hello to all.I have known my boyfriend for 10 years.i am now with hin for almost 2 years.He controls me anywhere i go but if he goes somewhere i am not alow to know where or to go with him.He doesnt wana invest no money on me and i am not talking about buying me house or car but all he buy me is basic food and i am in his country where he works and i dont work.He always critisizes my look and i am very good looking woman teling me i must slim down or alwaya look good but he never wana invest in me.He force me to work but i canot work in his country coz of no papers.He makes me to clean house but he never promised me mariage.I serve him clean all house cook for him stil he see me as nothing ans nevwe promised mariage.He hit me many times and i am afraid of him.After he hit me he wil.be good to me for few days and again same.What should i do

Wait till he invest in digging ur grave..


Nothing wey Neo no go see for Vee pant

break up with him na and return to your country. I'm always surprised at what I see on nairaland nowadays.

What should you do?Was it human trafficking that took you to where you are presently?

That type of life is not a life.

On the other side too, it may be because you no longer look attractive to him, like you're big and you don't make-up. He probably doesn't want to tell you to leave because he knows he has delayed you for over 10 years. But you should try looking attractive and sexy both in appearance and on bed, afterwards,you can talk to him.
If the maltreatment continues, it'll be better you leave... Everyone deserves a peaceful and sweet life. And hope there wasn't a time you treated him badly in the past, maybe when he was broke or you trampled on his ego too much by doing things against his wishes, or you made him unhappy for too long at a point in your relationship.

If you've looked the way he wants you to look(sexy) and you've talked to him and none of the above seems to be the problem, then you should probably leave and try finding a better life.

Rockyfancino:
That type of life is not a life.

On the other side too, it may be because you no longer look attractive to him, like you're big and you don't make-up. He probably doesn't want to tell you to leave because he knows he has delayed you for over 10 years. But you should try looking attractive and sexy both in appearance and on bed, afterwards,you can talk to him.
If the maltreatment continues, it'll be better you leave... Everyone deserves a peaceful and sweet life. And hope there wasn't a time you treated him badly in the past, maybe when he was broke or you trampled on his ego too much by doing things against his wishes, or you made him unhappy for too long at a point in your relationship.

If you've looked the way he wants you to look(sexy) and you've talked to him and none of the above seems to be the problem, then you should probably leave and try finding a better life.

Thank u for reply.Bt i am not big woman i am slim woman but he want me to be more slim.He want me to look like a model but doesnt wana invest in my beauty.Bt he rather want me to wash dishes clean abuse me n humiliate me i feel so worthles with him