Obierika:


@Angelacruz
What this guy is telling you is fiction and only happens in fairy tales...the real world is different especially here in Nigeria!

Mrscarter:


He has no morals no mind him.
Ppl like him can't know real love...it's his loss

Mrscarter:


It breaks trust wen Ur partner cheats. Especially after years together.
If I was you I'd think with your head not your heart if he tries come back.
Most cheats will do it again.
But everyone's different n ppl make mistakes n wen U love someone so long isn't easy....
I think maybe he cheated only cos he lusted for that girl but who's to say it won't happen next time hes attracted to someone else.
If I was you I'd move on n take it slow next time U meet someone else n get to know wat they're capable of.
If U do move on just keep busy to take Ur mind off of him n over time you'll feel better.
Other than that there's no cure for a broken heart.
i can't take a cheating partner back.Tanks sis

N no matter wat guys on here say it's Ur fault n crapp like that, nothing justifies cheating n no matter what U didn't force him to take his preek outta his pants so ignore em

Notatribalist:
You did the right thing dear..you sound like a good girl ,don't know why some guys don't value good girls,when I am here searching for girl for years..Move on

nwaezeemmanuel:
That is their reasoning

Liposure:
you couldn't stand him cause you found out. Do you know how many times he might have cheated on you without your knowledge. Yet you stood by him. People cheat until they are caught

iLegendd:

Sorry.

Bigdik70inch2:


Maybe..u were forming too good girl for him..

Every guy..need at least a touch of bad girl Oo..

I plan cheating on my gf soonest too sha..

She too dey prove good girl to me..

Mrscarter:


It breaks trust wen Ur partner cheats. Especially after years together.
If I was you I'd think with your head not your heart if he tries come back.
Most cheats will do it again.
But everyone's different n ppl make mistakes n wen U love someone so long isn't easy....
I think maybe he cheated only cos he lusted for that girl but who's to say it won't happen next time hes attracted to someone else.
If I was you I'd move on n take it slow next time U meet someone else n get to know wat they're capable of.
If U do move on just keep busy to take Ur mind off of him n over time you'll feel better.
Other than that there's no cure for a broken heart.

N no matter wat guys on here say it's Ur fault n crapp like that, nothing justifies cheating n no matter what U didn't force him to take his preek outta his pants so ignore em

Daguccizgreat:
I will tell you this, If You're convinced he loves you and he does not abuse physically then you have to forgive him and give him another chance. I know it's hurts but you have to do it since you love him. If you Keep quiting your relationships because your partner cheated, my dear na long journey you dey oo. A lot of we men find it hard to resist the urge of cheating even though they love their partners. This Life no just balance

Blessedboy23:

He is not the only guy in this world na
Go date other guys that are smart
Forget about him
That what you suppost to do joor

Jozzy4:


And who told you females don't have urge to cheat too ? Or are they not sexual beings ?

Just admit it's lack of self control and stop forming the lie of it's man's nature. Lack of self control simple

Mrscarter:


There's probably more cheats than there is faithful ppl but there are faithful ppl.
Ppl with good morals n loyalty.

Angelacruz:
tanks

Angelacruz:
I don't know

Mrscarter:


U talk bout women as if they're used furniture. Wats a guy who's slept with many women then? Do their dickks look used n less of value?

WrittyWritter:
Wat exactly do u want us to do..U already broke up with him..Abi na move on u wan hear..Abi want us to start insulting him or wat

nwaezeemmanuel:
Many men think this way on this platform.

It's almost obvious that most of them cheat on a daily basis and want to get away with it. They claim to be men because they give in to their urge whenever triggered and will never claim to be men for having self control.

Daguccizgreat:
I don't know how old you're but I have to tell you this. If she goes into marriage with that mentality to quit if her partner cheats then she should get ready to marry as many men in her life as possible. I condemn cheating but the truth is that if all the married women whom their husbands cheat quit their marriages then single mothers will litter every where all over the world. Even God forgives and gives a second chance

Mrscarter:


Haha exactly.
Having self control makes U more mature and more of a man.
Having none just makes U a weak man controlled by your desires

Bigdik70inch2:


Maybe..u were forming too good girl for him..

Every guy..need at least a touch of bad girl Oo..

I plan cheating on my gf soonest too sha..

She too dey prove good girl to me..

Bigdik70inch2:


Maybe..u were forming too good girl for him..

Every guy..need at least a touch of bad girl Oo..

I plan cheating on my gf soonest too sha..

She too dey prove good girl to me..

Angelacruz:
I don't know

Angelacruz:
I just broke up with my boyfriend of 2yrs.He cheated on me with another babe.It's hard to move on ,i wrote this with a bleeding heart.Why do some men like cheating? I was never a liability to him nor a bad girl.Y would he treat me like this?Am going insane.What should i do nairalanders?

Angelacruz:
I just broke up with my boyfriend of 2yrs.He cheated on me with another babe.It's hard to move on ,i wrote this with a bleeding heart.Why do some men like cheating? I was never a liability to him nor a bad girl.Y would he treat me like this?Am going insane.What should i do nairalanders?

Mrscarter:


It's not something U did. He's been with you two years n knows U well so he must have liked being with you. It took him this long to cheat that U know of.
Sounds to me it either happened in the moment sorta thing or he met someone else n lusted after her.
Either way dnt let ppl tell U it's Ur fault.

Owologbo:

Put yourself together and regain your sanity. no boyfriend/girlfriend of a thing is worth going insane for. He won't be cheating on you if he genuinely love you.

Mrscarter:


Second chance maybe but after that?

Heavensent01:



it does look less in value, men that see himself as Maradona have his balls drop but the dickk doesn't lose his value no matter how it banged, that's the advantage men have over ladies, this is why ladies should be sensible when going into a relationship


in a broken relationship, the disadvantages is 30% for men that have spend enough of resources and no disadvantage for men that the lady take care of his bills in the relationship, on ladies side is always 70% or 100%

Daguccizgreat:
She should give him be benefit of doubts. Don't forget people do change