Your eyes don open. Your e-bf is an unrepentant misogynist!

How have you been?


Instead of him to focus on his life, he is here 24/7 trying to prove himself as the man. Yeye dey smell.

HaneefahRN:
Still searching for the point of this story. Let us see Kunle as the victim here right? What of women with husbands that come home just on weekends or probably see their husbands couple of times in a month? Or women with husbands with strenuous and long hour jobs. Can we justify them cheating?
I'm sure Jane isn't working for her sake alone but for the good of the family. So he couldn't be bothered to discuss with her, rather resorted to going back to an ex. I just don't get. Even if a man that would cheat has a stay at home wife, he would still find a reason to.

Lezzlie, you must have poor self employed women around you o. and even the poor ones have stories to tell. Go to them and hear their stories.

sheilak:
Your eyes don open. Your bf is an unrepentant misogynist!


Instead of him to focus on his life, he is here 24/7 trying to prove himself as the man. Yeye dey smell.

Lolz, doveda, tell me your first paragraph was meant as a joke. Like bf ke and when did it ever seem like I had my eyes closed?

Ermmm... He wants to explore your sexuality now.

I was afraid you had your eyes closed ni o. Tell him to get a job before thinking about women and submission.

HaneefahRN:


Lolz, doveda, tell me your first paragraph was meant as a joke. Like bf ke and when did it ever seem like I had my eyes closed?

sheilak:
Le.zzlie, you must have poor self employed women around you o. and even the poor ones have stories to tell. Go to them and hear their stories.

Sure they do, but I find the blue-collar woman would make a more interesting read!

They both have their con/pro, but self employed women are always available domestically-- that's not what we can readily say of her blue-collar counterpart.

HaneefahRN:


Lolz, doveda, tell me your first paragraph was meant as a joke. Like bf ke and when did it ever seem like I had my eyes closed?

Hey! You, runaway baby! Where've you been ? _Doveda is Sheilak?

Tell me no.

Maybe the one that has her shop in front of her house


All business women that I know of, the iya olojas, the ones travel to buy goods, they get their assistant to cook, wash etc. Their assistants take care of the domestic chores. They hardly leave their assistants alone at the shop. It is something they wouldn't do just like that. Go to Ogunpa market and see how they curse their assistants. You go fear. The reason they do this is because of financial accountability. Before you start with modern day women, the examples of the women I am talking about were/are older women who are grandmas now. To the extent that some of them get fetish to secure their assistants' loyalty, the fear that they might be ruined is that extreme. And it has happened before, so you can't really fault them for their extreme fear. I once gave an example of how my great grandma would walk to Oyo from Ijebu to buy Aso Ofi and she had to leave her family at home in Ijebu Ode.

There was a story about an old woman who would travel through Sambisa to sell her goods. She is Yoruba, she was reported to be in good accord with Boko Haram members. She had a lot to say about how non-violent they were initially. She is not poor yet she chose to travel that path. Her story is exactly the same story of most female traders back in the day. This is not a modern thing at all. Those that would travel within Yoruba towns did and others travel on foot or animals to the Northern part or to Ghana, Togo and Benin. They don't just spend two days and come home. They would leave their husbands and children at home. I don't see how this is dissimilar to what is obtainable today and these are documented


To the poor ones, you will expect someone who can only sell two or give cartons of fish to ignore a market day because of domestic chores? What do you think would happen to the lil customer base she has? Do you know how hard these people fight for common customers sef? Do you know what their families might go through? Will you pay for their rents etc?

You really need to stop looking at things from your angle. We also have our stories. You cannot speak on our behalf if you cannot understand the full story. What exactly is wrong with you taking care of your own home?

Lezzlie:
Sure they do, but I find the blue-collar woman would make a more interesting read!

They both have their con/pro, but self employed women are always available domestically-- that's not what we can readily say of her blue-collar counterpart.

sheilak:
Ermmm... He wants to explore your sexuality now.

I was afraid you had your eyes closed ni o. Tell him to get a job before thinking about women and submission.

LMAO.

I'm good, you?

Lezzlie:
Sure they do, but I find the blue-collar woman would make a more interesting read!

They both have their con/pro, but self employed women are always available domestically-- that's not what we can readily say of her blue-collar counterpart.

You really don't get the grasp of what you are saying. Like doveda said, you probably mean those petty traders selling stuffs in front of their house. Many of those traders travel to buy their merchandise. I can remember my grandma gisting me about how she would travel to Onitsha, Lagos etc to buy her goods and how my grandpa (of blessed memory) would set out with his car whenever the bus she boarded gets too late at night, and he would count her proceeds and arrange her stuffs for her cos she was fatigued. Talk more business women that travel to Dubai, SA and all. But I agree they might be a bit more available since their work is relatively more flexible as compared with the protocols and all of office work etc but this doesn't mean it's less demanding.

I don't know what the issue is really. If you ain't comfortable with career women, go for the petty traders in your area. Don't go and ask out a banker and expect her to conform to your whims.

Lezzlie:
Hey! You, runaway baby! Where've you been ? _Doveda is Sheilak?

Tell me no.

Lolz. I've been around o.


No

It is doveda.

Are you scared it is going to go all up in your face?

Lezzlie:
Hey! You, runaway baby! Where've you been ? _Doveda is Sheilak?

Tell me no.

HaneefahRN:


You really don't get the grasp of what you are saying. Like doveda said, you probably mean those petty traders selling stuffs in front of their house. Many of those traders travel to buy their merchandise. I can remember my grandma gisting me about how she would travel to Onitsha, Lagos etc to buy her goods and how my grandpa (of blessed memory) would set out with his car whenever the bus she boarded gets too late at night, and he would count her proceeds and arrange her stuffs for her cos she was fatigued. Talk more business women that travel to Dubai, SA and all. But I agree they might be a bit more available since their work is relatively more flexible as compared with the protocols and all of office work etc but this doesn't mean it's less demanding.

I don't know what the issue is really. If you ain't comfortable with career women, go for the petty traders in your area. Don't go and ask out a banker and expect her to conform to your whims.

I think I have dealt with this part before.
Those women who travel for market wares do so whenever their merchandise runs out. They don't travel everyway.

And for those petty traders, who have stalls and shades, they don't have bosses to contend with. It's a complete different environment. Time is of importance here.

She comes and goes as she pleases and is answerable to none.

HaneefahRN:


Lolz. I've been around o.


No

You have definitely not been around. Neither here nor there. I thought you went for a break or something

Lezzlie:
I think I have dealt with this part before.
Those women who travel for market wares do so whenever their merchandise runs out. They don't travel everyway.

And for those petty traders, who have stalls and shades, they don't have bosses to contend with. It's a complete different environment. Time is of importance here.

She comes and goes as she pleases and is answerable to none.

And she is at her stall from morning till evening or in some cases night. The only plus is she can break away for other activities easily than someone that has to go through many protocols before doing same.

My point is since you prefer such women then go for them. Leave the career- oriented ones for those who don't mind

Lezzlie:
You have definitely not been around. Neither here nor there. I thought you went for a break or something

Hmmm, maybe I went on a kinda break. Just wasn't so interested in most ish.

sheilak:
It is doveda.

Are you scared it is going to go all up in your face?

daretodiffer? Hian.. so na u b sheilak. Alright I no go talk anythn first

HaneefahRN:


Hmmm, maybe I went on a kinda break. Just wasn't so interested in most ish.

Oh, cut it short then. You've been off for too long!

I've got a whole lot more to whisper to your ears.

sheilak:
It is doveda.

Are you scared it is going to go all up in your face?

You couldn't stay off of me for even 2 weeks!

3 days and you're back on my trail. I gave you your first orgasm and you just can't back off.

I just rounding off early morning sex, so we can do it on a slower tempo, you know really slow with half penetration.

I'll go fully deep for 5 minutes prior to my eruption, that way , you'll feel my dïck vibrate in the deep pit of your stomach walls

Tell me I didn't send your mind racing and your pants damping

You are not smart. It is my job to make you smart and stop you from forming mor.onic opinions

Lezzlie:
You couldn't stay off of me for even 2 weeks!

3 days and you're back on my trail. I gave you your first orgasm and you just can't back off.

I just rounding off early morning sex, so we can do it on a slower tempo, you know really slow with half penetration.

I'll go fully deep for 5 minutes prior to my eruption, that way , you'll feel my dïck vibrate in the deep pit of your stomach walls

Tell me I didn't send your mind racing and your pants damping

sheilak:
You are not smart. It is my job to make you smart and stop you from forming mor.onic opinions

Yadi yadi yadi, shaggy dog story, baby.

If you endorse me as smart, I'll go look up the meaning of that word.

Lezzlie:
Oh, cut it short then. You've been off for too long!

I've got a whole lot more to whisper to your ears.

Lolz.

*rolls eye*, I've got my ears plugged. Not interested

HaneefahRN:


Lolz.

*rolls eye*, I've got my ears plugged. Not interested

Loosen up, babe. Hear the preamble and witness the speed with which you discard your earmuffs.

I've been planning all the while you're away.

sheilak:
You are not smart. It is my job to make you smart and stop you from forming mor.onic opinions

Sheila goodevening. Pls can I hav a word wid u

FTBoi:
...and it was a blissful night full of e.rotic fantasies for kunle and Julia, as they had a carefree series of sexual bouts.......switching styles from missionary to spoon, doggy, cow.girl, reverse cow.girl and leg-over. Julia's moans could be heard from 3 miles away as she couldn't suppress the ecstasy following her multiple orgasms. her pvssy was so wet it made a loud, slurping sound each time tunde thrusted his 9-inch black mamba in her.

"fvck me in the ass!" julia suddenly interjected.

kunle grimaced a little. 'so dis babe don spoil like dis?' he thought.

"what are you waiting for?" julia yelled impatiently.

"a little lubrication would be fine. you got vaseline?"

"you don't need that!" she retorted. then she spat a messy lump of saliva in her palm and robbed it on her asshole. "There you go!"

gently, kunle slid his hot-throbbing black kondo in julia's ass. he was shocked it went all in smoothly, against his former belief that anal sex was a tough job. he let out a devilish smile. 'it's going to be a long night', he
thought.

meanwhile, Jane just woke up from a short sleep after work. she checked the time.....it was 9:25pm. her husband was not back yet. she sat on the sofa, thinking what could have gone wrong...
a soft knock on the door promptly brought her back.

"at last!" she sighed. "hold on...i'm coming". then she turned the knob.

"gud eveninu, madamu." it was mazi ndukwe, the neighbour living at the opposite flat. he stood there, smiling sheepishly. jane's wary eyes quickly scanned him. he was tying just a white towel, half-n.aked. she flinched a little when she saw the bulging outline of his erected dick. the sight resurrected an old, strange feeling of wild passions in her.

'kunle is not this big!' she thought..
"c-c-can you c-come in? " she stammered. "i can offer you some cold beer."

"ofu corsu madamu. i willi come in ozugbo ozugbo," said mazi ndukwe, grinning even more sheepishly as he made his way into the living room.

"please take your seat and make yourself comfortable."
then she muttered "it's going to be a long night.."

....to be continued..

Kii re?

pcguru1:


It's hard to care for a fictional character, i meant i don't care if he wants to cheat but let it not be a filmsy reason, what ever happened to cheating for cheating sake

I have always advocated for the normal married life. That is, a marriage where the man works and the wife stays at home. No other arrangement beats it.
However, we live in a different era, that is why i also advocate that men who want to live the normal married life should go after women that are not career oriented and vice-versa.

Having a normal marriage has its advantages(the OP's story proves that), but it also has it disadvantages
Having a a career oriented wife has it advantages, but it also has it disadvantages(the OP's story proves that)

So, as you make your choice as a man, be aware of the advantage and disadvantage of that choice.

**ATTENTION!!**
i used 'normal' married life instead of 'traditional' married life because i feel using the word tradition makes it seem like an old way of life.

angelfallz:
I have always advocated for the normal married life. That is, a marriage where the man works and the wife stays at home. No other arrangement beats it.
However, we live in a different era, that is why i also advocate that men who want to live the normal married life should go after women that are not career oriented and vice-versa.

Having a normal marriage has its advantages(the OP's story proves that), but it also has it disadvantages
Having a a career oriented wife has it advantages, but it also has it disadvantages(the OP's story proves that)

So, as you make your choice as a man, be aware of the advantage and disadvantage of that choice.

**ATTENTION!!**
i used 'normal' married life instead of 'traditional' married life because i feel using the word tradition makes it seem like an old way of life.

Interesting.

So how do you handle a woman's ambitions and aspirations?

What do you think about a girl going to the university? Do you think some courses such be restricted for them?

bukatyne:


Interesting.

So how do you handle a woman's ambitions and aspirations?

What do you think about a girl going to the university? Do you think some courses such be restricted for them?

the bolded that should be for those that want to marry career women.

why shouldn't a girl go to university? why should some courses be restricted for them?