I've been dating this girl for 10 months. We were close friends before we were dating. I've been very nice to this girl. She's a virgin and she's told me she wasn't ready for sex and I respected her choices. All the times we've been together has been fun for both of us. She enjoys my company..

So I was shocked when she called me yesterday to tell me that she can't continue the relationship. She said her parents are against her having relationships and that the whole relationship thing is tiring for her. She apologized and said she needs time away from guys for a while.

I'm still confused. I've been very loyal to her and even showed her off on social media. I've been down since yesterday.

Eya.

Take it easy, it's not an examination result. You need to understand that in boyfriend/girlfriend type of relationships, people are entitled to make certain decisions based on their convictions not minding if it suits you or not. Her excuse may be genuine or likely a cover up to give u a red card in order to pave a super highway for another dude she prefers to continue from where you stopped. You have to understand and respect her decision while u move on. If you are in love you must be brave as a man else you'll someday roll in the mud to beg a lady to accept your abokki engagement ring. What you should be after at this stage of your life is to pursue legit success, and you'll be amazed about the number of applications you'll recieve from all kinds of ladies and most of them will apply in person. I hope you ain't one of those who come on here to shout SIMP, cos if you are and you never knew the meaning, what you are doing is the meaning.

ogbene.. for the past 5years.. I haven't asked a lady how far... and am doing very well with my business...

Trust me, this is one of the best thing that has happened to you this year.

Let her go!

Degofido:
I've been dating this girl for 10 months. We were close friends before we were dating. I've been very nice to this girl. She's a virgin and she's told me she wasn't ready for sex and I respected her choices. All the times we've been together has been fun for both of us. She enjoys my company..

So I was shocked when she called me yesterday to tell me that she can't continue the relationship. She said her parents are against her having relationships and that the whole relationship thing is tiring for her. She apologized and said she needs time away from guys for a while.

I'm still confused. I've been very loyal to her and even showed her off on social media. I've been down since yesterday.

U need to receive lectures from Alpha males....

Wait!!! Have u read Ubunja's miseducation?
If no, then go and do so immediately!

Money and peace of mind over any bitch!

You'll get over it.

By the way you narrated the story, i will say she is one of the nice ones.

Focus on yourself, a woman does not define you - let her go

congratulations, you just got a minus out of your problems

meanwhile go read ubunja miseducations

Some one above me said u should read Ubunja's miseducation...


That will be de route to ur self destruction, joining those ones in their red pill constitution, will cause u more harm than good,

Just pick up ur self and move on, always use wisdom, when dating Nigerian women...they are the most confused sets.

Degofido:
I've been dating this girl for 10 months. We were close friends before we were dating. I've been very nice to this girl. She's a virgin and she's told me she wasn't ready for sex and I respected her choices. All the times we've been together has been fun for both of us. She enjoys my company..

So I was shocked when she called me yesterday to tell me that she can't continue the relationship. She said her parents are against her having relationships and that the whole relationship thing is tiring for her. She apologized and said she needs time away from guys for a while.

I'm still confused. I've been very loyal to her and even showed her off on social media. I've been down since yesterday.

It's a blessing in disguise for you because lots of girls are good-for-nothing out there.

ehn leave her alone,you want to lure her to sin abi,her eyes are cleared,nothing for you

she has been lambered

Iyooooooo cartel

You have been down because of a woman?

Whenever I am feeling sober all I do is sewa

Better stand up from your slumber and get your hustling tools. Someone all round better than you and most importantly more financially stable than you're just replaced you.

Ana eme benji matter ina eme matter boo

Jonzing man

Degofido:
I've been dating this girl for 10 months. We were close friends before we were dating. I've been very nice to this girl. She's a virgin and she's told me she wasn't ready for sex and I respected her choices. All the times we've been together has been fun for both of us. She enjoys my company..

So I was shocked when she called me yesterday to tell me that she can't continue the relationship. She said her parents are against her having relationships and that the whole relationship thing is tiring for her. She apologized and said she needs time away from guys for a while.

I'm still confused. I've been very loyal to her and even showed her off on social media. I've been down since yesterday.

OP, you didn't press the right button, if you had done so, she would have been all over you.

Lol, bro. take heart,u should be grateful to God that she revealed d truth on time and stop being a SIMP. don't waste ur time and money on a girl who is adamant on keeping her virginity,d worst thing u will ever do is to accept her back once she calls back asking for forgiveness....

Op how old are you....so you have nothing meaningful to do with your time rather than run after a girl the parents are trying to mould into a decent lady.

Your problem is idleness.

Just hustle well and when u get this cash in hand then u will receive phone calls from different girls claiming they were friends with you 10months ago...

It's good she opened up.

Find a mature person please.

Meanwhile, stop putting sex first. I read where you said you respected her choice of celibacy. That is to say if she didn't say it and mean it, you would have indulged.

Be first you bro. Premarital sex is not it at all.

Do not date a girl who isn't ready for sex.

Most of them have low libido. Extremely low libido. And find sex very irritating. They won't tell you. They are no saints. They are just victims of hormonal imbalance.

You must run from the caveat "no sex before marriage". Years ago, nothing frightened me more than those lines.

Our God-given loins and all its endowments must not be left unmassaged, unsucked and lonely. We must thrust upon the bearded meat of the girl whom we love. And for the very few potent men amongst us; this is the only way to love a woman and love her very well.

It better she leaves you before you force her to commit sin.

Stand on your feet. Its not end of the world. Life goes on. Move on

Degofido:
I've been dating this girl for 10 months. We were close friends before we were dating. I've been very nice to this girl. She's a virgin and she's told me she wasn't ready for sex and I respected her choices. All the times we've been together has been fun for both of us. She enjoys my company..

So I was shocked when she called me yesterday to tell me that she can't continue the relationship. She said her parents are against her having relationships and that the whole relationship thing is tiring for her. She apologized and said she needs time away from guys for a while.

I'm still confused. I've been very loyal to her and even showed her off on social media. I've been down since yesterday.

... time away from guys

Ask her how many guys

My own is hope you weren't spending on her?
if you were, i am afraid to tell you she probably wasn't a virgin....you probably met her a virgin but another sharp bad guy went in before you...and now she doesn't have the face to tell you, so it's better to break up and still have her respect and reputation intact!!!.....cut all contact completely from her now and in the future cos i'm 99percent sure she'll reach out to you later....


Women have no respect for guys who accept the no sex till marriage card even if she is a virgin.....because she knows no man with options(That is a man other women want)would accept that condition....and women want men other women want..

All this kind story have tired me
Can't you guys get sense that Nigeria girls aren't worth to date and the worst part is you guys are still falling in that stupid thing called love of these days

MAGG0T:



Some one above me said u should read Ubunja's miseducation...


That will be de route to ur self destruction, joining those ones in their red pill constitution, will cause u more harm than good,

Just pick up ur self and move on, always use wisdom, when dating Nigerian women...they are the most confused sets.

You took a dig at redpill teachings ,and then turn around to make a horrendous assumption on women nature.
Your acclaimed wisdom begins and end in the psychological schemas women have employed to blindfold you from the truth.
Now, the truth is that no single woman is confuse when it comes to the mating game.
That's one of the distasteful and dangerous lies men have being programmed to believe about women in our society today.
They know exactly what they are doing and the choices that will give them the biggest chances of securing their needs, depending of the stage they are in life, and the necessity of that choice(s).
Is guys like you that don't understand women nature hinge under the "women are confuse" mantra to excuse there ignorance of their nature.
Basically, it's men like you that are confuse not the women you accuse of such.
They (women) know it, every man that have gotten a glimpse of the ruthless reality of women nature knows it as well.
More reasons it's easier to sell " I don't know what came over me, I was naive and I was taken advantage of" line to guys like you, because you're ready to accept it, justify it and probably blame yourself for her choice(s).
I wish more men understand women nature..
How does he pick himself up and move on without having and knowing the necessary tools to do just that?
You still want him to be stuck in a vicious cycle of getting hurt over and over and over again ?
What wisdom are you talking about if not the same ideology you openly criticised ?

But then you deem it dangerous because it doesn't ponder to your feelings and your convictions about women ?

GLYCOLYSISS:

You took a dig at redpill teachings ,and then turn around to make a horrendous assumption on women nature.
Your acclaimed wisdom begins and end in the psychological schemas women have employed to blindfold you from the truth.
Now, the truth is that no single woman is confuse when it comes to the mating game.
That's one of the distasteful and dangerous lies men have being programmed to believe about women in our society today.
They know exactly what they are doing and the choices that will give them the biggest chances of securing their needs, depending of the stage they are in life, and the necessity of that choice(s).
Is guys like you that don't understand women nature hinge under the "women are confuse" mantra to excuse there ignorance of their nature.
Basically, it's men like you that are confuse not the women you accuse of such.
They (women) know it, every man that have gotten a glimpse of the ruthless reality of women nature knows it as well.
More reasons it's easier to sell " I don't know what came over me, I was naive and I was taken advantage of" line to guys like you, because you're ready to accept it, justify it and probably blame yourself for her choice(s).
I wish more men understand women nature..

Take ur red pill shit else where, I haven't for once read any trash they post in such threads,...person wey dey wise dey wise, it comes natural

First of all, how old is she?


Incase you don't know na me talk

Degofido:
I've been dating this girl for 10 months. We were close friends before we were dating. I've been very nice to this girl. She's a virgin and she's told me she wasn't ready for sex and I respected her choices. All the times we've been together has been fun for both of us. She enjoys my company..

So I was shocked when she called me yesterday to tell me that she can't continue the relationship. She said her parents are against her having relationships and that the whole relationship thing is tiring for her. She apologized and said she needs time away from guys for a while.

I'm still confused. I've been very loyal to her and even showed her off on social media. I've been down since yesterday.

It's just a relationship it's not like your wife left you, heart break happens alot, it's a natural order. You go dey alright. you seem like a decent person since you said loyalty so pre-occupy yourself with projects or other hobbies.

MAGG0T:


Take ur red pill shit else where, I haven't for once read any trash they post in such threads,...person wey dey wise dey wise, it comes natural

Do have a great day, man.

Congrats be thankful bro , she’s a very smart and kind hearted one . Hope she never waste much of your time sha ...... she makes a very good move by telling you and not hoeing around and disguise while she’s still with you . Thank your creator . Look for a better apple . Old things sha pass away