gaius01:
Arrrrrrrh


I was dating this girl then, she due chat,call her ex I was a bit cool with it. The only reason I was cool with it was because I don't want to show am over Jeolous. Last last she posted the guy pix on line, that left me with no reason than to calm for a break up. There many things that spur the break, this was one of it. How on earth did I over look that, and boom she did the unimaginable. girls eh, just use your head when you are sensing reg flag and if it insist my guy cut tail with her and avoid your self unnecessary anger .

MagnumXL:


That is how it always is,

They will try to convince you that there is nothing wrong in contacting your exes.

They will try to make you feel insecure when you mention it to them but eventually they will knack that ex and form apology.

N2B2:
Where do I start? My mumu was too much.

1.) She argued hotly that there was nothing wrong "hanging out" with her many male friends, even if it's in their houses.

2.) She once asked me for permission to sleep with another dude.

3.) When her ex broke up with her, he warned me that she wasn't to be trusted.

She ended up cheating on me with more people than I could count. After wasting 7 years with her, I learned that the key to exiting toxic relationships is to love yourself and remember your worth, else you're finished!

LolaO:
They were plenty. I was so foolish, up till 3 months to my wedding, when I finally saw it.

1. Too ‘busy’ to show up at important events in my life - graduation, family dinners etc.
2. Delay in committing
3. No communication with me when he is upset or sad. Sometimes as long as 6 months-1 year
4. No visits all through the year until December (long-distance relationship, I’m in Lagos, he works in the East)

He came back suddenly after one of his long breaks and proposed and I was foolish to accept.
We had the introduction immediately early in the year but wedding was fixed for November. He wanted the wedding asap as well but my dad refused.

His lies finally came to light 2 months to the wedding, sometimes in October and it all made sense why those red flags were there.
He has someone else in Asaba and wanted to marry me to settle debts

I called off the wedding and I’m glad I did.

N2B2:
Where do I start? My mumu was too much.

1.) She argued hotly that there was nothing wrong "hanging out" with her many male friends, even if it's in their houses.

2.) She once asked me for permission to sleep with another dude.

3.) When her ex broke up with her, he warned me that she wasn't to be trusted.

She ended up cheating on me with more people than I could count. After wasting 7 years with her, I learned that the key to exiting toxic relationships is to love yourself and remember your worth, else you're finished!

Omotakins:
marry you to defray debt?! I'm still trying to figure out what that means. Can you say more on that?

Laughandie:
I'm picking up on the red flags right now.

1. He says he will do something as small as calling me back and he doesn't.

2. He says he will never disrespect because I'm different and then does number 1. Also this implies he is a disrespectful person and he will choose to be respectful to me. You either respect people or you don't. You don't pick and choose who you will respect and who you will disrespect. Respect is a state of being and not doing.

3. He won't take no for an answer because I'm not interested due to 1 & 2 and he won't leave me alone. I ignore his calls and he keeps calling. I turn down his dates and he won't stop asking. I have shouted at him to get the message that I am not interested but he says he loves my voice and he wants to hear it for the rest of his life.
I have blocked his number and he uses another number to call me. He either has zero self respect or he is a sociopath either way I won't be his victim. What a psycho.

davidhobo:


Is he your boyfriend or toaster, haaanty

Blackmoran:
me I dated a girl that was so needy, then I through it was cool cause is so rare to meet their type.... every seconds this girl will bombard me with calls, if she see me with other girls she will turn it into a war...
the deal breaker was the day I came home late I don't know how this girl got my boss number and called him and complained that I don't give her much attention... that night I decided am done, the next morning I woke up with a suicide letter on my bed, I ran to the parlour this babe was piercing her self with a needle, I have to console her I waited till weekend when I know she will go on a visit, I parked all her stuff out of my house and I change the locks to my door.. that was the end of her.. later after some month I discover this babe was suffering from a disorder BPD meaning bipolar personal disorder.. thank God for my life

Cladez:

I think you meant to say borderline personality disorder (BPD)
Bipolar disorder is different though.

Thank goodness you saw the signs.

N2B2:
Where do I start? My mumu was too much.

1.) She argued hotly that there was nothing wrong "hanging out" with her many male friends, even if it's in their houses.

2.) SHE ONCE ASKED ME FOR PERMISSION TO SLEEP WITH ANOTHER DUDE.

3.) When her ex broke up with her, he warned me that she wasn't to be trusted.

She ended up cheating on me with more people than I could count. After wasting 7 years with her, I learned that the key to exiting toxic relationships is to love yourself and remember your worth, else you're finished!

Powerfly:
Fake life, lies and being overly materialistic and ever- demanding but never
willing to give made me give up on her, but she was a badass in
bed. after sex, we can't even hold a decent, intelligent
conversation, aside the latest hair-do, sneakers, make-up and parties. I just realised that we weren't
compartible on any
level.

tobechi20:
she is from a wealthy family

loswhite:
you be lesbian?

N2B2:
Where do I start? My mumu was too much.

1.) She argued hotly that there was nothing wrong "hanging out" with her many male friends, even if it's in their houses.

2.) She once asked me for permission to sleep with another dude.

3.) When her ex broke up with her, he warned me that she wasn't to be trusted.

She ended up cheating on me with more people than I could count. After wasting 7 years with her, I learned that the key to exiting toxic relationships is to love yourself and remember your worth, else you're finished!