MRosario:


You can actually...

It is nature's way of ensuring the survival of our species.
Orgasm is a reward for Mating and reproduction. It is nature's way of rewarding us with dopamine for losing vital nutrients in form of Sperm.

This is why males must achieve orgasm for a new life to be created but females don't necessarily have to...

nwaezeemmanuel:
Well said, but you can't blame cheating on a high libido.

baralatie:

let me explain to you!
The animals such as cats (lions, hyenas,panted dogs) are basically social animals and do not follow this your promiscuous logic.The male animals usually have the high testosterone levels which hell them to develop huge mass of muscle,sex organs and an inbuilt fight or flight Dynamics .These they further develop from childhood and they understand the roles that each gender should perform.
while the females in the lion pride(basically sisters) are grown to become expect hunters and bring food to the table ,thereby keeping the pride alive.the male lions are ussaly useless because they just not the successful hunters.But when it comes to fight the male lion is unrivaled.the social problem being solved in between lion goes like this.the female pride members(sisters) cannot take down cape buffalos and ward off hyena stealing their food and male lions commiting infanticide.Solution is to get a male lion(with high pumping testosterone)


the testosterone in animals is not for promiscuity at all.it is for the solution of a threat to the social existence of the pride.with a high testosterone the manes are darker and muscles bigger .these is backed up with its ability to fight.That is the rule.
the testosterone is not related to promiscuity at all

baralatie:

let me explain to you!
The animals such as cats (lions, hyenas,panted dogs) are basically social animals and do not follow this your promiscuous logic.The male animals usually have the high testosterone levels which hell them to develop huge mass of muscle,sex organs and an inbuilt fight or flight Dynamics .These they further develop from childhood and they understand the roles that each gender should perform.
while the females in the lion pride(basically sisters) are grown to become expect hunters and bring food to the table ,thereby keeping the pride alive.the male lions are ussaly useless because they just not the successful hunters.But when it comes to fight the male lion is unrivaled.the social problem being solved in between lion goes like this.the female pride members(sisters) cannot take down cape buffalos and ward off hyena stealing their food and male lions commiting infanticide.Solution is to get a male lion(with high pumping testosterone)


the testosterone in animals is not for promiscuity at all.it is for the solution of a threat to the social existence of the pride.with a high testosterone the manes are darker and muscles bigger .these is backed up with its ability to fight.That is the rule.
the testosterone is not related to promiscuity at all

ReluctantAdult:


Yes you can, and that's what I'm saying in the previous post.

nwaezeemmanuel:
Heck!Males don't need to reach orgasm to reproduce.

Where'd you get your info from?

It's the peak of sexual pleasure, not all sex leads to orgasm - when will guys get this!

MRosario:


Keep sentiments aside

We are in the 21st century, artificial insemination is possible. Both men and women don't even need to be present to reproduce.

But we are talking about biology and the natural order. For the males of any species, All sex leads to ejaculation/orgasm.

ReluctantAdult:
I wasn't talking about cheating in particular. What I'm saying is, our nature as men encourages polygamy. By nature I mean our testosterone and our general attraction to females. This is also prevalent in the animal kingdom so it isn't out of place.

That doesn't suddenly disappear when men get married. Therefore staying loyal is a fight against our urges and longings and since they are inherent in us, we will always be defeated from time to time.

nwaezeemmanuel:
So if a man cheats, he can tell his wife he did it because he has a high libido - and that settles it?

ReluctantAdult:
You're pushing the emotional and relationship issues but I'm addressing the facts. Whether he tells her it's because of high libido or he tells her it's because of evil spirits doesn't change the fact that it's his sensitive libido, triggered by the sexually attractive features he sees in the other females, that activates his natural instincts to go for them.

Whether he chooses to suppress the libido and be a faithful husband or chooses to satisfy his drive with another female, doesn't change the fact that he's human first, and that means that it doesn't matter if you're a bishop or a monk, your eyes, brain, sexual organs, ears etc are going to always react to sexual attraction and that's totally okay.

fati2001:

nwaezeemmanuel:
Your last line is wrong

Ejaculation is not the same as orgasm

ReluctantAdult:
You're pushing the emotional and relationship issues but I'm addressing the facts. Whether he tells her it's because of high libido or he tells her it's because of evil spirits doesn't change the fact that it's his sensitive libido, triggered by the sexually attractive features he sees in the other females, that activates his natural instincts to go for them.

Whether he chooses to suppress the libido and be a faithful husband or chooses to satisfy his drive with another female, doesn't change the fact that he's human first, and that means that it doesn't matter if you're a bishop or a monk, your eyes, brain, sexual organs, ears etc are going to always react to sexual attraction and that's totally okay.

BBBmall25:
Did U Find Out His Reasons For Cheating? Or U're Just Here Blowing Hot Air For Nothing Out Of "my Sister Sentiment?"

fati2001:

nwaezeemmanuel:
I'm saying high libido is not a good enough excuse for cheating and doesn't normalize anything!

I'm not a robot and i know what attraction feels like.

ReluctantAdult:
Like I said, I don't care what excuse the man gives about his cheating but it is for a fact that high libido is a possible reason.

ReluctantAdult:
Mischievous kid.

ReluctantAdult:
I wasn't talking about cheating in particular. What I'm saying is, our nature as men encourages polygamy. By nature I mean our testosterone and our general attraction to females. This is also prevalent in the animal kingdom so it isn't out of place.

That doesn't suddenly disappear when men get married. Therefore staying loyal is a fight against our urges and longings and since they are inherent in us, we will always be defeated from time to time.

nwaezeemmanuel:
God bless you!

Abouwaza:
The question is not about why are men like this
The thing is common with both sexes (ladies cheat too) and don't generalise, not all men cheat
Now ask your sister to reconcile with her hubby and pack back cos if she doesn't she will regret for the rest of her life
She will still get bleeped and before you know it, she will loose count of how many guys pounding her if she remains separated

PS who knows if your sister is also cheating, she just managed to catch the husband

Almost everybody don mad now oo

nwaezeemmanuel:
Probably, but i really don't like to dwell on that.

It makes it easier to give excuses.

fattprince:
Her sister is cheating too. Women don't need to have reason.

chinchonglee:

See lemme tell you something.
The very moment a woman's body become weak after 2 children the man tends to get tired of her. This is because their marriage wasn't built on love. Maybe ur sis left the supposed love of her life because he wasn't ready for marriage for her current husband because he has money.
I'm nt justifying cheating. Am only trying to say most Nigerian marriages weren't built on the right basis.