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She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by HopeSpencer: 7:15pm On Oct 28, 2020
She made it clear that she is no longer interested in sex. And she's never ready for divorce.

What should I do?
Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by Aboks(m): 7:26pm On Oct 28, 2020
Marry second wife

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Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by HopeSpencer: 7:32pm On Oct 28, 2020
Aboks:
Marry second wife

We don't marry two wives, as Christians
Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by html14java(f): 7:33pm On Oct 28, 2020
HopeSpencer:


We don't marry two wives, as Christians
Deal with it then

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Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by Aboks(m): 7:35pm On Oct 28, 2020
HopeSpencer:


We don't marry two wives, as Christians

Divorce is the answer leave all those story she dey tell you

She is tired of the marriage period

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Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by Hathor5(f): 7:50pm On Oct 28, 2020
Fake story.

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Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by mariahAngel(f): 7:50pm On Oct 28, 2020
HopeSpencer:
She made it clear that she is no longer interested in sex. And she's never ready for divorce.

What should I do?

How come? Does she have any health issues?
Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by MightySparrow: 7:56pm On Oct 28, 2020
HopeSpencer:

We don't marry two wives, as Christians
Marry her afresh.

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Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by Munzy14(m): 8:00pm On Oct 28, 2020
mariahAngel:

How come? Does she have any health issues?
Wetin Amadioha never see for shrine...grin

Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by Ishilove: 8:01pm On Oct 28, 2020
HopeSpencer:
She made it clear that she is no longer interested in sex. And she's never ready for divorce.

What should I do?
What is her reason for the loss of interest?

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Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by HopeSpencer: 8:02pm On Oct 28, 2020
mariahAngel:


How come? Does she have any health issues?

No health issue except that she delivered through CS 10 months ago. She has been refusing sex since then. When I recently forced her, she covered her face. As if someone was raping her. I felt rejected and hate myself.
Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by mariahAngel(f): 8:02pm On Oct 28, 2020
Munzy14:

Wetin Amadioha never see for shrine...grin

What na?

Is it funny? cheesy
Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by thorpido(m): 8:02pm On Oct 28, 2020
She probably has a fear of pregnancy and the thought of having another CS has created a fear in her.
You're probably not doing it right too which makes her not yearn for it.

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Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by HopeSpencer: 8:03pm On Oct 28, 2020
Ishilove:

What is her reason for the loss of interest?

She gave no reason except that she delivered thru CS 10 months ago
Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by Munzy14(m): 8:03pm On Oct 28, 2020
HopeSpencer:

We don't marry two wives, as Christians
So what advice do you want?
Is it to patronise ashawo house, or buying more soap??
Go back to drawing board and work things out as Man, or keep cying.

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Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by Munzy14(m): 8:04pm On Oct 28, 2020
mariahAngel:

What na?
Is it funny? cheesy
Oso enye m aka....
Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by mariahAngel(f): 8:05pm On Oct 28, 2020
HopeSpencer:


No health issue except that she delivered through CS 10 months ago. She has been refusing sex since then. When I recently forced her, she covered her face. As if someone was raping her. I felt rejected and hate myself.

She must be going through postpartum depression.
You need to help her overcome the challenges she's going through.
Is it her first child?

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Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by HopeSpencer: 8:05pm On Oct 28, 2020
Ishilove:

What is her reason for the loss of interest?

What pained me the most is that she covered her face when she finally agreed recently.
Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by Ishilove: 8:05pm On Oct 28, 2020
HopeSpencer:


She gave no reason except that she delivered thru CS 10 months ago
10 months is a long time to avoid sex after CS. Have you asked her how she expects you to cope and what options are available?
Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by Ishilove: 8:06pm On Oct 28, 2020
HopeSpencer:


What pained me the most is that she covered her face when she finally agreed recently.
Oh this is bad. I think she is traumatised over something. It's a thing of the mind and she has switched off.

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Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by mariahAngel(f): 8:07pm On Oct 28, 2020
Munzy14:

So what advice do you want?

Is it to patronise ashawo house, or buying more soap??

Go back to drawing board and work things out as Man, or keep cying.

I di very harsh! cheesy

I ma ihe nwoke mmadu gabiga?
Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by HopeSpencer: 8:08pm On Oct 28, 2020
mariahAngel:


She must be going through postpartum depression.
You need to help her overcome the challenges she's going through.
Is it her first child?

Is her first
Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by mariahAngel(f): 8:08pm On Oct 28, 2020
Munzy14:

Oso enye m aka....

Onye? grin
Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by Munzy14(m): 8:11pm On Oct 28, 2020
mariahAngel:


I di very harsh! cheesy

I ma ihe nwoke mmadu gabiga?
Onwe kwara nu ihe ozo na abughi konji...cheesy


Ihe siri ike nowadays, nwaanyi nwere ike ori ju be afo, ma ya fodukwa ume eji buru weight oga....grin

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Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by mariahAngel(f): 8:11pm On Oct 28, 2020
HopeSpencer:


Is her first
No wonder.

The experience is all new for the both of you. So sorry but you need to be patient with her and help her pull through.

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Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by Munzy14(m): 8:12pm On Oct 28, 2020
mariahAngel:


Onye? grin
OP, choro agbatara ya oso na...cheesy


Imagine, the wife cover face last time, OP collected his ifeoma ya.

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Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by mariahAngel(f): 8:13pm On Oct 28, 2020
Munzy14:

Onwe kwara nu ihe ozo na abughi konji...cheesy


Ihe siri ike nowadays, nwaanyi nwere ike ori ju be afo, ma ya fodukwa ume eji buru weight oga....grin

Onye onu ojoo! grin

I think she's going through postpartum depression.
Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by mariahAngel(f): 8:14pm On Oct 28, 2020
Munzy14:

OP, choro agbatara ya oso na...cheesy

It's probably all new to him too.

It's good he brought it here so people with similar experience can help him.
Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by Munzy14(m): 8:16pm On Oct 28, 2020
mariahAngel:


Onye onu ojoo! grin

I think she's going through postpartum depression.
For 10months?

OP must be on SOS cry...Inukwa 10months nwoke mmadu eme tu be ihe onu.
Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by Munzy14(m): 8:18pm On Oct 28, 2020
mariahAngel:


It's probably all new to him too.

It's good he brought it here so people with similar experience can help him.
The duration is long.
Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by mariahAngel(f): 8:24pm On Oct 28, 2020
Munzy14:

For 10months?

OP must be on SOS cry...Inukwa 10months nwoke mmadu eme tu be ihe onu.

I think it is a very complicated and delicate issue.

It is up to him how soon she recovers. Her recovery depends on him.
You know what I think? Not all women fully recover from postpartum depression.

I was thinking about it one time that how come the behaviour of some women totally change after having a baby? Like, they become a different person from who they formerly were...

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Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by Munzy14(m): 8:36pm On Oct 28, 2020
mariahAngel:


I think it is a very complicated and delicate issue.

It is up to him how soon she recovers. Her recovery depends on him.
You know what I think? Not all women fully recover from postpartum depression.

I was thinking about it one time that how come the behaviour of some women totally change after having a baby? Like, they become a different person from who they formerly were...
Therapy should be handy...if not , OP ga luru nwaanyi ozo...

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