Good day everyone.

Nigeria is really a peculiar case. Nairaland, no different.

You created a post, seeking intelligent contributions.

But what do you get? Crazy and senseless contributions from frustrated things.

I really don't get what you asking from us

You want us to tell you to pay or not

Two things



1 it's either it's rememberance



2 you are about to be scammed by your wife


If you have the Money just give her

ojun50:
I really don't get what you asking from us

You want us to tell you to pay or not

You for chook hand for my pocket.

Olude193:
Two things



1 it's either it's rememberance



2 you are about to be scammed by your wife


If you have the Money just give her

I saw the message her sister sent to her.
Sometimes, it is not even whether someone has the money or not, it is just that you just don't lie to collect money.

sholarr12:

You for chook hand for my pocket.

You go worst pass ur wife

if you like pay if you like no pay.....

I wish you well

ojun50:

You go worst pass ur wife

if you like pay if you like no pay.....

I wish you well

You go worst pass your mama

Shebi you no wan get sense

sholarr12:

You go worst pass your mama

Shebi you no wan get sense

7k is what has been giving you sleepless night since last night, it is well with you.

A married man with out sense.......

ojun50:
I really don't get what you asking from us

You want us to tell you to pay or not

This was your first input.

Do you think the bolded was intelligent?

I tabled a matter needing intelligent contributions, but you came like a frustrated thing.

Olude193:
Two things



1 it's either it's rememberance



2 you are about to be scammed by your wife


If you have the Money just give her

This person right here has contributed in a meaningful way.

But some people? No intelligent contributions.

Where is the original post? cos all i see here is banters and attacks from all angles. The topic is not so clear.

What are daughters being charged for?

sholarr12:

This was your first input.

Do you think the bolded was intelligent?

I tabled a matter needing intelligent contributions, but you came like a frustrated thing.

You already sound angry, defensive and ready to pounce. And you are derailing your own thread.

How can you receive advice like that? What he said is not enough to provoke your reaction. Take it easy.

Speechless

Where is the originality register? cos all i see here is jests and bombings from all slants. The discussion is not so clear.What are sisters being charged for?

I saw your original post before you took it down. Yes, parents charge their children (sons and daughters, married or unmarried) to contribute towards family functions. If you cannot afford to contribute the money expected of you, don't lost any sleep over it. Just tell them that you're sorry but you don't have the means to contribute or they should manage what you can afford. Heaven will not fall. Honestly, a lot of wives' families exert a lot of financial pressure on husbands. It's unfair and could lead to cracks in the marriage if they continue like that.

ImaIma1:


You already sound angry, defensive and ready to pounce. And you are derailing your own thread.

How can you receive advice like that? What he said is not enough to provoke your reaction. Take it easy.

What he said was enough to provoke my reaction.

It was insulting and unintelligent to say "You want us to tell you to pay or not."

You would know it was insulting and unintelligent if you saw my original post but it seems you did not see it.

Sometimes, if you don't know the context of which a statement is made, you should be careful in the apportionment of blame.

dominique:
I saw your original post before you took it down. Yes, parents charge their children (sons and daughters, married or unmarried) to contribute towards family functions. If you cannot afford to contribute the money expected of you, don't lost any sleep over it. Just tell them that you're sorry but you don't have the means to contribute or they should manage what you can afford. Heaven will not fall. Honestly, a lot of wives' families exert a lot of financial pressure on husbands. It's unfair and could lead to cracks in the marriage if they continue like that.

Thank you for this.

What you have just said was the point I was trying to make.

But you know how it is on Nairaland. Some people will just reply rubbish like they think with their anuses. Damn!

sholarr12:

What he said was enough to provoke my reaction.

It was insulting and unintelligent to say "You want us to tell you to pay or not."

You would know it was insulting and unintelligent if you saw my original post but it seems you did not see it.

Sometimes, if you don't know the context of which a statement is made, you should be careful in the apportionment of blame.

I am saying you could have answered with the kind of maturity you expect. If you blame someone for being unintelligent and insulting, you shouldn't respond in like manner.

I didn't see the initial post but I have an idea. There are some things you should not condone so that it doesn't become a norm especially if you notice that your wife's family displays some kind of greed, plus if it is not something you are required by tradition to do.

Just use wisdom to handle to matter and try not to engage them in any argument or something that might be used against you later.

ImaIma1:


I am saying you could have answered with the kind of maturity you expect. If you blame someone for being unintelligent and insulting, you shouldn't respond in like manner.

I didn't see the initial post but I have an idea. There are some things you should not condone so that it doesn't become a norm especially if you notice that your wife's family displays some kind of greed, plus if it is not something you are required by tradition to do.

Just use wisdom to handle to matter and try not to engage them in any argument or something that might be used against you later.

Even this one that insults people dey advise person not to insult, wonders will never end on Nairaland

LedRock:
Even this one that insults people dey advise person not to insult, wonders will never end on Nairaland

You must be quoting the wrong person. Show me where I insulted someone or forever hold your peace.