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Why Are Married Daughters Charged This Way? by sholarr12: 7:54am On Oct 10, 2020 |
Good day everyone. Nigeria is really a peculiar case. Nairaland, no different. You created a post, seeking intelligent contributions. But what do you get? Crazy and senseless contributions from frustrated things. |
Re: Why Are Married Daughters Charged This Way? by ojun50(m): 8:00am On Oct 10, 2020 |
I really don't get what you asking from us You want us to tell you to pay or not |
Re: Why Are Married Daughters Charged This Way? by Olude193: 8:06am On Oct 10, 2020 |
Two things 1 it's either it's rememberance 2 you are about to be scammed by your wife If you have the Money just give her |
Re: Why Are Married Daughters Charged This Way? by sholarr12: 8:12am On Oct 10, 2020 |
ojun50:You for chook hand for my pocket. |
Re: Why Are Married Daughters Charged This Way? by sholarr12: 8:14am On Oct 10, 2020 |
Olude193: I saw the message her sister sent to her. Sometimes, it is not even whether someone has the money or not, it is just that you just don't lie to collect money. |
Re: Why Are Married Daughters Charged This Way? by ojun50(m): 8:21am On Oct 10, 2020 |
sholarr12:You go worst pass ur wife if you like pay if you like no pay..... I wish you well |
Re: Why Are Married Daughters Charged This Way? by sholarr12: 8:27am On Oct 10, 2020 |
ojun50:You go worst pass your mama Shebi you no wan get sense 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Married Daughters Charged This Way? by ojun50(m): 8:34am On Oct 10, 2020 |
sholarr12:7k is what has been giving you sleepless night since last night, it is well with you. A married man with out sense....... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Married Daughters Charged This Way? by sholarr12: 8:39am On Oct 10, 2020 |
ojun50:This was your first input. Do you think the bolded was intelligent? I tabled a matter needing intelligent contributions, but you came like a frustrated thing. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Married Daughters Charged This Way? by sholarr12: 8:48am On Oct 10, 2020 |
Olude193:This person right here has contributed in a meaningful way. But some people? No intelligent contributions. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Married Daughters Charged This Way? by pozehnani(f): 9:18am On Oct 10, 2020 |
Where is the original post? cos all i see here is banters and attacks from all angles. The topic is not so clear. What are daughters being charged for? 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Married Daughters Charged This Way? by ImaIma1(f): 9:38am On Oct 10, 2020 |
sholarr12: You already sound angry, defensive and ready to pounce. And you are derailing your own thread. How can you receive advice like that? What he said is not enough to provoke your reaction. Take it easy. |
Re: Why Are Married Daughters Charged This Way? by tobechi74: 10:34am On Oct 10, 2020 |
Speechless |
Re: Why Are Married Daughters Charged This Way? by omobonike70223: 10:40am On Oct 10, 2020 |
Where is the originality register? cos all i see here is jests and bombings from all slants. The discussion is not so clear.What are sisters being charged for? |
Re: Why Are Married Daughters Charged This Way? by dominique(f): 10:57am On Oct 10, 2020 |
I saw your original post before you took it down. Yes, parents charge their children (sons and daughters, married or unmarried) to contribute towards family functions. If you cannot afford to contribute the money expected of you, don't lost any sleep over it. Just tell them that you're sorry but you don't have the means to contribute or they should manage what you can afford. Heaven will not fall. Honestly, a lot of wives' families exert a lot of financial pressure on husbands. It's unfair and could lead to cracks in the marriage if they continue like that. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Married Daughters Charged This Way? by sholarr12: 11:08am On Oct 10, 2020 |
ImaIma1:What he said was enough to provoke my reaction. It was insulting and unintelligent to say "You want us to tell you to pay or not." You would know it was insulting and unintelligent if you saw my original post but it seems you did not see it. Sometimes, if you don't know the context of which a statement is made, you should be careful in the apportionment of blame. |
Re: Why Are Married Daughters Charged This Way? by sholarr12: 11:12am On Oct 10, 2020 |
dominique: Thank you for this. What you have just said was the point I was trying to make. But you know how it is on Nairaland. Some people will just reply rubbish like they think with their anuses. Damn! 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Married Daughters Charged This Way? by ImaIma1(f): 11:48am On Oct 10, 2020 |
sholarr12: I am saying you could have answered with the kind of maturity you expect. If you blame someone for being unintelligent and insulting, you shouldn't respond in like manner. I didn't see the initial post but I have an idea. There are some things you should not condone so that it doesn't become a norm especially if you notice that your wife's family displays some kind of greed, plus if it is not something you are required by tradition to do. Just use wisdom to handle to matter and try not to engage them in any argument or something that might be used against you later. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Married Daughters Charged This Way? by LedRock: 11:31pm On Oct 18, 2020 |
ImaIma1:Even this one that insults people dey advise person not to insult, wonders will never end on Nairaland ![]() |
Re: Why Are Married Daughters Charged This Way? by ImaIma1(f): 1:09pm On Oct 20, 2020 |
LedRock: You must be quoting the wrong person. Show me where I insulted someone or forever hold your peace. |
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