i am a 30 years old guy that have not been able to achieve anything in life.
i am a young man living in one of the southern state of the country,i worked in some hotels before i was finally able to gain admission to the university which paying the fees was i very big issues for me,i was finally able to write my final exams last year but still owing 2years school fees meaning i will not be graduating with the rest of same time.
i was also into poultry farming but had to fold up the business because the proceed was what i used in paying my fees and other bills hoping there will be a way out for me but nothing is forthcoming, i attended interviews in two different places and performed very well came back home very happy and hoping to receive a call to resume work which i have not receive any till this moment.
i now see myself avoiding friends because i think they are way above me in life.i now feel ashame of going to certain areas or answering certain call because most of the people are people i was helping and are still looking up to me for help.how will I help someone when i can't even help myself.
the burden is weighing down on me seriously and certain people are even avoiding me and i can no longer sleep at night because of thought of where to go and what else to do and it is affecting my help as my body is reducing everyday.
Please i need help urgently as i am gradually losing it.trying to push my mind off certain thought but it is still coming

Xinchao:
i am a 30 years old guy that have not been able to achieve anything in life.
i am a young man living in one of the southern state of the country,i worked in some hotels before i was finally able to gain admission to the university which paying the fees was i very big issues for me,i was finally able to write my final exams last year but still owing 2years school fees meaning i will not be graduating with the rest of same time.
i was also into poultry farming but had to fold up the business because the proceed was what i used in paying my fees and other bills hoping there will be a way out for me but nothing is forthcoming, i attended interviews in two different places and performed very well came back home very happy and hoping to receive a call to resume work which i have not receive any till this moment.
i now see myself avoiding friends because i think they are way above me in life.i now feel ashame of going to certain areas or answering certain call because most of the people are people i was helping and are still looking up to me for help.how will I help someone when i can't even help myself.
the burden is weighing down on me seriously and certain people are even avoiding me and i can no longer sleep at night because of thought of where to go and what else to do and it is affecting my help as my body is reducing everyday.
Please i need help urgently as i am gradually losing it.trying to push my mind off certain thought but it is still coming

Talk to your Creator, He has the solution. Trust me

you will survive. move closer to God

What do u think u are good at and won't get tired of

Xinchao, this phase shall pass, too. Hold on, stay strong, and keep pushing. I know that feeling (older), but just keep making efforts to get by and improve.

Most importantly, hold on to God like your entire life depends on Him - of course, it does! Cheers!

Nooneonline:
What do u think u are good at and won't get tired of

am passionate about farming (poultry),but ready to do any kind of work available 4 now just to break of this feelings

Pls don't be depressed, it's a phase and it will pass. As bad as it is, some ppl still dey wish they were you. Keep d head up, everything will b alright

Xinchao:
am passionate about farming (poultry),but ready to do any kind of work available 4 now just to break of this feelings

bro I'm passionate about helping people but I'm doing something totally different from it for now. Let me give u an example. I no a guy that started as a gate man then learnt how to drive then moved to being a personal driver to a man then bought a keke and started saving money to buy bikes and other keke for others to drive and make him money via hire purchase. Now he has a house of his own that includes shops he rents to people. Oga start somewhere. U can learn a skill. Maybe shoe making. It doesn't take long to learn that. Just have a plan in place and be consistent no matter what.

Xinchao:
i am a 30 years old guy that have not been able to achieve anything in life.
i am a young man living in one of the southern state of the country,i worked in some hotels before i was finally able to gain admission to the university which paying the fees was i very big issues for me,i was finally able to write my final exams last year but still owing 2years school fees meaning i will not be graduating with the rest of same time.
i was also into poultry farming but had to fold up the business because the proceed was what i used in paying my fees and other bills hoping there will be a way out for me but nothing is forthcoming, i attended interviews in two different places and performed very well came back home very happy and hoping to receive a call to resume work which i have not receive any till this moment.
i now see myself avoiding friends because i think they are way above me in life.i now feel ashame of going to certain areas or answering certain call because most of the people are people i was helping and are still looking up to me for help.how will I help someone when i can't even help myself.
the burden is weighing down on me seriously and certain people are even avoiding me and i can no longer sleep at night because of thought of where to go and what else to do and it is affecting my help as my body is reducing everyday.
Please i need help urgently as i am gradually losing it.trying to push my mind off certain thought but it is still coming

You can still start small business, going to school in Nigeria will not guaranteed your job.

You can start networking job with just 2k, then you are good to go.

I experienced something like this b4, but thank God for networking business.

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