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Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Nobody: 7:08am On Oct 14, 2020 |
geesilver: Which ways? Her being every man's dream woman or her being a virgin. You might be right though cause,to me this lady is close to perfection. |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Nobody: 7:11am On Oct 14, 2020 |
If she's truly a virgin then let her wait. |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Nobody: 7:23am On Oct 14, 2020 |
Pancakeey: "What does she have to offer aside her virginity?? Nothing." She has a business of her own, even her ex will give testimonies of how good a lady she is (A good cook,very supportive and what have you) I don't think character is the problem here. I got your first write up, private places will surely be avoided. 1 Like |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Nobody: 7:35am On Oct 14, 2020 |
I pity for simps,women are emotionally bankrupt . This same girl singing with her virginity will give it up in seconds to a bag guy . |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Nobody: 7:45am On Oct 14, 2020 |
ashybabs: Will go read up more on this. |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by gbowoade85142: 8:15am On Oct 14, 2020 |
let her change her ways...... and every things will falls in place for her.sometimes what's good is not meant for one person. |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by femi4: 8:48am On Oct 14, 2020 |
StacyO:just let her be |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Pancakeey(f): 9:07am On Oct 14, 2020 |
Mide3367:Lmfaoooo. Jealous that?? Hahaha illiteracy be taking a toll on people. If being a virgin would bring me billions then I would be jealous. Madam if you’re don’t have a strong point to counter mine just keep quiet. 1 Like |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by sharpwriter(m): 9:10am On Oct 14, 2020 |
[b][/b] StacyO: In all the things you mentioned, what I want to speak about is that you said she likes keeping male friends and your write up claims it's the best for a lady. Who told you or your friend that? For someone escaping about 4 rape attempts? and still likes to be isolated with men. If care isn't taken, it's just a matter of time * People have given you many good advice up there, but also take precautions against carelessness. May God help her. 1 Like |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by ArticleBeast: 9:21am On Oct 14, 2020 |
Sometimes it is best you don't get into a relationship if you arent ready to have sex. Forget the emotional bs but in today times, the average man sees sex as the only benefit a woman can offer. I remember dating one babe and refusing to have sex with her and this babe told all her friends that I am impotent. I think it is best she keep just online male friends and stay away from any sex discussion. Most virgins are the most outspoken ones on sex matters which gives guys the false impression that may lead to rape. Whenever she thinks she is ready for marriage, she should enter into a relationship. 1 Like |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Nobody: 9:37am On Oct 14, 2020 |
ArticleBeast: ""Most virgins are the most outspoken ones on sex matters which gives guys the false impression that may lead to rape."" |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Nobody: 9:39am On Oct 14, 2020 |
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Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Nobody: 9:40am On Oct 14, 2020 |
fabiano09: And she haven't given it up ever since then |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Nobody: 9:43am On Oct 14, 2020 |
ZIINI: Guys in the streets,threat messages. Assuming it was for her to wait,I won't even bring the issue here. It's becoming unbecoming. |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Nobody: 9:50am On Oct 14, 2020 |
Pancakeey: How about a well deserved respect?? Have you heard or read about okafor's law?? |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Nobody: 10:02am On Oct 14, 2020 |
lefulefu: ***but i guess she wouldnt want to be with a virgin boy cos she is scared the virgin boy would be boring and this one u saying some of the guys she dated attempted to rape her.. biko where does she meet her guys? Beerpalour?..abi na nightclubs?*** See comment Even this last guy is a virgin. They want to use someone's child for practical. |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by ThreeEyedRaven: 10:16am On Oct 14, 2020 |
This is quite a difficult situation she found herself. I'd say nothing is wrong with her but many things are wrong with the society. Many ladies has this strong sexual aura they exudes quite alright, Just as many men wants to fvck anything with a hole in-between her legs. She can't avoid men till she gets married reasons because you don't just see a man somewhere and get married automatically. So there must be a relationship at first to begin with. Relationship is unavoidable except she wants be a nun. So she can't totally avoid men all her life as she doesn't know who the right person is, why she must go into relationship(or relationships in most cases) My advice for her are 1: Clearly define what she wants for herself and SINCERELY stick to it. 2: Avoid being alone with men and don't give the wrong impressions to men either. 3: She also needs to clarify what she wants in a man (though not all can be achieved) but if no sex is part of it then it could be achieved. I understand there's hardly a relationship without intimacy ... And when those smooches and kisses starts the urge for sex is largely uncontrollable. But discipline and sincerity of a clear purpose would see her through. I'll tell you of a certain relationship I had while in my 2 and 300 level in school. She was a daughter of an MFM pastor. And so she made it clear to me there'd be no sex as she was a virgin and I respected her innocence (why, because e get as person go good reach even devil go defend am- you can ask uncle Job) when we had our intimacy I only played with her boobs and her clitts while she gave me BJ. It wasn't long before it dawned on both of us we're doing the right thing as we could satisfy eachother sexually without me deflowering her. And it got to hit us both that sex is over rated. Bottom line is we understood eachother's demands and respected eachother and we got creative about it which is key in any relationship. I think your friend can find a man who'd not only understand but accept and respect her for what she stands for. |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by nurain150(m): 10:24am On Oct 14, 2020 |
VicM6:bro no be u get my advice habi why u dey talk for my mouth joor. |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by ArticleBeast: 10:27am On Oct 14, 2020 |
StacyO:I have lots of them as friends and if you hear them speak, you will think they have a Phd in sexology. |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Nobody: 11:19am On Oct 14, 2020 |
StacyO:Something keeps telling me you're the one lol But wait don't rush E get why 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by ashawopikin(m): 11:36am On Oct 14, 2020 |
StacyO:She has a big nyash |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Nobody: 11:37am On Oct 14, 2020 |
StacyO:Trust me a sharp guy will take it she's just wasting her time ,even sef I taya for guys ,what's so special about virginity ?*?? I've heard of some clowns having anal sex just to preserve their virginity 1 Like |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by zakkyzakes: 1:09pm On Oct 14, 2020 |
nurain150:do u really have to include the religion part...? |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by nurain150(m): 1:35pm On Oct 14, 2020 |
zakkyzakes:Yeah j have .There is no way someone in her shoes will listen to honest advice based on what is seem fit . |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by zakkyzakes: 1:41pm On Oct 14, 2020 |
nurain150:mush |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Antidotte: 2:02pm On Oct 14, 2020 |
nifemi25: Save your advice for your daughters.. and next time you want pass on your rubbish.. make sure it stops in your family tree. |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Powerfly(f): 2:25pm On Oct 14, 2020 |
Op. Tell her that when next she meets any guy., she should always tell them that her grand mother whom she grew up with tied her virginity to their village shrine, that the only way to break it is if she agrees to become the next Eze nwanyi. Tell her to tell anyone who is interested that like four guys have already tried and have died in the process. Then as for her dad, She should buy this aboki pen knife and be going to bed with it. |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Liposure: 2:27pm On Oct 14, 2020 |
There is nothing wrong with her. It just shows she's too physically and sexually attractive to resist. My advice for her is simple. avoid any meeting that could lead to rape |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Mide3367: 3:59pm On Oct 14, 2020 |
Pancakeey:needless hubbub hullabaloo |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Iretii0511(m): 4:16pm On Oct 14, 2020 |
This OP is funny sha. Which one is demonic whatever here? OP, assume you are locked in a room with a well garnished meat, especially one with a beautiful aroma. Won't you be tempted to take a bite? The truth is if your friend cherish her virginity and doesn't want to succumb to sex, she doesn't have any business dating. As for having male friends, she has to make sure she is not the type that lead people on. Don't be in a compromising position with the opposite sex. Majority of us, when we are with the opposite sex, especially one we like, we will be tempted continuously. I know some will tel you self control bla bla bla, forget it, most will be tempted to do things. There is nothing demonic about all these. 1 Like |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Strange57: 4:47pm On Oct 14, 2020 |
ZIINI:lol am also thinking the person in the story is op |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by nifemi25(m): 4:47pm On Oct 14, 2020 |
Antidotte: Is that how you talk to your parent? |
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