ReluctantAdult:

Look, you should really watch your words around me. Beware of getting me provoked beyond my limit. Be very wary.
A reminder that I have your IP address and location. Better retract into your shell.

pocohantas:
Is he rich?

Babe aswear, no be today you don dey kolo!

Fountainofyouth:


The threats again, you see a worthy match and yet result to threats, I want to see the worst you will do, pls.

ReluctantAdult:

Worthy match? You flatter yourself.

You won't be the first I've tracked down. The thing about all of you is, you make a lot of noise on the so-called 'faceless' forum but when I see you IRL you are all scrawny, timid souls curled up in a corner. Gets me to pity you and even help with some cash.

Klass99:


I just bust laugh , mad people on NL.

@ Fountainofyouth, listen to Lee Ann Wormack's legendary song ''I hope you dance''

Listen carefully to every lyric and you willl find the answer to most life's issues in there and the answer to your love saga in particular.

Let that song be on repeat, until the message sinks in.

Fountainofyouth:
[s][/s]


Stop making noise, do the needful.

Klass99:


Oh really, I thought this was a recent thread (by the way I enjoyed your love story, are you saying it's all over now?)

It doesn't matter if the thread was last year, just listen to the song it has a powerful message for living your best life.

Check it out and let me know what youu think.

ReluctantAdult:


You know, I just read your comment on a thread on front-page now about how you received threats from your obsessive, schizophrenic ex and I felt bad about triggering those feelings in you again, by threatening you.

Never knew you were psychologically abused and mentally scarred by a psychopath. Though I already knew something wasn't right about you and this proves my psychoanalysis of you was spot on.

It explains why you have a hard time relating with men and now going about insulting guys all over the forum especially those you sense are threatening you.

I'll advise that you go for a psych evaluation and talk to someone. I know a thing or two about psychiatry and I'm willing to help, so talk to me if you need help.

Fountainofyouth:



Hahahaha, you are a funny dude

Trying to use reverse psychology on me right? Nice try

Ok bye.

ReluctantAdult:

Get help sweetheart. I'll be nice to you henceforth

Fountainofyouth:



I'm perfectly fine, I don't need you to be nice to me, you're just trying to make me stop quoting you.

ReluctantAdult:

You see Hun, you can't even see it isn't okay quoting me. You have the same obsession problem. The psychopath passed it to you, sadly.
Now you're reflecting the behaviour you've been a victim of, on someone else and think it's totally okay. Classic obsessive compulsive disorder(OCD). The reason you need help ASAP.

Start by resisting the temptation to reply to this post.

Fountainofyouth:



You are good, really good, I see what you're doing, but it won't work dude, not with me, I will stop when I feel like, not cos say so.

ReluctantAdult:

I think I'm enabling you. I'll stop replying you henceforth. Cheers.

Fountainofyouth:



Am I suppose to say I will or I won't? This thread is last year, I have moved on long ago.

Fountainofyouth:
I decided to bring this to family section because I need matured advice.

In all my life I've only had three relationships because I always weigh the pros and cons before I commit to anything, my past relationships always start with sex, infact I'm always persuaded for a long time before I finally agree and there is never any attraction at first for me, but when sex sets in, the feelings grow and whatnot.

Then I met this wonderful man, we got talking and chating and both clicked at the same time, he is everything I ever wanted in every aspect you can think of but there is a problem, the sexual attraction and love between us is really strong and it's affecting my health, we are both working and we talk and chat for hours every night, we cant do without keeping in touch everyday (we don't stay in same state but we've seen several times) we've not had sex cos there comes a time in ones life that sex won't be a priority or a defining factor in a relationship but I'm always scared, when we fight it always seem as if we would never talk again, my heart beats fast when he misses my calls, I think of him every night before I sleep, a little thought of him makes me wet, when there is a misunderstanding I don't sleep at all, I've tried my best to shut my heart from my head but it's not working, sometimes I pray to God to take this strong feeling I have for him away cos it's just too much, I have never felt like this for anyone in my life before, this is someone that sex isnt involved at all so why this feeling, he says he feels that strong way too but I cant really describe his,

Last week Friday I had to check my BP and it was very high so I told myself this had to stop cos it's not normal, love shouldn't affect ones health this much, so I stopped talking to him, he called and asked what's wrong I said nothing that I just need a break but he wasn't happy with it, he asked and begged that I shouldn't leave him which I said I won't but I didn't tell him he is affecting my health. Since then we haven't talked to each other and it has not been easy for me especially this holiday, sometimes I lay on my bed and cry and groan cos I long to hear from him but I want him out of my head, I need my complete health restored.

Please is this the real deal? Is this love? How do I go about being in control of my emotions without affecting my health? Feel free to ask questions and I'll answer as discreetly as possible, thank you.

Bendusx:

Na wa o. Fornication is now seen as normal.

Fountainofyouth:



Thank you.