They wee not believe the traumatic experience until it happens to them.

See, just because it has never happened to you, you know believe it's some sort of enjoyment for the boy child.

The memory of how I was defiled as a child still lingers with me even tho I had already forgiven the lady.

It's a cold world out there, where people believe that a boy child has to man up and not be emotional. Nonsense

OPs parents were careless especially the mum. Allowing your son to pass the night in your neighbour's house when you are available is gross irresponsible

Mine was my cousin...and it affected me, i always think of sex sex sex..i dnt just knw what to do

nigeriansamurai:

Thats not true men or boys may not cry but a psycophat, pervert, rapist, pedophile, future bad husband, a sexually frustrated person is created at the end of the day resulting in fustration check the rate of suicide men to women you will be amazed

Screaming shouting crying tend to relax pain most male rape victims dont do any of these at the end it eats up the person

so sorry you guys also feel same way about rape. Rape is not good for anyone

Inodeyfearface9:
So you wan tell us say at 11 years old, you never get sense??

What’s your problem? What does sense have to do with getting raped?

femi4:
OPs parents were careless especially the mum. Allowing your son to pass the night in your neighbour's house when you are available is gross irresponsible

And who are you to judge? What if they trusted the woman and could not believe she could do something like that to him.

I really feel now isn’t the time to point fingers. The damage has been done

A vicious cycle wer the males molest female children. The female children in turn molest male children. I was a victim of childhood molestation. Pls parents be vigilant. Break this cycle in your home.

FuckHomophobes:
They wee not believe the traumatic experience until it happens to them.

See, just because it has never happened to you, you know believe it's some sort of enjoyment for the boy child.

The memory of how I was defiled as a child still lingers with me even tho I had already forgiven the lady.

It's a cold world out there, where people believe that a boy child has to man up and not be emotional. Nonsense

Hi are you queer?

I know it’s unrelated to the post but your moniker tho

Canvass:


I feel like crying reading through this. Not for you but for myself. This kinda things ruined my life. For guys that didn't experience anything like this, they'll be longing for it and be feeling like you're exaggerating. This kinda thing turn pure minds into perverts and the most important thing is that mature women can smell your sexual disposition from miles. Interested one would always come for you, making it difficult to stop.

Don’t worry, you’re going to get over it.
You’ll be fine.

So sad society has taught guys to be quiet in speaking up for things like this. They say it makes you a man not to cry, not to vent. Men hide lot of emotions and no body cares, why? Because they are men so everyone just thinks they are strong enough to handle the pain.

Mrscarter:



I was around nine wen my dad's friends son was around 16/17 used to do things to me n make me touch him n told me it was a game n I knew it was wrong but couldn't tell my dad cos he was a drunk n used to beat us kids n mum and I was terrified cos the boy told me dad would go mad at me n I knew he was right. It went on around a year n one day he tried actually penetrating me n I was fighting him off and my little brother saw n ran got dad and my dad drag me by my hair n beat me real bad n blamed me. The boy only had to go to church n talk to the pastor bout it n after a few months he was allowed to babysit me again n still touched me n tried making me touch him. Eventually we moved away.
Over the years in my childhood a few of my dad's friends have put their hand dwn my pants or stuck their tounge in my ear n things like that n I was to afraid to tell dad.
My mum's brother was a drunk n tried putting his thing in my mouth wen I was around six n I was sleeping n woke up n lucky my dad got up to go to the toilet n scared him n he sneaked out. I only told my mum about this around four years ago. I've never told anyone else ever. N now that I grew up I can't stand the thought of dating anyone older than me at all it'd make me feel dirty n I just couldn't even think of it.

Ppl don't realise how it can affect you.

Reading this made me puke in my mouth.

Sorry for what you abuse you suffered. Please seek therapy if it is possible. And if there is any agency that handles prosecution of child sexual abuse, report your case to them. I want to believe they can help to prosecute those bastards.

IntersexSherry:
From what i experienced, guys are not used to sexual molestation and rape so when such things happen to them. Doesn't affect them that much as it does to women

Grow some sense, will you?

Pancakeey:

What’s your problem? What does sense have to do with getting raped?
And who are you to judge? What if they trusted the woman and could not believe she could do something like that to him.

I really feel now isn’t the time to point fingers. The damage has been done

You are just irresponsible with your comment.

Your kids shouldn't be passing the night with someone that's not your relatives unless in emergency cases. Our generation keep raising irresponsible parents

This is traumatizing, op. I pray you find the healing you deserve.

MrFlavvor:
I expected immature and senseless comments like yours

this may be fake to you . To be sincere, I had such an similar experience when o was in KG...with my neighbour's sister who was in secondary sch I guess she was 10years older than me

Mrscarter:



I was around nine wen my dad's friends son was around 16/17 used to do things to me n make me touch him n told me it was a game n I knew it was wrong but couldn't tell my dad cos he was a drunk n used to beat us kids n mum and I was terrified cos the boy told me dad would go mad at me n I knew he was right. It went on around a year n one day he tried actually penetrating me n I was fighting him off and my little brother saw n ran got dad and my dad drag me by my hair n beat me real bad n blamed me. The boy only had to go to church n talk to the pastor bout it n after a few months he was allowed to babysit me again n still touched me n tried making me touch him. Eventually we moved away.
Over the years in my childhood a few of my dad's friends have put their hand dwn my pants or stuck their tounge in my ear n things like that n I was to afraid to tell dad.
My mum's brother was a drunk n tried putting his thing in my mouth wen I was around six n I was sleeping n woke up n lucky my dad got up to go to the toilet n scared him n he sneaked out. I only told my mum about this around four years ago. I've never told anyone else ever. N now that I grew up I can't stand the thought of dating anyone older than me at all it'd make me feel dirty n I just couldn't even think of it.

Ppl don't realise how it can affect you.

Omg! This is surreal... That was a whole lot you went through... I'm really sorry about what you went through...

Mathscum:

You are very correct. I am a living example it takes a great deal to control my perversion for me not to satisfy them illegally, and base on I am educated and know the legal implication if not I would have seen it as a normal and the circle continue

Protocols should be put in place to offer therapy sessions and other important counselling to victims so this evil cycle can be disrupted. But we live in an insane country so...

Check out this video on sexual assault and rape.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=402gLdWxq34

IntersexSherry:
so sorry you guys also feel same way about rape. Rape is not good for anyone

Real truth
Rapist should be given seriously punishment the ones i cant stand are pedophiles God i seriously wont mind becoming a serial killer that kills pedophiles

Peterjnr123:



This guy u just dey enjoy ooo....oh Lord visit me kwanu ��

a virgin sighted

okoroemeka:
what's fake about the story or do you think such thing don't happen,the OP story is tame and domesticated compared to the hell I was with 3 of our maids while growing up,my older cousins and relatives also added to the misery,I started sucking mature pussy from primary 4, while I was growing up my sex life was a mess,at a time I had more than 10 girlfriends and the drama was unending, while I was growing up in the 80,s I saw women as perverted creatures because anytime I am alone with one she will always pounce on my dick,but I think such behavior will be far reduced now that any Hot woman has the internet to get an exotic man

Reading things like this makes me fear for my kids. We should try and teach kids to open up to us as parents no matter what!

obinna58:

Women are weak in every aspect, they deserve the best treatment in this world.

While I agree with you, I also know men can be weak but don't show it cause society sees it as unmanly.

Tbh, in this forum whenever I see men comment that they started sexual exploration as early as 8 years old (eg primary four), I'd always wonder what exposed them to it. Generally human beings don't just get 'attached' to things they discovered out of curiosity except someone made it seem like a normal thing to them.

Doctorfitz:
This is heartbreaking..

It's true men get violated and I wonder why society doesn't pay attention...

They wouldn't want to be seen as "weak"
Most importantly, other men don't even help matters cause they'll invade the comments section with words like
1) I wish I was in your shoes
2) I want to be raped too
3) I'm available for rape and many other senseless comments.
That alone makes people take male rape cases lightly

Rgade:
Hmm,deep. I also have that strong fetish for much older women,but I just don't try to connect it to a similar experience I had while I was a toddler.
It only happened a few times, the memories of the stuff I was doing to her are all cloudy.
My older brother and I were both victims,he should remember it better but even he has never talked about it.
Men don't like to feel violated especially by a woman. The society has taught us that vulnerability isn't a good survival instinct.

My lust for older women started at the early beginning of my sex life in my late teens after encounters with more sexually experienced and older girls. I prefer women who are older but I try to limit it to not more than 7 years.

Pancakeey:

Hi are you queer?

I know it’s unrelated to the post but your moniker tho

Yea I am. Thank you.

ModestGal:
Hmmn, this is why I don't want a child
What's the essence of bringing children to this world to suffer? Look at the Op, the parents would have done him a favour by leaving him in Heaven, when they knew if they bring him to earth,they will leave him for abuse

Scrap

Warlord2014:

Scrap

It's like saying you won't eat because some people are wasting food. You'll die and food wastage will continue. Wahala

Omoolami100:


It's like saying you won't eat because some people are wasting food. You'll die and food wastage will continue.

Hahahahahah


The matter taya me.

That Shyte Gets Down Yo, For Real!
Nor Be Students Rape Aboki Shoe ShinerThat Year For Unimaid Female Hostel To death.

FuckHomophobes:


Yea I am. Thank you.

Lol no need to be defensive but okay

divinecode101:
This guy dey tell stories, fake stories

Don't waste your talent, start writing blue film scripts

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