dingbang:
Since yoh need an advice on how to forget the girl,

I suggest you start looking for a new girl, a lot of them are on IG

Start looking for a new girl or to hustle harder and have change

You wicked o

Most girls only hear the language of money and interpret it to be love

Angelacruz:
Go n hustle brah

The way majority of you open your mouth waaa and start spewing rubbish Go and hustle as if rich dude dont get problem in relationship with girls.

That's why some low self esteem guys go into Yahoo just to satisfy one leech financially the same leech her Father, Brother, Uncles cannot support with monetary funds.

Better go and change your myopic thinking mentality and start to think like the real men do.

Note: am not saying u shouldn't make money but dont do that at the expense of a leech u want to satisfy...

Lekside230:
Good morning nairalanders..how was your night?I'm actually here for your advice about my relationship... I won't call it a relationship anymore though...please don't mind my grammars as some might be bad.....,so it happens this way...she actually called me on Monday and tell me she has something very important to tell me...i asked what's that about?she said she actually need 15k that someone she borrowed money from is disturbing her and she had to pay it, it was true though..,because i know about the issue...she said she is going to borrow the 15k from her dad and pay it and so when I try to give her the money she will replace it....I only said i will try... Because i myself I'm not too financially okay myself.... So yesterday..I actually had some issue going on with me....I was actually scammed yesterday and this guy switched off and not even coming online again.....so it all got me so worried..,so she chatted me up yesterday afternoon around 2pm...I greeted her normally..I said I'm not just fine that I'm kind of depressed..all she could say is OK..,I said is that what she's supposed to say...she said is she a witch that she'd know what's happening to me....that's how it all began....that that's how i do if I don't want to do something...that I want to use it as an excuse...start calling me different kind of names whereby her friends was even there with her...no respect... I'm a broke ass nigga..I'm very poor..I should go and tell my friends and my mum that she said i am broke.. Cuz that what i am...she just Start calling me different kind of bad names....she said her mom help me borrow some money that I couldn't pay back..I told her I'm going to pay back..she just start saying different kind of abusive words at me that village people are really following me...so that's how she said it's over between us....and i said so shall it be.... Because if we have a little disagreement she'd start talking about break up....and I'd be the one to apologize....so I just have to made up my mind last night and just make it finally come true...I actually sent her 4k on Wednesday and she never ask me before i did.
so i just have to block her number last night and block her on WhatsApp after telling her it's over between us cuz i can't cope with a disrespectful girlfriend even where her friend is...but what happen is as have blocked her everywhere.... I'm not just comfortable... I couldn't really sleep tonight cuz I was just thinking about everything.... I already prayed on her name in several places and they all saying she's good....but I don't just understand this...it's hard to forget though.... so to cut the long story short..she later apologized on whatsapp and ask for the 15k immediately..but i won't count that as an apology..i just need an advice on how i can just forget this girl....cuz my mind is just soo troubled that I can't really sleep....thank you all for your candid advice and please no insults about my bad grammers...some screenshots will be attached...once again no insults... Thank you all in advance.

Imagine she's saying U made her call U those names
You're better off without someone like that in your life. She's calling U broke wen she's broke herself.
I pity any man with a girl like this. I could never speak to anyone in such a way.
Afterall that she still expecting the 15k!
Just try keep busy to take your mind off of her n soon enuff you'll move on n have forgotten her.

If U go back U are crazy n asking for that kinda treatment
Selfish nasty girl that one be.

Lekside230:


She said her mom help me borrow some money that I couldn't pay back..I told her I'm going to pay back..

so to cut the long story short..she later apologized on whatsapp and ask for the 15k immediately...

Thank you all for your candid advice and please no insults about my bad grammers. Thank you all in advance.

...me I get some questions to clarify some stuff, the money you borrowed from her mum then av u repaid it and the 15k she requested for av u transferred it to her?

Akinbahm:


...me I get some questions to clarify some stuff, the money you borrowed from her mum then av u repaid it and the 15k she requested for av u transferred it to her?

have paid some of the money I owe her mom....and no never will transfer any 15k..

Pimpmaride:
Mehnnnnn, I love that lady.. She knows how well to deal with u.... She knows u r too small for her but for the sake of the change she get from u, she is dating u falsely.

I love that babe..

U this small boy... U shud be concerned about your life...
U r bothering yourself.... I saw ur Pic and I saw that u r a very small boy..
I hope u don't die young and dissapoint ur parent Ontop small girl matter.... At this ur age, u Don dey send money to girl in the name of girl frnd.

Wonders shall never end....

She is telling you that both of you will become rich... She is lying ooo.
She will end up as an olosho fvcking men all round while you end up as a peasant yahoo boy who survives on iTunes card

Op wants to sell his laptop bcoz of a girl

https://www.nairaland.com/6159774/laptop-sale-akure

You're a nasty person. I'm sure the guy ain't choose to be broke.

N here's a prick like you acting like an ass to someone n u don't know his life, his circumstances or his personality.

Infact I hope the op ends up rich n U the one ending up the peasant surviving on iTunes cards n maybe you'll learn some manners.

And I think he's better off broke for now cos atleast it got rid of that nasty shallow gf.
I wish the op good luck in having a better future

Mrscarter:


You're a nasty person. I'm sure the guy ain't choose to be broke.

N here's a prick like you acting like an ass to someone n u don't know his life, his circumstances or his personality.

Infact I hope the op ends up rich n U the one ending up the peasant surviving on iTunes cards n maybe you'll learn some manners.

And I think he's better off broke for now cos atleast it got rid of that nasty shallow gf.
I wish the op good luck in having a better future

Thanks very much.

Mrscarter:


You're a nasty person. I'm sure the guy ain't choose to be broke.

N here's a prick like you acting like an ass to someone n u don't know his life, his circumstances or his personality.

Infact I hope the op ends up rich n U the one ending up the peasant surviving on iTunes cards n maybe you'll learn some manners.

And I think he's better off broke for now cos atleast it got rid of that nasty shallow gf.
I wish the op good luck in having a better future

U don't get the sarcasm.... U r too low to think in such high level..


A wise person wud have understood dt I am telling him to flee from that lady


Ladies with peas Brain Sha.... U r not different

Lekside230:
Thanks very much.

Ide, keep thanking her till u sell ur family property coz of a useless lady.


Dey mumu ursef.. Better go and wise up..

If u r wise, u wud understand why I blasted u..

Simply wise up and be responsible to ur family alone and ursef..

Imagine girl even abuse ur mother.... And u r still thinking abt her...



U don't need to hide ur pics bro..

Mrscarter:


You're a nasty person. I'm sure the guy ain't choose to be broke.

I wunt be surprised if u the lady sef or her sister


My love. My point exactly... He Sud take off anytin drawing him back.. The lady is a drawback.

He is not financially bouyant like dt, why is he maintaining such a high Gf of a leech...

Imagine if someone didn't dupe him, he wud have foolishly sent the 15k to a lady dt doesn't REGARD HIS MOTHER..

Jeez, OP thank God, He opened ur eyes.. If not, dt girl will suck u dry

Lekside230, if u get sense.. U wunt see the insult, u will think deep and see the advice I gave u.

Good advice if not it does not come with some spanking will be taken as joke.. That is why I spanked u

I wonder how some guys cope with trash and tolerate rubbish.


Imagine a broke girl that can't provide 15k for herself calling a guy broke.
My peace of mind is very important to me and not negotiable, I don't allow anyone to stress my life. Once I perceive or sense anything that looks like stress or stupid from you, I'll just distance myself straight.

Op you deserve respect and peace of mind, no girl should take that from you and please don't make the mistake of borrowing from your spouse parents or even involve them in your personal struggles. May God bless your hustles.

Soulmender:
I wonder how some guys cope with trash and tolerate rubbish.


Imagine a broke girl that can't provide 15k for herself calling a guy broke.
My peace of mind is very important to me and not negotiable, I don't allow anyone to stress my life. Once I perceive or sense anything that looks like stress or stupid from you, I'll just distance myself straight.

Op you deserve respect and peace of mind, no girl should take that from you and please don't make the mistake of borrowing from your spouse parents or even involve them in your personal struggles. May God bless your hustles.

amen....thanks alot.

Lekside230:
amen....thanks alot.

but wait o guy, if person no tell u, u go still go back 2 d gal?

Your are too young to lose your senses to a woman.

Pimpmaride:


I wunt be surprised if u the lady sef or her sister


My love. My point exactly... He Sud take off anytin drawing him back.. The lady is a drawback.

He is not financially bouyant like dt, why is he maintaining such a high Gf of a leech...

Imagine if someone didn't dupe him, he wud have foolishly sent the 15k to a lady dt doesn't REGARD HIS MOTHER..

Jeez, OP thank God, He opened ur eyes.. If not, dt girl will suck u dry

Lekside230, if u get sense.. U wunt see the insult, u will think deep and see the advice I gave u.

Good advice if not it does not come with some spanking will be taken as joke.. That is why I spanked u

Thanks bro...you are also making alot of sense.

patoski39:
but wait o guy, if person no tell u, u go still go back 2 d gal?

Not at all.

Lekside230:
Thanks very much.

Ur welcome. Gud luck

Mrscarter:



Ur welcome. Gud luck

Be my woman..


You and I know that the lady in question is ur sister

U r the one spoiling her

#ILMOVON
#Attitude
#Bliv

Pls unblock her and apologize..
Go and borrow more money and make it 30k and give it to her..
Be a good boyfriend..
Hustle and work hard just to make her proud..
Pls don't let her want anything.. provide for her, that is why you are the boyfriend..
Call her friends and apologize to them..
Remember, if she dumps you, no girl will ever look at your face and even greet you talk more of dating you..
She is all you got.. treat her like a queen and serve her well enough..
Do recharge her phone from time to time..
Give her money to make her hair and regularly change her wardrobe..
Pls always make her happy even when you are sad.. and always love her no matter what she does..
Continue Bro... ride on...

You think say I go call you SIMP ??
No.. You are a real man.. and that is how real men behaves.
Congrats Bro..

Lekside230:
have paid some of the money I owe her mom....and I'll never transfer any 15k..

Baba, if I go tell you the undiluted truth u fvck up big time,

First wrong step u took; u went ahead to borrow money from ur mother in law.

Second wrong step; you failed to speed up the refund of that money.

Third wrong step; anytime you had misunderstanding u always end up begging her not to quit the relationship.

Possible solution; let go of the girl and make sure u paid her mum the balance you are owing her cause of future embarrassment...

Note: never try to sort things out with her by reconciling, the energy u suppose use to rebuild that relationship is better u channel that same energy on another new girl.

Op flee from this girl
What same girl will use the word broke and poor on her boyfriend?
I see no love from her part
Plus she is troublesome,rude and mannerless

At times ehn, I don't blame those that call other guys SIMP!, see post abeg, I couldn't even complete the chat because of how angry I am. How can a girlfriend insult me, my parents and family members? Shey you dae mad ni?

I still dae vex

Pimpmaride:


I wunt be surprised if u the lady sef or her sister


My love. My point exactly... He Sud take off anytin drawing him back.. The lady is a drawback.

He is not financially bouyant like dt, why is he maintaining such a high Gf of a leech...

Imagine if someone didn't dupe him, he wud have foolishly sent the 15k to a lady dt doesn't REGARD HIS MOTHER..

Jeez, OP thank God, He opened ur eyes.. If not, dt girl will suck u dry

Lekside230, if u get sense.. U wunt see the insult, u will think deep and see the advice I gave u.

Good advice if not it does not come with some spanking will be taken as joke.. That is why I spanked u

Na only you like this OP for here...women n money are inseparable. OP..concentrate on ur hustle.

thank you all for your candid advice and please no insults about my bad grammers...some screenshots will be attached...once again no insults... Thank you all in advance.[/quote]
The matter get ad e b cos you don Bleep up well well,how come you go borrow money for your girlfriend mama hand and not pay, the matter no get head

Lekside230:
I don't just want to reply her...cuz I feel it's a waste of time.

Dont ever reply her

Why is '15k' so popular on Nairaland?

Damn nigga!!!
Reading ur story dey shake my heart like seriously..
So this is what I'll face from 9ja babes??
Make I dey enjoy my single life dey go jorh...

Bro, my advice for u is to let her go, don't even think about her again, this bae don't love u atall, if u forgive her this one, believe me she's going to do more than this in future, all what she want from u is MONEY...

Angelacruz:
Go n hustle brah

Enough with this go and hustle bullshit.My brother a woman will love you as you are.Just work hard and pray for God's blessings
Leave all these girls that are not understanding of the economy in the country!

Pimpmaride:


I wunt be surprised if u the lady sef or her sister


My love. My point exactly... He Sud take off anytin drawing him back.. The lady is a drawback.

He is not financially bouyant like dt, why is he maintaining such a high Gf of a leech...

Imagine if someone didn't dupe him, he wud have foolishly sent the 15k to a lady dt doesn't REGARD HIS MOTHER..

Jeez, OP thank God, He opened ur eyes.. If not, dt girl will suck u dry

Lekside230, if u get sense.. U wunt see the insult, u will think deep and see the advice I gave u.

Good advice if not it does not come with some spanking will be taken as joke.. That is why I spanked u

Yeah just U never know a person don't know if Ur saying it in that way or being nasty. It can make ppl feel bad about themselves. And if the person already is struggling with issues it's the last thing they need. Some ppl take things to heart easily.
Maybe even tho he's not financially bouyant, he had feelings for the girl and tried his best? But really he should find a nice girl who will hustle side by side thru thick n thin. Not one who just takes what he struggles to earn.
It's true tho he gotta get rid of that girl. She's disrespectful and if U love someone U never speak to them that way.

Pimpmaride:


U don't get the sarcasm.... U r too low to think in such high level..


A wise person wud have understood dt I am telling him to flee from that lady


Ladies with peas Brain Sha.... U r not different

Maybe so but still isn't nice
There's better ways to get Ur msg across

oya move on..........you are even too young for this...don't let no one use your head

Lekside230:
lol no....I don delete everything about her.

@Op Attimes people say what they don't mean out of anger or frustration. If you can give her another chance, please do. Nobody is perfect and there are no perfect relationships anywhere, but tolerance and understanding.

I would have asked you to let go. but then on a second thought, what if she said it out of annoyance and is truly sorry. Soft pedal a bit and have a conversation with her.