Tundeprintz:
Too many hungry fools, the worse part is them trying to act posh. I remember meeting up with this biitch at one eatery early this year. After chatting for a while, with laughs and all. She then asked what i wanted from her, i bluntly told her strictly FWB, as i just got of a relationship at the time and was never looking forward to getting into another for a long time.

Her mood changed afterwards and the chat became so boring, i then told her i was not going to stop her if she wanted to leave. Biitch said okay and ended her words with "dont call my number again", in my mind i was like, you just spelt out my intention.

But what surprised me was this biitch had the nerve to still demand tfare, I sha vex drop am 1k, then she left with my hollandia youghurt that i hadn't opened. I was more surprised than angry, I just dey laugh for my mind say hunger dey this land no be small.

You clearly deserve better than this dummy , count your lucky stars it didn't linger man.

I don't know why this rude and ill-mannered bitches will be behaving as if they are the best thing since slice bread , always thinking they are special or deserve better treatment, what a delusional bunch .

I once met someone similar , even before I finished talking, she said " I won't give you my number o", in my mind was like look at this stupid shit . What will your shitty number add to my life .

Am seriously fed up , Nigerian girls need to behave

Demaestro09:


Shut up! You materialistic fool . What stops her from paying with her own money? The fact they went on a date doesn't mean he should foot all the bill. And stop shouting "double your hustle" as if you are totally unaware of Nigeria current harsh economic realities

Poverty has bastardized you so much youre calling paying for food, materialism, i mean "FOOD"..... Na wah oh. Why should you invite a babe out if you are too poor to take your own self out? Bros, its not by force to flex and blame the babe. Why should a babe pay for her own food when youre the one asking her out and asking her out on a date? Remove your poverty ridden mentality from my mention. Good advice, keep your broke economic reality harsh condition in your father's house or in your wretched apartment. Nobi by force to trip babe then blame babe that she did not pay, or she use too much toilet roll at your house, or asked for plantain with jollof rice or that she did not leave her takeaway for you to use for lunch the next day. Poverty deadhead.

Organs:


Poverty has bastardized you so much youre calling paying for food, materialism, i mean "FOOD"..... Na wah oh. Why should you invite a babe out if you are too poor to take your own self out? Bros, its not by force to flex and blame the babe. Why should a babe pay for her own food when youre the one asking her out and asking her out on a date? Remove your poverty ridden mentality from my mention. Good advice, keep your broke economic reality harsh condition in your father's house or in your wretched apartment. Nobi by force to trip babe then blame babe that she did not pay, or she use too much toilet roll at your house, or asked for plantain with jollof rice or that she did not leave her takeaway for you to use for lunch the next day. Poverty deadhead.

Shut up your mouth you fukking bastard Stop typing rubbish

I repeat what stops her footing her bill? Fools like you have done a terrible job by normalising this simp behavior, too bad.

And stop disgracing your ancestors by thinking being economical and reasonable equals broken ness, the joke joke is on you mate. You don't know who is who on the internet, some people here can feed you and your inherently destitute and miserable lineage for god knows how long ( guy don't take this personal, just that you are literally the biggest asshole I've encountered today, and it ain't funny )

We have to start from somewhere - Sharing info of how things are done. Nothing is set in stones now. Nigerian women can change, that's my belief.

crackhaus:

Is it Nigerian women you're telling this one?

It's like you've spent too long with uncle Sam and forgotten how your sisters love to enjoy the life their father could not provide for them.

So if a lady ask a guy out for a date, it is mandatory she pays right ?

Like for example paying for crackhaus dinner (he will eat one full rotisserie chicken and finish a whole bottle of cognac )

Sixfeetbelle:


That's not how it works though. If you ask someone out on a date, it's mandatory that you're paying and you announce it. If they decide to reciprocate it, fine, but it's not a must.

Demaestro09:


Shut up your mouth you fukking bastard Stop typing rubbish

I repeat what stops her footing her bill? Fools like you have done a terrible job by normalising this simp behavior, too bad.

And stop disgracing your ancestors by thinking being economical and reasonable equals broken ness, the joke joke is on you mate. You don't know who is who on the internet, some people here can feed you and your inherently destitute and miserable lineage for god knows how long ( guy don't take this personal, just that you are literally the biggest asshole I've encountered today, and it ain't funny )

Bros, now let me break it down for you. You are poor and wretched. You are requesting for a babe to foot her bill and making a fuss about it and talking about who is who on the internet? You complaining about babe paying for herself is talking about feeding someone? Nope youre not capable of it. Where i am from, we do not regard feeding people as being better than them, its just mercy from God that you have and you share. Conclusively, bros, do not take it personal, to each his own, you are poor and consider paying for food as a lady milking or cheating you, i don't. I pay for food for people i don't even know. Food is gift from God, it's not something to boast about or flex about. Its poor, hungry, bitter people like your wretched self that do that.

Demaestro09:


And you think you made sense?

So the guy is her father right?

Na her father go Bleep her senseman

armyofone:
So if a lady ask a guy out for a date, it is mandatory she pays right ?

Like for example paying for crackhaus dinner (he will eat one full rotisserie chicken and finish a whole bottle of cognac )

Yes, she has to pay.

Jokes apart, if you ask someone out, you are expected to say my treat and then have to cover all the bills. But if you're lucky to meet a sensitive person, they can offer to split bills with you or pay for some things (as a generous freewill help).


I know a Cognac, I think, but Excuse me? Full rotte what? The name alone sounds more expensive than my 4 years worth of tuition fees

Organs:


Bros, now let me break it down for you. You are poor and wretched. You are requesting for a babe to foot her bill and making a fuss about it and talking about who is who on the internet? You complaining about babe paying for herself is talking about feeding someone? Nope youre not capable of it. Where i am from, we do not regard feeding people as being better than them, its just mercy from God that you have and you share. Conclusively, bros, do not take it personal, to each his own, you are poor and consider paying for food as a lady milking or cheating you, i don't. I pay for food for people i don't even know. Food is gift from God, it's not something to boast about or flex about. Its poor, hungry, bitter people like your wretched self that do that.

It's a thing of the mind, totally has nothing to do with brokenness. You do realize mark zuckerberg being a billonaire may choose to tell his spouse miss Priscilla chan to foot her bill on a date, its perfectly normal because she works and earns her money. Ya know, you can judge how mature/ reasonable a person is from these little acts but you are too stupid to understand this. Or you richer than zuckerberg? ( poverty stricken goat )

Quote me again and you will be whipped mercilessly

The only privilege they have is cause am still in this shit<>hole

DZTech:
How can food be the primary focus of a new outing/dating?

How can you get to know someone better when hunger is your main focus?
Times are hard, but life goes on; so, it's high time we used our common sense.
The entitlement mentality must stop.

Ladies, gents - if you're going on a date, eat at home and go out for drinks in a bar.
how many cans of malt can you drink in 2 hours?
las las, 1,500 don cover am.
enough of the nonsense.

What d'you think?

It's well o!

jornwhite:




Interesting ... if only you know some of us look up to our parent and older ones for malt then ... smh. if only you know

They can continue with the tradition but should limit it, please. I ain't drinking just malt on a date. Period.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z5Bco4UHZlk

Demaestro09:


It's a thing of the mind, totally has nothing to do with brokenness. You do realize mark zuckerberg being a billonaire may choose to tell his spouse miss Priscilla chan to foot her bill on a date, its perfectly normal because she works and earns her money. Ya know, you can judge how mature/ reasonable a person is from these little acts but you are too stupid to understand this. Or you richer than zuckerberg? ( poverty stricken goat )

Quote me again and you will be whipped mercilessly

There's no need to whip anyone cause you're both saying the same thing.

If you invite someone out, you're mandated to foot their bills, be it a date or a business lunch with a prospective investor. Like he pointed out, paying for meals shouldn't be a problem if you don't have a poverty mentality.

Now with dates, you can weave your way out of footing the bills when you let your date know they'll be paying. Like you said, Mark can ask his wife to pay for their meals and she will. It has nothing to do with if she's working or not. However, you can only request for your date to foot a dinner you prompted if you guys are familiar with each other, in this case, it's completely normal to ask your girlfriend/fiancee/wife to foot the bills. However, do note, you can't pull this stunt on a first date though. The best you can get is a "split bill" arrangement.

Point is: paying for food shouldn't be such a problem in a civilised world, but I know it is being abused in this part of the world. And also, hope you know It's simple courtesy to let your date know how bills will be footed before the date.

luminouz:


She dey craze ni? 14 friends? ;

I once shared a story of how I ghosted 3 girls who wanted to open a canteen on my head. They washed a mountain of plates before they were released.

I bet they will think twice before trying that on another guy

This thread funny die, I swear!

But why e be say na for online guys dey sabi flex muscles?
Once one guy create thread to rant about naija girls, na so guys go rush out like tambolo wey gather sugar

Sixfeetbelle:


They can continue with the tradition but should limit it, please. I ain't drinking just malt on a date. Period.

I am sure that won't be a problem, whoever is buying you malt on a date should be buoyant enough to buy peak milk to it.
nothing taste like those two combinations

jornwhite:




I am sure that won't be a problem, whoever is buying you malt on a date should be buoyant enough to buy peak milk to it.
nothing taste like those two combinations

I suppose he understands that as he's doing that, he's ending whatever might have blossomed between us.

victorian:










It's well o!

Vic i think its about that time we go on a date, bills on you make e no be like say i dey drag whu get money pass with you

Demaestro09:


It's a thing of the mind, totally has nothing to do with brokenness. You do realize mark zuckerberg being a billonaire may choose to tell his spouse miss Priscilla chan to foot her bill on a date, its perfectly normal because she works and earns her money. Ya know, you can judge how mature/ reasonable a person is from these little acts but you are too stupid to understand this. Or you richer than zuckerberg? ( poverty stricken goat )

Quote me again and you will be whipped mercilessly

Spouse/wife/significant other/ is not what is referenced here. The gist is about someone you take out on a date. Mumu read and comprehend. Again, it is you that lacks maturity bros, just stick with the akara sellers and the cleaners and waiters you date. You cannot, i repeat you cannot date the people i date. You are too poor mentally to start with.

Sixfeetbelle:


I suppose he understands that as he's doing that, he's ending whatever might have blossomed between us.

You just killed my hope of taking you out on date, thats not fair

jornwhite:




You just killed my hope of taking you out on date, thats not fair

Glad my point was made clearly

jornwhite:





Vic i think its about that time we go on a date, bills on you make e no be like say i dey drag whu get money pass with you

Smiles, u are asking me out on a date and u want the bills to be on me?

Are u for real?

Have I ever mentioned on nairaland or anywhere online that I'm a feminist?



Honestly u are so funny. I don't drag wealth or money with men.
I'm old fashioned with dates. I don't take care of bills on first date it's not in my dictionary and I weigh a lot of options,do some background checkups before accepting any date.
If you are pure, then u can take me out in a date but bills on you.
If you are not pure? And even if the bills will be on you and u are also offering a buffet with Loads of champagne? I ain't coming. I'm very selective.

So my dear Im not footing any bills. Not interested.

Great! I agree with you! I think people should not use greed or gluttony to spoil the simple act of getting to know each other.

Haha - not expensive - just roasted chicken

Sixfeetbelle:


Yes, she has to pay.

Jokes apart, if you ask someone out, you are expected to say my treat and then have to cover all the bills. But if you're lucky to meet a sensitive person, they can offer to split bills with you or pay for some things (as a generous freewill help).


I know a Cognac, I think, but Excuse me? Full rotte what? The name alone sounds more expensive than my 4 years worth of tuition fees

mariahAngel:



This thread funny die, I swear!

But why e be say na for online guys dey sabi flex muscles?
Once one guy create thread to rant about naija girls, na so guys go rush out like tambolo wey gather sugar

Only on topics I have real life experience on. And I spit my shiit real and raw.

It goes both ways though, let it be on broke boys or whatever and you see girls all over such threads. Infact, bigs.Arah already created a counter thread to this one. Check it out

armyofone:
Great! I agree with you! I think people should not use greed or gluttony to spoil the simple act of getting to know each other.

Haha - not expensive - just roasted chicken

Exactly.


A roasted chicken? Really? What's with the long ass French name then?

Diariess:
As a typical ondo girl, I make sure I stuff myself well with pounded yam and egusi soup before going on a date so that I can form that I'm not hungry

You must eat oo

It's just a name and style of cooking - same as "puff puff" instead of fried mixed flour

Sixfeetbelle:


Exactly.


A roasted chicken? Really? What's with the long ass French name then?

Una like trouble sha.


OP dashed una one controversial topic and see how fights break out everywhere.

OP don run leave una dey watch your antics on the sidelines

I love the entertainment dou

As a man, you should know the type of girl you are taking out on a date o

armyofone:
It's just a name - same as "puff puff" instead of fried mixed flour

But that's the thing. It's not just any name. If it was any ordinary "roasted chicken", it would be called that but this chicken rotte is way more than roasted chicken. The name alone says so.

Updated before I saw yours.
Nice chatting with you. Have a nice afternoon and see you around

Sixfeetbelle:


But that's the thing. It's not just any name. If it was any ordinary "roasted chicken", it would be called that but this chicken rotte is way more than roasted chicken. The name alone says so.

armyofone:
Updated before I saw yours.
Nice chatting with you. Have a nice afternoon and see you around

Same here. It was a pleasure.


Nice afternoon but we're in the early hours of the morning where I am. 1 am Wednesday morning, precisely.