See me thinking I don see wife material o...only for me to discover that she had a kid.

One will never suspect her cuz she has a very flat tummy, badass shape, educated (final year accounting & ICAN chartered), and has a pretty face to top it all.

Anyway...I can't marry her again cuz of the kid. Raising another man's child is not an option. Honestly, i am truely heartbroken.

Well, she is coming to my house next week and will stay until ASUU calls off. I will collect my share of puna and dump her sorry ass 2weeks after she resumes school. I know she is not on nairaland so she can't see this.

I am officially a fvckboy. I will drill all punas with reckless abandon from now hence forth. Being nice and considerate does not pay!!!

bro, take it easy. Life isn't all about women. since you can't marry her because she already has a child, why not let her go? there's no need to stress yourself all because of "puna". Life's too short to worry over nothing.

Eleribu OP plenty for this Nairaland!

Your last paragraph tells me you're still a child.

Use your head and help yourself. There is no pride in being a f**kboy, don't ruin your life.

Being nice and considerate pays, i am a witness to it. Don't let one experience with a woman change your life negatively biko

ElasticStone:
See me thinking I don see wife material o...only for me to discover that she had a kid.

One will never suspect her cuz she has a very flat tummy, badass shape, educated (final year accounting & ICAN chartered), and has a pretty face to top it all.

Anyway...I can't marry her again cuz of the kid. Raising another man's child is not an option. Honestly, i am truely heartbroken.

Well, she is coming to my house next week and will stay until ASUU calls off. I will collect my share of puna and dump her sorry ass 2weeks after she resumes school. I know she is not on nairaland so she can't see this.

I am officially a fvckboy. I will drill all punas with reckless abandon from now hence forth. Being nice and considerate does not pay!!!

Dking63:
bro, take it easy. Life isn't all about women. since you can't marry her because she already has a child, why not let her go? there's no need to stress yourself all because of "puna". Life's too short to worry over nothing.

Guy, read again na. I said I am letting her go...but I have to drill her small as recompense for the time and emotional resources wasted.

nwaezeemmanuel:
Your last paragraph tells me you're still a child.

Use your head and help yourself. There is no pride in being a f**kboy, don't ruin your life.

Being nice and considerate pays, i am a witness to it. Don't let one experience with a woman change your life negatively biko

My guy...if being a fvck boy equates to being a child, then I am about to become an embrayo

what will you benefit from her puna? from the look of things you don't even love her, her having a child is no reason to be heartbroken to the extent you are, have you try engaging her about the child? or you feel she's a LovePeddler because she allow you bed her, you are not even married to her sef, try and reason about your actions, since she started dating you, have she ever double dated you? isn't she giving you the type of care and attention you desire? ask yourself some questions and reason like a reasonable man.

Freestainworld:
what will you benefit from her puna? from the look of things you don't even love her, her having a child is no reason to be heartbroken to the extent you are, have you try engaging her about the child? or you feel she's a LovePeddler because she allow you bed her, you are not even married to her sef, try and reason about your actions, since she started dating you, have she ever double dated you? isn't she giving you the type of care and attention you desire? ask yourself some questions and reason like a reasonable man.

Why the fvck did she not tell me she had a kid first? If she could keep such secrets from me for months, heaven knows what other skeletons she might have in her cupboard. Honestly I am furious and this will reflect in the way I will drill the useful life out of her puna. I am sooo looking forward to next week rn.

I didn't plan to insult you. I have been in your spot before.

Thinking that being a Mr. Nice Guy sucks, but it doesn't and you don't have to channel it to a destructive habit.

ElasticStone:


My guy...if being a fvck boy equates to me being a child, then I am about to become an embrayo

nwaezeemmanuel:
I didn't plan to insult you. I have been in your spot before.

Thinking that being a Mr. Nice Guy sucks, but it doesn't and you don't have to channel it to a destructive habit.

I get you. Nevertheless, such betrayal of trust from her must be dealt with.

We both know this is not just about betraying trust.

All the same, i hope you don't have regrets later on.

ElasticStone:


I get you. Nevertheless, such betrayal of trust from her must be dealt with.

Cerebellum:
Eleribu OP plenty for this Nairaland!

I love dat words

Continue jare,,,,

Fvck many pussy as you want,,,,,

Pussy plenty for my hay,,fvck anything fvckable,,,,,,, when she arrive fvck the hell out of her pussy and dump her,,, that's how a real nigga do,,,,,,,,

Since that's what yaa brain can interpret,,,,,, issokay,,, that's nice

Sometimes giving advice is not necessary,,, but learning lesson and regret is the boss of advise,,,,,

ElasticStone:


Why the fvck did she not tell me she had a kid first? If she could keep such secrets from me for months, heaven knows what other skeletons she might have in her cupboard. Honestly I am furious and this will reflect in the way I will drill the useful life out of her puna. I am sooo looking forward to next week rn.

how long have you dated her? you can't expect someone to tell you some certain things at an earlier stage of a relationship, some things are meant to unfold gradually depending on the commitment from the parties who are dating, I sympathize with you, but you should handle it like a responsible man, no matter how hard you feel you can drill the hole, you won't take it out from her, she will still give it to another man in future.

:I get you. Nevertheless, such betrayal of trust from her must be dealt with.

Op, the lady in question is wrong..

Call her and tell her you are mad at her,cos she hid the truth from you.

Lastly take the Bleep boy nonsense from your mind

Most people get into a relationship just because they are now of age and do not have a reason to be in love or fall out of love. Being responsible in a relationship/marriage as a man or being the icing of the relationship on a steady is what a lady should be on the lookout for. You cannot just be all about sex and styles and how lasting you can be on bed or what you can receive on bed alone. There are values that makes the world a better place for both families and friends. Start by asking the right questions and you will do your self a gigantic favor in your relationship. Lets kick it off with these simple questions, shall we.....comment below if you have a question you think should be added and hit me up if you need anything at all, monetry wise or relationship wise


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=az1WNgEtC1o

Lol ... Na wa ooo ... this time around Na to just they catch cruise remain ..

ElasticStone:


Why the fvck did she not tell me she had a kid first? If she could keep such secrets from me for months, heaven knows what other skeletons she might have in her cupboard. Honestly I am furious and this will reflect in the way I will drill the useful life out of her puna. I am sooo looking forward to next week rn.

See this one. Dey there dey zuor yourself! Even if you end up hatching your plans, you think that will ruin her life? It will make you feel better but only temporarily. On the long run, you'll end up falling in the pit you're planning to dig for someone else.

The hatred and bitterness will only grow deep in you while she recovers and gets a better life. You can't blame her or anyone for who you eventually become, it's not them, it's your heart. You better don't do something you'll end up regretting, na that time e go clear for your eye. Me don talk my own finish.