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Re: Help: I Am 18 Today And I Am Not Happy by chris259(m): 5:59pm On Oct 09, 2020 |
Well i can say me and u op have a lot in common. |
Re: Help: I Am 18 Today And I Am Not Happy by cosmos2000(m): 6:02pm On Oct 09, 2020 |
I was Once in your shoes...Omo I ran to God niooo... Any time I speak what people of my age don’t know about... I feel Embarrassed with their look � Omo you don stay long for This site ooh... Since I you are 12 Andy now you are 15.... |
Re: Help: I Am 18 Today And I Am Not Happy by Hintona(f): 6:09pm On Oct 09, 2020 |
Stop worrying and plan your life, know what you want and how you're going to get it. I don't know about you but that's what worked for me and anytime I feel lost or depressed I just pray and console my self that at least there's a God up there who cares about me. 1 Like |
Re: Help: I Am 18 Today And I Am Not Happy by Craig24: 6:39pm On Oct 09, 2020 |
Happy Birthday young man! First it's perfectly healthy to feel this way cos I did experience this at 18.... However, your goal should be becoming self dependent n totally independent on anyone going forward; if you should consider going into artisanship, please do learn any handiwork bothering on buildings (houses, shopping malls, schools, etc). You have quite a handful of them with which you can earn a good living. 1 Like |
Re: Help: I Am 18 Today And I Am Not Happy by Saviolamemphix(m): 7:20pm On Oct 09, 2020 |
Same tin happening to me.. sometimes i feel am just to exposed fr my age |
Re: Help: I Am 18 Today And I Am Not Happy by purpinkx(m): 7:53pm On Oct 09, 2020 |
Happy birthday. First off, ignore anyone advising you to postpone character development. I don't know you or who you are, but I admire the fact that you enjoy reading. So, I'm going to recommend more books. 48 Laws of power is not a good/bad book. Knowing how gravity works is neither bad nor good. It is how you use it that matters. Read. 1. Richest man in Babylon (it is idiot -proof i.e. it seems like a stupid book, but just open your mind ... Let it flow) 2. Mastery - Robert Greene. 3. Attitude is everything - Keith H. 4. Think and grow rich - Napoleon Hill 5. The science of getting rich - Walter [something] 6. The Laws of human nature - Robert Greene. 7. The secret - Rhonda Bryne. 8. The rationale Male (all 3 books) 9. If you need more just holla. Books are like playing the game of life with all the cheat codes Or. You can do what any 18+ old would do. Just look around, you will see them. Once again, Happ birthday. 1 Like |
Re: Help: I Am 18 Today And I Am Not Happy by Nobody: 8:52pm On Oct 09, 2020 |
Otisker: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() They'll say you're on the wrong train but bro you're on the right track ........ Religion is for the gullible.... Reading 48 laws of power is a very wonderful achievement and blessing..... I hope you learnt a lot and you obey it....... It'll help you in every aspect of life...... I hold dear as my Bible ever since I set my hands on it..... Also check for Art Of War by Sun Tzu...... Sun Tzu said "he who knows himself and his enemies need not fear a thousand battles".....this is very quintessential in life..... Also one of the laws says "Plan all the way to the end"........ Define your purpose and goals ......look not at your limits but at how best you can be..... Employ the SWOT analysis....... As for you babe, ........the law is law..... I'll advise you to leave her or else you might suffer some consequences...... Remember... *ELIGE TIBI PROELIS*....... I wish you the best of life.... Ride on .... Victoria Acerta..... 2 Likes |
Re: Help: I Am 18 Today And I Am Not Happy by Nobody: 8:54pm On Oct 09, 2020 |
youngking22: @op value this ........ Also don't forget the red pill.......you'll never regret it 1 Like |
Re: Help: I Am 18 Today And I Am Not Happy by Nobody: 8:55pm On Oct 09, 2020 |
gaius01: Why .... How..... He's on the right path bro.... We need people who have been thought how to think and not what to think 1 Like |
Re: Help: I Am 18 Today And I Am Not Happy by Nobody: 8:56pm On Oct 09, 2020 |
Enifloxy: Why did you say it was his greatest mistake? ......IT skills are important..... 1 Like |
Re: Help: I Am 18 Today And I Am Not Happy by Nobody: 8:58pm On Oct 09, 2020 |
Cladez: I think what's more harmful is lack of knowledge and speaking too much..... ALWAYS SAY LESS THAN NECESSARY... 1 Like |
Re: Help: I Am 18 Today And I Am Not Happy by Clinghton: 9:00pm On Oct 09, 2020 |
You can still live a fulfilled life, all you need is a mentor. H B D |
Re: Help: I Am 18 Today And I Am Not Happy by Nobody: 9:01pm On Oct 09, 2020 |
Jirehz: I kinda agree with you...... 1 Like |
Re: Help: I Am 18 Today And I Am Not Happy by Nobody: 9:07pm On Oct 09, 2020 |
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Re: Help: I Am 18 Today And I Am Not Happy by Pancakeey(f): 9:24pm On Oct 09, 2020 |
Happy birthday Otisker. Now to begin with you’re an adult “legally” but still not an adult. You haven’t started footing bills yourself and taking up other adults responsibilities. You said people your age range do not know it’s bad to date a minor. Lol I’m your age range and I know it’s bad to date a minor. In fact, it’s rape. And from your story it looks like you just want to be the first guy to have sex with her nothing more. Plus, we’re in the 21st century many people do not end up with the person who took their virginity. Ugh! So dead the idea of a girl being attached to a guy because he took her virginity. Again, you sound like someone who isn’t emotionally ready to be in a relationship. The fact you read 48 power of law book whatever still bothers me. A friendly reminder. Most people are not happy either but at 18 you don’t need character development books. You need friends and what makes you think if you weren’t exposed to social media at an early age you’d be happy? I think I’ve said a lot so I’ll just stop here. Happy birthday again! 2 Likes |
Re: Help: I Am 18 Today And I Am Not Happy by seanwilliam(m): 9:32pm On Oct 09, 2020 |
Otisker:say no more.. you will go far with this mentality |
Re: Help: I Am 18 Today And I Am Not Happy by Nobody: 9:34pm On Oct 09, 2020 |
Happy birthday. If taking a 15-year old girl's virginity is what is bothering you at your new age of 18, then please take a break from Nairaland and re-think your life, which you should do anyway at 18. Get close to God; focus on your books/education; get productive by getting a job, starting a business and/or learning some profitable skills; and stay away from sex for as long as you can. 1 Like |
Re: Help: I Am 18 Today And I Am Not Happy by Otisker(m): 10:12pm On Oct 09, 2020 |
I love all the advises |
Re: Help: I Am 18 Today And I Am Not Happy by Nobody: 10:16pm On Oct 09, 2020 |
Cladez:Knowledge is the root of all suffering. |
Re: Help: I Am 18 Today And I Am Not Happy by Otisker(m): 10:17pm On Oct 09, 2020 |
purpinkx:Thanks I will try those |
Re: Help: I Am 18 Today And I Am Not Happy by Nobody: 12:20am On Oct 10, 2020 |
Otisker: You’re 18? I’m impressed. Really impressed. I like the liberal outlook on life. It’s adventurous. Well done! |
Re: Help: I Am 18 Today And I Am Not Happy by Sixfeetbelle: 1:33am On Oct 10, 2020 |
Otisker: This line really bothered me: You're worried about someone taking her virginity. Wait ooh, let me understand this. Is it your virginity? Is she your wife? How is her virginity your concern or problem? If somebody else took it, how does it concern you or affect your life? Is this not an entitlement mentality mbok? |
Re: Help: I Am 18 Today And I Am Not Happy by Otisker(m): 9:42am On Oct 10, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:It is not my virginity but humans are like that. If someone takes the virginity of someone you love, you will be jealous. |
Re: Help: I Am 18 Today And I Am Not Happy by Faithful23(f): 10:14am On Oct 10, 2020 |
Happy birthday! Welcome to the Adulthood. Try focusing your mind on the positive things and work toward achieving your goals. |
Re: Help: I Am 18 Today And I Am Not Happy by Bojack(m): 10:36am On Oct 10, 2020 |
Oga op I don't have any advice for you but all the same happy birthday . |
Re: Help: I Am 18 Today And I Am Not Happy by Enifloxy(m): 9:35am On Oct 13, 2020 |
Xavfra: Reading that book. You have to attain a certain level of maturity to actually digest its content. |
Re: Help: I Am 18 Today And I Am Not Happy by benzene00: 11:00am On Oct 13, 2020 |
cosmos2000:. what sort of English is this |
Re: Help: I Am 18 Today And I Am Not Happy by ibechris(m): 11:39am On Oct 13, 2020 |
U actually read the wrong book at that age hence ur thoughts. If u want to recharge your life and change ur perception about this world. Start reading investment books,retirements books and self development books and not self destructive book when u are not a politician. These books are not hard to get,just Google them using pdfdrive.com and sure u will become a better person. |
Re: Help: I Am 18 Today And I Am Not Happy by Nobody: 12:35pm On Oct 13, 2020 |
Enifloxy: Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm..... Tell me more...... |
Re: Help: I Am 18 Today And I Am Not Happy by cosmos2000(m): 2:38pm On Oct 13, 2020 |
benzene00:Bro use your logic arrange and discard any mistake their...I was just in a haste to contribute |
Re: Help: I Am 18 Today And I Am Not Happy by EmeraldKing7(m): 1:35am On Oct 15, 2020 |
Otisker:Bro it seems we resonate at the same frequency.Ur idea on religion is homogeneous to mine At my age,it seems am the only one among my mates that isn't into Yahoo and other conventional trivial things and focuses more on intelluctual stuff.. Let's be friends |
Re: Help: I Am 18 Today And I Am Not Happy by Otisker(m): 10:37am On Oct 16, 2020 |
EmeraldKing7:I will respond soon to your email |
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