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I Am Married But Need A Companion / Am In Need Of A Companion / This Nigerian Lady Is Searching For A Regular Sex Partner And Companion (2) (3) (4)
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Re: I Need A Companion by Sheina(f): 10:15pm On Oct 18, 2020 |
Forzeenab:You actually don't have much work to do,trust me Start by not getting worked up about it at all and say mehnn this is just me jare,embrace the fact that you don't like talking and all,be comfortable with it like totally,cause you would have to admire your present self for a change to happen Send a general message to all your WhatsApp contacts with "I hope your day is going great" Watch what happens next,when next you go out wear a smirk and a bright smile and get ready to verbally admire things,go to the swimming pool and say yeh and I don't like water o,let the person next to you say "why did you now come here" continue from there Also get ready to be relevant in people's lives,friendship is sustained by two sided value adding You don't just want to be a "contact" to someone else,you want to be thoughtful enough for someone else to call you "his or her friend" Be interested in making someone else happy 2 Likes |
Re: I Need A Companion by Nobody: 10:15pm On Oct 18, 2020 |
anthonyuncle: 1. Treat women around you better even when you think they are due for marriage. 2. Marriage is not for everyone 3. Live and let live. 2 Likes |
Re: I Need A Companion by Nobody: 10:17pm On Oct 18, 2020 |
Sheina: Please just follow me back |
Re: I Need A Companion by Sheina(f): 10:19pm On Oct 18, 2020 |
Forzeenab:Start with the WhatsApp message,at times we think we don't have friends when we actually have a list of contacts we can turn to friends. Take it one by one,you have time Dear,trust me the crazy stuff s would make you giggle,like you've just been a villain 1 Like |
Re: I Need A Companion by anthonyuncle(m): 10:25pm On Oct 18, 2020 |
Forzeenab: 1.i don't disrespect women (u just have a wrong perception) 2. I never tried to persuade u into marriage (I only encouraged u to see it beyond da ceremony of food, drinks and dance) 3. I ain't selfish and everyone around me is grateful to God for my existence (u wouldn't make da original post if u really do live and let live ) |
Re: I Need A Companion by Nobody: 10:25pm On Oct 18, 2020 |
Sheina: I run away from WhatsApp. People actually try to chat with me but I prefer reading or writing stuff to chatting. I will try and start chatting with people. My god! |
Re: I Need A Companion by Nobody: 10:25pm On Oct 18, 2020 |
anthonyuncle: Ok thanks |
Re: I Need A Companion by Nobody: 10:27pm On Oct 18, 2020 |
pcguru1: The last line got to me real bad. I get sidelined at work cos people are tired of including me in stuff that I don't show up to. All end of year events, weddings, parties. I was given a query for shunning the dept's team bonding party. I just totally abhor rowdy places, crowd, noise and even plenty food. I fear that my career growth might be stunted if I don't leave my shell soon but I can't seem to help myself 1 Like |
Re: I Need A Companion by anthonyuncle(m): 10:29pm On Oct 18, 2020 |
Forzeenab:u are welcome |
Re: I Need A Companion by Sheina(f): 10:32pm On Oct 18, 2020 |
Forzeenab:I read a foreign blog somewhere about the term "Textrovert" let me paraphrase concisely "Living your social live in texts" At times you feel comfortable texting strangers,to me I feel it stems from a little bit of low self esteem issues,we think we're one way but search within yourself deeply,you might realize one incident or situation caused that way to happen,so we get soo comfortable in this sort of life,we lock up and even build our confidence right back but only on the surrounding of this comfort zone we've made happen. You would be surprised you love other things when you start giving them a trial 1 Like |
Re: I Need A Companion by Openbusiness: 10:33pm On Oct 18, 2020 |
Forzeenab:So na sugar u dey put inside your own akara? Dis is d type of gals my grandmama great grandmother warned me about before she go Heaven. Na ur type dey give Nigerian man quesadilla and Italian Lasagna as breakfast in bed instead of Eba + egusi + goat meat pepper soup. No wonder u want to b going to cinema so u can b eating food instead of cooking @ home. Mtchwwwww!!! |
Re: I Need A Companion by Sheina(f): 10:34pm On Oct 18, 2020 |
Forzeenab:I've done that 1 Like |
Re: I Need A Companion by zakkyzakes: 10:39pm On Oct 18, 2020 |
Sheina:and here comes a real textrovert |
Re: I Need A Companion by Sheina(f): 10:44pm On Oct 18, 2020 |
zakkyzakes:Make yourself at Home |
Re: I Need A Companion by Oturatetuala(m): 10:48pm On Oct 18, 2020 |
Forzeenab: Okay sorry my bad, becareful too and be smart...shalom 1 Like |
Re: I Need A Companion by Nobody: 10:48pm On Oct 18, 2020 |
Sheina: If I ask for your number, will you give me? |
Re: I Need A Companion by Nobody: 10:49pm On Oct 18, 2020 |
Openbusiness: I don't even put maggi in most things I cook, too much maggi makes me want to throw up |
Re: I Need A Companion by Sheina(f): 10:50pm On Oct 18, 2020 |
Forzeenab:Yes but privately Any other person it is to cook for you ni o,Mon wawo 1 Like |
Re: I Need A Companion by Dasdfgnb(m): 10:52pm On Oct 18, 2020 |
I like the fact that you are bold, everyone is entitled to what he or she wants.. You will definitely get a good man since you are not lazy yourself... 1 Like |
Re: I Need A Companion by Okoroawusa: 10:53pm On Oct 18, 2020 |
Sheina:You say you cook for a fee? What else can you do? |
Re: I Need A Companion by Nobody: 10:53pm On Oct 18, 2020 |
Sheina: Thank you so much. Pls reply my DM. So happy I met you on this thread and yes I can buy food from you, I rarely cook cos of work and no motivation to eat alone after I stress myself to cook. |
Re: I Need A Companion by Nobody: 10:59pm On Oct 18, 2020 |
Dasdfgnb: Thank you |
Re: I Need A Companion by Merciful71(m): 10:59pm On Oct 18, 2020 |
be you baby, also when you set to mingle with people, watch well. Been introverted is golden 1 Like |
Re: I Need A Companion by Nobody: 11:02pm On Oct 18, 2020 |
Merciful71: Thank you. I actually hope I have the energy to mingle with people, I need that energy and push. 1 Like |
Re: I Need A Companion by Sheina(f): 11:03pm On Oct 18, 2020 |
Forzeenab:Ope ooo Oluwa seun oo I'm equally happy In fact you just aggravated my happiness with that food part,I'm sure you'd be a wonderful person to be with 1 Like |
Re: I Need A Companion by morohunfola78008: 11:05pm On Oct 18, 2020 |
:be you baby, also when you set to mingle with people, watch well. Been introverted is goldenThank you. I actually hope I have the energy to mingle with people, I need that energy and push. |
Re: I Need A Companion by Sheina(f): 11:07pm On Oct 18, 2020 |
Okoroawusa:I'm an Entrepreneur I do other things I don't want to list here but I'm good at other legal stuffs I can be a brainy,I'm presently majorly looking for good side hustles,I have a main field already. I'd love to know what you have in mind you think I can do |
Re: I Need A Companion by Openbusiness: 11:18pm On Oct 18, 2020 |
Forzeenab:U see yasef? Ordinary maggi dey make u throw up cuz u dunno how to balance simple ingredients like Buhari regime dunno how to balance Nigeria budget. Lemme guess, the "Zee" in your name stands for Zee World? [img]https://media1./images/30e586b2e6cf26a1e80fe34a54f13d84/tenor.gif?itemid=10217929[/img] |
Re: I Need A Companion by Nobody: 11:22pm On Oct 18, 2020 |
Openbusiness: You need to go to bed 1 Like |
Re: I Need A Companion by Openbusiness: 11:34pm On Oct 18, 2020 |
Forzeenab:i'm a night owl + early bird all-in-one. Am nor a small baby like u. Oya change ur diaper and close ur eyes there........and drop dar teddy bear straight. Dunt forget to dream about #endSARS protests if u dunt want wahala 2mao mawin. Ah wee ask u who led d protests, God epp u if u fail d ansa ಠ_ಠ |
Re: I Need A Companion by Theslumflower: 11:35pm On Oct 18, 2020 |
I honestly feel like your requirement is justifiable. Don't let nobody tell you different. Do you girl . But why don't you start with having an extroverted female friend? Just someone you can hang out with and chill. Must it really be a guy? You can have that kind of friendship with a female, going out and stuff. Who knows from one of those outings, you might meet a guy. And you need to be open minded too dear. Let it not be all talks and no actions. Not when you are called to come out, your introverted nature will come calling and start feeling like staying back inside. Just be open minded, you will be fine. 1 Like 1 Share |
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