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Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Nobody: 7:08am On Oct 14, 2020
geesilver:
let her change her ways...... and every things will falls in place for her.



sometimes what's good is not meant for one person.

Which ways?
Her being every man's dream woman or her being a virgin.

You might be right though cause,to me this lady is close to perfection.
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Nobody: 7:11am On Oct 14, 2020
If she's truly a virgin then let her wait.
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Nobody: 7:23am On Oct 14, 2020
Pancakeey:
Why would you think something is wrong with her?
Now I want to know why your friend is spending alone times with guys who want to rape her??! If they were in a crowd obviously they wouldn’t try to rape her. And what’s with the virginity thing?

What does she have to offer aside her virginity?? Nothing.

Tell your friend to stop going to isolated places with guys that’s all I can say.
The virginity brouhaha Na her problem



"What does she have to offer aside her virginity?? Nothing."

grin grin
She has a business of her own, even her ex will give testimonies of how good a lady she is (A good cook,very supportive and what have you)
I don't think character is the problem here.


I got your first write up, private places will surely be avoided.

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Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Nobody: 7:35am On Oct 14, 2020
I pity for simps,women are emotionally bankrupt . This same girl singing with her virginity will give it up in seconds to a bag guy .
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Nobody: 7:45am On Oct 14, 2020
ashybabs:
that shi is real!
some ladies remit a strong sexual aurora that is unusual to most.
its not entirely spiritual.
i know of a woman that i have experienced something similar too

Will go read up more on this.
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by gbowoade85142: 8:15am On Oct 14, 2020
let her change her ways...... and every things will falls in place for her.sometimes what's good is not meant for one person.
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by femi4: 8:48am On Oct 14, 2020
StacyO:
Please pardon the errors and try read through.
It'll be a very concise writeup.

A friend of mine is seeking for help with what she's going through and this is me trying to table it here for better advice.


Her first relationship last year August crashed due to her inability to add sex to the table.
Being a virgin,she just doesn't want to give in at all.
Now,her main problem is that every guy she come across wants to get in between her legs by every means possible and according to her, she have encountered 4 rape attempts from her close friends.
Even her dad is not spared from the temptation and keeping male friends(which has always been the best) is now a horror show. Their form of excuse is either she was "irresistible or was sending the wrong signs" She told me the last rape attempt was this afternoon by a very close friend. Her question goes thus 1) Is she possessed by some sensual spirit? 2) What do you think might be wrong with her?

Because as it stands now,she is depressed, bitter,suicidal and I won't lie, this is how feminism starts.
What do you think is going on? Your advice is needed, I don't want to lose someone this 2020 sad
You can bash too if you want.
just let her be
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Pancakeey(f): 9:07am On Oct 14, 2020
Mide3367:
your virginity line caught me. I guess u are jealous that a virgin still exist angry
Lmfaoooo. Jealous that??
Hahaha illiteracy be taking a toll on people.

If being a virgin would bring me billions then I would be jealous.
Madam if you’re don’t have a strong point to counter mine just keep quiet.

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Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by sharpwriter(m): 9:10am On Oct 14, 2020
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StacyO:
Please pardon the errors and try read through.
It'll be a very concise writeup.

A friend of mine is seeking for help with what she's going through and this is me trying to table it here for better advice.


Her first relationship last year August crashed due to her inability to add sex to the table.
Being a virgin,she just doesn't want to give in at all.
Now,her main problem is that every guy she come across wants to get in between her legs by every means possible and according to her, she have encountered 4 rape attempts from her close friends.
Even her dad is not spared from the temptation and keeping male friends(which has always been the ) is now a horror show. Their form of excuse is either she was "irresistible or was sending the wrong signs" She told me the last rape attempt was this afternoon by a very close friend. Her question goes thus 1) Is she possessed by some sensual spirit? 2) What do you think might be wrong with her?

Because as it stands now,she is depressed, bitter,suicidal and I won't lie, this is how feminism starts.
What do you think is going on? Your advice is needed, I don't want to lose someone this 2020 sad
You can bash too if you want.

In all the things you mentioned, what I want to speak about is that you said she likes keeping male friends
and your write up claims it's the best for a lady. Who told you or your friend that? For someone escaping about 4 rape attempts? shocked and still likes to be isolated with men. If care isn't taken, it's just a matter of time *

People have given you many good advice up there, but also take precautions against carelessness.

May God help her.

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Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by ArticleBeast: 9:21am On Oct 14, 2020
Sometimes it is best you don't get into a relationship if you arent ready to have sex. Forget the emotional bs but in today times, the average man sees sex as the only benefit a woman can offer. I remember dating one babe and refusing to have sex with her and this babe told all her friends that I am impotent. I think it is best she keep just online male friends and stay away from any sex discussion. Most virgins are the most outspoken ones on sex matters which gives guys the false impression that may lead to rape. Whenever she thinks she is ready for marriage, she should enter into a relationship.

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Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Nobody: 9:37am On Oct 14, 2020
ArticleBeast:
Sometimes it is best you don't get into a relationship if you arent ready to have sex. Forget the emotional bs but in today times, the average man sees sex as the only benefit a woman can offer. I remember dating one babe and refusing to have sex with her and this babe told all her friends that I am impotent. I think it is best she keep just online male friends and stay away from any sex discussion. Most virgins are the most outspoken ones on sex matters which gives guys the false impression that may lead to rape. Whenever she thinks she is ready for marriage, she should enter into a relationship.




""Most virgins are the most outspoken ones on sex matters which gives guys the false impression that may lead to rape.""

grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Nobody: 9:39am On Oct 14, 2020
fabiano09:
I pity for simps,women are emotionally bankrupt . This same girl singing with her virginity will give it up in seconds to a bag guy .

undecided
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Nobody: 9:40am On Oct 14, 2020
fabiano09:
I pity for simps,women are emotionally bankrupt . This same girl singing with her virginity will give it up in seconds to a bag guy .

undecided
And she haven't given it up ever since then
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Nobody: 9:43am On Oct 14, 2020
ZIINI:
If she's truly a virgin then let her wait.

Guys in the streets,threat messages. Assuming it was for her to wait,I won't even bring the issue here. It's becoming unbecoming.
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Nobody: 9:50am On Oct 14, 2020
Pancakeey:

Lmfaoooo. Jealous that??
Hahaha illiteracy be taking a toll on people.

If being a virgin would bring me billions then I would be jealous.
Madam if you’re don’t have a strong point to counter mine just keep quiet.

How about a well deserved respect??
Have you heard or read about okafor's law??
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Nobody: 10:02am On Oct 14, 2020
lefulefu:
if she tries looking for a virgin boy to hook up with then i dont think she will experience the problem she is experiencing cheesy
but i guess she wouldnt want to be with a virgin boy cos she is scared the virgin boy would be boring cheesy
and this one u saying some of the guys she dated attempted to rape her..
biko where does she meet her guys?
Beerpalour?..abi na nightclubs?



***but i guess she wouldnt want to be with a virgin boy cos she is scared the virgin boy would be boring
and this one u saying some of the guys she dated attempted to rape her..
biko where does she meet her guys?
Beerpalour?..abi na nightclubs?***


See comment grin grin grin grin

Even this last guy is a virgin. They want to use someone's child for practical.
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by ThreeEyedRaven: 10:16am On Oct 14, 2020
This is quite a difficult situation she found herself.
I'd say nothing is wrong with her but many things are wrong with the society. Many ladies has this strong sexual aura they exudes quite alright, Just as many men wants to fvck anything with a hole in-between her legs.
She can't avoid men till she gets married reasons because you don't just see a man somewhere and get married automatically. So there must be a relationship at first to begin with. Relationship is unavoidable except she wants be a nun. So she can't totally avoid men all her life as she doesn't know who the right person is, why she must go into relationship(or relationships in most cases)
My advice for her are
1: Clearly define what she wants for herself and SINCERELY stick to it.
2: Avoid being alone with men and don't give the wrong impressions to men either.
3: She also needs to clarify what she wants in a man (though not all can be achieved) but if no sex is part of it then it could be achieved. I understand there's hardly a relationship without intimacy ... And when those smooches and kisses starts the urge for sex is largely uncontrollable.
But discipline and sincerity of a clear purpose would see her through.

I'll tell you of a certain relationship I had while in my 2 and 300 level in school. She was a daughter of an MFM pastor. And so she made it clear to me there'd be no sex as she was a virgin and I respected her innocence (why, because e get as person go good reach even devil go defend am- you can ask uncle Job) when we had our intimacy I only played with her boobs and her clitts while she gave me BJ. It wasn't long before it dawned on both of us we're doing the right thing as we could satisfy eachother sexually without me deflowering her. And it got to hit us both that sex is over rated.

Bottom line is we understood eachother's demands and respected eachother and we got creative about it which is key in any relationship.

I think your friend can find a man who'd not only understand but accept and respect her for what she stands for.
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by nurain150(m): 10:24am On Oct 14, 2020
VicM6:
Mr special adviser to muslim women... i hail u o..... advice her on how u will deliver her na
bro no be u get my advice habi why u dey talk for my mouth joor.
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by ArticleBeast: 10:27am On Oct 14, 2020
StacyO:





""Most virgins are the most outspoken ones on sex matters which gives guys the false impression that may lead to rape.""

grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
I have lots of them as friends and if you hear them speak, you will think they have a Phd in sexology.
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Nobody: 11:19am On Oct 14, 2020
StacyO:


Guys in the streets,threat messages. Assuming it was for her to wait,I won't even bring the issue here. It's becoming unbecoming.
Something keeps telling me you're the one lol grin
But wait don't rush
E get why

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Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by ashawopikin(m): 11:36am On Oct 14, 2020
StacyO:
Please pardon the errors and try read through.
It'll be a very concise writeup.

A friend of mine is seeking for help with what she's going through and this is me trying to table it here for better advice.


Her first relationship last year August crashed due to her inability to add sex to the table.
Being a virgin,she just doesn't want to give in at all.
Now,her main problem is that every guy she come across wants to get in between her legs by every means possible and according to her, she have encountered 4 rape attempts from her close friends.
Even her dad is not spared from the temptation and keeping male friends(which has always been the best) is now a horror show. Their form of excuse is either she was "irresistible or was sending the wrong signs" She told me the last rape attempt was this afternoon by a very close friend. Her question goes thus 1) Is she possessed by some sensual spirit? 2) What do you think might be wrong with her?

Because as it stands now,she is depressed, bitter,suicidal and I won't lie, this is how feminism starts.
What do you think is going on? Your advice is needed, I don't want to lose someone this 2020 sad
You can bash too if you want.
She has a big nyash
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Nobody: 11:37am On Oct 14, 2020
StacyO:


undecided
And she haven't given it up ever since then
Trust me a sharp guy will take it she's just wasting her time ,even sef I taya for guys ,what's so special about virginity ?*?? I've heard of some clowns having anal sex just to preserve their virginity

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Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by zakkyzakes: 1:09pm On Oct 14, 2020
nurain150:

tell her to be patient it a matter of time.Assuming she was a Muslim woman I would have know how to advise her better.But tho that my assumption
do u really have to include the religion part...?
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by nurain150(m): 1:35pm On Oct 14, 2020
zakkyzakes:
do u really have to include the religion part...?
Yeah j have .There is no way someone in her shoes will listen to honest advice based on what is seem fit .
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by zakkyzakes: 1:41pm On Oct 14, 2020
nurain150:

Yeah j have .There is no way someone in her shoes will listen to honest advice based on what is seem fit .
mush
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Antidotte: 2:02pm On Oct 14, 2020
nifemi25:
I couldn't remember when medal was given to someone for been a virgin.@poster are you a Virgin? If no then you are in the best position to advise her on why you aren't a virgin and how much you enjoy having sex.

Save your advice for your daughters.. and next time you want pass on your rubbish.. make sure it stops in your family tree.
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Powerfly(f): 2:25pm On Oct 14, 2020
Op. Tell her that when next she meets any guy., she should always tell them that her grand mother whom she grew up with tied her virginity to their village shrine, that the only way to break it is if she agrees to become the next Eze nwanyi. Tell her to tell anyone who is interested that like four guys have already tried and have died in the process.
Then as for her dad,
She should buy this
aboki pen knife and be going to bed with it.
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Liposure: 2:27pm On Oct 14, 2020
There is nothing wrong with her. It just shows she's too physically and sexually attractive to resist. My advice for her is simple. avoid any meeting that could lead to rape
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Mide3367: 3:59pm On Oct 14, 2020
Pancakeey:

Lmfaoooo. Jealous that??
Hahaha illiteracy be taking a toll on people.

If being a virgin would bring me billions then I would be jealous.
Madam if you’re don’t have a strong point to counter mine just keep quiet.
needless hubbub hullabaloo grin
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Iretii0511(m): 4:16pm On Oct 14, 2020
This OP is funny sha. Which one is demonic whatever here? OP, assume you are locked in a room with a well garnished meat, especially one with a beautiful aroma. Won't you be tempted to take a bite?
The truth is if your friend cherish her virginity and doesn't want to succumb to sex, she doesn't have any business dating. As for having male friends, she has to make sure she is not the type that lead people on. Don't be in a compromising position with the opposite sex. Majority of us, when we are with the opposite sex, especially one we like, we will be tempted continuously. I know some will tel you self control bla bla bla, forget it, most will be tempted to do things.

There is nothing demonic about all these.

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Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Strange57: 4:47pm On Oct 14, 2020
ZIINI:
Something keeps telling me you're the one lol grin But wait don't rush E get why
lol am also thinking the person in the story is op
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by nifemi25(m): 4:47pm On Oct 14, 2020
Antidotte:


Save your advice for your daughters.. and next time you want pass on your rubbish.. make sure it stops in your family tree.


Is that how you talk to your parent?

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