Chii59:
People don't break up nowadays, they ghost.
Especially guys, they just leave you there to date yourself.

Chii59:
People don't break up nowadays, they ghost.
Especially guys, they just leave you there to date yourself.

Maxxim:
I ghost them, quite simple
But I know say e go pain them, emi ika

LovesickG:

Thanks sis. We broke up two days ago since I couldn't fulfil his condition. I miss him sometimes cuz we've been together three years. But I'm not going back.

Denique:


Please, shift for me...

FlordFlorez:
Mine was twice with different ladies. Both threatened me with suicide! The last one was even practically displaying the suicidal, like she'd faints suddenly while we were having such discussion. Later on, I gotta know she's marine spirited. Fear grips me. I confronted her, she admitted and explained her mum told her when I enquired further that she is indeed. I had to start praying fervently for God to deliver me from her. How we separated was still mysterious to me till date. She just stop calling and seeing me. Since then, I knew God love me!

Psych412:
I don't sha.


I might not come back


I don't have any business with imsu again



I miss imsu life style sha

0KNM:
Lies flying everywhere

Ayanfe29:


I pray that you do not experience what a lot of us have gone through.

Mrscarter:


Na he threatened to hurt himself if I didn't want him

Bunsenbun:
there is a thin line between love and obsession.After I gave a paramour "72 missed calls",i had to sit down and think what was better,a broken heart or a broken life?.It took me a year to get her off my mind.It is "love in the dark".

JIMMY1393:


72 missed call? Lmao why? What did you do that she called that much?

davidhobo:


Me and my ex used to talk all the time. In a day, we could talk for 14hrs...she used to tell me everything- if she was cooking, going out, in an uber,(mostly video calls), if she was coming in, going to the market etc- without prompting. We enjoyed it and it was mutual.

There werr times, when we would talk from 10pm till 5am...nonstop. While i was away from her, abroad.

When its not mutual, it becomes obsession

Bunsenbun:
i was the one who made the calls.

JIMMY1393:

Oh lol I misread that...guess you really liked here huh...and guessl she wasnt reciprocating...there's a difference between you and those obsessed psychopaths .. difference is that you know when too much is too much and can walk away, where as those guys would start going to extra lengths like threatening, stalking and violence...hope you've found a better person...if not hope you do

Fountainofyouth:
He went to meet a friend of his that is my colleague, to give him a list of all the males I talk to at work, thinking I broke up with him cos of one of them,

He called me 70 times everyday, I didn't pick

He sent me 20 sms of disfiguring my face and body threats, 30 sms of death threats, 20 sms pleading for me to take him back,

He came knocking at my door, I didn't open, he shouted at me to the hearing of my neighbours that if I dont open the door, he'd burn the house with me inside, my neighbours flung him out of our compound,

How he eventually left me alone was when I got his elder brother's number, reported everything to him, the elder bro then told their mum, the mum called my ex to leave that state, and start coming to Lagos, this dude actually quit his job and left for Lagos the next day, weird but a relief,

The tory plenty but I'll stop here, this happened 4 yrs ago, I saw signs of obsession thinking it was 100% love and loyalty.

99thEnemy:

Kriss216 come and hear your boo

Bunsenbun:
years later after I had moved on.she told me she taught i was still a player.Funny Thing is, the incident made me understand how painful unrecquitted love can be

duduade:


Lie he never bought you credit on your phone or did sub for you

Just open your mouth to use the word disgust on a man created by God.

In that case you should know that somewhere somehow you are also disgusting to someone out there

Fountainofyouth:

PrinceMo:


It doesn't sound like love,yes i agree.

I am not in support of toxic relationships but trust me some people can do insane things over those they love even if it means causing harm to them when the thought of loosing them arises.

Physical harm or deaths threats should never be taken for granted, it happens.

duduade:


Lie he never bought you credit on your phone or did sub for you

Just open your mouth to use the word disgust on a man created by God.

In that case you should know that somewhere somehow you are also disgusting to someone out there

mrcrabs:
Sometimes when I hear stories of girls been heart broken or doing crazy things after break up I sometimes feel its because they are gaining something from the guy either money, good Bleep or good dick because girls have so many options so why will they wanna cry over a guy.

But then again I might be wrong, relationships sef na war

Peace

LovesickG:

Hmm. Well he was the one doing the begging. I literally begged mine over faults I didn't commit. He thinks I sleep with any guy I talk to, he checks my Facebook messages and questions me on every guy I've chatted with. I have never cheated nor thought of cheating on him.
He told me that he'll forgive my alleged cheating if I sleep with any guy while he watches via WhatsApp video call, and that's the only condition to continue our relationship. I seriously considered it but I just couldn't, the very thought makes me sick. I told him I couldn't and he broke up with me and blocked me on Whatsapp. He said I'll come begging and crying back to him and by then, he'll insist I sleep with two guys while he watches.

Sawzer:



Just have plenty female friends first to get comfortable with women for a long time.
Don't confess love to any of them, just catch cruise. Later when you're comfortable with your esteem, find another babe and move from them.



Wait, what do I know?
I've been single since time immemorial......but I don't care

Bunsenbun:
there is a thin line between love and obsession.After I gave a paramour "72 missed calls",i had to sit down and think what was better,a broken heart or a broken life?.It took me a year to get her off my mind.It is "love in the dark".

Favy1235:
If you meet guys that never takes NO for an answer you will understand.
Back then in school i dated one guy,when the love wasn't there any longer i plainly told him.
The next day i was still sleeping he came over and refused to agree to my 'NO'. stayed with till evening,same thing happened the next day.
I had to pack my bags and travel home that weekend because of ASUU strike.
Even uptil today he still reminds me i'm his gf.

zyzxx:
He is testing your faithfulness, just stand your ground of being faithful, he will come back begging you.

adanny01:


I know what you mean.

I have 3 children that I adore, there can't be regrets. Happiness or not, love or not, my marriage is for better and for worst.

Fearjah:


Please, Is early dating a guarantee that your sister won't turn out to be an evening newspaper? Will it make guys not to rate her as worldwideweb, atm and wide P? No offence .

LovesickG:

Hmm. Well he was the one doing the begging. I literally begged mine over faults I didn't commit. He thinks I sleep with any guy I talk to, he checks my Facebook messages and questions me on every guy I've chatted with. I have never cheated nor thought of cheating on him.
He told me that he'll forgive my alleged cheating if I sleep with any guy while he watches via WhatsApp video call, and that's the only condition to continue our relationship. I seriously considered it but I just couldn't, the very thought makes me sick. I told him I couldn't and he broke up with me and blocked me on Whatsapp. He said I'll come begging and crying back to him and by then, he'll insist I sleep with two guys while he watches.

Fearjah:


In your subconscious, you see single people as loners & depressed.
You see those dating as having the most memorable moment of there life.

There are various ways to attain happiness. Their are single people with quality friendships as their emotional support system.

Their are many married ones seeking the way out the relationship. Have you taking a moment to check the current rate of divorce? Please don't be too emotional, also work with logic.
Relationship/marriage never equals happiness.

If relationship/marriage is your way to happiness it is very good.
But if you have another way to happiness and peace of mind very good.

Stop promoting the idea that single people are depressed or slyly pressuring people into relationship/marriage especially when they are not ready.

Each one will carry his own Load.