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My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by thesilentman(m): 8:07pm On Oct 19, 2020
Couples' life is when students live together like they are married. This trend is almost unavoidable in the higher institutions.

I had about a dozen experience and surprisingly, none led to marriage even though we tried.

I Would have to write a romance novel on that if am to share my experience. The memories still haunts me even now that i have tied the nuptian knot.

What do you guys think about Couples' life? Is it avoidable? How did yours end? Any regret?

Enjoy Your night, guys!!

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Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by EzzyCarter: 8:14pm On Oct 19, 2020
lemme just relax and read comments. I ain't telling shit grin

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Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by Nobody: 8:28pm On Oct 19, 2020
We virgins don't do that,,,,,tongue


The remaining virgins should please line up behind me,,,,,,,,,shocked

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Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by Madibah(m): 8:29pm On Oct 19, 2020
Couple for where
1week 1 babe
That's how I roll in sch
The population of girls during my sch days is enough to stop me from living a couples life

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Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by jamata20: 8:31pm On Oct 19, 2020
Madibah:
Couple for where
1week 1 babe
That's how I roll in sch
The population of girls is too much to be living a couples life

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Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by BigDawsNet: 8:36pm On Oct 19, 2020
I had to dodge it with my Nigerian babe...

The basement was open for Chinese, Spanish, Japanese, Dominicans and Caucasian....

Great experience wink

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Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by olukaygold(m): 8:45pm On Oct 19, 2020
This is my own couple's life story
First year started with no sex relationship when I was in 100l(Ronke God go judge you for those money you chop without seeing your pant)
200l-na when I started couple's life with Toyin(not real name) well it lasted for 3months
300-this one is not couples life but confirm marriage life, it's now 1yr with 2months,even during Coro, we're still together, I hope and pray this is my last bus stop sha.in all Couple's life Sweet if your partner is loyal and cherished you.

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Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by thesilentman(m): 8:59pm On Oct 19, 2020
While at AOCOED,the last couples' life i lived did not end on a romantic note.This sexy and slender beauty that i had banged like over a hundred times just woke up one sunday and started preaching the gospel to me,that what we were doing is called "living in sin" and that we should stop it and all that jazz.I was shocked.Like play like play,this young lady became a heavy church-goer and a big time S.U. She's now married to an RCCG pastor.Imagine!

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Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by dukeprince50: 9:04pm On Oct 19, 2020
Those that did it knows it didn't end well.
I was so dissapointed that it couldn't lead to marriage, we dated for four years, I came out of school with nothing but just a certificate, life as a young graduate ain't easy mehn. we decided to go our separate ways and stand so we could come back together but distance killed the love and that was how a relationship of five years ended.

I was depressed, frustrated and ask why will God just let my first romance just die like that, i was so helpless to even do anything, but thats just it o, I learned that, in life most things don't always go the way u planned and there is so much about life u couldn't understand why it happens but that's just it, u can't forget the pains, u just have to carry the pains and move on, and don't give ppl a reason to see ur depressed face, we all have gone through a lot

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Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by chatinent: 9:05pm On Oct 19, 2020
cry cry
Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by Nobody: 9:05pm On Oct 19, 2020
grin Never liked that shit in da beginning so I never did it

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Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by CAPSLOCKED: 9:10pm On Oct 19, 2020
Preshieben:
grin Never liked that shit in da beginning so I never did it
YOU'VE ALWAYS BEEN UNDESIRABLE ANYWAY.

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Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by Nobody: 9:12pm On Oct 19, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:


YOU'VE ALWAYS BEEN UNDESIRABLE ANYWAY.
what'da fvck?
what do you Mean?

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Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by thesilentman(m): 9:20pm On Oct 19, 2020
olukaygold:
This is my own couple's life story
First year started with no sex relationship when I was in 100l(Ronke God go judge you for those money you chop without seeing your pant)
200l-na when I started couple's life with Toyin(not real name) well it lasted for 3months
300-this one is not couples life but confirm marriage life, it's now 1yr with 2months,even during Coro, we're still together, I hope and pray this is my last bus stop sha.in all Couple's life Sweet if your partner is loyal and cherished you.
Lol@comfirmed marriage life.

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Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by Bedesipop(m): 9:41pm On Oct 19, 2020
Fact1:
We virgins don't do that,,,,,tongue

The remaining virgins should please line up behind me,,,,,,,,,shocked
Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by Nobody: 9:42pm On Oct 19, 2020
how such students will be able to concentrate on their academics who do husby and wife in school baffles me cheesy

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Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by Kccheechy(m): 9:49pm On Oct 19, 2020
For those who engaged in it, hope you won't feel bad when your daughters engage in it when it's their time.

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Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by thesilentman(m): 10:04pm On Oct 19, 2020
lefulefu:
how such students will be able to concentrate on their academics who do husby and wife in school baffles me cheesy
only a handful of such students,especially the females,made good grades.

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Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by Nobody: 10:17pm On Oct 19, 2020
thesilentman:

only a handful of such students,especially the females,made good grades.
why wont it be a handful cheesy
wen the time u should be in class or studying u would be fukin ur bwoyfwend and cooking meals for him cheesy cheesy
any lady wey get sense should ask her herself wen she is in school weda her parents payed her school fees for her to be doing wife duty to another male student in school cheesy
you can visit and spend some time with ur boyfriend but making ur stay permanent and doing wife duties would be a distraction to ur studies

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Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by Nobody: 10:18pm On Oct 19, 2020
I have that shit ehn

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Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by Vyzz: 10:36pm On Oct 19, 2020
I no do am

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Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by BabbanBura(m): 10:53pm On Oct 19, 2020
thesilentman:
Couples' life is when students live together like they are married.This trend is almost unavoidable in the higher institutions.
I had about a dozen experience and surprisingly,none led to marriage even though we tried.
I Would have to write a romance novel on that if am to share my experience.The memories still haunts me even now that i have tied the nuptian knot.
What do you guys think about Couples' life? Is it avoidable?How did yours ended? Any regret?
Enjoy Your night,guys!!

Mine was love by correspondence in the department of distance learning

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Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by Zyxsc: 10:55pm On Oct 19, 2020
This is my confession

I first saw her profile pics on Nairaland. Let's call her Rachel. Later, I got to know she stays in the same hostel as I. She was into me more than I am into her. She attempted to come closer but I wouldn't have that. I resisted because my kind of introvert prefers being alone. I can't tolerate people's presence for long. Even my girlfriends, ex and then-present, I can only tolerate for a maximum of three days. Afterwards I would become hostile towards them till they eventually leave. But Rachel, she would leave and come back the following day, no matter how hostile I was the previous day. Gradually, she taught me how to tolerate people's presence more. I started getting comfortable with her. Then comes the second issue.

I have a very short temper. I flare up on any slight provocation. Rachel, she would remain calm while I'm angry. Once she notice I'm calm, she would come to me and ask me to reminisce the reason for my anger if it's bigger than an issue we could have resolved by discussing. She uses many other vices to correct me in a very respectful way. In the event I get angry while being corrected, she wouldn't raise her voice. She just wants to teach me, most things that trigger my anger can easily be resolved through communication. Gradually, I learn to be slow to anger and speak my temper. There, she taught me to be a better communicator and have a better grip over my temperament.

While all these went on, the sex wasn't amiss, even though it's usually my 2 seconds jiggy-jiggy. She noticed I was bogged by my inability to last long. Then she told me a secret that spurred me into action. I made my research. I found how to last long and give better pre-intimacy and got really good at the game.

From the start of my narration till the last paragraph, it was 5 years of cohabitation already, but it was a blessing. I would still be the primitive version of myself if I hadn't engaged in that.

So in case you're thinking it's bad to cohabit in school, of course it is, but that's your opinion. It's okay to have one, but don't shove it down our throat.[b]

[b]Does it affect my grades?

sure, it does. I came out with a second class upper. Strong or not strong, second class upper na second class upper. I might not have had a first class even if I didn't live a couple's life. And come to think of it, I am doing better than the first class graduate of my set.

Will I be glad if my daughter does it?
Of course, no. I wouldn't. But shit happens and life goes on yet. To the best of my knowledge, my Dad didn't even attend any tertiary institution, talk more of doing it. So my doing it or not doing it wouldn't affect my daughter's decision to either do it or not. Just live your life and enjoy it the best way you can

I and Rachel are not dating presently, but I value her more than any lady I've ever come across because she's had great impact in my life. The changes I experienced while cohabitating with her formed the foundation of any positive change I am presently undergoing.

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Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by Nobody: 10:59pm On Oct 19, 2020
one cup for comment readers

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Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by juniorstar(m): 10:59pm On Oct 19, 2020
thesilentman:
Couples' life is when students live together like they are married.This trend is almost unavoidable in the higher institutions.
I had about a dozen experience and surprisingly,none led to marriage even though we tried.
I Would have to write a romance novel on that if am to share my experience.The memories still haunts me even now that i have tied the nuptian knot.
What do you guys think about Couples' life? Is it avoidable?How did yours ended? Any regret?
Enjoy Your night,guys!!
stay in school hostel and d possibility is almost zero

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Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by ashawopikin(m): 12:20am On Oct 20, 2020
thesilentman:
While at AOCOED,the last couples' life i lived did not end on a romantic note.This sexy and slender beauty that i had banged like over a hundred times just woke up one sunday and started preaching the gospel to me,that what we were doing is called "living in sin" and that we should stop it and all that jazz.I was shocked.Like play like play,this young lady became a heavy church-goer and a big time S.U. She's now married to an RCCG pastor.Imagine!
Sharp guy

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Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by dukeprince50: 12:46am On Oct 20, 2020
thesilentman:

only a handful of such students,especially the females,made good grades.
lies jor, I graduated with a good grade

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Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by tillaman(m): 12:47am On Oct 20, 2020
Yes I did, I really like that stuff and also there was no suffocation based on a real niqqa shiiit I rented a cheap room self con for my away matches!!
On code

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Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by santos123(m): 1:08am On Oct 20, 2020
angry grin
CAPSLOCKED:


YOU'VE ALWAYS BEEN UNDESIRABLE ANYWAY.

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Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by AfroKnight: 1:32am On Oct 20, 2020
Palema007 should come and share her experience. Who was the guy you were cooking jollof rice for?

Don’t tell me you didn’t do it cos I have chosen what to believe and you cannot stop me! grin

I know one guy who did it with a babe in his department. He helped the girl pass in exams. After school she broke up with him and married a rich guy. grin I couldn’t do it anyway cos I loved my space most of the time. Didn’t want one babe around all the time, getting in the way or monitoring my life.

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Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by chinchonglee(m): 1:54am On Oct 20, 2020
thesilentman:
Couples' life is when students live together like they are married.This trend is almost unavoidable in the higher institutions.
I had about a dozen experience and surprisingly,none led to marriage even though we tried.
I Would have to write a romance novel on that if am to share my experience.The memories still haunts me even now that i have tied the nuptian knot.
What do you guys think about Couples' life? Is it avoidable?How did yours ended? Any regret?
Enjoy Your night,guys!!
How does the memory haunt you?

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Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by Nobody: 2:25am On Oct 20, 2020
Many parents sent theirs daughters to school and had no money to send them. They had to do runs or couple life. I know one that led to marriage. The rest sorrow, abortion and tears.

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