eneazi:
Personally I think there is a gradual transition from 100% financial dependant women to career ones who are breaking boundaries without needing a man's assistance

AFONAMARO:


You better change your mentality and start thinking of how to make money and take care of yourself. No man owes you jack.

Quit being entitled and work hard as you reek of liability

Heartlessbanker:
Why do 'most' Nigerian girls have this inane mentality that they don't need to struggle or achieve things in life if after all, they'll get married. What sorta useless mentality is this? No man should marry a broke or jobless lady!

Nb: opinions contrary to the op's should be aired with civility or be met with "fire and fury".

Dpsychologist:
This phenomenon has occurred for a long time now.

Women have entitlement mentality starting as a teenager her mom tells her how that she will marry and her Husband provides for her. She also observes her parents.

The Most intoxicating is when she begins to grow older she gets an Overdose of attention. Even if she coughs a guy will tell her she has the most Beautiful cough in the world . Guys + sugar daddies provide her with whatever she needs coupled with Narcissistic attention she gets from 5000 friends on fb, countless msg on WhatsApp and unfettered attention on Instagram and the likes.

She is always favoured anywhere she goes for the fact she is a woman.

When she gets married she will be taken care of till death(unless unfortunate circumstance). Her work is to lie down like Log of wood while the Husband sweat himself to please her.

Peradventure she is not a stay at home mother. As a Career woman her money is her money while the Husband money is their money.

She gives birth and the Husband take care of the children.
When the children grow she will still be taken care of.


Tell me why wouldn’t she feel entitled?

Heartlessbanker:
trash as expected. You just couldn't avoid the dreaded "fallacy ad hominem".

fati2001:
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unah go dy complain yet nah u "ZOOGERIA MEN " GO STILL MARRY EM " EVERY SATURDAY.
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I just witnessed one yesterday. she's a school dropout.. didn't complete one semester and no hand work but she got married yesterday to the same NIGERIA Man.

Zzor:
Is this your own way of saying you won't make plenty money to take care of your woman?you better change this your reasoning ooo,you should be thinking towards making money so you can make your woman very comfortable and happy and not what you are posting here.

Matrimonous:

You that's even heartless how am I sure you can appreciate the hard working girl? Hahahahaha

OgogoroDegree:

Lol....

Zzor:
Whether you accept or not,nature made it that way for men to go make money and take care of their women,a woman's money is solely her money and not for any man except if she chooses to assist voluntarily.I never said women should not work

MrTAnonymous:
Most of them are bunch of lazy rats. And it isn't their fault, it is the fault of guys that encourage and indulge them in this kind of attitude.

Incase you don't know na me talk

Heartlessbanker:
neuron deficit man. Go alter your diet then, we'll discuss.

Zzor:
Whether you accept or not,nature made it that way for men to go make money and take care of their women,a woman's money is solely her money and not for any man except if she chooses to assist voluntarily.I never said women should not work

ednut1:
Even the gainfully employed still want to relax and be taken care of.

Heartlessbaanker:
Why do 'most' Nigerian girls have this inane mentality that they don't need to struggle or achieve things in life if after all, they'll get married. What sorta useless mentality is this? No man should marry a broke or jobless lady!

Nb: opinions contrary to the op's should be aired with civility or be met with "fire and fury".

Zzor:
Whether you accept or not,nature made it that way for men to go make money and take care of their women,a woman's money is solely her money and not for any man except if she chooses to assist voluntarily.I never said women should not work

Zzor:
Whether you accept or not,nature made it that way for men to go make money and take care of their women,a woman's money is solely her money and not for any man except if she chooses to assist voluntarily.I never said women should not work

virginprincess:
My friend shut the Bleep up, don't you see career ladies everywhere, i really pity those girls that will depend on men like you after marriage.

HeavenlyHolines:
Good day house,I joined nairaland then because of the level of information and exposure I received but now things r really changing and turning into child's play. I want to implore us to focus on things of value and matter that bother on real life issues rather than all these non essential issues. The whites really have passed all these stuff. Please let's upgrade and see how we can add value to one another's life. God bless u all

Jeromejnr:


Lol. I like your comment.

dingbang:
the way you people just type without good upbringing is totally pitiable. Will you die if you just type without telling him to keep shut?

Bringing up emotions when reacting to comments is totally unprofessional.

Heartlessbanker:
Why do 'most' Nigerian girls have this inane mentality that they don't need to struggle or achieve things in life if after all, they'll get married. What sorta useless mentality is this? No man should marry a broke or jobless lady!

Nb: opinions contrary to the op's should be aired with civility or be met with "fire and fury".

Amumaigwe:


Womanhood, a confused gender. On one hand you are asking gor equality with men, on the other, you sre looking for a man thst will take care of your needs. Good luck.

virginprincess:
My friend shut the Bleep up, don't you see career ladies everywhere, i really pity those girls that will depend on men like you after marriage.

Zzor:
Whether you accept or not,nature made it that way for men to go make money and take care of their women,a woman's money is solely her money and not for any man except if she chooses to assist voluntarily.I never said women should not work

EdCure:

There was one that followed me home one evening. She called her boyfriend and sent her account number for him to pay for her hair. They guy sent her the money immediately.
When I asked her, she said "how can I have a boyfriend and still spend my own money to make my hair?"

This is a girl that is gainfully employed and spending the weekend with me, cheating on him heavily.

tollyboy5:

You don't need to tell a man his responsibility before he does. Men don't feel reluctant to help their fellow mehn!
Not to talk of their woman.no man is asking his wife for money. But must a lady be jobless and always demanding?
Nature made it men's duty to care for family not to satisfy women. Many ladies start thinking of future husband from their 20s no desire to have any fruitful ambition in life than have a successful husband.
Whenever I give something out to any lady I use to notice this sign of "na normal thing" from them so I use to try very hard to not give them single kobo!
When its time for me to flex I'll get runs girls and we'll have good tym thats all.
I've also decided to cut off all the ladies who have touching story because I'm not an helper, someone will not missuse her tym and start telling stories that touch

Chii59:
I need an iPhone. Who'll get me one?