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Re: A Verbally Abusive Guy I Just Met by Nobody: 11:33pm On Oct 21, 2020 |
He is a red flag, run before its too late. |
Re: A Verbally Abusive Guy I Just Met by Joshmanuel10(m): 11:35pm On Oct 21, 2020 |
osazsky:And d gain in both are |
Re: A Verbally Abusive Guy I Just Met by Consultville(m): 11:41pm On Oct 21, 2020 |
It will end in tears. |
Re: A Verbally Abusive Guy I Just Met by IMAMofWAR: 11:41pm On Oct 21, 2020 |
please stop this rubbish, verbally abusive guy kill you and your smelling toto there. the mod that even brought this to front page na thunder go fire u 2 Likes |
Re: A Verbally Abusive Guy I Just Met by Uniquekriss(m): 11:43pm On Oct 21, 2020 |
iRepNaija1:your last paragraph is the reason most ladies break into marriages and do not care to become second wives cos they are out of time, OP, successful relationships take work, you don't stumble upon it, you are lucky the young man isn't faking his personality even from the start so if he's got most of the qualities you admire of a man, plz yield and stop stressing thbat dude, u also have a can of worms to unleash that he needs to put up with |
Re: A Verbally Abusive Guy I Just Met by tayolove12(m): 11:46pm On Oct 21, 2020 |
ladywealth: At 22 having boyfriend you need to go for check up you are sick, God help us... If you see buhari please tell him God will surely judge him.. |
Re: A Verbally Abusive Guy I Just Met by EgusiShankly: 11:47pm On Oct 21, 2020 |
Mtcheew!! We have pressing issues at hand... |
Re: A Verbally Abusive Guy I Just Met by Igolonwaanyi(f): 11:50pm On Oct 21, 2020 |
Xoly: Shut up. |
Re: A Verbally Abusive Guy I Just Met by Igolonwaanyi(f): 11:51pm On Oct 21, 2020 |
Xoly: Choose him even when he is violent? STFU |
Re: A Verbally Abusive Guy I Just Met by rottenegg: 11:51pm On Oct 21, 2020 |
ladywealth:sharrap dia! @22 what have u achieved? this is the problem with youths like u...man, man, man full ur head. #endeverything |
Re: A Verbally Abusive Guy I Just Met by blackslayer: 11:52pm On Oct 21, 2020 |
I hate bitches that always form victim! Bitches that start a fight and then the other person decides they must counter punch and then they start crying like the bitches they are! If you start a fight, it is not my responsibility to fight fair! People will say, you don't need to respond...take the high road...be "mature"! These are nothing but lines to make you a punching bag and weak! Counterpunch back so that will be a future deterrence....don't feel bad if you over counterpunch! The fault lies with the person that punched first! 2 Likes |
Re: A Verbally Abusive Guy I Just Met by Igolonwaanyi(f): 11:53pm On Oct 21, 2020 |
VeeVeeMyLuv: Hegoat. Who asks a girl to visit them after few days of knowing? Why not a public place. |
Re: A Verbally Abusive Guy I Just Met by Humorme2(f): 11:58pm On Oct 21, 2020 |
Beware of hot tempered men. Most of them posses that irritating quality of beating women at the slightest provocation 1 Like |
Re: A Verbally Abusive Guy I Just Met by TOPCRUISE(m): 12:01am On Oct 22, 2020 |
If he doesn't have the qualities that you like then don't date him. Dating is a decision and not an option |
Re: A Verbally Abusive Guy I Just Met by stanliwise(m): 12:02am On Oct 22, 2020 |
osazsky:You mean they kind of deserve what they got since they disobey the curfew? Or better still they brought it upon themselves due to their disobedience? |
Re: A Verbally Abusive Guy I Just Met by Omezif(m): 12:03am On Oct 22, 2020 |
You have respected and showed love to him as a female and he didn't reciprocated, care, appreciated and even acting like to beat you if you ever closer to him and you are yet to talk face to face with him. What types of advice do you want to get again ? |
Re: A Verbally Abusive Guy I Just Met by Littletosay: 12:04am On Oct 22, 2020 |
Over 90 Read that again over 90 Nigerian youths are dead. Get off Nairaland with this nonsense. You are spitting on their graves. ladywealth: 1 Like |
Re: A Verbally Abusive Guy I Just Met by stanliwise(m): 12:04am On Oct 22, 2020 |
Omezif:A magical spell to handle the anger probably |
Re: A Verbally Abusive Guy I Just Met by Senatoraku: 12:07am On Oct 22, 2020 |
Hanty, carry this your love matter go sleep. we are on something more meaningful than this love story. Mtcheeeeeeeew |
Re: A Verbally Abusive Guy I Just Met by Sniper101(m): 12:12am On Oct 22, 2020 |
OP Go and join the ongoing protest and #EndSARS At the end, am sure you'll know the best course of action to pursue. ...yeye Nigerian youth |
Re: A Verbally Abusive Guy I Just Met by marwanafrica: 12:13am On Oct 22, 2020 |
ladywealth: Ough!!! You ve won my heart with this reply, you have manners to be sincere |
Re: A Verbally Abusive Guy I Just Met by BuddhaPalm(m): 12:23am On Oct 22, 2020 |
Xoly: Yeah, minor flaws like beating her black and blue. My sister, use your tongue to count your teeth.. 1 Like |
Re: A Verbally Abusive Guy I Just Met by Aromaticshnnap(m): 12:29am On Oct 22, 2020 |
[img][/img][font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font] [left][/left] marwanafrica: marwanafrica: iRepNaija1: iRepNaija1: OP, please don't pursue this. You're not even in a relationship with him and you two are already arguing, regardless of who is right or wrong. That's red flag number one. Red flag number two is that he wants you to come to his house only after a few days of talking. That's concerning because a) you should be meeting someone you don't know well in a public place, b) he should [b]want to meet you in a public place for a meet-up or date, or c) he just wants sex. If you just want sex, then cool. But since you've declined his first offer, I don't think that's what you're going for. The third red flag is that he insulted you. From what you said, you told him, "I don't care." Is that an insult? To me, it's not because you did not criticize his person or his family. (Remember, critique the action, not the person). Could your response have been said in a better way? Maybe but you were straightforward. If he's willing to do this and you two have just started talking, imagine what could happen if you were dating or in a serious relationship. He's just trying to test your limits to see how much B.S. he can get away with and how much B.S. you can tolerate. At 22, you're an adult but you're also much younger than him and he's seeing if he can take advantage of your possible lack of experience in dating. The fact that you're on NL may indicate to me you're still interested in him despite these red flags because if you weren't, I know you would've not continued talking with him. I think you should really let this man go. It just sounds like wahala. You're young and there will be so many other men. When a man likes you and wants to spend time with you, you won't have to question it, you won't be on NL asking for advice from strangers. He will treat you like royalty and handle you like glass. You will never have to second-guess his feelings for you or his motives. Good luck. [/b][quote author=iRepNaija1 post=95149602] OP, please don't pursue this. You're not even in a relationship with him and you two are already arguing, regardless of who is right or wrong. That's red flag number one. Red flag number two is that he wants you to come to his house only after a few days of talking. That's concerning because a) you should be meeting someone you don't know well in a public place, b) he should want to meet you in a public place for a meet-up or date, or c) he just wants sex. If you just want sex, then cool. But since you've declined his first offer, I don't think that's what you're going for. The third red flag is that he insulted you. From what you said, you told him, "I don't care." Is that an insult? To me, it's not because you did not criticize his person or his family. (Remember, critique the action, not the person). Could your response have been said in a better way? Maybe but you were straightforward. If he's willing to do this and you two have just started talking, imagine what could happen if you were dating or in a serious relationship. He's just trying to test your limits to see how much B.S. he can get away with and how much B.S. you can tolerate. At 22, you're an adult but you're also much younger than him and he's seeing if he can take advantage of your possible lack of experience in dating. The fact that you're on NL may indicate to me you're still interested in him despite these red flags because if you weren't, I know you would've not continued talking with him. I think you should really let this man go. It just sounds like wahala. You're young and there will be so many other men. When a man likes you and wants to spend time with you, you won't have to question it, you won't be on NL asking for advice from strangers. He will treat you like royalty and handle you like glass. You will never have to second-guess his feelings for you or his motives. Good luck. [see as my guy commot better time analyze this issue, na your fellow man bizness you wan cast like this] |
Re: A Verbally Abusive Guy I Just Met by friendl: 12:38am On Oct 22, 2020 |
Now l know ladies are weird ,you better run away from him |
Re: A Verbally Abusive Guy I Just Met by Nobody: 12:40am On Oct 22, 2020 |
osazsky:And they did naming ceremony for you? |
Re: A Verbally Abusive Guy I Just Met by DBadman: 12:42am On Oct 22, 2020 |
You know the answer to your questions can you pls stop bothering us #EndSars #BuhariMustGo |
Re: A Verbally Abusive Guy I Just Met by sureguy078(m): 12:42am On Oct 22, 2020 |
OP C’mon This thing is easy nauu Leave him Lobatan #endrubbishnow |
Re: A Verbally Abusive Guy I Just Met by captianfreeman(m): 12:46am On Oct 22, 2020 |
I pray your confusion will not be permanent.! |
Re: A Verbally Abusive Guy I Just Met by greggng: 12:46am On Oct 22, 2020 |
22 vs 33...you are the baby ...that's why he talks to u like a baby. For a guy to ask after your genotype ...I am sure he has marriage in mind ...pray over it 1 Like |
Re: A Verbally Abusive Guy I Just Met by Freddie007: 12:52am On Oct 22, 2020 |
ANOTHER DOMESTIC VIOLENT COOKING. ;DLET'S HEAR FROM THE GUY TOO ladywealth: |
Re: A Verbally Abusive Guy I Just Met by SavageResponse(m): 1:02am On Oct 22, 2020 |
Xoly: You're talking nonsense! Would you advise your daughter or sister to date someone like this who has a potential to be violent?! @Ladywealth, you deserve better. Don't settle for that asshole! |
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