't think you're the only one she's been having sex with the entire time both of you were having your 'no-strings attached' sex.

I don't understand
Take her serious how?

Oh you wanna pay for the full cow when you already getting the milk for free??

Think about it fam

HelloYou doing acquaintances with advantages and you bothered if she will *cheat* on youMuumuuYou have fallen in hate abiGod help you in this your odyssey

If any girl that has a boyfriend is having a friends with benefits relationship with me later breaks up with him and thinks I'll marry her... She's literally the most stupid human being ever created... Why get into serious relationship with a hoe.. You bleeped up

KAM3KAZI:
Hell no!!!

Never be worried about what another human being (male or female) will do when your in a relationship with them, they have their own minds and they will do whatever pleases them.

Unless, you just want to work yourself up, then, go ahead, knock yourself out.

Thanks

drLammy:
I don't understand
Take her serious how?

Oh you wanna pay for the full cow when you already getting the milk for free??

Think about it fam

Hmm... Now that u put it that way, it doesn't sound bad after all

crackhaus:
Never ever, I repeat NEVER, elevate a FWB (friend with benefits) to the status of a serious girlfriend.

This is not even about what she said, it's simply about sense.

I hope you don't think you're the only one she's been having sex with the entire time both of you were having your no-strings attached sex.

Well she claims I'm the only one she's been with since we started having sex but I'm finding it very hard to believe

Koowo:
.She wanted a relationship but i wasn't ready, so we decided to be friends with benefit. Now the last time she came around, we lodged at a hotel so the sex this time around was craaaaazy! I literally ran outta breath but madam haven't had enough, had to tell her i was exhausted and i needed a break. Went a couple more rounds and called it a day.

she smiles n said jokingly "Ur dick is not that big joor� and the last time she had something that big was her ex�". I was shocked

Pls i need ur advice, insults are allowed but be subtle.

At the bolded you failed to pay attention to what's in front of you...

^{she wont just cheat on you only but she gonna rub it to ur face after engaging in it}

Fear woman

duduade:
Hello


You doing friends with benefits and you bothered if she will *cheat* on you


Muumuu

You have fallen in love abi

God help you in this your journey

She's every man's spec, can't help it

Koowo:

Well she claims I'm the only one she's been with since we started having sex but I'm finding it very hard to believe

Your ancestors have you under their protection then, they're still blessing you with sense.

Please never believe such claims especially when it's coming from a chic who's just a FWB.

Don't be a ful.She is just friend with benefit according to you. Enjoy it while it last. What's your own problem if she is seeing other men?

Most ladies even in serious relationships are cheats, partly because men won't leave them alone and they eventually succumb.

She is not in relationship with you. Is she?

Chop your own and leave the rest. You cant come and kill yourself.