Jemiwizzy:
my sis and her husband just got settled yesterday night,

and he said his reason for cheating is because of me,that he is not free to do whatever he wanted to do with his wife,

that am always with my sis all the time and in the night he still can't,because we live in the same roof,

so when he notice that we left the house he has no choice than to bring someone in,

hmmm the worst part is that he told my sis not to come back with me to the house that he has endure enough,if not he will continue his act,

and right now my sis is thinking twice my sis is saying she can't leave only me at home and go back,

and as for me I don't want to be the reason why she should quit her marriage,so someone should please tell me what to do because right now am confused.

Jemiwizzy:
my sis and her husband just got settled yesterday night,

and he said his reason for cheating is because of me,that he is not free to do whatever he wanted to do with his wife,

that am always with my sis all the time and in the night he still can't,because we live in the same roof,

so when he notice that we left the house he has no choice than to bring someone in,

hmmm the worst part is that he told my sis not to come back with me to the house that he has endure enough,if not he will continue his act,

and right now my sis is thinking twice my sis is saying she can't leave only me at home and go back,

and as for me I don't want to be the reason why she should quit her marriage,so someone should please tell me what to do because right now am confused.

Jemiwizzy:
my sis and her husband just got settled yesterday night,

and he said his reason for cheating is because of me,that he is not free to do whatever he wanted to do with his wife,

that am always with my sis all the time and in the night he still can't,because we live in the same roof,

so when he notice that we left the house he has no choice than to bring someone in,

hmmm the worst part is that he told my sis not to come back with me to the house that he has endure enough,if not he will continue his act,

and right now my sis is thinking twice my sis is saying she can't leave only me at home and go back,

and as for me I don't want to be the reason why she should quit her marriage,so someone should please tell me what to do because right now am confused.

Jemiwizzy:
my sis and her husband just got settled yesterday night,

and he said his reason for cheating is because of me,that he is not free to do whatever he wanted to do with his wife,

that am always with my sis all the time and in the night he still can't,because we live in the same roof,

so when he notice that we left the house he has no choice than to bring someone in,

hmmm the worst part is that he told my sis not to come back with me to the house that he has endure enough,if not he will continue his act,

and right now my sis is thinking twice my sis is saying she can't leave only me at home and go back,

and as for me I don't want to be the reason why she should quit her marriage,so someone should please tell me what to do because right now am confused.

nwaezeemmanuel:
Stupid excuse from this man.

Doesn't make any sense, he is just trying to make you feel guilty for doing nothing.

Your sister may have a lot to handle, because he seems like an irredeemable cheat.

Do what you feel is right!

MhisTahrah:
No vex, are you all sharing one room?

If no, what will he do when they start having children because children also invade one's privacy? Take the children away from the house so they can have freedom to fvck anywhere? Whatever happened to telling your sister he's not comfortable with you around before he turned himself to a philanthropist, distributing his prick around?He had the guts to bring a strange woman home, definitely he has been playing away matches for a long time.If I were your sister, I'd have him undergo compulsory STD screening tests twice in the space of 3 months before we resume sexual activities.
I'm sorry but I perceive your sister's husband to be an irresponsible man.

PinkPill:
He's just looking for EXCUSE to justify his cheating self !!

That's the lamest excuse I've ever heard..

Why didn't he mention it to your sister before he was caught?

May God save us from Evil men.

newharddrives:
But let me ask,why are you in ur sistas house?your visit there should be on a visit,my piece though

chinchonglee:
is the house a one room apartment?

Jemiwizzy:

yeah one bedroom and a sitting room,

chinchonglee:

Den u re truly disturbing dem.
Hw old are u that u can't stay in ur parent's houss

Jemiwizzy:
did you think if my parent are there i will be hearing such rubbish from my uncle.

chinchonglee:

Den u re truly disturbing dem.
Hw old are u that u can't stay in ur parent's houss

Jemiwizzy:
did you think if my parent are there i will be hearing such rubbish from my uncle,

my parent are nomore that is why am with my sister and I have been with them for so long now.

Jemiwizzy:
did you think if my parent are there i will be hearing such rubbish from my uncle,

my parent are nomore that is why am with my sister and I have been with them for so long now.

DeltaBachelor:
So sorry for your predicament. However, to be very candid with you, I would advice you to give them their space albeit for a while.


Like someone rightly pointed out, the man seems like an irredeemable cheat that only wants to give a dog a bad name, in order to hang it. A room and sitting room is "enough" for a husband and wife to manage for the time being if they want to do Karewa or want their little privacy. At least, you can sleep in the sitting room if them blood dey hot.

I would suggest you give them their space and let's see if he would truly change like he said. Then, you can judge him. Do not give him reason(s) to say you are the clog in the will of his marital progress.

Me na manage I dey manage o. You fit come stay with me for the time being if you are in lag and stay on the mainland. Or better yet, go with any female friend of yours or any from Nairaland where you can be comfortable. Marriage life get as e be nowadays o. People are just managing.

I wouldn't want you to be regarded as an obstacle in your sister's home, because trust me, God forbid, if it crashes, she will still point accusing fingers at you. Please leave now that they seem to have "settled" and observe them from afar.

May God guide and see you through. Amen.

With regards to my proposal, if you stay in lag and are interested, send me a mail - deltabachelor@gmail.com. Although, I am a single guy in his mid-thirties, I am just offering to help oooooo. Don't get it twisted. Your sanity and that of your sister's marriage is very important here.

And remember.... What doesn't kill you, makes you Stronger !!!! This too shall pass. There are better days ahead !!!! Cheers !

P.S : I received a pm . I wasn't online at the time. However, I have replied. You can check your mail or pm ( don't know how the stuff works jare), or better still send your number to my mail/ send me an email- deltabachelor@gmail.com

soulstalker:
Can u pls just move out of that house. Get an accomodation or rather, let's talk. I have sent u a p.m

Jemiwizzy:
I have no access to my email anymore it's sign in with my phone I tried to login it's asking for review or verification.

I want to move out but I have no option

soulstalker:
oh ok! Check my signature, my digits is there, u can beep me, then i wil call u asap. We should talk.