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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Parisian: 4:23am On Sep 30, 2020
yomi007k:
Did he ever warn you of late night movement?

If you get hit by a car or arrested, will you not push the financial burden onto them.

It is his house and you will have to live by his rules. If you want your freedom go and get your own place. By then, you will know that even FRERDOM comes with a PRICE.

That's how life goes.
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by juman(m): 4:40am On Sep 30, 2020
Flogging person at that age is not common but sometimes it happen.
Take it easy mister young man.

Learn to behave according to his rule as long as you live in his house.

But thank God you had job before corona, the corona would be under control much more in next few months. Hence you would go back to your job and live elsewhere.

Note: You must be careful. Dont kill your father in error.
Never hit him back.
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by austinfan4love(m): 4:56am On Sep 30, 2020
Oboi,,,,,u go chop cane till u die,,,,,u better pakaout na small u just dey see,,,,,

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by mayorkent(m): 5:07am On Sep 30, 2020
Life no suppose hard , since you still day I'm house avoid matters way go bring up long talk..

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Milant22(m): 5:14am On Sep 30, 2020
Just try to do something at your age you're lamenting stop that make him proud
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by minkratin: 5:26am On Sep 30, 2020
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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Poloyanabo2(m): 5:42am On Sep 30, 2020
Righteousness89:

It's a Crime for Your Father to Discipline you because your 26 yrs?
Which church do you attend?
You've taken this too far, i thought you were joking initially

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by dollytino4real(f): 5:42am On Sep 30, 2020
guy sorry, take heart it will stop. make urself useful and u will see the turnaround
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by TinubuGoQuench(f): 5:45am On Sep 30, 2020
Righteousness89:


you are Speaking English..
When you Become a father you will understand better the Importance of Discipline..

People who click like on your post are not thoroughly educated. You're just a hypocrite who hide behind a faceless forum to brainwash gullible Nairalanders

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Poloyanabo2(m): 5:47am On Sep 30, 2020
Op are you smallish in stature?
if yes, then go for bodybuilding classes, the next time he tries that shit, take the cane from him and break it and give him serious warning....if he gets physical reply him too, even if you end up loosing the fight he'll stop that shit for the sake of his respect.
Sorry but your dad is mad to do tha!
God will still punish him, what rubbish?
Even if am jobless does it warrant that?
Nonsense and Apc

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by puremaker7(m): 5:49am On Sep 30, 2020
hstar:

grin grin bless you
We plenty for this matter
I just shouted and rebuked but didn't do anything for the fear of my unborn children not to do the same thing to me,

God bless you guy.
Sometimes one just need to display a little bit of madness to settle some matters and at the end of the day, u just tender ur apology to normalize everything.

And behold, the nonsense would stop
I swear, baba was like... Se ofe na mi ni, emi o na baba mi ri (Do you want to beat me, I did not beat my father) and I said I will neither beat you nor will you beat me too.
That was how that shit ended, he never tried to beat me again...and I left his house at the age of 30.. we are now in very good relationship
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Poloyanabo2(m): 5:50am On Sep 30, 2020
TinubuGoQuench:


People who click like on your post are not thoroughly educated. You're just a hypocrite who hide behind a faceless forum to brainwash gullible Nairalanders
Never clicked like on a post on NL, I'm surprised people have time for that.
All nigerians are hypocrites tho!
that's why their watchword is, take the message and leave the messenger.

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Henrypraise: 6:04am On Sep 30, 2020
When I was 19 I drove my dad's benz 200e, he noticed it and gave a big slap, I looked at him with anger and gave out a big laugh, I started laughing till he himself started laughing too, I was running away and laughing... funny experience....

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by puremaker7(m): 6:04am On Sep 30, 2020
JIMMY1393:


Mad oh...how was his reaction during the apology? what did he say after you apologized? and who and who were there when you break cane lol ? ?
my siblings, my mom, they were all there that night, my siblings were happy, but mum was just crying she thought I wanted to beat her husband because my eyes were very red like I just swallowed fire, i was at the blink of explosion, so the following morning when I went to appologize, he said he wanted me for the good, but I said the cane was breaking me emotionally, I made him know that I will never beat my dad and I won't allow anybody to try beat him too. that was how the shit ended.
sometimes you have to take your freedom by force.

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by olaeffect(m): 6:06am On Sep 30, 2020
yomi007k:
Did he ever warn you of late night movement?

If you get hit by a car or arrested, will you not push the financial burden onto them.

It is his house and you will have to live by his rules. If you want your freedom go and get your own place. By then, you will know that even FRERDOM comes with a PRICE.

That's how life goes.

And he is silent about that part. Maybe he has even missed a good opportunity in life on the premise of going to watch ball.
No job at 26yrs and you are going to watch your mates and even juniors that are making hundreds of millions of naira weekly, and you think you dont deserve flogging, even me too feel like flogging you at the moment.

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Thecreatorx: 6:09am On Sep 30, 2020
Righteousness89:

We had a long chat! If you have gone through our chats you won't pick on this..

Irrespective of Whatever you feel my Brother, your Appointment/ Dissappointment is Irrelevant!
The one Being I Strive not to Disappoint is My Father in Heaven..
By His Grace , I have not Disappointed him.
If I have, He will let me know or my Conscience will prick me..

God Bless you


Ogbeni shut up joor, lunnatics like you decide when you have offended or disappointed God just to sooth your ego which nairaland zombies have blessed you with!
You are a violent person, your only guise is religion and your religious knowledge is erred.

Righteousness89:
[s][/s]

If I was your Father! I will cane you for uttering this..

Violent child.

Righteousness89:


I am very Sorry for Replying u!
I thought you were a Reasonable young man..

Lol even religious zombies wan savage for nl lmao

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Thecreatorx: 6:11am On Sep 30, 2020
Righteousness89:

I will Dissappoint you more bro....
If my Summations Dissappoints u, that's Wonderful!!

We are not Here to Give u what you wanna Hear!
We are Here to Give you the Truth, irrespective of your Appointment or Disappointment..

We don't stand with the Crowd!
We Stand for Truth!
You are part of the babaric african crowd as long as you believe flogging, maltreating, hating a child is the right thing, because Caucasians wrote it in books

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Nobody: 6:17am On Sep 30, 2020
Ebhod20:

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I don't get you,,
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by g4gerald: 6:19am On Sep 30, 2020
Righteousness89:
Your Father is your Father! He can correct as he wants !
My GrandFather Dealt with his sons who Where Married..
More so when you are still under his Roof!
Correct as he wants? Seriously? So u think abusing ur children is the proper way to correct them abi?, let alone an adult
Dis is child/adult abuse
Alot of African parents lacks proper orientation about parenting, dats why u see them physically an verbally abusing their children

Am disappointed at ur statement

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Kriss216: 6:30am On Sep 30, 2020
Brunicekid:
From the profile of the OP, it is a Male... Except, the story was written on behalf of someone else.
He added that M after my post.

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Kriss216: 6:32am On Sep 30, 2020
Oshokalo:
somebody said he went to watch liverpool in a footbal house do u still nees is gender
Ladies watch football match too.

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by jumper524(m): 6:32am On Sep 30, 2020
Righteousness89:


My Brother! Flogging is a form of Discipline
Punishment is a Form of Discipline!

You can't be Under your Parents and do anyhow!

There are Lanlord that will lock you outside for breaking the house rules. If you are not happy, what u do is move out!

As a young man who is passing a phase in Life, knowing the Circumstances around you, you will avoid anything that will bring such stuffs..

Maturity is not just in age or in height!
It's the ability to know what to do and how to do it..

Your Parents are your Parents ! Don't Deceive yourself!

If I visit my dad, and I wanna stay with him, I need to adjust myself to what happens there..
I really don't want to interfere in your comments but man I need to understand that most of us condeming the attitude of the father ain't stupid either.
using cain for a 26yr old guy cos he still stays in his father's house isn't discipline.
if I were to be the father, I'll lock my gate/door let him sleep outside rather than canning him.
the holy book teaches us to respect our parents the same holy book didn't tell our parents to exploit our weakness.
it wasn't his wish to remain in his father house and the old man knows this.
if we had the economy the way our fathers met it he would have been working with a better pay and would have most likely left the house.
the op here might been an over patient person oo cos I'm sure 7 out of 10 people going through what the Op Is going through at that age would have reacted which is bad to the father's self respect.

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Kriss216: 6:34am On Sep 30, 2020
yungEX:

The title if the post says "At 26, His Father Still Flogs Him" not really difficult to deduce that OP is male.
“At 26 , my father still flogs Me”

That was the title when I made my post. The Mods change the title.

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by bergs2: 6:36am On Sep 30, 2020
Kriss216:
You’re a good writer.

How you managed to skip your gender all through the post is orgasmic.

Check again.
Male= Waiter.
Female= Waitress.
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by davidodiba(m): 6:41am On Sep 30, 2020
That's a ghetto child
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Paultricenoni: 6:44am On Sep 30, 2020
Lol it's very simple next time something like this happens stand up to him and let him know whose boss unemployment is not reason to be mistreated most of all with a cain you are an adult so act like one tell him to stop that rubbish or u take it from his hand.
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by jumper524(m): 6:44am On Sep 30, 2020
Iambro:
same thing with me, I am 20yrs old
if I should start my own story I won't finish it.
my mom still beat me even tho I do charge.
She tore all my cloth, now I only have one T-Shirt and my bear chest. I can't go out anymore.
I am a terma 1 cadet at Nigerian police academy. when I got shortlisted I was so happy, not because of the admission but because I will be free from abuses.
Not until covid-19 made me returned home.
The one my father did that pained the most was during this lockdown down.
He sent a text message to my friend father that if they see me in their house they should send me away imagine??
They showed me the message and they were really angry at my father.

Right now am fucking depressed. I have tried to commit suicide several times cause i hate the bully and maltreatment in the name of correction. though I am not perfect.

I don't have any friends cause all of them are afraid of me/my parent.

I havent stepped outside for 1 week because I don't have any cloth to wear and they don't care. I pray my school resumes so I can be free from depression again.
I understand the poster plight very well it is what I am currently facing too.

sorry for my bad english.
eyaa sorry bro.
your parents should have been wise enough to stop, since your a cadet, u don't need to scold them.
just be patient with them and yes as much as possible if school resumes, avoid going home as much as possible, let them know you don't want to be with them.(abi your dad too na high ranking officer)?
if so my brother just keep trying and yes learn to react when it becomes too severe so you won't be depressed.
my guy also commot that nonsense called sucide from your head uve gat a lot of people to disappoint with your success..
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by g4gerald: 6:45am On Sep 30, 2020
Righteousness89:

I don't agree with that at all!
Discipline does not Have age.. More Especially when you are still under your Father's Roof..
Aside age, ask urself, Is there a proper way to disciple a child? If ur ansa is NO then u nid to go back to ur pastor for counselling

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Regex: 6:47am On Sep 30, 2020
Acidosis:


Well, you're right.

But if as a father I have to choose one of (1) correcting my child through assault and (2) having my child assaulted by SARS for wandering at night, I will choose the former.


It's funny how no one care about the trauma his father may have been through. He probably may have called his line severally all through the evening only for him to show up at 11pm.

He wouldn't just be assaulted by SARS physically, his father would have been too financially.

So choosing the former is a win win for both.

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Sparkle777(f): 6:50am On Sep 30, 2020
Righteousness89:


you are Speaking English..
When you Become a father you will understand better the Importance of Discipline..

what are you talking about? Disciplining an adult whose mates even run the world? why?? obviously religion has made u think in an opposite direction. pastors like u wil always beat their wives and call it discipline.
that's so wrong, at his age, they should have a man to mans talk. the last time I got beat was in jss 3, after that it's talk time which I always see their reasons and apologize. do u have an idea how it feels to be dehumanized?
would u support the way Sars and soldiers beat up ppl?

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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by SOJOSEPH(m): 6:55am On Sep 30, 2020
Don't worry. It is normal because you represent Bedwetting Nigeria nation at 60. Pele
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by OrluFemmeKing(f): 6:56am On Sep 30, 2020
situationreport:
Please is there anyone else experiencing what I'm passing through now, because it's making me sad and depressed I can't believe my dad still whips me at my age.. I don't want to confront him because, he's still my father even though I feel gutted for his actions

Yesterday I went to watch liverpool vs Arsenal match in a viewing center, and came back late at night by 9:55 pm, As soon as I came in, he was still awake in the parlor, what he did next was to use the cain he hid to start whipping me...i think is because I'm still living with him, at my age with no meaningful contribution right now, that's why

I have no where to go to, It seems I'm now a burden to them in our house...because I 'm currently jobless now and unemployed for six months now, due to this pandemic... I was initially working in the hospitality industry as a waiter, but was laid off at the beginning of the covid-19 pandemic, ever since then things have gone from bad to worse for me..... I'm broke to hell at the moment

I'm seriously depressed, I just wish I could relocate far away and look for something else to do, and fix my life back, but no where to go, I don't have anyone to help... � May God forgive me if I can't bear this anymore....






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