Biglittlelois:
I have a friend, she was introduced to a guy by her cousin, they both hit it off the very first time they talked on phone, according to her, seeing his picture made her fall the more, same with him, but there was a clause, this guy said he is a weird and complicated guy, he doesnt call, text or chat, yet he calls and chat with her, she tried to end/stop talking to him several times because of it, he refused, in fact he pushed for them to see several times, she refused cos she doesn't really like the connection thingy, to the extent that the guy became discouraged and didn't want to see her anymore, after much convincing, they finally get to see, the feelings they both had for each other never changed,

All of a sudden things changed, this is a guy that first professed love to her, tells her she has no other choice but to stay with him, always tell her she should hold on to him, he suddenly stopped calling, chating on whatsapp, she was always the one calling and chating up, she said she knew something was wrong, pressed him to talk about it several until he finally did, he said it was work issue, that she isn't his priority right now, but he still loves and respect her, and doesnt want anything to happen to what they have together, yet he refused to change,

She had to take the bull by the horn one day, she asked him if he will like her to move on from him, he didn't reply, she persisted, until he finally said, she is the one getting things wrong, that's when she realised that he really doesnt want a relationship with her, she had to delete his number from her phone and whatsapp, but didn't block him, it's been one week since then, she secretly wants him to reach out cos she really misses him terribly, to the extent that she came crying to my place this evening to tell me all these, and majorly because she doesn't know his number off hand so she can call him or text,

Some guys are low key emotionally manipulative, why collect the number of someone that wants a relationship that'll lead to the altar, then toil with her feelings?

Prognose:


All this long story.

The man wanted the p"""**

And he got it.

So now he has lost interest.

End of story.

Mend your broken heart and move on.

Next time don't give your p**** out like that. That's all men think about.no matter how romantic they sound.

Look for someone that will love u without asking for p#***

Those are the real husband materials.

But una go hear?

Zzor:
The thing is the guy didn't like her again after they met,reason I hate anything online dating or connection whatever.She should just end things and never look back,thats what the guy wants but scared to tell her in order not to hurt her feelings

Stacyomolola:
He wanted the cookie He got it It's over He's done Deal with it

baralatie:

they did not have sex

Stacyomolola:
He wanted the cookie
He got it
It's over
He's done
Deal with it

Stacyomolola:


Speak for urself
Were u part of the relationship
U seem so sure

Kimcutie:
Source?

baralatie:

do you know that there are people who just enjoy the other person suffering for nothing and sex is not involved

Stacyomolola:
[s]He wanted the cookie
He got it
It's over
He's done
Deal with it[/s]

MMXX:
I think your friend abi it's you anyways

I think she ooze of desperation and the guy has sensed it..He probably wants to take his time,take it slowly but your desperate friend is nagging him with attention.. I think she has taken the right step.if he doesn't reach out to her


She should move on

Stacyomolola:



U can't just be causing pain and sorrow for no reason, there must be a reason if not then obviously the person has mental issue
How so sure sex isn't involved
I didn't read anything near sexuality
She didn't write whether they did or didn't have sex
So sex maybe involved

Biglittlelois:



Not every story is make-believe.

Stacyomolola:


Speak for urself
Were u part of the relationship
U seem so sure

gfon:
it's not always about sex!!! If i ain't attracted to a lady,nothing about her catches my fancy. Even if she gets stark naked,my 'john thomas' would lay flaccid in perpetual slumber.

Biglittlelois:



So we should believe your opinion and not the Op, why? Because you typed/said so?

Zzor:
The thing is the guy didn't like her again after they met,

Kimcutie:
After reading it, here's what I think;

* The girl is in love
* The boy just had a crush on her
* The girl should move on

lefulefu:
[s]he sounds like eat ur share and waka type of guy
u know a guy who wants a casual relationship
nothing too serious
just for sex and fun
probably the guy has eaten his share and wants to move on
Its not a crime to want a casual relationship but u should let a girl knows its a casual one u want instead of trying to decieve her cos u want to chop her kpomo at all cost[/s]

Biglittlelois:



@emboldened, I truly wish it is me, guys like that will be fun to play with

Thank you for your opinion.

Zzor:
The thing is the guy didn't like her again after they met,reason I hate anything online dating or connection whatever.She should just end things and never look back,thats what the guy wants but scared to tell her in order not to hurt her feelings

Bro I honestly apologice for exposing u as a male pretending to be female.. ..its just aint right using female pictures to lure men sir. Bro I trully apologise
Luckily for u, not everyone know u r a male pretending to be female sir,