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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Parisian: 4:23am On Sep 30, 2020 |
yomi007k: |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by juman(m): 4:40am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Flogging person at that age is not common but sometimes it happen. Take it easy mister young man. Learn to behave according to his rule as long as you live in his house. But thank God you had job before corona, the corona would be under control much more in next few months. Hence you would go back to your job and live elsewhere. Note: You must be careful. Dont kill your father in error. Never hit him back. |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by austinfan4love(m): 4:56am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Oboi,,,,,u go chop cane till u die,,,,,u better pakaout na small u just dey see,,,,, 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by mayorkent(m): 5:07am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Life no suppose hard , since you still day I'm house avoid matters way go bring up long talk.. 1 Like |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Milant22(m): 5:14am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Just try to do something at your age you're lamenting stop that make him proud |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by minkratin: 5:26am On Sep 30, 2020 |
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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Poloyanabo2(m): 5:42am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Righteousness89:Which church do you attend? You've taken this too far, i thought you were joking initially 1 Like |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by dollytino4real(f): 5:42am On Sep 30, 2020 |
guy sorry, take heart it will stop. make urself useful and u will see the turnaround |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by TinubuGoQuench(f): 5:45am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Righteousness89: People who click like on your post are not thoroughly educated. You're just a hypocrite who hide behind a faceless forum to brainwash gullible Nairalanders 4 Likes |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Poloyanabo2(m): 5:47am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Op are you smallish in stature? if yes, then go for bodybuilding classes, the next time he tries that shit, take the cane from him and break it and give him serious warning....if he gets physical reply him too, even if you end up loosing the fight he'll stop that shit for the sake of his respect. Sorry but your dad is mad to do tha! God will still punish him, what rubbish? Even if am jobless does it warrant that? Nonsense and Apc 2 Likes |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by puremaker7(m): 5:49am On Sep 30, 2020 |
hstar:I swear, baba was like... Se ofe na mi ni, emi o na baba mi ri (Do you want to beat me, I did not beat my father) and I said I will neither beat you nor will you beat me too. That was how that shit ended, he never tried to beat me again...and I left his house at the age of 30.. we are now in very good relationship |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Poloyanabo2(m): 5:50am On Sep 30, 2020 |
TinubuGoQuench:Never clicked like on a post on NL, I'm surprised people have time for that. All nigerians are hypocrites tho! that's why their watchword is, take the message and leave the messenger. 1 Like |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Henrypraise: 6:04am On Sep 30, 2020 |
When I was 19 I drove my dad's benz 200e, he noticed it and gave a big slap, I looked at him with anger and gave out a big laugh, I started laughing till he himself started laughing too, I was running away and laughing... funny experience.... 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by puremaker7(m): 6:04am On Sep 30, 2020 |
JIMMY1393:my siblings, my mom, they were all there that night, my siblings were happy, but mum was just crying she thought I wanted to beat her husband because my eyes were very red like I just swallowed fire, i was at the blink of explosion, so the following morning when I went to appologize, he said he wanted me for the good, but I said the cane was breaking me emotionally, I made him know that I will never beat my dad and I won't allow anybody to try beat him too. that was how the shit ended. sometimes you have to take your freedom by force. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by olaeffect(m): 6:06am On Sep 30, 2020 |
yomi007k: And he is silent about that part. Maybe he has even missed a good opportunity in life on the premise of going to watch ball. No job at 26yrs and you are going to watch your mates and even juniors that are making hundreds of millions of naira weekly, and you think you dont deserve flogging, even me too feel like flogging you at the moment. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Thecreatorx: 6:09am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Righteousness89:Ogbeni shut up joor, lunnatics like you decide when you have offended or disappointed God just to sooth your ego which nairaland zombies have blessed you with! You are a violent person, your only guise is religion and your religious knowledge is erred. Righteousness89: Violent child. Righteousness89: Lol even religious zombies wan savage for nl lmao 2 Likes |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Thecreatorx: 6:11am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Righteousness89:You are part of the babaric african crowd as long as you believe flogging, maltreating, hating a child is the right thing, because Caucasians wrote it in books 2 Likes
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Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Nobody: 6:17am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Ebhod20: I don't get you,, |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by g4gerald: 6:19am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Righteousness89:Correct as he wants? Seriously? So u think abusing ur children is the proper way to correct them abi?, let alone an adult Dis is child/adult abuse Alot of African parents lacks proper orientation about parenting, dats why u see them physically an verbally abusing their children Am disappointed at ur statement 2 Likes |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Kriss216: 6:30am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Brunicekid:He added that M after my post. 1 Like |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Kriss216: 6:32am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Oshokalo:Ladies watch football match too. 1 Like |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by jumper524(m): 6:32am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Righteousness89:I really don't want to interfere in your comments but man I need to understand that most of us condeming the attitude of the father ain't stupid either. using cain for a 26yr old guy cos he still stays in his father's house isn't discipline. if I were to be the father, I'll lock my gate/door let him sleep outside rather than canning him. the holy book teaches us to respect our parents the same holy book didn't tell our parents to exploit our weakness. it wasn't his wish to remain in his father house and the old man knows this. if we had the economy the way our fathers met it he would have been working with a better pay and would have most likely left the house. the op here might been an over patient person oo cos I'm sure 7 out of 10 people going through what the Op Is going through at that age would have reacted which is bad to the father's self respect. 1 Like |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Kriss216: 6:34am On Sep 30, 2020 |
yungEX:“At 26 , my father still flogs Me” That was the title when I made my post. The Mods change the title. 2 Likes |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by bergs2: 6:36am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Kriss216: Check again. Male= Waiter. Female= Waitress. |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by davidodiba(m): 6:41am On Sep 30, 2020 |
That's a ghetto child |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Paultricenoni: 6:44am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Lol it's very simple next time something like this happens stand up to him and let him know whose boss unemployment is not reason to be mistreated most of all with a cain you are an adult so act like one tell him to stop that rubbish or u take it from his hand. |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by jumper524(m): 6:44am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Iambro:eyaa sorry bro. your parents should have been wise enough to stop, since your a cadet, u don't need to scold them. just be patient with them and yes as much as possible if school resumes, avoid going home as much as possible, let them know you don't want to be with them.(abi your dad too na high ranking officer)? if so my brother just keep trying and yes learn to react when it becomes too severe so you won't be depressed. my guy also commot that nonsense called sucide from your head uve gat a lot of people to disappoint with your success.. |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by g4gerald: 6:45am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Righteousness89:Aside age, ask urself, Is there a proper way to disciple a child? If ur ansa is NO then u nid to go back to ur pastor for counselling 1 Like |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Regex: 6:47am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Acidosis: He wouldn't just be assaulted by SARS physically, his father would have been too financially. So choosing the former is a win win for both. 1 Like |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by Sparkle777(f): 6:50am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Righteousness89: what are you talking about? Disciplining an adult whose mates even run the world? why?? obviously religion has made u think in an opposite direction. pastors like u wil always beat their wives and call it discipline. that's so wrong, at his age, they should have a man to mans talk. the last time I got beat was in jss 3, after that it's talk time which I always see their reasons and apologize. do u have an idea how it feels to be dehumanized? would u support the way Sars and soldiers beat up ppl? 1 Like |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by SOJOSEPH(m): 6:55am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Don't worry. It is normal because you represent Bedwetting Nigeria nation at 60. Pele |
Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by OrluFemmeKing(f): 6:56am On Sep 30, 2020 |
situationreport: OP i sent you a PM please check |
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