Re: The Reality Of Ladies Raping Guys(My Experience) by Sawzer(m): 9:34am On Nov 01, 2020 |
Mrscarter:
Yeah same age or a little younger Dang! It's will be well 1 Like |
Re: The Reality Of Ladies Raping Guys(My Experience) by Sawzer(m): 9:34am On Nov 01, 2020 |
2 Likes |
Re: The Reality Of Ladies Raping Guys(My Experience) by Nobody: 9:35am On Nov 01, 2020 |
Mathscum:
I am a goat. People like me are the reason why boys don't report this wicked things done to them. I know, yes you are 2 Likes |
Re: The Reality Of Ladies Raping Guys(My Experience) by Sawzer(m): 9:54am On Nov 01, 2020 |
Mrscarter:
I am recently but am talking about before Permit me to be personal, did you marry your age mate or someone younger than you? |
Re: The Reality Of Ladies Raping Guys(My Experience) by tosyne2much(m): 10:03am On Nov 01, 2020 |
So there are some guys who actually want to be raped by a female? |
Re: The Reality Of Ladies Raping Guys(My Experience) by goldman777: 10:05am On Nov 01, 2020 |
MrFlavvor: I expected immature and senseless comments like yours I know your story is true based on experience and good to know you have the courage to say it to those who know or about to face or going through it.i salute your courage to say it on public forum like naira land hopefully some kids here will learn something 1 Like |
Re: The Reality Of Ladies Raping Guys(My Experience) by Mrscarter(f): 10:15am On Nov 01, 2020 |
Sawzer:
Permit me to be personal, did you marry your age mate or someone younger than you? Someone a cpl years younger |
Re: The Reality Of Ladies Raping Guys(My Experience) by nigeriansamurai(m): 10:20am On Nov 01, 2020 |
IntersexSherry: From what i experienced, guys are not used to sexual molestation and rape so when such things happen to them. Doesn't affect them that much as it does to women Thats not true men or boys may not cry but a psycophat, pervert, rapist, pedophile, future bad husband, a sexually frustrated person is created at the end of the day resulting in fustration check the rate of suicide men to women you will be amazed Screaming shouting crying tend to relax pain most male rape victims dont do any of these at the end it eats up the person 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Reality Of Ladies Raping Guys(My Experience) by Sawzer(m): 10:34am On Nov 01, 2020 |
Mrscarter:
Someone a cpl years younger Oh! It's great actually I wish you a more happy life ahead of you! 2 Likes |
Re: The Reality Of Ladies Raping Guys(My Experience) by Mrscarter(f): 10:39am On Nov 01, 2020 |
Sawzer:
Oh! It's great actually I wish you a more happy life ahead of you! Thanku. Wish U the best too yeah |
Re: The Reality Of Ladies Raping Guys(My Experience) by Canvass: 10:43am On Nov 01, 2020 |
MrFlavvor: So yesterday I saw a thread where the OP asked if guys actually get raped in Nigeria and I saw a lot of foolish and ignorant comments about guys wanting to be raped. It made me realize that few people actually take such matters seriouslly in our society today. So I decided to share my story of how in my early years I was victimized by two different ladies older than me at the time.
It started when I was six years old and my parents had just gotten a new house help who came from the city of Calabar. At first when it started it was just a little too much attention paid to my private areas when she was giving me baths. At that age I didn't know what she was doing was wrong but it gradually progressed to her getting naked with me when it was time to have my bath and getting into the tub with me. My parents were both active in the civil service then and were always off to work sometimes as early as six leaving my welfare to her to take care of. One day when my parents were out of town on business and it was just me,my little sister and her she called me into her room, undressed me and asked me to lie down on her bed. She then proceeded to violate me in the vilest of manners in a way that left me feeling dirty even though I couldn't understand why. She then threatened me not to tell my parents and said that this was going to be our new "play" from then on. It continued for a month or so until one day my mom was weaving my kid sisters hair in the dining room and I was playing on the floor. My mom then called her to run an errand for her. While my mom was talking to her, I slipped under her skirt and started fiddling with her privates as she had taught me to do during our "plays". The funny thing was she just stood still allowing me do so in the presence of my horrified mum who threw a comb at my head and proceeded to call for my father. I don't know how the situation was exactly handled but I know that the next day she left our house and I never saw her again.
Fast forward to 5years later. This newly-wed couple moves into our area. The day they moved in I assisted them in helping unload their belongings and ever since that day they became family friends. Now the husband worked on an oil rig in Delta state while we live in Bayelsa so he was only ever home for two weeks out of four in a month. He was a very friendly guy and a kid at heart who loved cartoons and always invited me over to watch a few. One particular month he left and his wife was over at our house and I told my parents I wanted to watch cartoons at their place which mom allowed. I was there till evening but when it was time to go home I started crying about how I didn't want to go home and Aunty said that since it was the holiday period I could sleep over at their place and she'd send me back home in the morning so my mom agreed. I had a field day watching cartoons uninterrupted and eating and by nine I went into her bed room to sleep. I was woken up in the middle of the night by the feeling of something on my body which I discovered to be her hands. She told me I should be quiet and everything was alright but I noticed that she was naked save for a white underwear. She then took my hands and placed them on her breasts and somewhere further south. She used me through the night until she was sated and cuddled me to sleep. The next day she sent me home to my parents who till this day are ignorant of the whole affair. It happened more often through the next year until they moved out of our area. Till this day she and her husband still visit us from time to time with the set of twins they recently had.
These two incidences have shaped my life in ways you can't even begin to think. I became more sexually active over the years as I grew up and I got to enjoy sex but till this day those experiences haunt me. I also found out as I grew up that I have this perverted lust for women at least twenty years older than me and it has led to dalliances with peoples wives and even some of my friends moms who came on to me. I have tried as much as I can to stop but it keeps getting worse. I'm about to attempt therapy for it to see if it helps.
My purpose of sharing this is to let people know that such things do happen and it is important to create awareness about it because it does irrepressible damage to the minds of young children. II don't know if maybe I had spoken up earlier my life would have been different and everytime I see that lady who repeatedly molested me I can't even be able to explain how I feel. My advice to parents out there is to be extremely vigilant over your kids male or female and don't just put trust in people you barely know. I will stop here but feel free to share your experiences below................ I feel like crying reading through this. Not for you but for myself. This kinda things ruined my life. For guys that didn't experience anything like this, they'll be longing for it and be feeling like you're exaggerating. This kinda thing turn pure minds into perverts and the most important thing is that mature women can smell your sexual disposition from miles. Interested one would always come for you, making it difficult to stop. 3 Likes |
Re: The Reality Of Ladies Raping Guys(My Experience) by Funkyswagzz(m): 10:49am On Nov 01, 2020 |
WoeBetide666:
It's more common than most people think. It's arguably an epidemic in Nigeria. House helps and older women taking advantage of small boys U are absolutely right.. it's only little girls that a taken seriously which is wrong. The trauma we go thru after this abuse is terrible. 5 Likes |
Re: The Reality Of Ladies Raping Guys(My Experience) by obinna58(m): 10:58am On Nov 01, 2020 |
MrFlavvor: So yesterday I saw a thread where the OP asked if guys actually get raped in Nigeria and I saw a lot of foolish and ignorant comments about guys wanting to be raped. It made me realize that few people actually take such matters seriouslly in our society today. So I decided to share my story of how in my early years I was victimized by two different ladies older than me at the time.
It started when I was six years old and my parents had just gotten a new house help who came from the city of Calabar. At first when it started it was just a little too much attention paid to my private areas when she was giving me baths. At that age I didn't know what she was doing was wrong but it gradually progressed to her getting naked with me when it was time to have my bath and getting into the tub with me. My parents were both active in the civil service then and were always off to work sometimes as early as six leaving my welfare to her to take care of. One day when my parents were out of town on business and it was just me,my little sister and her she called me into her room, undressed me and asked me to lie down on her bed. She then proceeded to violate me in the vilest of manners in a way that left me feeling dirty even though I couldn't understand why. She then threatened me not to tell my parents and said that this was going to be our new "play" from then on. It continued for a month or so until one day my mom was weaving my kid sisters hair in the dining room and I was playing on the floor. My mom then called her to run an errand for her. While my mom was talking to her, I slipped under her skirt and started fiddling with her privates as she had taught me to do during our "plays". The funny thing was she just stood still allowing me do so in the presence of my horrified mum who threw a comb at my head and proceeded to call for my father. I don't know how the situation was exactly handled but I know that the next day she left our house and I never saw her again.
Fast forward to 5years later. This newly-wed couple moves into our area. The day they moved in I assisted them in helping unload their belongings and ever since that day they became family friends. Now the husband worked on an oil rig in Delta state while we live in Bayelsa so he was only ever home for two weeks out of four in a month. He was a very friendly guy and a kid at heart who loved cartoons and always invited me over to watch a few. One particular month he left and his wife was over at our house and I told my parents I wanted to watch cartoons at their place which mom allowed. I was there till evening but when it was time to go home I started crying about how I didn't want to go home and Aunty said that since it was the holiday period I could sleep over at their place and she'd send me back home in the morning so my mom agreed. I had a field day watching cartoons uninterrupted and eating and by nine I went into her bed room to sleep. I was woken up in the middle of the night by the feeling of something on my body which I discovered to be her hands. She told me I should be quiet and everything was alright but I noticed that she was naked save for a white underwear. She then took my hands and placed them on her breasts and somewhere further south. She used me through the night until she was sated and cuddled me to sleep. The next day she sent me home to my parents who till this day are ignorant of the whole affair. It happened more often through the next year until they moved out of our area. Till this day she and her husband still visit us from time to time with the set of twins they recently had.
These two incidences have shaped my life in ways you can't even begin to think. I became more sexually active over the years as I grew up and I got to enjoy sex but till this day those experiences haunt me. I also found out as I grew up that I have this perverted lust for women at least twenty years older than me and it has led to dalliances with peoples wives and even some of my friends moms who came on to me. I have tried as much as I can to stop but it keeps getting worse. I'm about to attempt therapy for it to see if it helps.
My purpose of sharing this is to let people know that such things do happen and it is important to create awareness about it because it does irrepressible damage to the minds of young children. II don't know if maybe I had spoken up earlier my life would have been different and everytime I see that lady who repeatedly molested me I can't even be able to explain how I feel. My advice to parents out there is to be extremely vigilant over your kids male or female and don't just put trust in people you barely know. I will stop here but feel free to share your experiences below................ This is not any problem compared to problems people face in this country. If you have urged for opposite sex go for it irrespective of age, stop disturbing people, I have attraction for older I mean who doesn't. I'm sure you were enjoying it too. I can only be pained when a female is saying this. |
Re: The Reality Of Ladies Raping Guys(My Experience) by MrFlavvor(m): 11:02am On Nov 01, 2020 |
obinna58:
This is not any problem compared to problems people face in this country. If you have urged for opposite sex go for it irrespective of age, stop disturbing people, I have attraction for older I mean who doesn't. I'm sure you were enjoying it too. I can only be pained when a female is saying this.
another slum-thinker 6 Likes |
Re: The Reality Of Ladies Raping Guys(My Experience) by Sawzer(m): 11:04am On Nov 01, 2020 |
obinna58:
This is not any problem compared to problems people face in this country. If you have urged for opposite sex go for it irrespective of age, stop disturbing people, I have attraction for older I mean who doesn't. I'm sure you were enjoying it too. I can only be pained when a female is saying this.
Double standard 2 Likes |
Re: The Reality Of Ladies Raping Guys(My Experience) by obinna58(m): 11:13am On Nov 01, 2020 |
Sawzer:
Double standard
Women are weak in every aspect, they deserve the best treatment in this world. |
Re: The Reality Of Ladies Raping Guys(My Experience) by jimmychang: 11:21am On Nov 01, 2020 |
obinna58:
Women are weak in every aspect, they deserve the best treatment in this world. 6 Likes |
Re: The Reality Of Ladies Raping Guys(My Experience) by Sawzer(m): 11:28am On Nov 01, 2020 |
obinna58:
Women are weak in every aspect, they deserve the best treatment in this world. Yes but for you to say there is no problem for a guy to pass through all those trauma then you're wrong. Totally wrong I don't even know what to say Pray you or any of your male loved ones never experience it. Is it because guys go quiet about it? 5 Likes |
Re: The Reality Of Ladies Raping Guys(My Experience) by obinna58(m): 11:35am On Nov 01, 2020 |
Sawzer:
Yes but for you to say there is no problem for a guy to pass through all those trauma then you're wrong. Totally wrong I don't even know what to say Pray you or any of your male loved ones never experience it. Is it because guys go quiet about it?
I didn't say it's no problem, I'm only saying it's something you can deal with and be fine. Stop dwelling in the past that has not major effect on you. I was abused as well. Most people was. |
Re: The Reality Of Ladies Raping Guys(My Experience) by obinna58(m): 11:40am On Nov 01, 2020 |
jimmychang:
Your father is a bastard...your mother is a LovePeddler...and you are a wizard.....mumu he goat .... Exactly what you'll expect from people who keep crying over nothing. 3 Likes |
Re: The Reality Of Ladies Raping Guys(My Experience) by Sawzer(m): 11:44am On Nov 01, 2020 |
obinna58:
I didn't say it's no problem, I'm only saying it's something you can deal with and be fine. Stop dwelling in the past that has not major effect on you. I was abused as well. Most people was. So can you tell the females too to stop dwelling in the past and move on? This is just double standard and it's wrong 5 Likes |
Re: The Reality Of Ladies Raping Guys(My Experience) by obinna58(m): 11:51am On Nov 01, 2020 |
Sawzer:
So can you tell the females too to stop dwelling in the past and move on? This is just double standard and it's wrong Woman can't move on easily, men can. It's not something to keep crying about. When you have no much problems in life you go with the least. Obviously op was born in a silver spoon. |
Re: The Reality Of Ladies Raping Guys(My Experience) by Sawzer(m): 11:53am On Nov 01, 2020 |
obinna58:
Woman can't move on easily, men can. It's not something to keep crying about. When you have no much problems in life you go with the least. Obviously op was born in a silver spoon. I give up! 6 Likes |
Re: The Reality Of Ladies Raping Guys(My Experience) by simeoneh: 12:11pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
Ohh boy I had an experience too when I went for holiday at my uncle's house the house help there did stuff to me she was older that I was then. Am not going into details but we were laughing and running around while we were doing it but as soon as I reciprocated her actions she stopped. Little me took it as play play. |
Re: The Reality Of Ladies Raping Guys(My Experience) by angelfallz(m): 12:20pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
divinecode101: This guy dey tell stories, fake stories
Don't waste your talent, start writing blue film scripts Is it fact or fiction that men and boys do get raped? |
Re: The Reality Of Ladies Raping Guys(My Experience) by angelfallz(m): 12:21pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
obinna58:
Woman can't move on easily, men can. It's not something to keep crying about. When you have no much problems in life you go with the least. Obviously op was born in a silver spoon. the bolded, please who deceived you? |
Re: The Reality Of Ladies Raping Guys(My Experience) by angelfallz(m): 12:22pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
obinna58:
Woman can't move on easily, men can. It's not something to keep crying about. When you have no much problems in life you go with the least. Obviously op was born in a silver spoon. the lies men tell to help themselves ignore the fact that they were raped. SMH 6 Likes |
Re: The Reality Of Ladies Raping Guys(My Experience) by nigeriansamurai(m): 12:36pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
obinna58:
Women are weak in every aspect, they deserve the best treatment in this world. This is a woman posing as a man 2 Likes |
Re: The Reality Of Ladies Raping Guys(My Experience) by Bimpe29: 12:39pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
This is deep, instructive and educative. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Reality Of Ladies Raping Guys(My Experience) by Brezzido(m): 12:40pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
MrFlavvor: So yesterday I saw a thread where the OP asked if guys actually get raped in Nigeria and I saw a lot of foolish and ignorant comments about guys wanting to be raped. It made me realize that few people actually take such matters seriouslly in our society today. So I decided to share my story of how in my early years I was victimized by two different ladies older than me at the time.
It started when I was six years old and my parents had just gotten a new house help who came from the city of Calabar. At first when it started it was just a little too much attention paid to my private areas when she was giving me baths. At that age I didn't know what she was doing was wrong but it gradually progressed to her getting naked with me when it was time to have my bath and getting into the tub with me. My parents were both active in the civil service then and were always off to work sometimes as early as six leaving my welfare to her to take care of. One day when my parents were out of town on business and it was just me,my little sister and her she called me into her room, undressed me and asked me to lie down on her bed. She then proceeded to violate me in the vilest of manners in a way that left me feeling dirty even though I couldn't understand why. She then threatened me not to tell my parents and said that this was going to be our new "play" from then on. It continued for a month or so until one day my mom was weaving my kid sisters hair in the dining room and I was playing on the floor. My mom then called her to run an errand for her. While my mom was talking to her, I slipped under her skirt and started fiddling with her privates as she had taught me to do during our "plays". The funny thing was she just stood still allowing me do so in the presence of my horrified mum who threw a comb at my head and proceeded to call for my father. I don't know how the situation was exactly handled but I know that the next day she left our house and I never saw her again.
Fast forward to 5years later. This newly-wed couple moves into our area. The day they moved in I assisted them in helping unload their belongings and ever since that day they became family friends. Now the husband worked on an oil rig in Delta state while we live in Bayelsa so he was only ever home for two weeks out of four in a month. He was a very friendly guy and a kid at heart who loved cartoons and always invited me over to watch a few. One particular month he left and his wife was over at our house and I told my parents I wanted to watch cartoons at their place which mom allowed. I was there till evening but when it was time to go home I started crying about how I didn't want to go home and Aunty said that since it was the holiday period I could sleep over at their place and she'd send me back home in the morning so my mom agreed. I had a field day watching cartoons uninterrupted and eating and by nine I went into her bed room to sleep. I was woken up in the middle of the night by the feeling of something on my body which I discovered to be her hands. She told me I should be quiet and everything was alright but I noticed that she was naked save for a white underwear. She then took my hands and placed them on her breasts and somewhere further south. She used me through the night until she was sated and cuddled me to sleep. The next day she sent me home to my parents who till this day are ignorant of the whole affair. It happened more often through the next year until they moved out of our area. Till this day she and her husband still visit us from time to time with the set of twins they recently had.
These two incidences have shaped my life in ways you can't even begin to think. I became more sexually active over the years as I grew up and I got to enjoy sex but till this day those experiences haunt me. I also found out as I grew up that I have this perverted lust for women at least twenty years older than me and it has led to dalliances with peoples wives and even some of my friends moms who came on to me. I have tried as much as I can to stop but it keeps getting worse. I'm about to attempt therapy for it to see if it helps.
My purpose of sharing this is to let people know that such things do happen and it is important to create awareness about it because it does irrepressible damage to the minds of young children. II don't know if maybe I had spoken up earlier my life would have been different and everytime I see that lady who repeatedly molested me I can't even be able to explain how I feel. My advice to parents out there is to be extremely vigilant over your kids male or female and don't just put trust in people you barely know. I will stop here but feel free to share your experiences below................ I can't bring myself to share my story cos those I've told never believed 2 Likes |
Re: The Reality Of Ladies Raping Guys(My Experience) by Stephenmoka4(m): 12:40pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
okoroemeka: what's fake about the story or do you think such thing don't happen,the OP story is tame and domesticated compared to the hell I was with 3 of our maids while growing up,my older cousins and relatives also added to the misery,I started sucking mature pussy from primary 4, while I was growing up my sex life was a mess,at a time I had more than 10 girlfriends and the drama was unending, while I was growing up in the 80,s I saw women as perverted creatures because anytime I am alone with one she will always pounce on my dick,but I think such behavior will be far reduced now that any Hot woman has the internet to get an exotic man You mean they do all this before the 21st century, I am shocked and surprised o. Sucking, rubbing, touching etc I thought it is a new thing (like 2011+) in this part of the world. |
Re: The Reality Of Ladies Raping Guys(My Experience) by Brezzido(m): 12:44pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
triplex419: I think I can relate to his story ...I wasn't there so can't verify how true this story is ...but I guess more than 80% of male kids left in the custody of older women or aunt had been abused ..but they didn't say it CU's they were not hurt in the process or didn't know what it means ..I was once a victims from different aunts ...till today its a secret that remains between I and them Housemaids are the worse. Taking our innocence 1 Like 1 Share |