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A Sexless Relationship by UtopianPassion: 11:34pm On Sep 29, 2020
To begin with, please, if you believe in no sex before marriage, keep your opinion to yourself.

I am in a sexless relationship almost 4 years now, from the outset the agreement was no sex.

Honestly speaking if I knew I'd someday be writing on NL seeking advice, I'd have moved on from her, but love got me hooked.

It's ironic isn't it, having a girlfriend and still wanking (sighs!). I find it extremely difficult cheating, as I have never done this with any other woman.

As regards my woman, there's nothing I haven't done except rape (which I can never do). Lots of instances when the only thing left is for the act itself, she begins begging me in the name of God not to do this to her, she doesn't want to get pregnant, she wants to keep it till her marriage night and all that.

Even when I buy a condom, it's one story or the other. She might even turn her back on me or cover her boobs or her pussy.

Recently, I told her I'm done with the kissing and caressing, it's a cycle whose end I know is always filled with disappointments.

She would then go on to tell me, that does not mean she cannot touch, hug or hold me.

Such happened tonight and there we were again at the beginning of the cycle. When it came to sex, she was telling me to promise her nothing like that would happen.

This is something I can't even discuss with friends and even a cousin of mine, guys would be able to relate more, it's something I'm ashamed of.

These days I even began looking up drugs that lower libido, all because of this issue.

I love her, God knows I do.

I am tired and frustrated from the constant rejections, I can't even sleep.

It's almost 4 years, what else does she want?

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Re: A Sexless Relationship by Nobody: 11:35pm On Sep 29, 2020
That lady is wise.You agreed to a no sex relationship from the onset and now you want to chop and clean mouth.If you truly love her like you claim, marry her.

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Re: A Sexless Relationship by Dpsychologist: 11:38pm On Sep 29, 2020
You want sex desperately and she won't give you.
You have 2 choices.

1.Go get sex somewhere (Cheat on her)
2. You break up with her and get another girl that will allow you.

The choice is yours.

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Re: A Sexless Relationship by EASYGURU(m): 11:38pm On Sep 29, 2020
Brohoe chase the demon out. Simp are never in control. She's been in control for far too long. Don't simp for a hoe.

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Re: A Sexless Relationship by EASYGURU(m): 11:39pm On Sep 29, 2020
Brohoe chase the demon out. Simp are never in control. She's been in control for far too long. Don't simp for a hoe. Same pussy she's denying you another is digging. Wtf man

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Re: A Sexless Relationship by padi94(m): 11:41pm On Sep 29, 2020
Enjoy... pls do you give her money? If you do, then you are being scammed.

Let me tell you, if you are giving her money, it is synonymous to the fact that you have paid her bride price. If the Idea of no sex is hers then you hv been scammed.

Except the idea is yours, in that case I have nothing to say but to say kwantinu, your reward is in heaven...
Don't be surprised that another guy dey dick her wella.

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Re: A Sexless Relationship by Harnish(m): 11:48pm On Sep 29, 2020
Wait a bit more. What will be your joy in marrying her after you've already seen everythin and do everything before marriage? It wont be a sweet first night again. I'll advise you to also stop the romance coz its an act of fornication

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Re: A Sexless Relationship by goodmorning40: 11:49pm On Sep 29, 2020
Does it look like she is cheating I mean do you suspect her. If no, then she is a very strong willed girl such hardly cheat in marriage. She could be battling with norms she has been filled with or scared about the whole thing. Is four years not enough dating why don't you make moves to marry her.

You come to an agreement that in the process of marriage preparations there has to be sex becos I don't support all those until wedding night saga but be very sure you are not deceiving her

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Re: A Sexless Relationship by goodmorning40: 11:51pm On Sep 29, 2020
padi94:
Enjoy... pls do you give her money? If you do, then you are being scammed.

Let me tell you, if you are giving her money, it is synonymous to the fact that you have paid her bride price. If the Idea of no sex is hers then you hv been scammed.

Except the idea is yours, in that case I have nothing to say but to say kwantinu, your reward is in heaven...
Don't be surprised that another guy dey dick her wella.

What a croocked mind you have

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Re: A Sexless Relationship by padi94(m): 11:55pm On Sep 29, 2020
goodmorning40:


What a croocked mind you have

My brother it's not crooked, it's the truth... do you know what monster you will create if he later finds out she is bleeping another guy outside. The women he will come across later in life will suffer her treachery.

Metaphor: Answer the question before the exam end. Na the only way to pass be that.

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Re: A Sexless Relationship by goodmorning40: 12:00am On Sep 30, 2020
padi94:


My brother it's not crooked, it's the truth... do you know what monster you will create if he later finds out she is bleeping another guy outside. The women he will come across later in life will suffer her treachery.

Metaphor: Answer the before the exam end. Na the only way to pass be that

So your prayer is for your daughters to be free donors on every love journey
They would have probably fukkked your entire village before they finally settle for one

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Re: A Sexless Relationship by Nobody: 12:01am On Sep 30, 2020
OP, if there's any guy she calls PP/PA/MB/MG
Personal Person,,,
Personal Assistant,,,
My Bestie,,,or
My Gee


Premium tears loading be that,,
Talking from experience

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Re: A Sexless Relationship by padi94(m): 12:05am On Sep 30, 2020
goodmorning40:


So your prayer is for your daughters to be free donors on every love journey
They would have probably fukkked your entire village before they finally settle for one

Fuckkk you if that is what she wants then be it.
You foolish hypocrite you are the ones that make females feel like their vagina is the most important part of their body.

But if a guy fuckkks a truck load of girls it's fine abi, he is a cult hero. So she is a free donor, d guy that deposit sperm inside her is not a donor. You Illiterate and your likes are why our society is what it is, in shambles.

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Re: A Sexless Relationship by Liposure: 12:54am On Sep 30, 2020
No sex before marriage aggreement is for disciplined folks. You tried sef. Kindly do the needful and marry her. To save all the stress

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Re: A Sexless Relationship by goodmorning40: 1:20am On Sep 30, 2020
padi94:


Fuckkk you if that is what she wants then be it.
You foolish hypocrite you are the ones that make females feel like their vagina is the most important part of their body.

But if a guy fuckkks a truck load of girls it's fine abi, he is a cult hero. So she is a free donor, d guy that deposit sperm inside her is not a donor. You Illiterate and your likes are why our society is what it is, in shambles.

Waow so much frustration and rage. Yes my girls vaginass are the most important part of their body which they must guide jealousy from devourers like you who want to fuuuk a truck load of girls, so when next you come across such descent ladies just waka pass and look for free donor girls like your daughters.
If that is what makes me a hypocrite illiterate and your society shambler I am very happy I am one

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Re: A Sexless Relationship by padi94(m): 2:06am On Sep 30, 2020
goodmorning40:


Waow so much frustration and rage. Yes my girls vaginass are the most important part of their body which they must guide jealousy from devourers like you who want to fuuuk a truck load of girls, so when next you come across such descent ladies just waka pass and look for free donor girls like your daughters.
If that is what makes me a hypocrite illiterate and your society shambler I am very happy I am one

Them say when girl no get sense na their vagina go suffer, typical example of the kind of daughter you're gonna have grin grin grin
If their brains are not working, their vaginas will work, lool... pls where your daughter's at, we will like to know them. Dumb girls are our specialty, cheesy cheesy

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Re: A Sexless Relationship by tobechi74: 2:23am On Sep 30, 2020
UtopianPassion:
To begin with, please, if you believe in no sex before marriage, keep your opinion to yourself.

I am in a sexless relationship almost 4 years now, from the outset the agreement was no sex.

Honestly speaking if I knew I'd someday be writing on NL seeking advice, I'd have moved on from her, but love got me hooked.

It's ironic isn't it, having a girlfriend and still wanking (sighs!). I find it extremely difficult cheating, as I have never done this with any other woman.

As regards my woman, there's nothing I haven't done except rape (which I can never do). Lots of instances when the only thing left is for the act itself, she begins begging me in the name of God not to do this to her, she doesn't want to get pregnant, she wants to keep it till her marriage night and all that.

Even when I buy a condom, it's one story or the other. She might even turn her back on me or cover her boobs or her pussy.

Recently, I told her I'm done with the kissing and caressing, it's a cycle whose end I know is always filled with disappointments.

She would then go on to tell me, that does not mean she cannot touch, hug or hold me.

Such happened tonight and there we were again at the beginning of the cycle. When it came to sex, she was telling me to promise her nothing like that would happen.

This is something I can't even discuss with friends and even a cousin of mine, guys would be able to relate more, it's something I'm ashamed of.

These days I even began looking up drugs that lower libido, all because of this issue.

I love her, God knows I do.

I am tired and frustrated from the constant rejections, I can't even sleep.

It's almost 4 years, what else does she want?

Tell her you have started patronising prostitute to keep yourself . You have your body and you can do with your body what you want. She has her body,she can do with her body what she likes. She either nominate a girl for u to fuucck anytime you want or you patronise prostitute.-someone u do not love. In that way,you respect your promise to her, while honoring her sexless relationship but u also need to honor ur body needs .You had an active sex life before you met her and u will continue . Tell her this. Insist on this . Do not ask her for sex again, do not kiss her or touch her. Tell her openly,you are getting more of it from outside. Whenever a girl call u, tell her it is one of your prostitute customer who want to come over. If she ask you for money, tell her, you have already budgeted it for the night with a girl. Avoid kissing.

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Re: A Sexless Relationship by cooooooks(m): 2:46am On Sep 30, 2020
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Re: A Sexless Relationship by cooooooks(m): 2:47am On Sep 30, 2020
1. Caressing, making out and being in close contact, when there is no mutual opinion of chastity is an unnecessary torture.

2. Even relationships involve 2 individuals. Nothing is stopping you from taking things into your hands and stopping these close contacts or moving on.

3. She will tell you that everything will be perfect after the wedding. Tomorrow never comes. The only time you or her have is now.

It is unfair to both of you to remain in an incompatible relationship.

I suggest you seek non religious counselling and decide the trajectory after that.


You suggesting rape is scary and if I were to advise her, I'd tell her to RUN!!!! from you.
UtopianPassion:
To begin with, please, if you believe in no sex before marriage, keep your opinion to yourself.

I am in a sexless relationship almost 4 years now, from the outset the agreement was no sex.

Honestly speaking if I knew I'd someday be writing on NL seeking advice, I'd have moved on from her, but love got me hooked.

It's ironic isn't it, having a girlfriend and still wanking (sighs!). I find it extremely difficult cheating, as I have never done this with any other woman.

As regards my woman, there's nothing I haven't done except rape (which I can never do). Lots of instances when the only thing left is for the act itself, she begins begging me in the name of God not to do this to her, she doesn't want to get pregnant, she wants to keep it till her marriage night and all that.

Even when I buy a condom, it's one story or the other. She might even turn her back on me or cover her boobs or her pussy.

Recently, I told her I'm done with the kissing and caressing, it's a cycle whose end I know is always filled with disappointments.

She would then go on to tell me, that does not mean she cannot touch, hug or hold me.

Such happened tonight and there we were again at the beginning of the cycle. When it came to sex, she was telling me to promise her nothing like that would happen.

This is something I can't even discuss with friends and even a cousin of mine, guys would be able to relate more, it's something I'm ashamed of.

These days I even began looking up drugs that lower libido, all because of this issue.

I love her, God knows I do.

I am tired and frustrated from the constant rejections, I can't even sleep.

It's almost 4 years, what else does she want?

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Re: A Sexless Relationship by cooooooks(m): 2:50am On Sep 30, 2020
You are very disingenous.

You insult and attack someone then call their clap back frustration?

If you have nothing of substance to say, shift.

goodmorning40:


Waow so much frustration and rage. Yes my girls vaginass are the most important part of their body which they must guide jealousy from devourers like you who want to fuuuk a truck load of girls, so when next you come across such descent ladies just waka pass and look for free donor girls like your daughters.
If that is what makes me a hypocrite illiterate and your society shambler I am very happy I am one

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Re: A Sexless Relationship by Ultimus: 5:25am On Sep 30, 2020
If you want to be in this kind of relationship, best to stay off any form of intimacy. It simply adds to your frustration. You are already seeing her as unreasonable and inconsiderate for what she can't give you.

Mind you, if you both continue like this, the sex will happen sooner than later but it is almost guaranteed to be the end of your relationship. I'm talking from experience.
Re: A Sexless Relationship by Juliearth(f): 5:38am On Sep 30, 2020
goodmorning40:


So your prayer is for your daughters to be free donors on every love journey
They would have probably fukkked your entire village before they finally settle for one



You are wise, God bless you. Please pay no heed to that "boy"

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Re: A Sexless Relationship by femi4: 5:38am On Sep 30, 2020
UtopianPassion:
To begin with, please, if you believe in no sex before marriage, keep your opinion to yourself.

I am in a sexless relationship almost 4 years now, from the outset the agreement was no sex.

Honestly speaking if I knew I'd someday be writing on NL seeking advice, I'd have moved on from her, but love got me hooked.

It's ironic isn't it, having a girlfriend and still wanking (sighs!). I find it extremely difficult cheating, as I have never done this with any other woman.

As regards my woman, there's nothing I haven't done except rape (which I can never do). Lots of instances when the only thing left is for the act itself, she begins begging me in theories name of God not to do this to her, she doesn't want to get pregnant, she wants to keep it till her marriage night and all that.

Even when I buy a condom, it's one story or the other. She might even turn her back on me or cover her boobs or her pussy.

Recently, I told her I'm done with the kissing and caressing, it's a cycle whose end I know is always filled with disappointments.

She would then go on to tell me, that does not mean she cannot touch, hug or hold me.

Such happened tonight and there we were again at the beginning of the cycle. When it came to sex, she was telling me to promise her nothing like that would happen.

This is something I can't even discuss with friends and even a cousin of mine, guys would be able to relate more, it's something I'm ashamed of.

These days I even began looking up drugs that lower libido, all because of this issue.

I love her, God knows I do.

I am tired and frustrated from the constant rejections, I can't even sleep.

It's almost 4 years, what else does she want?

Leave her alone. You're not sexually attractive to her. Sex should be mutual, don't beg for it

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Re: A Sexless Relationship by ajimo54(m): 6:14am On Sep 30, 2020
UtopianPassion:
To begin with, please, if you believe in no sex before marriage, keep your opinion to yourself.

I am in a sexless relationship almost 4 years now, from the outset the agreement was no sex.

Honestly speaking if I knew I'd someday be writing on NL seeking advice, I'd have moved on from her, but love got me hooked.

It's ironic isn't it, having a girlfriend and still wanking (sighs!). I find it extremely difficult cheating, as I have never done this with any other woman.

As regards my woman, there's nothing I haven't done except rape (which I can never do). Lots of instances when the only thing left is for the act itself, she begins begging me in the name of God not to do this to her, she doesn't want to get pregnant, she wants to keep it till her marriage night and all that.

Even when I buy a condom, it's one story or the other. She might even turn her back on me or cover her boobs or her pussy.

Recently, I told her I'm done with the kissing and caressing, it's a cycle whose end I know is always filled with disappointments.

She would then go on to tell me, that does not mean she cannot touch, hug or hold me.

Such happened tonight and there we were again at the beginning of the cycle. When it came to sex, she was telling me to promise her nothing like that would happen.

This is something I can't even discuss with friends and even a cousin of mine, guys would be able to relate more, it's something I'm ashamed of.

These days I even began looking up drugs that lower libido, all because of this issue.

I love her, God knows I do.

I am tired and frustrated from the constant rejections, I can't even sleep.

It's almost 4 years, what else does she want?


A sexless relationship iis senseless relationship!

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Re: A Sexless Relationship by obyrich(m): 6:21am On Sep 30, 2020
Agreement is agreement. If you feel frustrated, requested for a review of your terms. If you can't agree on terms. Please break up. Shebi na toto you want? Toto plenty everywhere.
Re: A Sexless Relationship by Nobody: 6:45am On Sep 30, 2020
UtopianPassion:
To begin with, please, if you believe in no sex before marriage, keep your opinion to yourself.

I am in a sexless relationship almost 4 years now, from the outset the agreement was no sex.

Honestly speaking if I knew I'd someday be writing on NL seeking advice, I'd have moved on from her, but love got me hooked.

It's ironic isn't it, having a girlfriend and still wanking (sighs!). I find it extremely difficult cheating, as I have never done this with any other woman.

As regards my woman, there's nothing I haven't done except rape (which I can never do). Lots of instances when the only thing left is for the act itself, she begins begging me in the name of God not to do this to her, she doesn't want to get pregnant, she wants to keep it till her marriage night and all that.

Even when I buy a condom, it's one story or the other. She might even turn her back on me or cover her boobs or her pussy.

Recently, I told her I'm done with the kissing and caressing, it's a cycle whose end I know is always filled with disappointments.

She would then go on to tell me, that does not mean she cannot touch, hug or hold me.

Such happened tonight and there we were again at the beginning of the cycle. When it came to sex, she was telling me to promise her nothing like that would happen.

This is something I can't even discuss with friends and even a cousin of mine, guys would be able to relate more, it's something I'm ashamed of.

These days I even began looking up drugs that lower libido, all because of this issue.

I love her, God knows I do.

I am tired and frustrated from the constant rejections, I can't even sleep.

It's almost 4 years, what else does she want?

keep to the agreement young man,desist from fornication and stop trying to spoil peoples daughters,shes not your wife and as such does not owe you sex

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Re: A Sexless Relationship by SweetCunt97(f): 6:48am On Sep 30, 2020
UtopianPassion:
To begin with, please, if you believe in no sex before marriage, keep your opinion to yourself.

I am in a sexless relationship almost 4 years now, from the outset the agreement was no sex.

Honestly speaking if I knew I'd someday be writing on NL seeking advice, I'd have moved on from her, but love got me hooked.

It's ironic isn't it, having a girlfriend and still wanking (sighs!). I find it extremely difficult cheating, as I have never done this with any other woman.

As regards my woman, there's nothing I haven't done except rape (which I can never do). Lots of instances when the only thing left is for the act itself, she begins begging me in the name of God not to do this to her, she doesn't want to get pregnant, she wants to keep it till her marriage night and all that.

Even when I buy a condom, it's one story or the other. She might even turn her back on me or cover her boobs or her pussy.

Recently, I told her I'm done with the kissing and caressing, it's a cycle whose end I know is always filled with disappointments.

She would then go on to tell me, that does not mean she cannot touch, hug or hold me.

Such happened tonight and there we were again at the beginning of the cycle. When it came to sex, she was telling me to promise her nothing like that would happen.

This is something I can't even discuss with friends and even a cousin of mine, guys would be able to relate more, it's something I'm ashamed of.

These days I even began looking up drugs that lower libido, all because of this issue.

I love her, God knows I do.

I am tired and frustrated from the constant rejections, I can't even sleep.

It's almost 4 years, what else does she want?

Simply put oil in between her laps and manage it.
Re: A Sexless Relationship by Maxxim: 6:49am On Sep 30, 2020
EASYGURU:
Brohoe chase the demon out. Simp are never in control. She's been in control for far too long. Don't simp for a hoe.
Re: A Sexless Relationship by SweetCunt97(f): 6:50am On Sep 30, 2020
UtopianPassion:
To begin with, please, if you believe in no sex before marriage, keep your opinion to yourself.

I am in a sexless relationship almost 4 years now, from the outset the agreement was no sex.

Honestly speaking if I knew I'd someday be writing on NL seeking advice, I'd have moved on from her, but love got me hooked.

It's ironic isn't it, having a girlfriend and still wanking (sighs!). I find it extremely difficult cheating, as I have never done this with any other woman.

As regards my woman, there's nothing I haven't done except rape (which I can never do). Lots of instances when the only thing left is for the act itself, she begins begging me in the name of God not to do this to her, she doesn't want to get pregnant, she wants to keep it till her marriage night and all that.

Even when I buy a condom, it's one story or the other. She might even turn her back on me or cover her boobs or her pussy.

Recently, I told her I'm done with the kissing and caressing, it's a cycle whose end I know is always filled with disappointments.

She would then go on to tell me, that does not mean she cannot touch, hug or hold me.

Such happened tonight and there we were again at the beginning of the cycle. When it came to sex, she was telling me to promise her nothing like that would happen.

This is something I can't even discuss with friends and even a cousin of mine, guys would be able to relate more, it's something I'm ashamed of.

These days I even began looking up drugs that lower libido, all because of this issue.

I love her, God knows I do.

I am tired and frustrated from the constant rejections, I can't even sleep.

It's almost 4 years, what else does she want?

You agreed to a NO sex relationship. If sex is that important, wife her.

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Re: A Sexless Relationship by ArticleBeast: 6:50am On Sep 30, 2020
EASYGURU:
Brohoe chase the demon out. Simp are never in control. She's been in control for far too long. Don't simp for a hoe.
You want to feel among too. Everytime hoe, simp... I know you trying to sound woke and act like the guys here but this ain't you dude.
Re: A Sexless Relationship by proclinician: 7:01am On Sep 30, 2020
padi94:


Fuckkk you if that is what she wants then be it.
You foolish hypocrite you are the ones that make females feel like their vagina is the most important part of their body.

But if a guy fuckkks a truck load of girls it's fine abi, he is a cult hero. So she is a free donor, d guy that deposit sperm inside her is not a donor. You Illiterate and your likes are why our society is what it is, in shambles.

Avoid that guy, he lacks the least kilobyte of common sense.

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Re: A Sexless Relationship by proclinician: 7:02am On Sep 30, 2020
SweetCunt97:
Simply put oil in between her laps and manage it.

Hell no...

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