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Re: Mistakes We Single Men Should Stop Making. by Sixfeetbelle: 8:44pm On Oct 02, 2020 |
Godoverevery: Men are complaining about those things she listed up there. Recently there was a post about dates and a guy was telling other guys to only offer malt to a girl on a date. Like, are men becomming these cheap and yet somehow still expect women to stand by their side? |
Re: Mistakes We Single Men Should Stop Making. by Sixfeetbelle: 8:50pm On Oct 02, 2020 |
yunglegend99: And you really think that when simps clear out, the women that depend on men won't go with them? Women leeching on men make them relevant and once the cash cow is gone, the leeches die off. Know this, when alpha males take over, women will adapt and become feminists. See, what you guys are pushing for is ultimately building a society where more men will become gay because women won't rate men anymore. 1 Like |
Re: Mistakes We Single Men Should Stop Making. by Sixfeetbelle: 9:02pm On Oct 02, 2020 |
demmymoney: How you run your relationship while dating will reflect in your marriage. If you shared responsibilities in your dating phase, continue like that when you get married. If you do otherwise, don't be shocked if it causes problems in your marriage. Set the tone you want in marriage while still dating. Any serious change ruins the foundation and introduces strains and stress. |
Re: Mistakes We Single Men Should Stop Making. by Godoverevery: 9:14pm On Oct 02, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:is a date meant to be about food Only hungry ladies complain about food....in other countries ladies take tea or coffee on date but here Nigeria is an opportunity to eat what they can't afford. 4 Likes |
Re: Mistakes We Single Men Should Stop Making. by Sixfeetbelle: 9:18pm On Oct 02, 2020 |
Godoverevery: Which country do ladies drink tea or coffee only at dates? Please, don't kill me with laughter |
Re: Mistakes We Single Men Should Stop Making. by Godoverevery: 9:22pm On Oct 02, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:If you are educated and understand foreign accent start watching foreign movies so you can understand there life style over there....stop watching Nollywood. 3 Likes |
Re: Mistakes We Single Men Should Stop Making. by Sixfeetbelle: 9:30pm On Oct 02, 2020 |
Godoverevery: Please, don't feel fly with that. I even thought you have firsthand experience. Cc: Lefulefu Come and explain how you guys order stuffs when you go to Starbucks for date. |
Re: Mistakes We Single Men Should Stop Making. by Godoverevery: 9:34pm On Oct 02, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:Telling you that would have been me bragging and I don't do that.......I might not have gone to lot of country overseas but the two have been there is a big difference between them and average Nigeria lady.....they are more reasonable. 3 Likes |
Re: Mistakes We Single Men Should Stop Making. by Sixfeetbelle: 9:39pm On Oct 02, 2020 |
Godoverevery: I still maintain no one orders just coffee on a date. Besides, this was not the point of your initial comment. You said men don't mind going on dates and doing romantic stuffa but going by your posts now, apparently that's a lie. You guys are just plain cheap. |
Re: Mistakes We Single Men Should Stop Making. by Nobody: 9:53pm On Oct 02, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:pls dont laugh me..i am rather old fashioned ..what is Starbucks? ..is that a chinese resturant or what? For me oo i believe if u are a young guy and you not earning much and u want to meet a lady for the first then take her to place that is friendly to ur pocket.I dont think a normal guy would argue he cant meet up a girl in Mr Bigg or any of the fastfood joints in naija.Those places are conducive to meet in nigeria cos their environments are neat and if it comes ordering..how much would be a piece of meatpie and a bottle of coke to order.Even if he cant afford such their normal cheap clean eateries he could do his meeting up.It doesnt make sense when u know u cant afford it will now be carrying a girl to an italian resturant pr chinese resturant when u know their services there is quite expensive.when u have a steady job that pays well and u now married u can take ur wife once in a while to a chinese resturant or italian resturant to spoil her . |
Re: Mistakes We Single Men Should Stop Making. by mikebabs101: 10:42pm On Oct 02, 2020 |
Godoverevery:How many men dey see woman money spend, abeg let's talk about something else, ladies are generally stingy and most of them are broke 2 Likes |
Re: Mistakes We Single Men Should Stop Making. by phazotron(m): 10:55pm On Oct 02, 2020 |
chatinent: I tell you Even when I like a female I won't tell until im sure she can be a great friend then I can push further |
Re: Mistakes We Single Men Should Stop Making. by phazotron(m): 10:56pm On Oct 02, 2020 |
Godoverevery: Not just reasonable Better in every level |
Re: Mistakes We Single Men Should Stop Making. by demmymoney(m): 11:11pm On Oct 02, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: First of all, there's a difference between dating and marriage U can't b doing marriage duties while dating, it is not smart 1 Like |
Re: Mistakes We Single Men Should Stop Making. by Liposure: 11:20pm On Oct 02, 2020 |
mikebabs101:aside that, a lot of them are capitalising on the patriachal nature of men whereby the dude takes care of everything 1 Like |
Re: Mistakes We Single Men Should Stop Making. by OGWILLS123: 2:16am On Oct 03, 2020 |
virginprincess:I thought you wanted to say you can feed his family not your family can feed his family the only time wey Naija babe Brain fit activate nah when food dey involve no wonder they can't think of any other things 3 Likes
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Re: Mistakes We Single Men Should Stop Making. by Drsnives(m): 2:57am On Oct 03, 2020 |
Godoverevery: God bless you for this post bro |
Re: Mistakes We Single Men Should Stop Making. by Drsnives(m): 3:01am On Oct 03, 2020 |
Madibah: Correct man |
Re: Mistakes We Single Men Should Stop Making. by Chocogoddess(f): 3:07am On Oct 03, 2020 |
Wcom to Nigeria, where a Woman's ability to adapt to poverty determines if she's a wife Material or not... Yes, the woman is supposed to be able to support no matter how small.. Buh most men now use this as an excuse for shying away from their responsibilities... And remember if those men weren't doing well for themselves, m sure those women won't have given them a chance... No matter how much a lady earns, she needs her man to Spoil her, the take care of some of her needs, iit's not greed, it's natural, it just shows that u are responsible, man enough |
Re: Mistakes We Single Men Should Stop Making. by LINTUNE(m): 4:50am On Oct 03, 2020 |
virginprincess:ny happiness is that , not all gals have ur leeching menatlity, the other day, a friend was telling me how his cousin (female) sent 100k to her bf that was traveling to lag to get greeners pasture, this is a gal that earns 85k...she is also planning to surprise him with a mifi as gift for his bday, cos the guy is a programmer...in as much as we have so many leeches like u, there are still lot of sensible matured nigerian women out there, the type that God will so punish any man that toy with their heart, cos they are rare jewels...so madam continue with ur mentality, but stop sounding like its a norm...bye 4 Likes |
Re: Mistakes We Single Men Should Stop Making. by LINTUNE(m): 4:56am On Oct 03, 2020 |
Chocogoddess:thats if she deserves spoiling, if she doesn't spoil me once in a while, then Bleep her, i won't spoil her even if im the richest man alive...all u gals know how to do is broke shane guys, like ur father or brothers are even doing better financially than those guys...later u want equal opportunity with men, if u want ww men to be like our fathers, why not learn how to be like our fore mothers, be a hoyse wife, don't have a career, just sit at home and take care of the kids, then i bet u, u will receive mire spoiling u can get.. 2 Likes |
Re: Mistakes We Single Men Should Stop Making. by Iceyjayz: 5:42am On Oct 03, 2020 |
Godoverevery:Thank you |
Re: Mistakes We Single Men Should Stop Making. by Iceyjayz: 6:06am On Oct 03, 2020 |
Zzor:Keep deceiving yourself, you think because you have one vagina like that and fallen boobs you can control a man, I just laugh at your ignorance. 1 Like |
Re: Mistakes We Single Men Should Stop Making. by emmaodet: 6:18am On Oct 03, 2020 |
GLYCOLYSISS: Hmmmmmmmm |
Re: Mistakes We Single Men Should Stop Making. by emmaodet: 6:20am On Oct 03, 2020 |
GLYCOLYSISS: I want to thank God for making me to know a forum like nairaland because comments like this are what really brushed me up and makes me to work towards valuing myself and raises my self esteem. 4 Likes |
Re: Mistakes We Single Men Should Stop Making. by virginprincess(f): 7:04am On Oct 03, 2020 |
LINTUNE:Mr man you don't even know me yet you just concluded that am a leech, let me make it clear to you, i can never beg a man for money, i was not brought up that way, i don't depend on anybody for money not even my parent, it just that you guys don't get my point, because you don't want to understand. |
Re: Mistakes We Single Men Should Stop Making. by Damian457: 7:05am On Oct 03, 2020 |
Honestly, These simps keep bringing shame to us MajesticKris: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Mistakes We Single Men Should Stop Making. by LINTUNE(m): 7:52am On Oct 03, 2020 |
virginprincess:its u thatbdont understand, normally a guy should show love, buy gifts for his gal, take her out, all this should be done out of love, and not the gal feeling entitled ...u cant tell me as a hustling young man to train a gal in the uni, or get her an iphone 11, if i do that, it woyld be on my own detriment, ...try and understand the ops point, and dont judge this with emotions...even as a rich guy, why should i spend so much money on gal i might not marry, a gal who hasn't contributed much in my life apart from sex?, of course i can take her for little shopping, and all other minor stuff..but a responsibke woman should nrver feel entitled to a man's money, ....how would u feel if ur brother spends so much money on his gal, without considering family first?.. 1 Like |
Re: Mistakes We Single Men Should Stop Making. by Sixfeetbelle: 9:27am On Oct 03, 2020 |
lefulefu: You don't know Starbucks? You guys don't have them where you stay? I'm shocked by this revelation. Anyway, the whole point of mentioning Starbucks was to state categorically that no one orders just coffee on a date. Cause when has coffee ever been a "go to" for dates. Unless it's for on the go, then maybe I'll agree. |
Re: Mistakes We Single Men Should Stop Making. by Sixfeetbelle: 9:28am On Oct 03, 2020 |
demmymoney: Thank you so much for missing the point entirely. |
Re: Mistakes We Single Men Should Stop Making. by fuckaholic25(f): 9:38am On Oct 03, 2020 |
in all you do, never forget Eboue |
Re: Mistakes We Single Men Should Stop Making. by Nobody: 9:49am On Oct 03, 2020 |
Zzor:Seconded.. You're always on point girl |
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